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| 1 | Fundamentally the Red Pill is a yearning for control.In all instances, with every pill, it's a desire to seek out absolute certainty. Acceptance, dominance and indifference are just avenues for getting there. Whether women are in bondage to matrimony or maternity, they still have a kind of certainty, even if that certainty is doomed. If civilization is a ship, women are generally chained to it. Men? They can be marooned or jettisoned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 01:20 AM |
| 1 | As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships.Certainty. OK, we went through 2014 to 2021 and it was a painful time. From personal pronouns to race to the capitalization of words to words themselves to the concept of words to systemic racism to asking just how immoral is it to save for retirement to why we need to get rid of Paw Patrol to whether there is ethical dating under patriarchy to --well everything. Everything needed and/or got a 180. It was 6 to 8 years of constant inner turmoil, where all of society had to catch up with grad scho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 11:07 PM |
| 7 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadI don't see Loving going, since I don't see Thomas ending his own marriage, but I could totally see Brown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Women should stop trying to give men dating adviceThere is only one good piece of dating advice: All dating advice is generally bad. Honestly, the "get a hobby" thing isn't horrible advice, though when someone tells you that it sounds like "LOL, go fuck off and die." Like, find something you love that gets you out of the house. That's it. There is no magic to it. It's just taking your mind off the problem. Worrying about dating is like hemorrhoids. The more you shit, the more inflamed it gets, the worse you shit, the more painful it gets and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 04:35 PM |
| 4 | Sen. Josh Hawley says liberals' attacks on manhood are driving men to pornography and video gamesWell that's a Rush Jr. lvl 1 take. Why not yell at the clouds? The Left says, "Let's knock everything over and replace it with this one thing. I don't agree with anyone on the left on exactly what that should be and I reserve most of my hate for anyone almost exactly like me. In theory it should work." The Liberals say, "Let's knock everything over and replace it with more nuanced systems that will themselves be knocked over and replaced with more complicated systems. The more complicated the be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Males who are in favor of traditional gender roles don’t deserve custody of their kidsHonestly, that's because a lot of judges are still men and think that if a woman can make 6 figures, that man should make 7 and if he doesn't he's a piece of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | The 80/20 rule and raising a sonIn all honesty? We've been cheating nature ever since we started dropping seeds near water and noticing that it grew well. Then we put up walls. Then we initiated rules that put women down. Patriarchy isn't a crime against humanity. It's a crime against nature. We deny nature it's exquisitely cruel indifference and at some point that price has to be paid. If it continues we face collapse and we'll take every species down with us if we can. A world where women can get some pleasure dick and not h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 0 | The 80/20 rule and raising a sonAt the price of some stranger going through the pain and trauma you went through, so your son can get laid? On top of that, we are already in that world where mothers have to teach their daughters double and triple bluffing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | The 80/20 rule and raising a sonWell it would be an unfair and a highly unethical advantage if they pointed out all of their own personal vulnerabilities at that age and told their sons how to best exploit those vulnerabilities. At that point your mom might as well be a PUA instructor. Like if your mom told you the easy hack, then the other mom's would have to tell their daughters how to double-bluff the hack and then we'd triple-bluff that and the arms race would go on and on until the species collapsed. Nature loves cheating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareWhen you apply it to all women, not just a segment who become escorts? Not to mention I have no idea how that worked out over there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 09:13 PM |
| 4 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareDepends on the future, TBH. Like Nazism never totally went away, but it took certain conditions for it to become ascendant at certain times. It all reminds me Japan's BBS scene/Japan's Lost Decade. Economy goes to shit and: -Women's Liberation makes forward momentum, in spite of shitty times. As women gain economic mobility, their standards go up. Many other decide to make their careers their priority instead of staying at home to have kids. -Technology continues to advance that leads to deregul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 08:56 PM |
| 23 | Straight men will not spend a significant amount of time/are not close friends with a straight woman in whom they are not sexually or romantically interested.Ever think that we don't have many friends to begin with? I don't mean like acquaintances or really good friends, but you only talk a few times a month. Like friends you talk to every day or every other day or even two times a week. I'm 40+ and most of those friends are already dead or married with kids or married to their jobs. Between work, gym, responsibilities and two friends, I have zero hours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | There is NO correct way of approaching women without potentially coming off as creepy or intrusiveOh, the problem isn't the signals. The problem is the double bluffs, wildly mixed signals and general vagueness that comes after the body language. You know, the "I'm gonna see if this person filters themself out" period. If it were just a case of birds noticing when other birds flit their tails, relationships would be incredibly easy to navigate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 08:52 PM |
