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Would you use that same argument to justify smoking cigs?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:37 PM
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Exactly. Learning to socialize sober is the best way to go about it. All the alcoholics will obviously disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:34 PM
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Good question. Technology is very different than it was 100 years ago. Theres an exponential tech advancement in drugs, substances, etc and a new less dangerous form of inebriation will happen in the near future
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:31 PM
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Dude nothing in the purple pill applies to "day to day life". This is literally a forum for abstract discussions on personality, dating market, etc. Did you not read the OP? This is a CMV, that's why my post is structured the way it is obviously. Its so bizarre you wrote out a novel critiquing logic instead of just addressing the post. It's really not some bizarro or tough to understand thing I'm referring to. Alot of people judge others unfairly and without merit and that is what the post is ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:20 PM
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Spoken like an unsuccessful realtor Probably best you stick with bugging people about their homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:38 PM
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Wit is just small aspect of interpersonal intelligence, Copernicus. And even then it's largely subjective. Every other redditor thinks they are witty and most people would just roll their eyes. You're not the exception and I can guarantee you my social wit is much stronger and more developed than yours. Also fyi I make a six figure income talking to people for a living and selling medical products. Far from neurodivirgent but nice attempt at an ad hom, jackass. Stupidity is coming in the thread …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:31 PM
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Lol. A "recieved generic understanding with core traits" is just another way of saying objective, nice try. You can't have it both ways. You're trying to make the argument that personality is largely objective without wanting to directly say it. 'no one sees a passive, dour, and humorless person and thinks good personality" Your narcissm and arrogance leads you to believe everyone views others through the same lens as you. I could argue that means you have a "bad personality" but again I don't j…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:19 PM
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You literally just tried making argument in the last post that personality was objective "BeForE ReDIt EvERyOnE KnEw WhAT a GoOD/BaD pErSONaLItY was". Now you're trying to make the arguments it's subjective "gooD PeRsonLiTy meANs GoOD to Me" Lol you're not even consistent with your own beliefs or logic, and you expect me to believe you're intelligent? Also loool at the realtor comment. Don't want to be mean here but literally some of the dumbest IG thots I know are all "professional realtors" on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:37 AM
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Recognizing someone as being a bad fit for romantic, social, worklife, etc is NOT the same as criticizing them for having an overall bad personality. You're trying to conflate the two in your argument. "Bob is not a good fit for this job, romantic partner, friend group, etc" is not the same as saying "Bob has a bad personality" That's the distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:21 AM
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Tell me this, do you think you meet your own definition of "good personality"? Because I'm willing to bet your personality is very average/neutral/not unique (not trying to be mean, just stressing the point that most people mathematically fall in the average section of the personality trait distribution) chances are if you were to take an IQ test you'd score average (or probably below) yet sometbing tells me you think youre super smart. They've done studies and most people that try and connect i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:17 AM
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I hear where you're coming from but you've made a straw man. I never said this only applies from a romantic/attraction perspective. Yes obviously it's reasonable to assume someone using "good personality" in the context of dating/attraction means "compatible". They should use the word compatable technically but you're right that would be pedantic criticism in that case. I'm talking about people who label friends, collegeues, family, or even random people they barely know as having "bad personali…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:50 AM
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Shyness is neutral in nature. Doesn't really fall under the good/bad paradigm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:38 AM
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And you just proved my point with this post thanks. You ARE dumb AND dont have the mental acuity to explain or back up your thoughts so instead you attack me with ad hominems claiming I have a "bad personality" lol pathetic feminine behavior dude. You're the textbook example of the type of person I'm referring to in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:34 AM
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This may be the dumbest post Ive read all night, congrats. Without being mean, let's go ahead and hear your definition of a "good and bad personality" This should be good 🍿🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:32 AM
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Agreed man. The sad truth is that relationships are easily replaceable. The "deep soul mate connection" that the average person claims to feel for their SO is easily replaceable when your sexual market value is high enough and the Internet/social media/online dating has magnified this and created easy opportunity for new relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:24 AM
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I bet you're the type of delusional person who judges others for having a bad personality but thinks yours is amazing and perfect. Such feminine energy to think that way. Anyhow let's go ahead and hear these "objectively good and bad" personality characteristics. This should be good 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:17 AM
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Yes there are somewhat objectively negative traits but again that could also be in combination with alot of other positive traits AND those negstive traits are subject to change as well. I could say my gf being moody when she's on her period is a "negative" trait but it wouldnt be fair to label her as having a bad personality. On that same token it's not really appropriate to label her personality as "good" either because theres so many confounding factors Again this goes back to my point about …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:12 AM
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Dude there's nothing remotely "autistic" about saying that personality is subjective and nuanced . That's a logically sound argument to make. It's pretty childish and arrogant to believe people have a "good or bad personality" (aside from being psychopathic and other disorders). Nearly every had some good and bad traits is the overall point here so we can't really label someones personality "good or bad" You also backing up my point with that second paragraph. Making brash judgements and jumping…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:58 AM
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Ya it's not that simple. Being an "asshole" as you put it is extremely subjective and open to interpretation. 1 guy could be an asshole and another girl thinks he's the greatest. Unless you can give me an objective basis for what contitutes an asshole, your point is moot. Even then, you could argue some people like the "asshole" personality and percieve it as "good" "dominant" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:47 AM
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I'd argue being overly agreeable is even worse/unattractive to women than being disagreeable. Again it's all subjective. One girl could think a guy is "pleasant to be around" and another could not stand him. No objective rhythm or reason here which is my point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:45 AM
