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I think you misunderstood my post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 03:53 AM
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And women who have never been here, apparently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 02:34 AM
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But he did SLIGHTLY MORE than NOTHING so why can't women be grateful smh, you harpies with standards will never be happy /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 09:19 PM
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I saw this and thought this post was trolling in every way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 12:05 PM
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That's...extreme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 11:09 PM
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I'm glad that this is the general sentiment of most of the comments. If she's that upset that the waiter is less knowledgeable about wine than she is, she can show some grace and ask for the sommelier instead of mowing down the guy for trying to build a rapport
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 09:11 PM
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Pretty much whatever would naturally come up on a date, although I did try to keep it to half an hour or less. If the conversation is flowing past that point, I would say something like, "I would love to hear more, we should go out sometime." And that should be his cue to figure out a date. If he didn't, then I knew he wasn't interested enough (or was waiting for me to tell him what to do, which I won't do). I think for me there was a little awkwardness of being on the phone for like an hour and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 01:22 PM
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I always had a call with them prior to the first date. The refusal to talk on the phone was a red flag, and if I didn't enjoy the conversation, I didn't want to waste my time. When I first started dating I didn't do this because I wanted the experience but now I'm too busy to date someone I'm not excited about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 12:20 PM
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I've also had men stalk comments in other, irrelevant subreddits to try to get my attention after saying something relatively tame. A lot of men really can't stand the thought of FDS and having to put effort into a relationship, or having to treat women as human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 05:05 PM
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Basking in the afterglow that I didn't sideline my career for a man and am now reaping the benefits on the daily
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 01:44 PM
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I think I would leave if they asked me to name three personality traits. What is this, a job interview?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 01:45 PM
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Disgusting. Tell the relevant parties that this guy wanted to use a bad situation to prey on you, because that's what it was. What a fucking creep. Don't let anybody make excuses for this whacko
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 12:54 AM
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They're happy to put us on parade one day to show how "caring" and "equal" they are, then deny our pay raises to be equivalent to our male peers with less experience and tell us that our boss staring at our chests isn't sexual harassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 02:31 PM
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There are classes that I took for my engineering degree that I still don't fully understand because the professor would actively fuck with me. He would ask questions to the class, call on me, and then tell me my answers were wrong, only for me to find out later they were correct. The guy was gaslighting me for a class that I was paying about $4,000 to take because I had the audacity to be (the only) woman in his class. Call these fuckers out. You're paying good money to be there, you deserve to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 02:29 PM
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"I'll miss the idea of him" is so important to understand. We don't miss the scrote, just what we thought he could have been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 01:46 PM
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🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 11:34 PM
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He stated that his dad disapproves of 50/50 lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:49 AM
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This is succinct and accurate, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 02:15 AM
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Agree with forgiveness being bullshit. Same with "being the bigger person" because it conveys the message that you somehow find strength in letting others get away with the shitty ways they treat you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:21 PM
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Yeah, they're hot when they want sex or attention and cold when they're chasing other women. When she drops him for his bad behavior, he comes crawling back to any other woman who will help mend his broken ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:19 PM
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Yeah this right here. Sounds like a midlife crisis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 08:53 PM
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Lol I want to throw something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 03:14 PM
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Why can't you just be a good little victim and either shut up or uNdErStAnD hIs nEeDs (/s) Fuck those guys. They're mad that they can't reign over FDS to further silence or dismiss women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 06:58 PM
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I mean look at what they do to the other female subs. You can have a woman sharing her experience at the gynecologist or frustrations about her period and you'll inevitably have men chime in with "As a man, I..." It's ridiculous and infuriating. I don't feel the need to talk to men about their prostate or penis issues, why the hell to they feel like they can chime into conversations to which they add nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:25 PM
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I think about this sometimes and laugh. It's not like men themselves won't benefit from any of the basic things we want from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 05:41 PM
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I really loved the post from a while ago where the bill comes and the woman asks them, "Do you need help with that?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 01:10 PM
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No no no, you have it all wrong. Hinge is designed to be deleted [out of frustration]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:25 AM
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And if you call me out on it, how dare you put your bad experiences from other men on me, that's so unhealthy and maybe I wanted to date you but now I won't 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:31 PM
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This is one reason I love FDS. I've always found bad sarcasm distasteful. Sarcasm is funny if it isn't being used as a mask to put other people down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 09:06 PM
