stateofspace Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Is checking out girls really bad? ahahaha i see it now! but for real, just be friendly :)	/r/seduction	31/05/19 09:32 AM
5	Any other dude find tall girls mega hot? i don't plan on changing the way i dress or act, i'm quite feminine anyway but it's more of anybody else's problem than mine if i intimidate or emasculate them. there is literally nothing i can do about being tall, i don't do anything to make people feel this way, it's just an assumption based off how tall i am. girls wear heels to show off their legs as well as to make their outfits look more well put together and thought through! i can't do this as i would literally be 6'7+ which would make me…	/r/seduction	09/02/19 10:26 PM
5	Any other dude find tall girls mega hot? thanks! it just feels that way when literally every girl in my area is 5'7 max and I'm i'm like a whole 6 inches taller. plus all the guys just want short girls so it's difficult, but i don't plan on dating anyone from my city anyway :')	/r/seduction	09/02/19 10:19 PM
103	Any other dude find tall girls mega hot? didn't think people like this existed. i have ALWAYS hated my height (6'1) because i think it intimidates/emasculates men. like i genuinely feel like a freak so this was lovely to read :)	/r/seduction	09/02/19 06:43 PM
4	How important are physical looks in attraction? Hi 21F here. I'm gonna try and explain this the best I can (I'll give examples of my friends and I because its the only way I can explain it) but if you have any questions or are confused, please ask! Physical attraction IS an important factor when we're looking for a relationship/hook up or whatever. Plain and simple. In the same way that you more than likely would not want to pursue someone you aren't attracted to. That being said, attraction is an extremely personal thing that people experien…	/r/seduction	08/02/19 11:36 PM
5	Should you ghost a girl if she’s trying to friend zone you? If your sole purpose of messaging her and wanting to get to know her is so that you can date or have sex or whatever, then she's made it clear she is not interested in this. You both went to school together, chances are that she wanted to reconnect to see how you were getting on in life and to have a connection to people from school/a time she may have enjoyed. If you aren't interested in her friendship (there's nothing wrong with that!) I'd say it might be better to slowly fade out the messages…	/r/seduction	02/02/19 12:30 PM
1	I think I'm failing with women because I'm not aggressive enough? Hey, aggressive is the completely wrong word to use here. Your intentions are obviously harmless but confidence is what you're missing! :) There is a difference, confidence is what we're attracted to. Men knowing what we want and being sure of themselves. Aggressiveness is controlling and limiting and as you have said yourself, can give off strong weird/rapey vibes. Being sure of yourself and what you're doing and what you want to do with/to her. This doesn't necessarily mean sexually either (bu…	/r/seduction	02/02/19 12:18 AM
1	Holding a girl's attention? Tell her you're also headed that direction and can walk with her, if she declines (remember, you're a stranger) then don't take it to heart. You could always say 'obviously you're busy and in a rush now but if you're free some time next week I'd love to take you to dinner/coffee/a movie/insert any other generic first date here and get to know you.' Or you could always give her your number so that she has the option, should she want to, to call or message you. That way she doesn't leave thinking …	/r/seduction	02/02/19 12:09 AM
5	Is checking out girls really bad? There is literally nothing wrong with looking at people you're attracted to. At all. Like, ever. A little secret for you, we do it all the time to you too. I just think we're a lot more subtle about it. As long as you aren't invading her space, making her feel uncomfortable or going up to her when she's made it clear she doesn't want to speak, you can look. But don't get me wrong, I said look. Staring is creepy and not okay. You see a girl you like on the train? You can look at her, appreciate h…	/r/seduction	02/02/19 12:01 AM