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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	$2650 2 kids Some states base it on what both parents make collectively. So if they are going to live with her and you both make decent money, then it could be legit. It does seem high though. I’m at 1200/month in CT. $100k salary.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/19 12:24 AM
1	Headed to Divorce - Looking for advice Varies state by state, talk to a lawyer immediately.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/19 02:02 AM
2	Everything's coming up roses! Go get some brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/01/19 08:32 PM
1	Thinking about leaving everyone Go see your therapist. Birthdays and holidays are hard. It’ll take a while before everyone comes to grips with everything. Give it time.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/18 10:54 AM
1	Do you acknowledge your wedding anniversary date and how do you feel? Just a simple “Thinking if you today” is all it takes. Solves a lot.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/18 05:53 PM
4	Regrets after leaving? I hear you man. I stayed way too long because of that reason. And yes, it sucks. No way to sugar coat it. But, kids are way more resilient than people give them credit for. I now realize they weren’t getting the best me, that too isn’t good. So like everything there’s positives and negatives. But, no one deserves an unhealthy you. Find the best way to get there. Best of luck brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/08/18 12:26 AM
4	Regrets after leaving? Same idea. Just grew apart, found aspects of her personality didn’t line up with mine. Different future goals, different interests, different energies, dead bedroom etc. This all became much more clear once the kids hit puberty and they were off more on their own. I don’t hate her, here wasn’t some massive reason. I just wasn’t feeling myself. Couples therapy just made it worse. I felt like I wasn’t living, so I left. It’s been an amazing journey so far, I can’t say I regret it. Thought I would.…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/18 08:14 PM
3	Regrets after leaving? Take 6 months by yourself and see how you feel. I was in very similar spot and I’ve felt the last few months with my own place has been incredibly fulfilling despite the ups and downs.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/18 05:47 PM