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You sound like the type of girl who would fight every single little thing for fear of appearing "submissive". I know many Western women think like that and it's why the passport bro community is growing so much. Brazilian woman, Spanish women, Thai women, etc don't operate have this hard headed "don't need no man" mentality. It's super unattractive to most guys just fyi but you're entitled to behave the way you see fit. I'd like to ask you this. Let's say you're in a relationship living with a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:35 AM
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Well then they should say compatible personality. Not "good"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:25 AM
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Your thinking is so narrow minded and black and white. No one said anything about being subservient so not sure why you went to that extreme. Most girls want the guy to be the decision maker and leader in most cases. Just cus you dont, doesn't mean that's not the standard dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:48 AM
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No it's not you're a moron if you believe it theres no rule you need to drink at bars or clubs to socialize or hit on people who have been drinking. The fact you think that's necessary tells me youre mentally weak human. Being sober isn't some kind of cheat code that makes people flock to you, man or woman. Plus women are the predators coming on to me every time I go out. Just another thing you're wrong about. This is not an argument you will win. Nice trolling attempt tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:57 AM
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Any dude has not been living under a walk has "approached" both men and women to talk with them at some point. Are you saying "approach" with the intent to hit on them? Also meeting people online or not approaching has literally nothing to do with the post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:49 AM
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Not true you're so wrong. Most women will agree the guy is generally the dominant one in the relationship. That's just common sense but I know here on Reddit common sense isn't common for the sjw libtards like you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:45 AM
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Said I'd GUESS it's that. yes you can basic math, congrats. may want to read your post a couple times, it literally is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:52 AM
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Yes religion is a major turn off to me but the I can easily make the argument you're not entitled to kill a baby just because you are the vessel carrying it. Btw I'm pro choice but their argument is a fair one. I don't think I could ever date a girl who couldn't formulate an actual rebuttel to back her opinions though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:40 AM
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Obviously your free to judge whoever but yes to make assumptions about their masculinity level/sexuality based on the pitch of their voice is shitty behavior. Im sure you wouldn't like if I made all kind of judgments about you based on a picture of you. But you're right in that you're free to not be attracted to anyone for anyone. Also id like to know what "mannerisms" and how some one can "walk" to be deemed "unmasculine".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:33 AM
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That's interesting. So your own personal morals are trumped by how much you "like" the guy. So from this logic, it's an a guys interest to test you and tell you he's not ok with it to expose how much you like him. If you take issue with it, he knows to bounce since you "didn't like him that much"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:28 AM
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Trying to meet women out at venues and not drinking is cringe? Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:22 AM
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That's such a horrible stereotype and just untrue. I say this is all as a libertarian, fiscally conservative and social liberal. You've drank the liberal cool aid. It's like you're too ignorant to realize there's millions of conservative women. Aside from abortion, what other ways are they trying to "control your body"? This should be good Also women who think as dogmatically and illogically you is a hard pass for most normal guys I'd imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:21 AM
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The road
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:11 AM
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Omg youre logic is so simplistic and flawed it hurts. I'm talking about Western women in the US. Not a wholesome family girl from Peru or Thailand. Are you saying the average guy should passport bro max to find one of those 3 billion women in Asia? That's literally argument you're making rn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:07 AM
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Your so wrong. Obviously I've considered the sample bias, I'm 5 steps ahead of you in that regard. I met tons of girls at bars, clubs, bumble, etc who are the same breed as the girls on that show. You don't even realize most the girls who come on that show are just random college girls from Santa Barbara. They are a representation of the average zoomer college girl and yes this is backed up with myself and plenty of other guys experience. I guess you could make the argument a guy can meet a non-…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:04 AM
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Excellent points. When you combine this with online dating, the horniess of men, simping, women making 6 figure in tech jobs, you have a receipe for the kind of the dating market we are seeing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:59 AM
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Great examples and the only contention I have is with the work example. Sometimes you want to work OT when on salary to hit bonuses. I had to take 3 business flights back to back less month to hit a sales goal and it paid off 100% because I hit it and now I'm getting an extra 10k for the year. I had the choice to stay home. As a single 30 year old guy I'm prioritizing my work and income and if a girl I'm dating has a problem with that, it's whateve. but yes alot of girls will call that "pushover…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:55 AM
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I like that example. Your husband turned into a whiny simp the second you shed a tear and you saw him for the spineless simp that is. You subconsciously realized at that second you can easily manipulate him by shedding a couple tears to get your way. He should have had a backbone and explained to you why he believed you're acting irrational and handled your emotions without caving like a simp. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:45 AM
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So you're judging a guy based on physical things outside of their control (voice, etc). That's pretty messed up considering alot of guys may have a slightly higher pitch voice due to genetics/hormone disorders and it's very judgemental to make assumptions their sexuality. That's called shitty behavior. I personally have kind of a deep voice but that's just the luck of the draw and you'd have to be pretty scummy to judge someone on that imo. Now I'm very interested to hear on how you're exactly j…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:42 AM
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Lol yes that's my point. Your not gonna look tough when someone pulls a gun on you tho after you cut them off just fyi. Not really worth it to impress a clearly low iQ girlfriend imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:52 AM
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They asked a bunch of girls on YouTube what guys do they seem to be "unmasculine" and that's one of many bizarre examples that came up. Whatever podcast These women also threw a fat when men mentioned their feminine ideals. Go look it up yourself not that hard to do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:51 AM
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Whether I watch it not has no bearing on the fact a large percent of women think this way. Very childish mindset to think just ignoring opinions you don't agree makes them "not exist" The question is what percent of women have these absurd masculine/feminine ideals. Id guess it's 20-30% which is a huge number
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:21 AM
