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Jodi Arias also had lots of male fans
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:49 PM
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I don’t think hypergamy is real. I think most straight women are attracted to masculinity and most people (especially men) see masculinity as superior to femininity. E.g. career success is considered masculine, height is considered masculine, etc. whereas beauty is associated with femininity and most men seem to expect to get a woman who is more physically attractive than they are. Women often date down in looks and don’t have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:57 AM
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What about all of the ranting about modern women and western women not being submissive enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:50 AM
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Amazing that you can say that after that hellish list 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:09 PM
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Of course. After all, male-coded skills are very appreciated. And financially rewarded 💰
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:07 AM
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Girls are expected to be hairless, fartless fantasies with high heeled hooves who cook, clean, are psychologists, cheerleaders, moms and pseudo moms to grown men and children alike. Then this is just considered women’s nature 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:01 AM
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Oftentimes, what these men see as “playing games” is just building sexual tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:02 PM
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True and I also think a lot of them just label men they’re jealous of as assholes. They also assume that if they were hot and could get any woman, they would behave terribly with those women by cheating on them and not putting in any effort. So they just assume that hot alpha chad is doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:38 PM
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Men treating easy women horribly is a secondary reason for me. The main reason is that it turns me off to do the initiating/leading and also passive/unconfident men turn me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:42 AM
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I think it is men who see that as easy and they disrespect her accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:33 AM
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First of all, onus*, not “ownness” To answer the question, I think it ruins the sexual dynamic for me to initiate. After all, he is the one who will be penetrating me. So I think he should be acting like that confidently all the way until he does it. Also, from what I’ve seen, men treat easy women horribly 💩
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:05 AM
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If I were to raise a daughter, I'd be teaching her stuff like this to deal with men so she can filter out the dangerous ones. Women have such shit filters these days. What else would you teach her? What filters?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:59 AM
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I think it’s because most men don’t fuck women right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:25 PM
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Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:50 PM
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20 at most
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:48 PM
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By good I mean not abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:03 PM
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Out of 100 men, how many do you think are good choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:37 AM
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Why does it make women look bad to have physical preferences? The expectation that women should just want a nice guy who is not whatsoever sexually inspiring has always been absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:02 PM
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0.001% of the male population is not "lots of men." This can’t possibly be true when almost half of the country is obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 07:35 AM
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If men don’t give a fuck what other men think, why do so many men fuck women but don’t dare be seen with them? For example, lots of men fuck fat women in secret, oftentimes cheating on their thin wives in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:50 AM
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You don’t see large numbers of men arguing that 90-95% of female population isnt up to their standards Plenty of men go on and on about how American women are too fat and feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:49 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:01 PM
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lol how so? What do I need revenge for?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:57 PM
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I brought this up because I think the sentiment of men who gas on about older women being jealous that he’s dating younger women, and the men who think women in his home country are jealous of him going elsewhere, are the same. They’re pissed off from being rejected by the women they would have naturally dated (similar age group in their home country while they were growing up through school, college and early adulthood) and now they’re trying to get back at those women who rejected them by sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:54 PM
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Not you specifically, the manosphere generally
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:40 PM
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Right, they also try to push the narrative that western women are jealous because the “passport bros” are exploiting women from poor countries and we’re losing our power 😂🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:19 PM
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I’ve heard that repeatedly and also much younger ages than that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:57 PM
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There’s no such thing as an “underage woman”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:50 PM
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<15% is definitely an underestimate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:17 PM
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So what should we be doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:44 PM
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Most misogynists don't really hate women. 😂🤥
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:54 PM
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Everything a man does is a woman’s fault 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:17 AM
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It’s not true. It’s because she’s not into you. She wouldn’t be suddenly into you if she thought she was ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:13 AM
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Also they seem to assume that any time a woman rejects them it’s because she thinks she’s too good for him. Basically, if women don’t take whatever they can get, they’re just stuck up and think they’re too hot. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:06 PM
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They’re jealous of the money they think she is making and they feel powerless to stop themselves from giving her that money lol 😂 I swear that’s the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:46 AM
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I dated 3 much older men when I was a teenager. My parents are also age gapped, with my mother being the older one. My findings have been that every demographic has a problem with age gaps, not older women in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:01 AM
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Doesn’t it just make sense that a man who is very sexually uninhibited, values having a lot of sex and being adventurous would prefer a compatible partner? A low n count woman would bore most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 08:10 PM
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It is a base animal act and there’s nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:15 AM
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Yes I do. Usually there is something about them that rules them out for anything serious, usually some form of instability. Sometimes it just so happens that I’m attracted to them physically but we just don’t really click romantically or we’re just not very compatible as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:13 AM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:21 AM
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You know it’s anal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:20 AM
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Right, why do they always assume it’s for some negative reason e.g. manipulating men or trying to make women jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:39 PM
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Why are some men so obsessed with trying to prove that women are trying to get men’s attention? Like it’s some ultimate gotcha accusation?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 08:28 PM
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Me too. I was a girl in the 90s and had a miserable time having my body constantly criticized and making it clear to me that my primary value was my value to men. That if I was smart, funny, nice, etc. it would never matter unless I was thin and hot. Meanwhile, we were expected to accept any man who was “nice”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:30 AM
