steelsofwheel2 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What is supposed to be "fair" about dating? That guy is definitely a virgin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 06:36 PM
1	Are women who date online "exploitative"? In the real world, young women have much larger supplies of men than young men have of women. According to this argument, dating in general would be exploitative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/24 03:13 PM
16	Stop the Gaslight 1: Bluepill It's been so long since redpill came about that some of its tenets seem like common sense now. As a guy who reached adulthood before the red pill ever existed, I can tell you that a lot of it was already common sense. The red pill just packaged a bunch of common sense, mixed in some other stuff, and marketed it well to guys who are slow learners. I really feel like there's a relationship between increasing rates of autism and the growth of the red pill. Autistic guys lack social common sense and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/24 10:00 PM
1	We do not live in a “hookup” culture and the amount of casual sex going on is grossly exaggerated I'm in my late 30s now, so I was in high school/college in the early 2000s. Between the end of college and a couple years ago, I was in a long-term relationship. Now I'm single again and it seems like nothing has changed. Hookup culture was common then and its still common now. It seems like apps have mostly replaced bars/clubs/parties, but otherwise it's pretty much the same as it was 20 plus years ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/24 04:26 AM
1	“Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].” That's true in younger generations today, because the redpill has gotten mainstream. This was true when I was in middle school/high school in the late 90s/early 00s. Pretty much anyone who wasn't mentally challenged knew that being attractive got you more passes. Because you could just look at the world around you and see it. "Gee I wonder why the girls in middle school all like the attractive, athletic guys???" Everyone who wasn't a fucking moron figured it out on their own. Some small percenta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 03:49 AM
2	I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight. Of course it's okay. It's okay for anyone to reject anyone for any reason. Weight, height, race, face, education, income, or whatever is fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/24 04:14 AM
2	CMv : Modern times are not raising women’s standards, it’s revealing standards that were always there People are able to travel and spend money at the best restaurants in the world. Some people are. Half of American's make less that $37,522. They're not jetting off to Europe to drop $1500 on a dinner for two at a three Michelin star restaurant. They're trying to pay their rent and car payment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 04:07 AM
–	The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative. I know people your age, and I know what they looked like then (and even worse so now to be fair). Of them, some were nerdy, short guys who were able to get pretty attractive women — they likely would have not had anywhere near the same success today at that same age. I have young guys just out of college on my team today. Some of them are pretty short and nerdy. Some of those guys have pretty attractive girlfriends. They don't do as well as tall, confident guys, but that was true two decades ago…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 10:23 PM
–	The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative. I think we're missing meaning b/w each other with semantics. I believe the primary difference is in frequency and enforcement. And I'm telling you this is where I disagree as someone who actually experienced things as a young adult two decades ago. I think when it comes to height, frequency and enforcement is the same. It was also just as much a requirement vs. preference back then as it is today. Again, I say this as someone who has lived and dated young women in both time periods. I'm not sure…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 04:22 PM
1	The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative. You're in your 40s. Absolute buffoonery to think your experience is anything on par with the average 20-something year old today. I'm 36 and you're not listening to what I'm saying. You're caught up on broader life experience, which is obviously different today vs. when I started college in 2004. I'm specifically responding to the comment on "the sudden insistence that any guy must be at least 6 feet". That's it. I'm telling you that the "6 foot requirement" is the same today as it was then. I k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 10:36 PM
1	Single PPD men and women often have very inflated standards as to what an “average” partner looks like Ok, lets go for girls from broken families and high school educated only. I think the point is, the average woman isn't college educated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 03:09 AM
1	It is no longer feasible for most men to "improve themselves" and "build the life they want" in order to attract to women. the dating market has become so ruthless it requires complete dedication/gamification to compete. Old dude here. It's really no different today than when I started college almost 20 years ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 02:43 AM
1	The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative. It seems convenient that the cutoff for a man's height is a nice round number. You ever traveled internationally and used dating apps? In countries that use the metric system, the "height requirement" is generally 180 cm (which translates to about 5'11). Because 180 cm is a nice round number that represents "tall". It is what it is. In the US the 6'0" threshold actually sort of makes sense. In addition to being a nice round number, it's also about one standard deviation above the mean. By defini…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 02:41 AM
1	The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative. I agree with that. I'm just saying the attitude is no different now than it was in the early/mid 2000s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 02:35 AM
1	The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative. I'm a millennial, and no I didn't have online dating back in the day, but I have it today. Dating today just isn't all that different than it was when I graduated from college. If anything, online dating helps out a bit because it provides better volume than just trying to meet women in person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 02:34 AM
19	The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative. I think there are a lot of very young people here who assume these preferences are new. As a fellow old, I agree with you completely. The six foot thing is no different now than it was a couple decades ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/23 03:25 AM
16	The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative. the sudden insistence that any guy must be at least 6 feet There's nothing sudden about that. It was the case when I was in college back in the early 2000s. Height was probably the number one most important factor back then, and 6 ft was basically the minimum for "tall". It was that way 20 years ago, and I assume it was the same 20 years before that. It's not a new thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/23 03:22 AM
8	Women don’t cheat because they’re ‘emotionally unsatisfied’ Women don’t cheat because they’re ‘emotionally unsatisfied’ Sure they do. Or because the meet someone else they're attracted to. Or because they're bored in their relationship. Or because they got really drunk and caught up in the moment .Or because they're going through some shit internally. Or some combination. Or something else. People cheat for all sorts of reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 04:15 AM
2	Question about how body count and status works. Women have a high threshold for who they sleep with. The attractive women who most guys notice certainly do. It makes sense that attractive women hold out for attractive men. Plenty of my very average friends have high body counts, but it was all with very average women. There's nothing remarkable about them. They're just average guys who are willing to sleep with average women without commitment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 03:02 AM
1	When women say that older men are repulsive, what do they mean? They're mainly talking about men 40+ specifically targeting 18-22 year olds. Yeah that is repulsive as those age groups aren't attractive to those women I think this is a bit of a generality. Like OP, I'm also in my mid-30s, but I've casually slept with a number of women in that age range (20-22, not 18-19). My age range on dating apps extends up past my own age, but it also extends down to 20. When it comes to something casual, I've had a fair amount of success at the low end of my age range. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/23 01:25 PM
–	"Men who date younger women can't get women their own age". Still, dating a young woman would be much harder. I'm a 35 year old guy who became single last year for the first time since I was 24, so I'll give my perspective. I've found that it's actually much easier for me to casually date women in the 21-25 age range compared to women in the 31-35 age range. When I first joined the apps last year, I had my age range set relatively close to my own age. What I found is that there aren't that many attractive, 31-35 year, old single women out there. That mea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 12:56 AM