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Strawman. I said that to one person who asked for a video of something specific. It shouldn't be that hard to provide examples of your ANECDOTAL experiences. Nice try tho pal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:56 AM
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Whatever podcast. They bring girls every week that have these absurd ideas of masculinity. Theres millions of other bizarro examples of these rigid and bizarre masculinity sterotypes. Go find it yourself, there's plenty out there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:54 AM
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Big bang theory fan spotted 😂😂. Trust me normal people aren't laughing with Sheldon, they are laughing at him. But yes not everyone has a good sense of humor. Big bang fans and those with low brow sense of comedy generally end up together. Not everyone can have a GOOD sense of humor
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:51 AM
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Not true. Another girl listed her comedians and didn't say that. You can't list any, because you don't know any and now are trying to weasel out of it. You contraditing yourself multiple times was my point of contention. Don't get mad cus your debate skills aren't up to par and you aren't able to defend your own logic. Maybe work on that instead of attacking people for debating (what reddit is designed for)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:42 AM
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That's preciously my point. So many women especially enploy this black and white thinking when labeling a guy a "pushover" or not. I agree with the Red pill grifting too but again let's hear your specific examples of a situational pushover. It's so easy to talk in generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:37 AM
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Your doing what girls do in this forum. Give SPECIFICS. It's so easy to ramble on about generalizations... Let's hear a specific example. I can easily counter all the vague examples you provided with nuanced examples where it's ok to be quiet, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:34 AM
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Ok that's you, I know a lot of girls who think it's " unmasculine" for a guy to even use his blinker. Look it up on YouTube, there's a good percent of women who have this insane views of masculinity/feminity and are toxic as well. You can find them on youtube. youre disingenious for choosing not to address this and putting 100% of the blame on the guy as you just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:25 AM
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When did I agree with you on anything? Your reading comprehension skills need work. You got all offended the second I used the word fat. Then tried to pretend like its cool as long as theres a punchline.. That tells everyone all they need to know Also can't even name comedians yet claim to value humor... Lol you're a joke, "my girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:16 AM
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You're not wrong. It's sad to see how many confused younger guys without the confidence and skill set are looking up to the red pillers like fresh and fit, Tate, etc. for advice on how to not be labeled a pushover, nice guy, or any of the other insults women use to try and emasculate men and label them unattractive. The Red pill community is literally the byproduct of that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:14 AM
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I've been drinking plenty of times and as an adult, would never even flirt with someone I'm not attracted to. Alcohol isn't an excuse to absolve you of your actions. The others person decision to drink or not is 100% irrelevant to you and your decision to associate with them. Now if someone tried to drug or do something illegal 100% blame on them but not socializing or trying to bed them in this case. This isn't an argument you can win by any means. Not legally, morally or in good faith at least…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:11 AM
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I appreciate you being logical enough to recognize the hypocrisy. ITS a fake way to appear virtuous lol guess thats why I took issue with it. I don't like fakeness. The sole purpose of it to try and create the perception of virtue that is non existent. Now if there was a bus and he pushed you out of the way but sacrificed himself that would be a different story. Anyhow that was my only issue
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:59 AM
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You're making a straw man. No one said an unfunny joke with no punchline should be deemed funny. No one even disputed that So to clarify, are you saying you find fat girl jokes funny as long as it's "clever" and there's a punchline?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:52 AM
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You just assume he'll tell anither girl and shell be toy cool with it. Lol the truth is 99% of women think like you and are turned off by that player lifestyle so naturally he's gonna lie since it's such a common turn off... Like c'mon let's use some common sense here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:49 AM
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Agree with most of that but I do have a couple points of contention. I think that attitude to "Be aN AsSerTivE MaN" and "not let anyone walk over me" gets taken to the extreme more often than not. A great example of this is on the road, and people speeding and cutting each other off because no one wants to be that guy that "gets taken advantage of by others" especially if they are driving with their wife or girl or whatever. Men are hyper aware of this now and this why so many look up to the ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:21 AM
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This is funny, you get offended by certain types of toilet/crude humor... But only when it attacks it pertains to you. Lol so only the crude toilet jokes that you deem "acceptable" are to be tolerated. Got it. Anyhow, I'd love to hear your most hilarious and favorite fart joke, that doesn't "cross your line" of being too offensive of course. This should be good 🍿🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:55 AM
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Because maybe that person doesn't like drinking and wants to meet girls? Why would it matter if youre sober or not? Very bizarre argument to assume you have to be drinking as well to socialize and chat up people. Drinking obviously makes it easier to chat uo/pick up girls but If you have courage and good social skills you can do it sober. Try it some time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:52 AM
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Do you honestly expect any guy to be honest or brag to you about the causal sex he's having!? Lol any experienced guy knows thats a turn off Not true at all. Most guy grow out of the stage and then want to settle down. Some earlier or later than others. I was one of those guys and now much rather spend a weekend doing something other than getting drunk at some bar with my girlfriend on a Friday night
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:47 AM
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Wow interesting, I guess I've never surrounded myself with such low Calibur/low quality people to even fathom someone like that. There's alot of sad guys/people out there though for sure. To the second point, you definitely go against the norm. Most women (probably 90%) what a guy to pick where and what to do on a first date. I was never talking about being married btw as obviously the leadership dynamics change. I'm mainly referring to new relationships or even first dates. Nearly every girl Iv…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:41 AM
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Alot of antiqueted ways of thinking should be challenged though. Obviously there's no harm in it but you shouldn't do things just because "that's how you were taught". A rational person always tries to look at things rationally and objectively
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:31 AM
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This is assuming you don't know. You just know he tries to hit on girls every weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:24 AM
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Can you name 3 comedians you find "witty" who exemplify the type of humor you find attractive? Should be easy if you have a good sense of humor yourself. I can name several
