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1	I hooked up with a woman that started my ex red pill journey. (Long Read) Sounds like the ex portrayed a perfect example of toxic masculinity. I also hear you learned a great lesson about what women really want, and how people's views of masculinity and femininity vary. I have never met a straight woman who isn't head over heals for men being comfortable with their own mix of feminine and masculine, considering we all have both, and rejecting one or the other is rejection our authentic self. (Tbh the only men I see gay women jokingly thirst over, are usually the ones …	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/25 04:03 PM
4	How much does status and experience matter? Sounds like insecurity, my friend. And hey - you wouldn't wanna date someone put off by your wallet (lets not forget life is not fair and not everybody comes from a well-off background, or are even motivated by money). People seek diversity, it makes life fun. Feeling threatened by others merits or experiences robs you of curiosity and inspiration. It takes time, and I relate, but we all believe you'll work past this. Also side note: we all have insecurities, even the most successful-looking peo…	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/25 03:54 PM
7	To ex red pill who still doubt relationships or motives of women Agree with all the other commenters, and would like to add: it's simple math - most of us can't room what many men wish they had 🤷‍♀️ The result of a huge dong is less enjoyment and frequency cause it literally hurts us	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/25 03:49 PM
8	My experience being red pilled as a woman Trust your gut. Truly. Your body has much more information to go from now. Also would like to add the avoidant behaviours reminds me a lot of OCD (not to be mistaken- we are also talking about common effects of PTSD, I just find it interesting to add some techniques from OCD therapy): You can be fooled again (not will, but can). You can never be completely sure, you don't have control over how others behave. But you DO have control over listening to your body's signals, and forgiving yourself if…	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/25 03:46 PM

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