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Go after girls younger than 26?
/r/askTRP07/06/21 06:38 PM
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We live in a blue pill world where everyone HAS to think the same way: boys and girls are exactly the same, women are oppressed in all ways across life and men have it better, yada yada yada. If you go to a random group of people you can expect these thoughts. And when you express yours you will be labeled a misogynist/incel/far-right lunatic, it's just the way things are. Focus on yourself and do you, you cannot help those who do not want to be helped. The ONLY WAY you can ever help out a dude …
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:33 PM
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I was worried that the guy was dating terminal patients
/r/askTRP29/05/21 04:31 PM
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Lots of great advice here, not just for OP but for everyone. I hope you read it and take it to heart OP, good luck and keep on keeping on
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:59 PM
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It doesn't improve your mood. It just brings it back to the regular mood non users have. You basically use it to feel normal since you've forgotten what it feels like no not know the effects of it. Same as porn. I am sure you know the answer to your question, you're just trying to find at least one voice who will tell you to keep at it and that its not thaaat bad. But ponder this for a moment. Imagine a great man, someone who you would give so much to be one day. Can you imagine him spending his…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:47 PM
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So it's not so much the height as it is the initially perceived level of dominance. Thank you
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:17 PM
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Good post, I am too early into my red pill journey that I cannot answer your question but I can say that all of the things you said ring true from the texts and from observation
/r/askTRP31/08/20 10:51 PM
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You can't, he won't believe you, the most likely thing that will happen is he will resent YOU. Just be there for him when it falls apart
/r/askTRP01/08/20 07:31 AM
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u/TRPCops obvious troll Edit: his usename: u/FreePackage
/r/askTRP26/07/20 07:09 AM
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You need to fuck other girls exs. After you have a few dudes in your rotation he wont cross your mind
/r/askTRP26/07/20 06:57 AM
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Listen to this guy op. Women can sense the dick with their women senses. It is all that matters. If you dont have a big dick and only then do you get shit tested
/r/askTRP11/07/20 02:20 PM
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Pressure flip: “wow, i didnt think you would be the type of girl to judge based on appearance”. Ofc smile and pass it as a joke, dont be autistic about it
/r/askTRP08/07/20 10:49 PM
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Does someone have a link to it, sounds like a complete shitshow
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 05:55 AM
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Uncle Vasiliy always with the best response
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:14 AM
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It means that she opened the pandora box and now you will start ‘meeting up casually with your girl friends’. She won’t want that and will probably tone it down
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:25 AM
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You may not have the chin (youre not alone) but you certainly can get the abs
/r/askTRP10/06/20 08:00 PM
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I love this explanation. Really put it together nicely, well done
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 03:20 PM
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I’ve been involved in the nofap community since november of last year because of that no nut november meme or however it goes. It started as a joke but when I actually started noticing the urges i freaked out! Wtf! Why can’t i control myself!? It freaks you out man. I’ve never done drugs, never smoked, which are supposed to be the big bad addictive stuff right..? I only jerked off 3 times a day which was normal right...? My friend group even jokes about jerking it non stop and other meme shit an…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 02:26 PM
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The “L” word?
/r/askTRP08/06/20 08:39 AM
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That seems really petty and childish... kinda what women do... OP should just block and never look back. Out of sight out of mind
/r/askTRP03/06/20 06:41 AM
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Its just man speak. Even if youre not doing it for the sole purpose of getting laid, getting laid more often will be the result of hard work at the gym whether you want it or not. Besides, can you find a reason not to work out? There are none whatsoever
/r/askTRP03/06/20 06:39 AM
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Lets see, 2 choices there. Keep going and become strong, fuck bitches after some time OR give up like a bitch while the 20 year olds keep pumping iron and fuck your bitches
/r/askTRP03/06/20 05:07 AM
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Be sure to read ‘No more Mr Nice guy’ if you haven’t
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:48 AM
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Pornstars always have giant dicks, its part of the industry, some actors even get implants n shit
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:35 PM
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5.3 is literally the avg... The girls who say they can't feel it have probably seen more dicks than a pipe water and the guys who say its on the small size... how should they know, how many erect dicks have they seen?...