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Please be makeup please be makeup Like I wouldn't want this to be faked to encourage this kink but it's just so heartbreaking, that was my first thought 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:53 AM
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But muh pp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:38 AM
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More than once has someone gone through my post history and tried to bitch about FDS. I love it every time, they're aware and their tears are delicious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:35 AM
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So admittedly I haven't watched it (I don't really watch TV) but I noticed an advertisement for a show called "The Sex Live of College Girls." I want to give it the benefit of the doubt and maybe it's actually about a bunch of college-aged women focusing on their careers and, you know, education, but the Wiki article gives this summary: "The series follows the lives of four 18-year-old freshmen roommates at Essex College in Vermont, covering their sexually active lifestyle as they deal with diff…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:32 PM
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Haha I'm stealing this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:27 AM
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Yes, thank you. I'm kind of appalled at this thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 02:45 AM
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I used to feel the same way. I'm really appalled at how so many women seem to be jumping to shitting on other women for "pickme" behavior. Yeah, it's bad behavior that we need to understand and work through, but for me it definitely came from a defensive place. I was sheltered as a young adult and had a lot of men try to take advantage of me and it gave me this attitude of never feeling quite safe on dates and not wanting to owe them anything. It had nothing to do with wanting them to like me, I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 02:41 AM
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I agree with the other comments, that being said, if a guy is deadset against having children, then it's an absolute no-brainer for him to get one and I wish society would encourage it more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 01:25 AM
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I chortled at that comment. "You don't degrade yourself like my other friends do. They don't have morals, boundaries, or expectations and that makes them fun to me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:14 PM
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Maybe you should innocently ask the other woman about how she coped with it and how she still thinks her husband is a good one. Since it's no big deal and all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 11:59 PM
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I think FDS philosophy will become the norm for most women and consequently more men will abandon pickup artistry and other bad behavior and act more in line with FDS standards. But for now, we're early. And it's hard to be on the forefront of change, because the earlier you are, the more people will try to invalidate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:47 PM
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Commenting so I can laugh about it later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:20 AM
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"Guys, marriage is hard!" -Woman who chose to attach an anchor to her ankle while trying to climb a steep hill made of bullshit I feel for her, it sounds like they were friends for a long time and he definitely maintains a certain level of fame and success. I guess some lessons are learned the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 09:24 PM
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But Amanda got picked!!! OP should be happy for her! (/s)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:36 PM
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Thank you!!! That annoyed me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:24 PM
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I love this! Hell yeah I would wife me up in a second
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:29 PM
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Thank you!!! This is perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:46 PM
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Thanks for adding the comment about meditating to sever your bond. I just had a similar situation that I'm still coping with and will look into doing this. Hang in there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:16 PM
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NO. I didn't realize this until just now. Holy shit a lightbulb just went off in my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:57 PM
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I needed to hear this except about work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:59 AM
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iT's jUsT a jOkE /s 🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:04 AM
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Why did you do this to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:33 PM
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This is perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:27 AM
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I couldn't get past the first minute and a half, this is such bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:09 PM
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I mostly agree for the reasons you mentioned. I first found life coaching through a friend who was doing it on the side to try to escape the rat race. She linked me to a (free) extensive podcast series from a life coach school and it changed my life. As she pursued her certification, she asked if I would volunteer for a free coaching session under supervision and it was surprisingly good. I kind of see them in the same light as high school guidance counselors - some are great at what they do and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:48 AM
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Omg it's Zankou
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:26 AM
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I'm surprised by how many hate messages I get. I mean, when I found TRP type subs, I was never tempted to message them to tell them how disgusting they were for referring to women as "plates" and "holes." I just resigned myself to the fact that there would always be men who thought like this and I would do my best to avoid them. The worst part is that these trolls could probably get to the point where they're what FDS considered HVM if they work on themselves and their attitudes. Even if they do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:01 AM
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Wow this made me want to break something That's fucking awful and I'm officially convinced there are no real women there, just a bunch of men pretending to be women. I hope your friend either changed or you dumped them because you deserve better and I wish I could give you a big hug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:57 PM
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I got banned from another sub (the one that describes women but apparently is not FOR women, but about them...?) and am kind of glad I did because every single thread contained scrotes chiming in with their own gross opinions. It was so infuriating and definitely felt defeating to read. FDS saves my sanity on a regular basis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:58 PM
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I feel bad for laughing at the plot twist of the coworker with the teal pen. I hope that was the end of it though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:26 PM
