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Rural parts of the United States. Texas and much of the south. You have to stay out of the cities to find them, though.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 02:42 PM
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Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalize.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 06:29 PM
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I always understood it this way: that hypergamy means the person looks to marry up, so they get a beta bucks and enjoy the higher social position, money, etc. But women aren't attracted to beta traits, so to satisfy their sexual impulses, they cheat with Chad (alpha fucks). So hypergamy creates the situation where BB/AF is played out.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:35 PM
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My teenage son did it drinking a gallon of raw milk every day, eating lots of eggs, and the 5x5 stronglists program.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:23 PM
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Good advice in this thread. Would also add a suggestion that in an upcoming session with her, try going for a quickie without telling her. Give her one orgasm if you wish, then just go at it and cum as early as you wish. Her reaction to that will be quite informative for you. (Prediction: she'll be happy.) Read Sex God Method if you haven't yet.
/r/askMRP18/06/17 09:51 PM
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Spotify is really limited in which podcasts they allow and that means they have a very limited selection. Try out the stitcher app, which is open and allows any podcast to be added (which means that pretty much all podcasts are available).
/r/askTRP18/06/17 02:05 PM
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Why does the podcast have to be on spotify for you to listen to it?
/r/askTRP18/06/17 01:56 PM
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I can visualize this happening, especially for the first time. Things will get better as you are more relaxed. I think I saw someone recommend the Sex God Method book to you; definitely read that. You'll learn so much that will help you!
/r/askTRP14/06/17 01:32 AM
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Apparently I came, but I didn't feel it I don't even know how that is possible. Did you not feel the pulse of the ejaculation? If you're a heavy user of porn, you would really benefit from backing off that. Now that you're sexually active, you can do completely without porn.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 08:36 PM
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The book "No More Mister Nice Guy" will be a huge help to you. You'll recognize your situation as you read the book, and he will give you exercises to help you recover. It's an easy read. Get it today. My situation with my mother - very similar to yours. My solution was to ghost her. Haven't spoken to her in over 10 years and no plans to ever communicate with her again. Not the way I wanted it, but boundaries had to be set and she couldn't respect them, so she made the decision for me.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:52 PM
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Same. I was browsing the front page not logged in and noticed a thread in XX complaining about the red pill misogynists. Reading their complaints about these guys made me realize the people they were taking about is group who sees things the same way I do. It was a real eye opener and I'm grateful to that thread for making me aware of this community.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 09:46 PM
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Really I would never tolerate this from a GF. This would be a hard next for me. Also, you need to develop a frame and guard it with your life. It sounds like you have no frame and you are currently all inside hers. Build a frame and start over with a new girl.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 02:27 PM
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Bad example on the baggy pants but you got my point. Definitely watch out for the correction scenario. Their shields are up and they won't want to consider your words. Do it when everything is "cool" and you're just chatting. Asking questions that cause the child to think. When they come to the correct conclusion (that you led them to) on their own, then they will fold that into their frame without you forcing anything. It's a strong way to transfer your morals to them!
/r/RedPillParenting09/06/17 06:31 PM
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Great observation. It is certainly a condition of every child to consider themselves as the only sentient being in the world. Maturity and education brings an understanding that others are sentient also and have their own perspectives of the world, separate from their own. It is cured by broadening their mind with questions that help them come to this realization. "Hey Johnny, look at that guy over there. Do you think he's aware of how bad he looks with those saggy pants?" General ethical questi…
/r/RedPillParenting09/06/17 03:40 PM
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Hmm, I wasn't trying to be funny. What's your problem, anyway?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 03:35 PM
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Didn't want him to wonder why I was ghosting him.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 03:07 PM
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Completely ignoring my questions. I'm wondering why you're actually posting. I'm not going to continue to waste my time on this conversation.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 02:32 PM
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I don't think you can directly fix disrespect. That is a symptom of a larger problem that needs to be addressed in a more long-term strategy. Every time she penetrates your frame, she loses more respect for you. You end up in a vicious cycle that will get worse all the time. You've heard that respect is earned, and that is true. Disrespect is also earned. You're getting what you have inadvertently asked for. You can fix this. When she goes to penetrate your frame but is unsuccessful, well then r…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 01:43 PM
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There are a number of better ways to respond to this. What would you do if your 5 year old daughter did this? You would condescendingly laugh at her, pat her on the head, tell her to go off and play with some toys. You could have done this exact thing to your wife. How about look over at her and roll your eyes and keep going? She penetrated your frame and you showed reaction by acting upset and lashing out. If your frame was solid then her BS would bounce off your walls. Make some cards that say…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 01:36 PM
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You can punish bad behavior without resorting to acting like a 5 year old throwing a temper tantrum. Who is the man here? I ask because it doesn't sound like you are. That's why I pointed you to the sidebar. There is help for you that you could use.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 01:20 PM