/r/askTRP30/05/20 01:50 PM
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The fact that all of the things that were bothering me (overweight, bad performance in school, no muscles, no discipline, bad at talking to girls) were my fault and my alone. But in that realization you also come to see that it is all within YOUR grasp to change. So I’m doing it all.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 03:54 PM
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Dont you think you’re overreacting a bit? I wager most people would instinctively ask ‘where is that?’ upon hearing the name of a location. Not because they’re lazy but because its just a reflex. And also isn’t a plate just supposed to be a woman that you fuck no feelings or strings attached? Who cares if she’s lazy to google a location.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:39 AM
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She likes it, thats why she does it but girls always need an excuse as to not appear as sluts. This is all in the sidebar
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:02 PM
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When she gets asked about fucking you she can just go "Oh we got drunk and one thing lead to another..." Its an excuse she can tell
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:59 PM
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Yeah im sorry bro. Your ‘whats his mistake’ caught me off guard since i thought you didnt know much about trp. Now i see youre a moral let everyone go their own way kinda guy. Thats fine. Its just sad to see people walking down a path which will most likely end in disaster. But at the end of the day we can only ever directly influence our own actions
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:25 PM
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depends what im talking about What does that even mean? What are you trying to say? What part of my text is inaccurate? What morals am I preaching? We are taking about ‘the mistake’ that he is making. You’re saying hes totally ok, im saying with everything that is known about first love/early 20s marriages hes about 99.99999% sure to get divorced. What are you saying
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:03 PM
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Im guessing his friend isnt trp since he decided to propose so he most likely doesnt have the knowledge and most definitely doesnt have the experience to handle his girl (theyre both early 20s) Unless somehow hes secretly trp and his girlfriend is a unicorn (they do exist.. right?...) it probably wont end well
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:57 PM
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Im not, you just said something retarded. Theyre in their early 20s, the chance of it not being a giant shit show is so low its laughable. Its his first love. Its literally a trainwreck ongoing, and it shows that you have not read the sidebar. You can choose to not tel him anything but if you read the sidebar you would know that there is EVEYTHING wrong about this
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:55 PM
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Whats his mistake? -still in uni -first girl he ever had (oneitis) Are you mentally retarded by any chance and if not have you read the sidebar? Honest question
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:40 PM
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Men rationalize. Give more power to pussy = more pussy. Women hate it and give them less
/r/askTRP20/03/20 12:55 PM
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People may mock this since its anime but youre right. He really embodies the idgaf attitude
/r/askTRP20/03/20 12:54 PM
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Applying RP -> Being confident and succesful, being confident and successful -> attracts girls Women should be a biproduct of your trials, tribulations and ultimate success
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:03 PM
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Mostly books. Id recommend starting with the rational male. Its basically an introduction, though everyones recommendations will be different. Just start somewhere, if you want to better your life you need to read up in order to actually know and apply shit in the real world. Cheers
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:52 PM
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U right chief, gonna go with that next time
/r/askTRP11/03/20 06:38 AM
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I was quite young when this happened, I believe around 17. To a 17 year old it was just cool and 'awesome DUDE', dumbass me was just super sad that I didn't have a go pro camera. If I were to have the same experience now when I believe I am more composed and aware I think it would have a more profound impact, as is its just a cool story about this time my life went into slow motion
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:57 PM
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Same thing during skying, but this was almost 5 years ago. I was going down one of my favorite tracks, practicing carving. There were a lot of clouds so you couldnt see shadows on the ground formed by tiny snow piles. I went over such a pile right as i was coming to the corner and instead of turning i just flew past it. My skies being in the air could make ground contact to steer, i ended up going into deep snow and both of my skies detached at the same time catapulting me forward in a front fli…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:49 PM
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Thanks, I'm trying to internalize everything I've read. As for the guys you mentioned, I read their posts and they all come off as caring too much. Not not giving a fuck, the opposite of what the red pill prescribes. Severe scarcity mentality which I'm trying to cure myself of.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:38 PM
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No, you can not target wait loss, it is a myth. The only way is to diet, you dont even need to work out but its a plus.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:17 AM
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Ban this dude lmao
/r/askTRP07/03/20 09:37 PM
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Ive already done it. Almost 3 weeks clean
/r/askTRP06/03/20 08:51 AM
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Yeah i agree. Though staying over would not be possible rn since im still with my parents but i should get my own place in 3 months or so. Im hoping i could turn her into a regular plate since for her Im a guy from another city she could see weekly so it would not interfere with any of her plans and we would just be meeting up to fuck which would be just fine
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:40 AM
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Im glad to have heatd your story. At the end of the day its all about being aware and we were in our little disneyworld fantasy. Now we see how the world truly is and it really is more simple and terrible at the same time. Just tonight my buddy was telling me how hes meeting up with this chick from another city midway so they can fuck. Thing is she has a boyfriend. Already told my friend how hes the sweetest guy ever, how he cooks for her, always picks her up and calls her every time he goes to …
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:30 PM
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You'd be right about the scarcity mindset. I've never really tried to get together with girls (im 22) up until I've discovered RP and realized how retarded my mindset of 'oh well, just take it slow, the one will come someday' was. Id stopped watching watching porn and with it I've been feeling more alive if that makes sense and much more aware of myself as with the people around me. It also got me paying more attention to girls. This is going to be autistic but this is genuinely the first girl I…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:31 PM
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More dark red than anything
/r/askTRP29/02/20 07:07 AM
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Why spend so much time (weeks) only to potentially get pussy from a mentally damaged girl. Go do other shit/find other girls
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:08 AM
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Yeah, I feel ya. Cheers
/r/askTRP23/02/20 07:37 AM
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Hell, dm me too
/r/askTRP23/02/20 07:27 AM
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By next step I assume you mean that she wants to upgrade their relation ship to something more than sex?
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:33 PM
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