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I agree with everything with you said, but I would take him more seriously if all his friends/family did the same for their wives. All their wives expose themselves more than I do, and their husbands are either on his level or higher.. From the lenses of the modeling industry, I’m actually considered “modest”. I don’t accept any nude photo shoots or anything that would look vulgar. I also dress completely different in real life.. His narrative changes almost every other week. When I dress modest…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/23 11:16 PM
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He pushed me to do modeling when we first met, because I wasn’t a full blown model at the time. He only started to change the narrative when he suggested marriage. I’m willing to tone it down. But he has to be willing to decide what he wants, in order to make this work. When I go on breaks, which involve not taking any jobs and neglecting modeling, he says that I’m sleeping on my potential. I know what I want to do, but I’m not sure what he wants. Which reflects in him changing careers almost ev…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 08:41 PM
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He had the nerve to say that if he was his best self, he would’ve never spoken to me due to my photos - because we met on Instagram. He has a problem with the way I present myself but likes my personality. So yes I do feel a bit of jealousy that is masked through concern..
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 05:19 AM
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Thanks for sharing. I already deleted a lot of my Instagram photos that are deemed suggestive. That still doesn’t take away that his delivery doesn’t work for me.. I agree with what he said to an extent. Yes he wants me to change the entire direction. But changing the entire direction means tht I did all this for nothing.. I want to do something better, buts that’s related to modeling - or that I can obtain through modeling. I’ll take back what I told him earlier today. And let him know that his…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 10:31 PM
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It’s hard to not share work woes because he always asks what productive thing I did during the day. He compares me to others and say that I have too much competition. Says that I should pursue medicine or just settle for being a housewife that works solely for husband. I prefer not to talk about that, because I’m afraid that I might blow up on him. I asked him to stop with the advice and he said that he won’t give me any advice ever (sounded insolent). I know that relationships evoke disagreemen…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 09:33 PM
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This is the same man. Since we weren’t committed at the time, and he was contributing to my life, I labeled it sugar relationship. We are meant to get married now, but I’m having doubts. And yes I still model, he went through a career change. His rants center around self improvement, but he overly criticized me which makes me feel terrible. He tells me to quit everything I’ve built for years and pursue something stable like medicine. And he tells me that my Instagram is probably embarrassing to …
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 09:29 PM
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Thank you so much for replying. It’s definitely a balance.. because over-explaining the details can be TMI. And not saying anything at all can make you look suspicious. Surrogate parents are definitely a thing. I’ll look into including them into my life more.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 10:25 PM
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Thank you so much ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/22 12:11 AM
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I spent a day going through the sugar daddy sub and haven’t revisited it once I understood the concept. Sorry if I’ve offended you, I’ll copy and paste my paragraph because it gave me an insight lol
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 04:21 AM
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I just labeled it as sugaring because of the unsolicited gifts and he likes to cover everything when we do things together. After reading what sugar relationships are, we doesn’t fit that category. We aren’t in a relationship now but expressed that we’re getting to know each other romantically. We’re platonic most of the time and only got intimate couple times when we would meet (which was several times a month because we lived 10 minutes away from each other). I don’t even think I’ve slept with…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 01:39 AM
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Thank you for that (by the way why did you cross it out?) I view him as a friend but he expressed that he liked me in April. It was completely platonic before that, although he first approached me with the idea of taking me out on a date last year. I moved back to my home state in June because of summer. So no texting from neither of us during that time (he did but I didn’t see the message until I briefly returned to his city for a meeting). And for his career, he’s notorious for changing paths …
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 12:44 AM
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I thought this was an idiom I haven’t heard of. What do you mean? I get downvoted for asking a question? I’ll add opening up to strangers to my list of things to avoid to protect my mental health
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 03:33 PM
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That’s how I felt after doing that :(
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 03:33 PM