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:23 AM
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Ah ok, I'm curious now. I've literally never met one dude in my life who "wanted to be treated like a child" that's a super vague description Can you elaborate on what that looks like? Are you talking about someone who doesn't want to do chores or clean maybe? Or what exactly are some examples? Would love to know. So to the last sentence, would you say that a man picking where to eat for dinner is not leading? According to your reasoning, that should always be a "mutual decision". ALOT of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:19 AM
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How old are you? Ive noticed older women (over 33) tend to like the drinking buddies type people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:12 AM
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This seems to be split at least on a beta. Alot of these women redditors are obese and want an fully shave soy boy but simultaneously claim to want "non effeminate" I'd also like to ask what things make someone "effeminate". Cus I say I "dislike masculine women" then when you for an example I say "when women work, and don't clean". I'm genuinely curious to see if your definition of "effeminate" is reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:11 AM
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And how exactly are evaluating someone's charisma... This should be good 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:08 AM
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Everyone and there Uncle thinks they are "charismatic" so I'd like to know, how exactly are you defining charisma. And what makes someone "artsy"? Because I know 1000s of wannabe "artist" who look the part "long hair, stoner, finger paint, etc etc" all in an attempt to bolster their dating success. The truth is less than 1% of real carreer "artists" exist, the rest are fakers trying to improve their dating results. I'm talking every sound cloud artist, garbage band musician, kitchen table DJ, li…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:05 AM
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2 genuine questions, do you expect a guy to want a "dominant woman"? Do you yourself prefer a submissive or dominant man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:57 PM
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As a guy I think this is a respectable list minus the musk/conservative part. Sounds like you've been brainwashed into believing all conservatives are against women or something really dumb like that. That's the really the only reason you would ostracize literally half the country based on politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:55 PM
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What about fat pussy jokes? Would you judge a negativity for laughing at that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:53 PM
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Respectable list. What about a guy that spends most weekends at the bars with friends trying to hit on and pick up girls but does it sober?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:52 PM
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Respectable list tbh. I'd just say some of the male empowment stuff has good advice for giving guys confidence and financial tips which alot of men need to hear but ya alot of it is exaggerated
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:50 PM
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NGL I loled reading this. What are some examples of boundaries that would make a guy a "pushover"? Also what do you mean "let's you" walk on the street? Do you not have legs and a brain that tell you to be on the sidewalk. Should he also order your dinner for you to and tie your shoes and treat you like a baby? This is pretty amazing and I'm genuinely curious I can't imagine wanting someone to control where I walk, but maybe cus thats cus I'm a normal guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:48 PM
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What are some examples of "submissive", I'd love to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:42 PM
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So who are your top comedians? Every single redditor on tinder thinks they are "witty" then comes here to question why women don't find their goofy dorky comments funny. So my question to you can you name 3 comedians or give specific examples of what you define as "witty"? Alot of girls think those dorks on the big bang theory are "hilarious and witty" when most normal people disagree.. obviously there's a lot of subjectivity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:39 PM
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"too traditional and feels like they should lead" " Effeminate" Alot of women would say not leading IS effeminate. So my question to you is how are you defining effeminate?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:35 PM
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So what if they have everything but a small social circle? I know plenty of people who have a big supposed social circles which in reality is just a bunch of drinking buddies who leverage each to try and show they have "social proof" Does that make them more attractive in your eyes than a dude who doesn't drink and has a couple close friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:29 PM
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Someone gets it. It's also great for bars who rake in a fortune charging $15 for a drink I can make at my house for 75 cents.. I agree and would add it's usually not fun socializing with random drunk people when you're dead sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:21 PM
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Yes but there's better ways to destress than to drink. Weed for instance is a better method
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:03 AM
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Dude your IQ is so low holy crap You do realize being buzzed is effect of self induced poisoning as well... If you think the average person doesn't drink to get buzzed youre even lower IQ than I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:44 AM
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Most of those guys end up with throat cancer at 50 genius...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:42 AM
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I get laid plenty using online game. Keep poisoning yourself tho with liquor
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:52 PM
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You can learn enjoy the live music without the beer. But society as a whole cant
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:27 AM
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Consuming mercury and other toxic metals in "moderation" won't technically kill you immediately earlier, doesn't mean it's a good idea Why do people feel the need to drink to enjoy those things though, that's the real question. Also google it, you're body isn't meant to metabolism poison
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:25 AM
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Using that nihilistic logic you should eat Cheetos and donuts all day since you'll die one day anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:21 AM
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That's like going to a casino to sit around and not gamble... Or going to a horse track to watch the races and not bet. If you're not engaging in the activity that the venue is intended for, it feels a bit lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:18 AM
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As if I care? You're probably an overweight sub 5 feminist so your opinion is pretty irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:39 PM
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Wrong. My life is very stable other than my dating life. Men can play the field throughout their 20s and early 30s and be just fine. The same can't be said for women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:19 AM
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Yea man. I banged like well over a 150 girls now and have quite a bit of experience as well. It's annoying that I have to constant disgaree with them and be aloof about my carreer and mysterious about a bunch of other stuff in order to not "kill" the attraction. It's only American girls that do this. When I go to mexico, south America or Europe they don't play these games or lose attraction for you being a stable good guy. The problem is in the US there are so many stable normal dudes that alot …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:45 PM
