steileen Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	A blazing red flag I overlooked Men who get mad at sex workers are a special kind of clowns. If they’re so mad about it why don’t they take it up themselves lol. Sure your clientele will be gay men but a lot of female sex workers are lesbians yet perform for straight men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/20 02:07 AM
7	A blazing red flag I overlooked Yeah that’s a misogynist 100% and I’m sorry you had to deal with that psycho. I prefer to date someone who doesn’t at all or barely uses social media. Much less to worry about.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/20 02:06 AM
11	..... so you want a girlfriend but you don’t want to be in a relationship ok Clown fucking world lmao	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/20 01:58 AM
12	Reason # 2913738 on why you can’t compliment men. Complimented my DoorDash Driver on his shirt and he took it as hitting on him. This is literally why I never smile at, make small talks with, or offer help to a man I don’t know. People think that I’m a bitch but I‘ve had way too many creeps hit on me after I ascended and the city I live in is full of crazies, you can’t take any chances. Tbh I hate that I and so many other women have to be so guarded like this. I hope you reported this creep OP and I’m so sorry this happened to you :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/19 11:39 AM
11	Don't fall for the high value "potential". 9 times out of 10, you're going to be let down. Never invest in a man. He’ll level up on your dime and go find someone else. Don’t be the starter gf! Besides we all deserve someone who’s actually of high value, not merely someone with potential.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/19 11:18 AM
2	Poly/Open Relationships: A Rant 99% of poly couples consist of an ugly LV male and an insecure pickme with daddy issues. Always on Tinder trying to trap unsuspecting bisexual women into their degenerate arrangement. No thanks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/19 07:52 PM
1	What are your dealbreakers? For context, I’m in my mid-20s and live in a major city. I do not date date someone who refuses to process their own emotions and I tend to avoid people that aren’t in some form of therapy; conservatives; men who call themselves feminists; men that cannot take care of themselves (can’t cook a basic meal, do own laundry, or clean his apartment? Nope); a guy who doesn’t have any (non-conventionally attractive) female friends; anyone who is bad with consent The last one is extremely important for m…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/19 05:18 AM
6	What are your dealbreakers? He doesn’t deserve anyone lol men like this deserve to be alone	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/19 04:56 AM
27	Scrotes mad Older fathers are significantly more likely to father autistic children	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 06:48 PM
5	Found on my Instagram explore page: I know this is meant to be taken as cute/ a joke but I don’t understand why men’s incompetency is always portrayed as something endearing. Men do this on purpose. I don’t understand how men being manipulative to make the woman do most of the housework is cute or funny. If a guy can’t take care of himself I’m out of there.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/19 04:28 PM
5	Some MRA posted, downvoted, and screenshot a his own post and called us out on FB Men are so bad at impersonating women on the Internet lol whereas women can usually pull off a good impersonation. Women had to observe men to survive in this violent society; men never had to. Also this guy’s grammar lmao is he another one of those non-English speaking men getting into the manosphere because of the gender imbalance in their country?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/19 03:35 PM
18	Another woman who initiated, was more invested, and paid for his shit is treated like garbage and dumped. Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men... Maybe I’m too cynical, but I wouldn’t invest materially in a man that I was committed to either. Would I be supportive of him in his endeavors - yes. Would I pay his tuition, invest in his business, buy him a car (and I’ve heard of women doing all these things!) - no. There are way too many stories of men ditching their girlfriends and wives after their startup gets acquired/they get their MD degree/they make partner at their firm. If you’re going to invest in someone, invest in yourself. Don’t …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/19 05:04 PM
3	ladies stay woke with these 'feminist' men on dates I find that decent guys with good political views don’t even call themselves feminist, because they know that that label is for women only. If a guy is really a feminist ally or even just a decent guy, it’ll show through his actions. He doesn’t try to mansplain to or talk over you (like this guy did). He’s genuinely concerned about misogyny and actually does something about it — for example, he takes up housework, does emotional labor for the women in his life, and materially supports feminist o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/19 03:47 PM
25	PSA: FemaleDatingStrategy doesn't believe in asking men out and initiating dates/texts with them. If you believe that, /r/dating_advice is the sub for you, not FDS. Based. Besides the fact that pursuing men doesn’t make you seem high value, I find that if a man likes you, he will ask for your number, he will ask you out, he will pay for the dinner, and he will text you first after the date. That’s just how it has been in my experience. And if he’s just not that into you for whatever reason, it doesn’t mean you’re defective or ugly, just that you guys have different standards and that it wouldn’t have worked out anyway.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/19 10:30 AM
7	Tips for young adult females on finding/getting into good relationships? I’m also in my 20’s but I don’t think I’m more lenient with my standards than I would be otherwise? I’m also not looking to get married right now but most guys in the 20s aren’t thinking about marriage either. Do you want a relationship or casual dating or just someone you can hook up with once in a while? I just state what I’m looking for during the first or second date so we don’t waste each other’s time. I feel like many of the advices on this sub ultimately come down to knowing what your sta…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/19 10:11 AM