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My ex would let me use his drivers, paid for for my apartments and would get me necessities if I asked him for that (before pregnancy). That’s why I felt comfortable letting him borrow 5k. He then cheated on me, told the apartment people to kick us out (this was in a non western country so it can happen) and cussed me out when I told him that I didn’t impregnate myself. Until this day he doesn’t know that the baby doesn’t exist anymore because I blocked him
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 02:09 AM
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Why does this keep on happening to me? My last ex “borrowed” 5k from me, cussed me out and ghosted me too. I was 7 months pregnant at the time and had a miscarriage shortly after that. When I don’t do anything, I’m labeled as selfish. When I help out, I end up in situations like these.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 02:02 AM
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Really? I was thinking maybe he’s going through changes. I know I hibernate when I do that. Do you think I did anything wrong according to what I said, or is he just not into mw
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 01:49 AM
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No but I heard of that method before. What helped me was the main comment’s eating tips and weightlifting. I’ll add avoiding eating out to that because most places love to add excess sugar and salt to food
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/22 06:20 PM
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I had a still birth two years ago and didn’t start losing weight until I did weight lifting, like many articles suggested. Months of cardio did help a bit but I was still soft.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/22 04:04 PM
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If you know his favorite food/ingredient you can try to make that Easy dishes that I like to make are homemade spring rolls. There’s various ways you can make it. I made fish with mushrooms, spinach, and coconut milk last night and it took me 30 mins. Bulk cooking your accompanying foods like quinoa, rice, pasta, veggies etc helps a lot with saving time. Her channel in general is straight forward with recipes and the taste is nice https://youtu.be/sTFJJCX0RRY
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/22 03:53 PM
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Your initial comment didn’t answer my question at all. Which asked what would you do in this particular situation. Alas, you’re shying away from the point again.. thanks for repeating my post lol, I have to lay out the context for strangers to put themselves in my shoes! Hopefully you didn’t apply this same attitude to reading comprehension questions in literature because this would not do you any justice love.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/22 03:38 PM
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Lol it’s a whole process to go overseas! I’m foreign so put yourself in my shoes. If I didn’t have to do jumping jacks i would’ve went with no questions. He doesn’t even live there, he lives here. Why would I be questioning all this, if I didn’t like him I would’ve perceived his cancellation as GOOD RIDDANCE - why even bother posting online for advice? You took your time to respond to this because you’re bitter. I’m not bragging I’m just laying out the context. What do shoes have to do with any …
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/22 11:22 AM
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I still don’t view it as a sugar relationship. More like casual dating/fwb. Him being that generous and us not being fully committed reminded me of the nature of sugar daddy relationships. I’ll make sure to highlight that need of mine tomorrow, thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/22 01:24 AM
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They didn’t accept our relationship in the dedicated sub. Marriage is the ultimate goal according to our last heart to heart, but not right now. He’s the one who insists with the gifts and the trips because he said he feels bad for wanting to spend a lot of time. I don’t know where he gets that guilt from, but I told him that I genuinely enjoy his company. He’s the only guy I get intimate with. He’s young, attractive, and actually fun to be around so I genuinely enjoy him, he insists with the gi…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 11:07 PM
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How am I stringing him along when he cancelled.. I hope he doesn’t feel that way
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 11:02 PM
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Im willing to do it for him because I care. But I’m scared to be used. I’ll try my best to make him a priority
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 10:04 PM
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It is sad. Kuddos to you and your husband, that is dedication. I did feel suffocated in spring because he wanted to spend time multiple times a week. We’re both busier, but all the attention is on one another when we do hang out. I asked family about this situation. Most say that he’s testing my lotalty since I turned down the London trip and a dinner that was meant to happen before the failed exhibition date (Didn’t want to do dinner right after not talking for a month). I’m just sad because I …
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 09:54 PM
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That’s my fear. I don’t want to be used. The first event was free and he was in same location. I’m just so annoyed because I was cleaning the house to receive him lol
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 09:06 PM
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