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Wow thats a low blow trying to get personal here, anyhow I'll ignore that and address your argument and assume youre even capable of having an actual discussion without personal attacks or going mental.. My social IQ and mental stability is high enough to not associate... let alone STAY IN a DAMN Relationship with someone who is quote "abusing me"!! It's so frustrating to hear people constantly justify and play the blame for sticking with an SO who is mentally draining them in a relationship. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:49 AM
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You just conflated "nice" with being "generous" though. And it's confusing for guys because alot of women EXPECT to be treated out especially on a first date and then hold it against you if you let them pay. There's endless of women detailing how they play this game. I've put my foot down though and don't even buy drinks for girls on first dates now and the funny thing it definitely hasnt changed anything. Ultimately the connection is and should be the only decision factor, not your desire to pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:34 AM
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That's exactly what it is. You could have left but you chose to stay on your own accord. I bet if he was "too nice" you would have left a lot quicker but you decided to reward "abuse" by staying... It's sick you chose that when you could have left
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:19 AM
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Let's hear a couple examples of things a guy has said or done where you deemed him to be " a doormat/too nice".. This should be good 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:52 AM
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Let's hear a couple examples of things a guy has said or done where you deemed him to be " a doormat/too nice".. This should be good 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:52 AM
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Let's hear a couple examples of things a guy has said or done where you decide he is " too nice".. This should be good 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:51 AM
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You should be smart enough to leave the SECOND you get physical or mental abuse. Grow up and stop blaming others for you allowing the abuse to continue! I am so sick of people who complain about this instead of just leaving ones. Zero respect for you, I would leave instantly and you have the power to leave too. Grow up already
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:49 AM
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What's your most far left position?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:21 AM
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Ok fair but let's say you were single and the person in question was very physically attractive. Would that change your answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:46 AM
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Liberal as in Joe Biden/Clinton support or moderate? Cus I see a lot of normal guys being moderate (myself included) but def not an SJW liberal. There's tiers to this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:22 PM
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Um no. Unless you know their ex or a direct family member there's no way you can how they act behind closed doors or if there faithful. That's false and very faulty logic to follow. And what things could be "off" about someone talking and interacting with other people? Sounds a bit like discrimination against certain people or something the way you put it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:53 PM
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Yes if it works, that's great. Although I can't see limiting yourself to the 10-20 people in your chess club or math club an effective strategy for most people looking for a high quality connection. No your standards for personality/who you would date are low while your criteria for where you'd want to initially meet is very high and strangely narrow. It should be the other way around where you'd be open to meeting them wherever but the personality requirements go beyond "being nice to others at…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:34 PM
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That's preciously my disagreement. You've convinced yourself you'll have a better understanding of someone's charecter simply because they associate in a class or club your in. That's a confirmation bias/phasad and I can assure you it's not reflective of reality. The familiarity aspect just makes you FEEL more secure about them but in reality, you're not actually able to screen them better than anyone else. It's literally your brain playing a trick on you, but I know sometimes it can tough to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:07 PM
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Yes but concisder this. It's not that you're trying to date all of that 99.999%, it's that your closed off from even meeting anyone in that 99.999% which is where you may find the best connection. You're limiting your search much more narrowily than it needs to be find a solid connection (I'm assuming that's the goal). It sounds like you've been traumatized by a bad cold approach experience which I'm sorry to hear but again I can assure you that you wont gain that much useful insight into someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:32 PM
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I guess the first part is what I take issue with. It's very very silly to assume you know about a persons life and morals just because you met them at your charity club/class or are acquainted with your friend suzy or whatever. That's a huge confirmation bias wall that will only ultimately be a detriment to finding a solid long term partner. You don't seem to realize that talking to someone for 10 minutes once at a week at some class/club isn't actually "getting to know them" as you claim. I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:22 PM
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You just make it seem like they are asking you to get married or something. Someone cold approaching isnt trying to marry you, they just want to get to know better and it seems silly to discount them just because they didn't first meet you at your charity club/class or are acquainted with your friend suzy or whatever. You don't seem to realize that talking to someone for 10 minutes once at a week at some class/club isn't actually "getting to know them" as you claim. This is what I take issue wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:14 PM
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Did you really downvote me? Lame Also meeting someone at school or that has 1 similar interest as you doesn't mean you will have a good connection. That's faulty logic on multiple levels and your discounting 99% of the population using that dating strategy. Seems extremely counter intuitive if you're single and looking for a solid relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:04 PM
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Ok but why is meeting someone through that club better than a cold approach? Just because you have 1 similar interest doesn't mean you will have a better connection or get along better. I'm not understanding why so many people seem to want to discount 99% of the population simply over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:02 PM
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Let's also keep in mind we have no idea what these women look like. Most are jaded blue haired feminist and I'd guess the overwhelming majority are overweight and thus bitter. This community probably doesn't provide the best sample
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:18 AM
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Sounds like that's your insecurity taking over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:16 AM
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So where do you expect to meet men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:16 AM
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You knew each other 10 years before in high school? You must live in a small town I'm guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:15 AM
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But they turn on you on more than ultra skinny feminized soy boys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:12 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I was thinking the same while reading. The funny thing is all the dumb blue hair pudgy feminist secretly are turned on by the anti SJW and trumpers. They just have to pretend otherwise to protect their rep