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It's such a breath of fresh air. This has been pointed out before, but some of the most popular frmale-orientred subreddits are moderated by men. I've seen threads in these subreddits where a woman shares her experience and then a bunch of men chime in (badly) with their own experience like it's somehow equal or as if he's relating to the OP, often being condescending or missing the point or clearly fishing for attention and praise. Or men post to "play devil's advocate" 🤡🙄 It's absolutely gross…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:00 AM
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What's wrong her? Doesn't she know she should be flattered that so many men went to such lengths to get her attention? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:02 PM
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An absolute icon, denigrated and reduced to being "locked up with her cats" by the media after being extensively harassed and threatened. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:18 PM
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Gross. Another reason to keep your standards high and vet character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:28 PM
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I just came back from a conference where I met with a bunch of middle aged men that are on my team but scattered across the country, so I hardly see them. I'm the only woman, so they don't really stop the guy talk but occasionally try to include me. Well, they were bitching about their wives and after that, one of them yelled, "Hey stealthreplife, how's dating in [big city where I live]??" I'm like dude you just spent fifteen minutes bashing your wife, why would I be eager to get with someone wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:19 PM
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Preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:41 PM
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If I learned that I started dating a man on the day he broke up with a long term girlfriend (AFTER SHE PROPOSED) I don't know that I would feel comfortable dating him. It says a lot about him as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:44 PM
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"can't I just use women until I'm better?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:15 PM
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Oh shit. I just had a guy tell me, "I have a kink (???) about knowing my partners past" and while I knew it was weird and a red flag (and blocked him), I couldn't put my finger on why. This makes perfect sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:27 PM
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This is valuable insight! And makes sense given the context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:54 PM
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Or simply doesn't want a woman with a personality. He wants a warm fleshlight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:51 PM
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My favorite part about the same guy that I mentioned above is his Instagram, where he had a few posts about looking for a high value woman. It seemed a little cheesy but I thought it was interesting that he used that phrase since I don't really see it anywhere else other than FDS. Can you imagine being a man, looking for your "queen," and literally asking her to put all the effort into your first date while you don't lift a finger? I would have had to drive 30 minutes each way for cheap liquor a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:54 AM
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"Must love sarcasm" = "I'm an insufferable ass with no sense of humor but will gaslight you into thinking the problem is you when you point out my shitty behavior" "Looking for the Pam to my Jim" = "My personality is based on whatever is cool, hope you can keep up with how I change myself to fit in"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:08 AM
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“I guess you aren’t who I thought you were.” Is this out of a redpill guide or something? Because I recently met a guy who wanted to take me to a shitty dive bar across the street from his house as a first date and when I declined, he said that exact phrase. I know men will say it to make women feel like they can't have standards but I'm curious if there's more to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:01 AM
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This is a good point. I feel like they deliberately pick someone unattainable to them to push this narrative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:48 AM
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My time to shine. I tried a service that rhymes with Hawkify, it was worthless. They will lie to you to hook you in, tell you whatever you want to hear for you to put your credit card down. Then they'll either tell you that you can only pick three traits for them to guarantee (like if religion, political affiliation, and height are all important to you, they'll give you that but can't promise anything else). They threatened to take my money and discontinue the service since I insisted they had t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:18 AM
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I always mock it by saying, "Designed to be deleted (out of frustration)"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:19 PM
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I had to search for the story behind the meme and just can't believe how absurd the whole thing is. Very true with men too tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:21 PM
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I rarely cry. This made my cry for about an hour. I wish I could do something for this woman, anything. My heart seriously aches for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:42 PM
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I totally understand :( I'm so sorry you went through that. It's absolutely infuriating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:01 PM
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Oh wow I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:08 PM
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Haha oddly he didn't seem too insecure about it, which from this thread seems to be the norm? He was amazingly sharp. Just sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:04 PM
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Statistically it's more likely that there are just lots of shitty men with small penises, but we can pretend that we did so we can laugh together lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:56 PM
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Hah yeah any man that "needs it" isn't the one for me. I also don't like men fully shaved so I think it's fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:54 PM
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Haha. We were friends first. My first boyfriend was in the hospital after a suicide attempt and he swooped in as a "friend" (🙄) to keep me company since I was destroyed. Some time passed and we started to be a couple. I was so numb from the whole thing that I liked the support and attention he was giving me, but in reality he just knew I was incredibly vulnerable and used it as an opportunity to abuse and manipulate me. Young me was super naive and sweet and trusting and didn't see it. His ex st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:53 PM
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Long story but honestly the personality was worse than the micropenis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:30 PM
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This literally makes me want to cry for this woman. I can't imagine something so fucking awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:24 PM
