statisticallyblessed Archive

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2	Anyone else’s father encouraged masculinity? TW Mine's not from my father, but my mother. I grew up as a very angry tomboy. Hated "impracticality" and "emotions" in favor of "logic." I think everyone in my past would be surprised I'm a housewife now and even more "feminine" than all the girls I knew back then. Also, I remember responding to another post you made here. I hope you're doing better in your college environment. I mentioned it in the other post, but I learned a lot about narcissistic abuse from Sam Vaknin and other materials online…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/11/24 09:00 AM
1	Should a second chance be given to men who “cancel” on first dates by not texting you the day of the date or canceling last minute? This happened to me once in my dating phase and I just pulled a "Hey, not sure if we're on for tonight but just wanted to let you know I'm feeling sick and can't make it." He diiid actually set a dinner date but he took a while to respond and I never got any specifics as to what TIME we were meeting and specific location; plans to meet near his workplace for dinner. Similar to your situation! He didn't try to confirm the day of either. Out of annoyance, I just cancelled it on my own lol. He ende…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/24 08:47 AM
5	Why am I constantly beefing/in conflict with men? The other comments given here might be helpful, but I just wouldn't be surprised at all if you're just in an environment where the dudes are really egotistically fragile or something. I remember back in my days as a student how different the gender dynamics and culture was from JUST one grade to the next. The grade above had a group of dudes that basically emotionally terrorized everyone. The grade below was super LGBT+ friendly and politically liberal. I've also moved about quite a lot growing …	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/24 08:09 AM
3	I’m considering leaving my fiance, I need to get this off my chest The only point I'll talk about is his...social skills. "People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." - Maya Angelou I'm concerned about whether he can hold a job with the sort of personality he has. Will the people at work he's scorned plot together to get him fired? Will he create a bad reputation for himself enough to fail finding another (decent) job? Will your future children mimic his behavior at the playground, sch…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/24 10:00 AM
3	How to meet men? Is online dating advised? Others have given good advice on the pros and cons of dating apps so I don't feel like adding more. BUT!! I wanna share that I got catfished like 5 times before I met my husband! I didn't have the guts to leave on the spot and was "too nice" and naive(dumb) to say anything about it (lol). Some of them were clever and wore "disguises" e.g. wore sunglasses, dressed young, or were too tall for me to get a good look at their faces until we sat down at a restaurant (was too confused and didn't dare l…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/10/24 07:30 AM
5	Wives, how do you respond when someone asks you about your career, finances, or other things that aren’t areas you manage in your household? My husband handles almost everything and I...well, handle myself, meals, cleaning, baby (he's very hands-on though). I have every intention to homeschool our baby, so I'm going to be pretty busy in the future. This is what I tell people when I get the sense they're trying to undermine my value and role as a housewife and SAHM. My husband also handled everything before we got married, and I was that very controversial "stay-at-home girlfriend." We're also a decade apart in age. Most of his friend…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/24 11:29 PM
2	Getting on the same page with my partner No problem<3 This lifestyle is weird to almost everyone around my husband and I, too. Do you think your man flip-flops around ideas often? Or doesn't know how to really "commit" to a plan or idea? I like to think that since he's self-employed, he should be okay at that. Hopefully he at least understands that asking you to help with life admin stuff means more work for you... I have a good feeling this might be some sort of communication issue, and it could be productive to bring up his "stubborn…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/24 10:56 PM
3	Followed RPW advice a lot, but no dating success :( 21F I know this post is a few days old, but I felt like chiming in. I'm 26 and married to a so-called "1%" man. I only started dating when I was 24, just shy of 25. You're very likely gorgeous, tall, intelligent on top of making a very high income. You probably look like a model. The men who want to take you seriously very likely just can't yet because you're too young for them. Even my husband, 10 years older than me, >6ft, VERY high net worth, had a minimum age requirement of 25 years. I was in a …	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/24 11:49 AM
6	Getting on the same page with my partner Like others have said, it reads like he's just not that into the whole housewife/SAHM thing. I think it makes complete sense why you're feeling uneasy about the relationship. I'd honestly just do the old thing and just have a heart-to-heart talk with him. I'd not only tell, but SHOW him how stressed you are. Paint him a picture of how you being stressed and overworked today will present in the future, e.g. you won't have time to prioritize him and the relationship as much, you'll need to make ti…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/24 09:55 AM
3	I think I (16F) might be a RP? I've dreamed and prayed to be a housewife/SAHM since I was a little girl. I too had an insufferable misandrist phase, but for me it stemmed from my mother (a single mom) who hated my biological father for not loving her back. She did everything to sabotage my chances at life and love in hopes that finally someone wouldn't "leave" her, like my father did. Today, I made an account on reddit just so I could grow more comfortable talking about my current life living my dream and I'm 26. I've only ev…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/10/24 09:56 AM