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Butthurt reaction. You need to loosen up and get a sense of humor. You feel disrespected by your wife and are reacting to her negatively. Sidebar ------>
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 01:00 PM
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This troll post should be deleted.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 04:14 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5a9521/defend_explain_excuse_rationalize_weak_tools_for/
/r/askTRP06/06/17 03:54 PM
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It should be in the sidebar acronyms. Defend Explain Excuse Rationalize. Don't do those things.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 02:15 PM
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Definitely agree and add your own positive comment (his eyes are beautifully lovely, I can see why you think he's cute.) There is nothing at all wrong with noticing other attractive people and pointing it out. If I'm out with the wife and see a really good looking girl, I say so. "Hey wife, check out that beautiful chick over there." and she'll look and agree with me. She also points out the good looking guys or girls she sees. It's cool, natural, and no big deal. A few years ago we were watchin…
/r/askTRP02/06/17 08:57 PM
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I feel happier than I have been for 10 years Just a little off-topic warning here that I find that when I'm feeling this way, it is usually right before a major shitstorm that I didn't see coming. Never allow yourself to get complacent in comfort and happiness. When things are at their best is usually right before a test of biblical proportions. If you're ready for it, you sail right through unscathed. Being caught off guard is the worst.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 03:12 PM
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stuck my dunkin in her donut hole, but I CHOSE not to. Please don't write like this.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 04:14 PM
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Ok that pulls it up. Thanks for your help!
/r/askMRP30/05/17 03:36 PM
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It's called "Get the Clue"? Could you link to it on play store? I'm looking and feeling very blind here.
/r/askMRP30/05/17 03:33 PM
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iOs only, I presume? I can't find it on Google Play.
/r/askMRP30/05/17 02:55 PM
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The only way to win this game is not to play. I would consider a preemptive strategy of talking to HR about her overtures. Then go out and find plates that you don't work with.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 07:19 PM
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Middle age is more a state of mind and health than hard numbers. Having said that, most people consider middle age to begin at 35 and ends near 60.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 05:19 PM
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A lot of relationships in business take time to form. People like to be introduced, size each other up, form a bit of a rapport, and then let things simmer. Over time, successful people build up a network of people they know that they can tap into when the time is right. You are at level 0 of this game. You're being brought into their network and your task right now is to let them know who you are, and to develop the rapport. So be friendly, answer their questions, ask a very few of your own, an…
/r/askTRP26/05/17 07:38 PM
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Not one mention in this thread of adoption. If she is absolutely adamant against an abortion, you can steer her toward giving the baby up to a family that wants him or her.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 04:03 PM
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This is so depressing to read.
/r/askMRP26/05/17 01:59 AM
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Rejecting an initiation from the wife is serious business and to avoid undesirable consequences, needs to be done strategically. My rule of thumb is that if I say no, I better be ready to deliver no later than the following day. I have communicated this self-imposed rule to my wife and consequently any "no" from me is not seen as a rejection of her, and she knows that it's merely been postponed for a maximum of 1 day. Note that this is my rule, not hers.
/r/askMRP24/05/17 04:08 PM
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Porn can really mess with your sex drive in a majorly detrimental way. Consider this as a potential negatively contributing factor in how you're feeling.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 03:39 PM
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When's the last time you jerked off to porn?
/r/askTRP22/05/17 02:23 PM
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Update: Had a lengthy conversation with the wife about this. Told her that I want her as my wife and not my business partner. She was crying tears of happiness and telling me that she'd love to focus on "just" being my wife. Feels like we're on the right path here.
/r/askMRP19/05/17 09:19 PM
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Off topic but legit question here: is anal really all that great? In 20 years of marriage I've never desired it. We do anal play with fingers and stuff but I've never had a desire to penetrate her anus with my penis. My reading shows that it has risks of damage, and that it doesn't really feel great. But the fact that everyone keeps bringing it up as a standard goalpost in sexual conquest makes me wonder.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 06:30 PM
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Become a domestic bitch and let the wife provide for the household. What could go wrong?
/r/askMRP19/05/17 03:10 PM
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Yeah, of course.
/r/askMRP18/05/17 10:59 PM
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Good advice there. I fired her about 15 years ago and that lasted for several years until I brought her back in. Really enjoyed having my wife during that time and things went really well, actually. The business grew prosperously during that time that I managed it alone. But she was hurt by it and still remembers it today. I think she both hates being a part of the business but hates more the idea of not being a part of it. Our situation is complicated in that we work out of our house. So, it's …
/r/askMRP18/05/17 10:44 PM
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Good question! Obviously, as the man of the house, yes, I can do what I want and she will accept it. Our relationship is just that way. She trusts me and fully submits herself to my ultimate authority in all matters. Nevertheless, I take her feelings into account and I know that removing her from her position would be a huge blow to her self esteem. She gets a huge sense of self-validation by her contributions to the business. I know I'd be happier running this by myself but at what cost?