| 1 | He wasn't a Chad/Fvckboy. She just wasn't interesting enough to keep his attention.Her problem is insecurity, so she makes up for it by being a total chatter box. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | He wasn't a Chad/Fvckboy. She just wasn't interesting enough to keep his attention.Reminds me of someone. She's very pretty but very boring. There are guys who imagine they are in her league and guys who she is out on dates with. Both stare deeply into her eyes and soak in every single detail. Then there are guys who know they are out of her league and guys who have slept with her. The day after the latter have the same look on their faces as the former. It's the look that says, "If she tells one more story about her job I'm going to slit my wrist." Of course this relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible, that in future somehow gender dynamics, where women are dominant and men are passive, will be common and accepted? Will passive and feminine men be accepted?Will we? If it isn't mostly click bait and dropping fertility rates are caused by environmental conditions, caused by pollution, and we have to resort to other means to reproduce, it'll happen very fast. Even stranger, if it happens at a very high rate, we could be a monosex species that relies on somatic cell nuclear transfer for survival. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are improving in certain fields, but also getting worse in others"Little" things like stress become big factors with ED. When my wife lost her job, we'd just bought a house, I was eating antacid like candy while grinding my teeth in my sleep and couldn't get it up. Then that compounds. Like she assumed that I must have sexually lost interest in her (or was secretly gay), so that turned into serious performance anxiety that made it even harder to get it up. It has a snowball effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 06:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men are improving in certain fields, but also getting worse in othersYep. Kitchens work better on scale (the same reason restaurants survive) and at home they act as a kind of ecosystem, where waste is recycled and returned back into the system as much as possible. As you said it isn't optimal, at least not on the individual level. Honestly, if you are a single man, it's cheaper to just eat out and live off of depressing dollar burgers as you wait to die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are improving in certain fields, but also getting worse in othersBecause those movements get co-opted and die. They can't survive grift and the entropy provided the shortness of a single human life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 06:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are improving in certain fields, but also getting worse in otherscan't fix a car Honestly, this one isn't new, I can remember hearing it in the 80s and it's the root of the most common conspiracy theory in American life ("they" don't want you to fix a car). The truth is, most people can't fix a car. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Question for everyone: if you could get rid of your sex drive without damaging your body or motivation in any way, would you?Only when I get really self-conscious and feel that I've objectified women. I can remember googling elective castration a few times after obsessively asking myself if the very concept of dating while patriarchy remains is too unethical to even consider, while borderlining on some kind of black pilled xenofeminism, where I hoped that science would eradicate men for the betterment of the human species. That was probably at the height of #MeToo or after was I reading way, way too much /r/menslib . … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 11:19 PM |
| 11 | "You're such a nice guy" is an insult.Given the times and places I've heard that, generally "He's a nice guy." as opposed to "He's a nice guy." it generally means, "I wish he were gay." Kinda like "You are funny and smart" means "I have zero physical interest in you, but I don't mind your company in a crowded room" while "He is SO FUNNY" means "I want to wear his dick out." or "I want your number" means I want to keep in contact with you, while "I want your number so I can text you to let you know I made it home safe" means, "I susp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Feminist shaming tactics needlessly cause lasting sexual repression or guilt in a subset of men most sympathetic to feminist concerns.It sounds like the lobbyist effect. You know, a business wants a 10% tax cut for some green initiative or whatever, so their lobbyists asks for 20%, expecting to get half, so a politician gives them 60%, because 3 times what they asked for will make then REALLY happy and it'll create new jobs and save their environment and they'll probably get a parade for all of this and their campaigns will be paid for, for the next 25 years. Only they didn't want 60, they wanted and planned for 10%. 60% wreck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?Honestly, every man I've asked about this has said the same thing. "I'll be happy to tie her up, but there is no way I'm letting someone put handcuffs on me!" Deep down men generally avoid sexual dominance because of trust issues, while women tend to be more accepting to testing and finding sexual gratification with that trust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do sexual fantasies seem to deeply follow gender norms?Billy Zane is highly offended that you don't consider him a Chad. Just for that you'll never get The Phantom Pt II. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Men here, do you ever get paranoid being acused of rape or sexual harassment?As our company president has said, "You are all just water in the boat." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Men here, do you ever get paranoid being acused of rape or sexual harassment?Because she saves money and management likes money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Men here, do you ever get paranoid being acused of rape or sexual harassment?My workplace's post-#metoo policy is that you can under no circumstances comment on a co-workers appearance. So I have to stay conscious of that. Granted our HR director just sits around looking for reasons to fire people, like she has a spreadsheet literally called cause_for_termination.xls on her desktop that has every single employee (other than herself and the CEO of course) filled out with a pre-existing reason for their termination so that the company never has to pay unemployment benefits… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Why shouldn't men view women's offer of "friendship" like a second-place trophy/consolation prize following a rejection?That's highly subjective. Some women really do despise guys who shoot their shot who aren't already in the NBA or whatever. Like they see it as a personal insult that "you" would even try and will go out of their way to be as cruel as possible about the interaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Social class is a good indicator of increased stability in LTRsEh, there is power, popularity, intelligence, etc. You can have a bit of power and not necessarily be rich. You can be popular and broke. You can be smart and never do anything with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 04:27 PM |
| 2 | In the past it was easier for 30+ men to date much younger women, now it's much harder because younger women increasingly see it as creepy.Oh man do beauty standards change with age. At 16 the most beautiful "woman" on Earth looks like a baby when you are 35. Looking at old Married with Children episodes at 40, I feel awful for Christian Applegate every time she had to go in front of that audience. Then again it's person to person. I know really attractive guys in their 30s and 40s who are horrified by women their own age and will criticize them to death. "Her ass is too flat!" or "Man, she could at least get rid of all that baby f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 07:05 PM |
| 3 | In the past it was easier for 30+ men to date much younger women, now it's much harder because younger women increasingly see it as creepy.Wait until you hit 40. At that point 18-22 year old women come in two forms: -[Walking down the beach in a bikini.] Wow! -[Fully clothed in situations where they are inescapable] Wow! If she opens her mouth one more time and says one more stupid, uninformed thing, it'll take everything in me to not strangle her. EDIT Just to be clear, my post came across to uniquely misogynistic, but dealing with anyone who is 18-22 at the age of 40 leads to you want to strangle them from time to time. There are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Online dating is bad, because it's increasing the value of looks over personality.I see a massive problem with that take on IRL vs. online. A photographer friend and I were walking around and he commented about a woman who was passing by. "See her? She'd be a horrible model." "Her? She is stupid hot." "Nope. She's attractive, but the camera would hate her. I could put her under a soft box and have someone work makeup and she'd never work. Not in a million years. I could spend all day and I'd never get a good shot of her. She can't hold herself. The angles are bad. She'd be aw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 07:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Sex is the pinnacle of any relationship, and the ultimate expression of feeling between two peopleTrunk or Treat is a depressing cultural phenomena. But what do you do when: -People live in tight, non-organize communities, from apartments to condos to HOA housing. -People live for convenience. -People live in fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 06:40 PM |
| 11 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"It is, but honestly if the relationship works it works. In a monogamous relationship I don't want: a.) My shit getting stolen. b.) Dealing with endless drama. c.) A reasonable amount of loyalty. If someone fucked around a lot in their 20s and partied hard that doesn't necessarily mean they'll pawn my stuff. That goes down to an individual by individual basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 06:10 PM |
| 19 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"Why would I want to sleep with a virgin? I'm not a home schooled 17-year-old. As far as "N-count" goes, looking back I regret not pursuing women who'd other guys told me "Don't do it! She's been around!", because those guys were using it as a method of cock blocking (I've noticed that a lot of guys who trash a woman for having a lot of sex are guys who secretly want to bang her and they assume that trashing her will reduce the competition). If she's slept with 30 or 100 guys, I'm gonna wear a co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many dudes see sex as the best thing in the relationship, and other aspects as secondary or boring?I think there is a bit of bias in this question, because sex is the one thing you can't find in a platonic relationship. Here is an example: A friend of mine has been going through a divorce. She and her husband didn't have sex for well over a year because the pills he took for treating his addiction broke his dick and when he stopped taking those pills he started fucking someone he met in rehab. She found out about that in December. Thanks to Covid-19 her divorce was pushed back 3 months. Now t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 04:13 PM |
| 5 | Women don't appreciate the value of sex since its so readily available to them. That's why they will never understands mens obsession with avoiding high N count women for LTRsFor most Men on the other hand sex is such a rare commodity that most men can tell you the first boob they have ever squeezed I'd imagine most (hetero/allosexual) women could tell you about the first erect penis they saw, while guys who've had a lot of sex in their lives will be happy to talk about "garbage pussy". It's the old "drowning in the sea/thirsty in the desert" problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/20 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Paternity tests should be mandatory at birthBecause the tingling in the pants says so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/20 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Paternity tests should be mandatory at birthShouldn't that be the ideal solution for black pillers? It fits with a 100% meat hook reality of a natural world that fucking hates all of us. For the species at least, the dual-mating strategy seems like a very, very good idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 10:08 PM |
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