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:12 AM
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So outside of volunteering what are examples of some "clubs" you're in
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:09 AM
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Don't you think you're severely limiting your options with this mentality? Also are those strangers not cold approaching you in those "social events" you speak of? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:06 AM
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What don't you like about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:02 AM
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To be honest, that seems totally unreasonable and like a bad strategy considering you'll be missing on 1000s of potentially high quality options you could have a great connection with. There's also scales for how much this "friend of a friend" is connected. They could just be a mild acquaintance of someone you know which obviously doesn't prove much about their charecter at all if any Guess it comes down to your priorities. If you prioritize someone you work or goes to your school above all else…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:59 AM
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This doesn't even make sense. Everyone is "stranger" as you put it when you initially meet. Do you mean you say you wouldn't consider dating someone who wasnt initially referred to you by a friend or family member? Those are two very different things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:43 PM
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You're also transformer soo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:14 AM
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"Friends or acquaintances" And where did you met these friend's and acquaintances exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:51 PM
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Oh look everyone, we have a bitter femcel on our hands
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:48 PM
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Very legit!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:43 PM
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No. The standards they have for OLD ar either sure but it's foolish to anyones gonna settle for a lower option IRL when they have better options online.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:10 AM
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Very well said. This just backs my theory that online is a much better ROI than in person, but a lot of guys seem to have it be reversed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:43 AM
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The thing is women are out to secure the best relationship they can. Online dating and social media has given them (as the buyers in the dating marketplace) access to options they would have never been able to have pre Internet It's a gamble since most men of higher caliber are more picky and less likely to commit however the majority of women are willing to take the risk. What's happening is women age 18-30 are squandering their youth gambling and hedging their bets in order to secure a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:41 AM
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Most people say that on here to dudes that complain about being single. Women are told the world is the problem, not them when posting the same thing. Ive seen it too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:13 AM
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Yes but now that we know how bad it is to your health. Generations before didn't know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:59 AM
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Blue collar and overweight women aka prefer blue collar and overweight men aka "country". Probably for the best tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:06 AM
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So you like people who drink liquid wheat and have low grade gut inflammation? The lack of intelligence of some people never seize to amaze me. At least the Gen Z is aware and doesn't follow the boomer diet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:04 AM
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Yep they are dangers to the community tbh. Need to be stopped
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:42 AM
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Alot of redditors are slow OP and can't understand abstract concepts like market value, etc. Your post was very clear
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:40 AM
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Glad you agree 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:39 AM
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You're naive to think the average joe can afford to be that picky In a dating market filled with obese and overweight women. They need to cast a wide net to find the right girl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:53 AM
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At first I was wondering what you were confused about. The op was very clear... Then I remembered overweight feminist can't comprehend logic and reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:51 AM
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men wanting to date busty women is "gross"? Do you even know the meaning of gross? I don't think you realize you how childish and naive you sound to adults
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:49 AM
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That mean that as long as your over 6" with 5" girth. Sucks if you have bad girth or bad length
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:47 AM
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Pretty obvious you're a wimpy and sissy beta male who is jealous of men who actually have success with women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:45 AM
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Nope. 80% of my bumble/tinder likes are overweight or obese. An even smaller percent are normal, cool, and well adjusted. The dating prospects for men these days are absolutely sickening
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:38 AM
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And yet they created an app where women SEND lame opening messages 99% of the time..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:37 AM
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Obviously. That's a them problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:22 AM
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Often it will take some vetting before realizing that. The vetting process for a decent girlfriend can often take months and every guy has a different length of time for this. Stop jumping to conclusions about peoples motives and maybe you'll be happier
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:04 PM
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You missed the whole point. You can't determine someone's "intentions" as they are subject to change throughout the course of an interaction. Chastising men for being "serial fukboys" just cus none of the girls live up to their relationship standards is a YOU problem. Work on yourself before trying to blame others
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:40 AM
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Your argument just got 10000x dumber. There aren't hot girls in every social scene wtf not even close. Just because you think you're the "leader" of your bjj club doesnt mean you are and doesn't mean any hot girls will care about your self proclaimed "status" in said group. Very cringe of you to thinl otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:37 AM
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This is so wrong. I could be interested in relationship with a girl and then she does something to change that. It's very simple
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:49 AM
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Horrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:41 PM
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When did I say that? It's fine to fine to date if she's only been in ltrs. Meaning more than 3 years. If she had a string of casual relationships or was single more than a year forget it she's 304
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:12 PM