/r/askMRP18/05/17 10:31 PM
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You've got some good answers already but I will add here that you may have some introversion issues. In my own experience as an introvert, I find that if my batteries are sufficiently charged I can be "socially on" for quite some length of time. But it eventually slows down and finally crashes, and I need serious time to recharge. If that's your case, then it may be as simple of a matter of finding out what's your best way to recharge. That's different for everyone, I think.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 09:01 PM
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As a rule, at least once every other day (I'm not 16 yo either).
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 01:46 AM
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Dominance takes many forms. Spanking, punishment, hair pulling, and choking are all things that I very rarely do with my wife but can be great tools in bed. Dominance at its core really means being in charge of what happens. I put her in the position where I want her, I tell her what I want her to do, I'm bold with things. I'll tell her to put her hand on her clit and rub it until I tell her to stop. Stuff like that. It's mild, but it's also dominating and makes her very excited.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 12:53 PM
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Why is a stranger trying to light your already lit cigar?
/r/askTRP08/05/17 07:33 PM
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Not responding is the best and clearest response you can give.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 05:16 PM
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What other people do is not your responsibility. If it worries you that much, you might want to consider moving to a different region so that you're not witnessing their failures in real time every day. If your family is as shitty as you say, you would do well to cut ties with them and start over. Have those kids and grandkids and start a new dynasty in a new land. The world is your oyster bro and it's yours to take.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 04:36 PM
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You say you want kids long term. She seems to hit your right buttons (cooking, cleaning, traditional, family setup). You didn't mention how the sex is, but assuming the sex is great and you have the power to keep it that way after the vows are said, it sounds like she could make a fine unicorn for you.
/r/askMRP08/05/17 02:08 PM
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At the very most, I would advise you to simply warn her that in the future you will try risky behavior that you haven't done with her before. Then remind her daily that unusual and exciting things are coming in the future. If she presses for details, just grin, squeeze her butt, and deflect by saying something like "I know you want to know!" Take your time and go slow with introducing new ideas and success will breed more success. And above all, don't be specific about the activities you plan to…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/17 01:34 AM
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The fear of how she will react is what stops most guys from serving their women this way. Unwilling to risk upsetting their unicorn's apple cart, they shyly poke their wife in the gentle fashion they have been told is right. The only solution is to throw caution to the wind and try something risky. A little success will confirm her desire and you can escalate over the ensuing days, weeks and months. Before long, she will be directly asking you for more. Don't be stupid beforehand by asking her a…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 04:10 PM
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Read TWOTSM and Sex God Method, then apply the teachings to how you have sex with your LTR. It sounds like you're just getting bored, and these two books should give you plenty to keep you activated again (with your one LTR) for a long time.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/17 11:52 PM
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With you laying on your back and she is riding your cock, spread your legs a bit and allow her to place her well lubricated middle finger right up inside you. If she knows what she is doing (and it sounds like she does) she will blow your mind. This can be done during fellatio but in my experience it is much, MUCH better during PIV sex. Your ejaculation will feel like it's coming from a completely different place, and will be much more powerful. If you think that's homo, then you must say the sa…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 06:43 PM
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Virgins can be taught, and can easily become excellent in bed without sleeping around beforehand.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:37 PM
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Awesome post. Don't know why you deleted your name from the post but I appreciate your thoughtful and helpful reply. Completely agree with what you said. (And no, there's no oppression going on around here. Just regular life and happy family home.)
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:38 PM
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You're right about the importance of the right foundation being laid from childhood, but you're wrong that there's nothing that can be done once they mature to adults. A properly raised girl is going to look at mom and dad for guidance even beyond the age of 18. Just because they become adults doesn't mean they are beyond the desire for leadership, and it doesn't mean that you can wash your hands of them and let them sink or swim on their own. (This assumes they want your leadership and involvem…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:25 AM
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This might be the best advice in this thread. I've seriously considered the benefits of her finding a guy who doesn't really know what's doing, and then take him under my wing and teach him the ways of the red pill. It's probably the most likely scenario. There's still the question of where to find a suitable guy without running off to college or hitting the bars. She's not on social media and doesn't run around town with her friends.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:04 AM
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We're homeschooling, her circle of friends is comprised of like-minded libertarian girls with parents like us, reinforcing our position in her mind. She's choosy about her friends and doesn't hang out with "society". Biggest influencer in her life is her mom who's 100% behind me. She's committed to chastity before marriage.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 09:15 PM
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