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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	I feel like people see dating as some sort of rpg skill check You really need a decent amount of both, unless your face is extremely attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 10:00 PM
1	What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like? Chadness is like pornography. I shall not attempt to define it, but I know it when I see it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 07:59 PM
5	The "nice guy" trope is a defense mechanism which women deploy to divert attention from the fact that they are rejecting a guy based on a lack of physical attraction I agree with this in certain circumstances but often it's more because the man isn't confident and/or masculine enough. It's absolutely correct in some situations though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 09:51 PM
0	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? Largely due to the fact that single dads tend to have less involvement in the upbringing of their children, so their new partner is less impacted. Some men are also willing to get with anyone, even if it means settling for bringing up the child of another man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 02:25 PM
–	Are men becoming ok with no sex? Personally I wouldn't say I'm "OK" with it because in an ideal world I would be sexually active, but it's not the be-all and end-all of life. I try to look at the situation from a practical standpoint and determine the best coping strategy while also working on what is required to become sexually attractive; physique, money, social skills etc. Working on these things still enhances your life even if you're still ultimately shut out from women and sex, and it can take many, many years of work bef…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 10:59 AM
4	Passport bros are a symptom of a problem men did not create Terribly worded but I sort of agree with the premise. If it was women who were being driven abroad due to being completely shut out of finding fulfilling relationships in their country of birth, the media and society at large would be up in arms about it, asking what men of their country need to do to 'step up'. As it's men who are solely affected the issue is barely discussed and it's also them who are told to 'step up' or just simply ridiculed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 04:33 PM
25	Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbag Agree 100%. To use a sports analogy, ask yourself who would you prefer on your team: a player who is somewhat aggressive and boorish but otherwise "normal", or one who is well meaning and earnest but doesn't even properly understand the rules of the game (and never will).	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 09:27 PM
1	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I can definitely see that being the case in other environments, though at the wedding it always seemed to be the guy who would be with a girl up to a couple of "points" higher if he was rich. This was a very middle class, white sort of event though; nobody was legitimately poor by any means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 03:09 PM
2	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD It was in the UK. Age range was generally early 30s to early 40s. Very efficient indeed! Would be interested to hear if it matches with others' experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 08:21 PM
10	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Looks are basically what matters, with money/status being a distant secondary factor. I went to a friend's wedding this weekend and most of the guests who attended were couples (90%+). If you lined up the attendees on opposite sides of the room based on their gender, ordered both lines solely by any objective measure of attractiveness and had the lines walk towards each other, no-one would need to divert very far from walking in a completely straight line to find their partner/spouse. Where ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 02:54 PM
–	Why do women pick the worst partners? They prefer abuse (though obviously not serious, life threatening type abuse) over boredom. Do/say anything you like to a woman, as long as you don't bore her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 05:38 PM
1	Women base their entire dating lives on a dodgy initial sales pitch, while dismissing men who would make better long term partners because they are no good at that What you've stated as attractive behaviours are attractive to those "inside" Reddit too, it's just that they won't admit it. AWALT.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:10 PM
0	Why don't women compliment and approach men? Women do, but only when the man in question is extremely attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 05:04 PM
3	How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you? Friend's wife did this. Got a gastric band and lost several stone. Within a few months she was gone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/23 08:11 PM
1	Do women actually approach men if they truly like them? I've known my female acquiantences to approach guys. They were all without exception highly, highly attractive men. If women are approaching you, you know you are a true chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 10:12 PM
3	We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why? Because people realise that they have limitations. I keep fit but all the looksmaxxing in the world isn't going to make me "hot". Perhaps going to extremes and getting plastic surgery and leg lengthening would, but those things are very invasive and expensive and not what people typically associate with looksmaxxing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 11:23 PM
13	I’ve never experienced a woman initiating a romantic interaction in my life. How long can this continue? Women I know do approach men. Men who are exceedingly attractive. If you're not getting approached then you either have to put in some serious work or do the approaching yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 07:03 PM