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Yep this is why it's so important to vet and not take girls seriously who use tinder. Also if she was single for more than 1 year, chances are she's a 304 and you should never get serious with her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:02 AM
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So list some of them out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:10 AM
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Lol bingo. You just exposed the hypocrisy. So anytime a woman has a set of morals they are masculine. Lol it's amazing how terrible people are at understanding words and abstract concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:08 AM
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Please tell me how you evaluate a mans "unwaivering confidence" during a 1 hour coffee date. I'd love to know Also implying men can't work to be more confident/"masculine" since in your opinion they "just are". Does this attitude apply towards women. Are some women "just feminine" and others are "just not"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:07 AM
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Most guys don't want to date chubby out of shape women that's why. Not enough slender in shape girls to go around for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:12 PM
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Zerka/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:27 AM
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Many girls have told me my personality is great and I close the majority of my online dates when meeting up so it's definitely not that. Also I live in a major US city, so that changes things from your situation. Slot more competition where im at than where you live. I'm competing with legit young good looking millionaires who are on a pussy quest. Women have 100x the options here than where you live so that also adds to the difficulty in my city There's also no way to quantify personality. Ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:25 PM
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So then please explain why I do amazing online. Close 80% of my dates, girls are extremely attracted. But If I go to the bars or clubs in person, I barely get any attention orinterest and the random girls I meet are much bitchier and gravitate towards the best looking and tallest guys in the bar/club. Pls explain
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:02 PM
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It's called a lawsuit and happens to millions of men all over the country. There lives are destroyed cus some girl cried wolf cus he tried kissing her and she didn't like him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:22 AM
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This is such an antiqued way to think. Why tf would any dude provide for you financially In 2023 when you're able to get a job and make as much (if not more) than the average guy. That made sense 100 years ago when times were different, not now. I also don't need you cooking and cleaning. I make very good money and have a roborock vacuum to clean every few days (it works well) and I cook my own meals or just go to healthy restaurants. not that hard to do.. the idea this brings "tremendous value"…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:16 AM
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Why tf would anyone guy pay financial support when women are self proclaimed boss men making the same salary as men? Pls explain Also define "emotional supoort". Most guys are simps and more than happy to sit around and hear you whine about your work and problems. Again would love to hear some elaboration
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:40 AM
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The Elsa popular apps are even harder since they have even less female users and even more bottom of the barrell tier dudes thinking they can be creative by leveraging their options outside the standard dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:38 AM
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How could it "reek of desperation" if no one knows. Not like you have to tell girls So weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:36 AM
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Lol just demolished this commented twisted logic with this statement. Well done sir
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:52 AM
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This is a poor attempt at defining selection bias. The idea that any girl who goes on dating podcast for fun 1 time, is some major deviation from the "average girl" is ridiculous for many reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:51 AM
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She's coping and says she's know in her town as the "target booger girl" 😂😂 It's amazing the mental gymnastics women will go through to justify why attractive dudes aren't into them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:43 AM
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Bingo!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:42 AM
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I can bridge the gap. It's average but the problem most normal weight guys don't want to date overweight chicks so that leaves a small percent of healthy in shape women left in the dating pool that all guys are competing after
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:38 AM
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So why would a guy be interested in a girl who goes out to bars and clubs with her friends and gets 10x attention
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:31 AM
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They don't mind the attention from average looking guys most of the time. Simps boost their egos
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:29 AM
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Overweight people should be banned from having sex till they lose weight
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:12 AM
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Basically you want him to be a Chad with many options.. but not exercise those options. Such a bizarre requirement considering there's many trash girls that chase bum losers who run club game every weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:25 PM
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Just because you haven't heard it on CNN doesn't mean it's not happening. Ive heard about it and seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:40 PM
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You're extremely uninformed Short men are treated worse by police, employers, women. People need to raise awareness just like all the whales did for discrimination against fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:21 PM
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Anyone who goes around calling thing dumb without leaving s rebuttal, is almost always very dumb themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:15 PM
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Better than the "man child" husband who "can't buy gifts" trope 🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:17 AM
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2, 3, 1 and 7 in that order
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:28 AM
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Another great point. What are the quality of the women who hold these weird arbitrary height standards. We need a large scale study
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:26 AM
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Well said op. She just admitted her own bias then immediately tried to downplay it. Im only 5'11 but male height discrimination is very real and needs to be addressed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:25 AM
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Isnr very private lol Bragging to others about being"dominant" doesn't make you dominant. Again I'd love to hear some examples of what you think constitutes "being dominant" Alot of women tend to conflate dominance with arrogance and controlling. I'd love to hear your interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:56 AM
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No because she probably has high looks standard if she's a legit 7.5+/10 and wouldn't feel the need to settle for less than her ideal. A 7.5+ Is also relatively rare so these girls have plenty of options
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:45 AM
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Please explain what makes this one guy "bdsm style" and "dominant" with examples. Lol this should be good
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:42 AM