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In order for me to maintain sexual attraction to my partners, how I see them as a person matters. I can’t simply just keep going based on the sight of a body part. Oftentimes as the relationship is dragging on, the man becomes a drain or like a big baby. When that happens my sexual image of him is destroyed. I need to see him as a respectable, strong man to maintain arousal. I feel like in general, men are very happy to fuck women they hate or see as disrespectable burdens. I can’t relate at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:16 AM
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We have been socialized like that with “men have needs”, “men have a high sex drive that women couldn’t possibly understand”, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:21 AM
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Because making eye contact as well as looking at my body suggests that he’s looking at me as a person who he finds sexually attractive rather than just looking at me like I’m a body/piece of meat. When I dress to go out, I dress in a way that I think makes me look good. I know that my understanding of what looks good has been shaped by media and therefore, the male gaze. But, I also wear plenty of things that men don’t care about like jewelry, nails, purse, etc. For example, sometimes I might ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:56 AM
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As long as he’s looking at my eyes more than my boobs, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:05 AM
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Fairly brief, with a smile and occasional eye contact. Like you’re looking at her as a person rather than just body parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:03 AM
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And by society in general
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:47 AM
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She’s not on a high horse, you’re on a low one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:41 AM
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Not specifically to dress gay but to dress up a bit in general. Lots of guys are like crabs in a barrel with this and they call out guys who are dressed better than them for being douchebags.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:19 AM
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Leering and looking are different. You can look in a disrespectful way or in an appreciative way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:16 AM
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Yes they do. They would avoid dressing too well in fear that other men would make fun of them or call them gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:15 AM
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There’s a difference between sexual harassment and positive sexual attention. Sexual harassment is disrespecting/dehumanizing/power playing/bullying women with sex. Positive sexual attention is giving women compliments and hitting on her. What Calvin Grindz does to women in grocery stores is positive sexual attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:13 AM
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That’s because Facebook and MySpace didn’t function whatsoever as dating platforms and basically no one but old divorcees and weirdos dated online. Facebook and MySpace were just there for people you knew in real life and sharing family photos. There would be no reason for women to be randomly talking about what men are and aren’t attractive. I was a child in the 90s and a teenager in the 00s and was a very tall girl. I was constantly bombarded with comments from other girls, my mother and femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:35 AM
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Women’s attraction standards haven’t changed since the 90s/00s, they just didn’t have a platform then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 06:20 AM
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What is the best solution then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:11 AM
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She can’t know what will happen in the future but if a guy is making a big deal about paying for dinner, she can assume what will happen when serious expenses like a baby come about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:52 AM
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No because she isn’t going to potentially impregnate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:44 AM
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Pregnancy and childbirth are very costly. Therefore, you should offset the financial burden you gave her by impregnating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:38 AM
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Many men have said that an ugly man would be so appreciative of having a woman interested in him that he would treat her amazingly. They say that good looking and/or wealthy men will abuse women and cheat because they can get away with it 🫠.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:17 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:34 AM
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It doesn’t make women less valuable because it doesn’t replace him feeling sexually desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:01 AM
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I disagree. Most men hate women and want to fuck them. How else would misogyny take over the world for millennia and be built into all of our cultures and systems?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:02 AM
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Our caution is based on our life experiences. You falsely assume that most women have not dealt with sexual assault/harassment/abuse which is why you perceive us as neurotic and hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:40 AM
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Men are more likely to be victims of rape because of the prison stats. If men are not in prison, they generally won’t be worried about getting raped. Women and girls are sexually targeted wherever they go and several of the men who do the targeting are crazy and have no regard for boundaries. Also, the violence stats will be skewed towards men because more men willfully involve themselves in violent crime e.g. gang members, drug dealers, weapons dealers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:27 AM
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They also seem to think that being nice means being a clingy, desperate pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:19 PM
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UFOs 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:09 PM
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The stigma associated with being a rape victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:02 PM
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True. Anyone who calls themselves nice isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:49 PM
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“Some” implies a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:28 AM
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We are not a pair bonding species
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:44 AM
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No, it’s not something I ever think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:38 PM
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No matter how many zeros you put in front of the .1%, it’s still .1%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:50 AM
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Most of us have already come across several
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:55 AM
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Men do not take accountability. No one can put you in the friend zone but you and no one can gold dig on you unless you get your wallet out over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:47 AM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:44 PM
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We are groomed from birth into being hairless, fartless fantasies with high heeled hooves who cook, clean, are psychologists, cheerleaders, moms and pseudo-moms to grown men and children alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:55 AM
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Right and the reason they need unconditional love is because they refuse to behave decently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:18 AM
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Projection. What motive do women have to control men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:35 AM
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Men make death threats and rape threats to women with visible armpit hair or leg hair
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:10 AM
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Christian Grey was 27 and Anastasia was 21. That’s not like a middle aged man with a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:56 PM
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In terms of rape, lots of people don’t understand what constitutes consent. Lots of people wouldn’t recognize coercive rape as rape, for example. So yes, education would help.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:48 AM
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Compassion is not cowardice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:10 AM
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14,000 years
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:18 PM
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Ginger
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:57 AM
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To become a hairless, fartless fantasy in high heels who cooks, cleans, is a psychologist, cheerleader, mom and pseudo mom to grown men and children alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:58 PM
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