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"seeing how seriously the police treated his allegation (which I'm glad they did and am totally supportive of)" I think you're giving the police too much credit or downplaying your own concerns in an effort to be fair, which is something women seem to do because they're so used to being accomodating to everyone else, but you're the one who called them and their priority should have first been on you. That's not at all acceptable. Your safety was being threatened and they prioritized his feelings…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:23 PM
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Hm. My ex with a micropenis did have a higher voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:18 PM
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Please be fake please be fake please be fake Please be a sick horror story writing exercise Please please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:16 PM
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I stopped fully shaving and waxing years ago. I do trim and shave the sides but it's never completely gone, just tastefully groomed. Because I'm an adult woman and not a prepubescent girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:37 PM
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I'll never forget something my therapist friend said - It's easier to try to bring others down than build yourself up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:36 PM
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Lmao I can't. I have so many questions. The entire time, was he like wondering, "Hey babe, when are we getting married?" And he just assumed she would figure everything out and he didn't have to lift a finger? Where is this trainwreck of a post? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:38 PM
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I know this gets repeated a lot but I think what it comes down to is wanting someone that has their shit together on a basic level. I consider myself way too old to be messing around with men who can't pay their bills or otherwise function like a grown man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:41 PM
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"My roommate was dating a bum from Tinder. He got her pregnant the first week they were dating" is my new favorite two sentence horror story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:04 PM
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Holy shit I feel like I could have written this. At this point, I'm really only looking to date HVM who can bring me new experiences within my direct realm of possibility, and someone to join me in some (not all) of my own hobbies and passions. This means the pool is incredibly small, but I'm mostly enjoying continuing to develop and explore myself anyways so it makes no difference whether I meet someone or not. Oh and sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:16 AM
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I'm tickled that there's just a panel of dudes discussing this and the two guys are nodding along intently. The guy in the middle seems sensible, I hope more dudes listen to him than they do to fucking Joe Rogan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:19 AM
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If I give a guy my number and he turns out to be a clown, I add the clown emoji to his name in the event he ever texts me again (some blocks expire) and I don't have to try to remember who he is or what he did, I just have to put faith in my past self and accept that I should block him again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:22 PM
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I was dating a guy that asked me for something really fucking sexually weird right off the bat and he is eternally known to my friend group as "weird sex guy" so yes, make this a thing OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:02 PM
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Unrelated, remember when these dolls were thought to be ridiculously exaggerated and out of proportion, but now women actually look like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:06 AM
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My most recent ex had ED from what I presume is a combination of childhood trauma and porn use. He used to tell me it's my fault for not being tight enough and my self esteem completely plummeted until I realized how tightly he gripped himself while masturbating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:11 AM
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It makes me miss the days when I wore steel toed shoes just ready for a-kickin'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:09 PM
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My dad to a T. Still does it to this day and has never changed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:29 PM
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I've stuck to my guns on this one. I usually get shit from my friends for saying what was said in the OP. I want a man that wants to build a life in a future with ME, not wallow in the past with another woman. Every single time I convinced myself that I was wrong and that talking about an ex was fine, I was immediately proven wrong and cheated on many times...with the ex. Even if they like you and treat you well, their heart is still with someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:14 PM
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It's funny how the same men who refuse to do anything for their partner on Valentine's day are the same that will text a bunch of women for attention the very same day. I had my first before 9am! They're starting early this year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:44 PM
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Is this Hinge? Do they still have the option to report when guys are just looking for sex and not relationships? I doubt it works but maybe Hinge will take it seriously and it won't be such trash some day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:52 PM
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I'm so happy for your big win, which is getting away from this guy. I had an ex like that. Their goal is to literally to try to run out your biological clock so that they're the best option because, you know, you don't have time left! Of course, to most misogynists, they think 30 is when that alarm goes off, not realizing that women have options well past that time, including adoption like you stated. Especially once you realize that you can have a baby without them and, when you make that decis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:14 PM
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Some of them know to be on their best behavior until they're comfortable and have you hooked. Or when they feel you're too emotionally invested to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:26 PM
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Don't beat yourself up. Sometimes it takes a while for their real personality to come out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:13 PM
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Ah, a predator licking his chops, eager to prey on a single mother down on her luck. Very on-brand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:50 PM
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Why as a dating coach would you encourage your clients to get laid on a first date? Even if you do, why would you display that out in the open? I don't even think all the advice is trash (and in fact reminds me of FDS - devote your resources to a high quality mate) but when he prefaces it with scoring on the first date, it makes everything else so slimey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:23 PM
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