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Yep height discrimination against short men is 100x more prevalnt than racial discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:39 AM
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Exactly that is a moron. Too delusional to realize how unrealistic and dumb that comparison was lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:37 AM
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Also 40% of women on tinder are in relationships. Check the stats. Alot of these women dating manlets are settling or cheating. Wish it wasn't the case but it is and these women need to be shamed for it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:36 AM
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And how tall are you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:31 AM
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"people" as in who? Women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:27 AM
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It's amazing how many baseless assumptions you just made in post. Also you forgot the part that many men simply lose motivation and will due to their wives becoming fat whales
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:07 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:31 AM
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Lol nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:06 PM
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That's how it already is. Guys who chase women above their league are already getting cheated on the majority of the time cus the women doesn't value or respect him as much. About 40% of women on tinder are in relationships like this and chest. (that's a verifiable statistic you can google)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:35 PM
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This sounds like pure cope. Women have free choice to go after who they want to. I know MANY women that do (my sister) and are successful as a result. It just takes confidence and putting your ego aside, something most women are too egoistical to do. There's no "societal force" turning men off. It sounds like the guys you cold approach may not be into you (nothing to do with you approaching them) and you're using "society" as the cope. Literally no guy I've ever met in my entire life has said th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:54 AM
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Ok so by that logic why don't you chase and cold approach men more often since it gives you so much "power and control"? I fundamentally disagree with your assertion but it's a fair argument to make. Buyers are generally in the driver's seat, not sellers in most transactions. But using your logic, shouldn't women be cold approaching men at an equal rate since it gives them so much power and control? Seem like it would be in their interest to do so according to you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:23 AM
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Sources? Women actually cheat more in the relationships where the man chased them and put them on a pedestal as a prize
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:18 AM
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And would you say that is a good path for men to take? Would you advocate your brother or son to take the path of marrying their first girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:16 AM
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Why are you assuming that chasing has anything to do with "control"? Seems like a bizarre thing to say. Do you really not think both parties (men and women) have equal control of the relationship regardless of who chased who? If anything being the one chasing means you have LESS control so your entire argument is weak. Also you say "the way things are set up". Can you elaborate on how things are set up. I'd love to know You also say that women "making their own choices is likely to backfire." Ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:11 AM
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I'm talking in general obviously. There's a lot of research to show people who received positive reinforcement during adolescence from the opposite gender for being physically attractive, generally have less mental disorders on average. Moreso with women. There is for sure a general correlations (the majority of the time) with a woman's looks and her mental health. Welcome to earth. Google it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:08 AM
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Obviously chasing someone is a byproduct of being attracted to them. My point is alot of women WONT chase or approach because they want to protect their fragile little egos and want to have all the leverage in the dating game. The don't realize it's natural for them to chase superior men. Hypergamy is the natural order of evolution and has led to many genetic advancements over the past several millennials. We don't hold it against them or look down on women for chasing like women do for most men…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:03 AM
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Lol your dumb rant just contradicted your point. I could go on a pseudo intellectual rant about why that girl curvy body is attractive from a biological standpoint. You're infatuation with height is just as shallow as a mans infactuation with curvy bodies, pettiness, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:57 AM
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You can't reason with people like her who go through shifting blame on others and constantly painting themselves as the victim in every scenerio man. She's a lost cause
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:50 AM
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Two questions for you. Do you expect a man to pursue you? Approximately how many times have you asked a man out on a date first?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:41 AM
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Please explain how social norms are "set up" for the male preferences. I'd say it's the exact opposite. I do agree men should take action. Do you think women should employ that same strategy and go after who they want as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:37 AM
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Women want to shoot up and chase men above them, not lower their standards and date some one below them. They just like the validation from men below them so they encourage men as a society to "try and court them"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:31 AM
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Yes. Women enjoy chasing men more attractive then them and ultimately treat those guys better. American men need to stop chasing women and start framing themselves as the prize. Get in shape, gymmaxx, have a bunch of options, money, etc instead of settling for land whales like they are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:28 AM
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Definitely. My point is men think it's common for them to "win over" the girl when it should be the other way around. Relationships are more successful when women fight for men above their league and the guy has his pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:24 AM
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Right so my point is you are more attracted to those men you chased rathee than the ones who chased you and viewed you as the prize. Men should make themselves the prize more often so women chase them and they have the leverage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:22 AM
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Yes but I'm saying it's more natural for women to make the chase men they deem superior to them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:19 AM
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I mean making the first move and following up with that person. I call that chasing but maybe you have a better term for it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:18 AM
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"feeling the need to chase down affection" This is a straw man. No one said anything about chasing down affection. going after what you want' is a measurement of confidence if anything. It takes confidence to go after what you want, whether man or woman. I'm sure you wouldnt call a man chasing a woman "insecure" so maybe you can explain why it's insecure when a girl does it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:31 AM
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I'm talking secure and attractive women (who generally don't have mental disorders like a lot of the less pretty and mentally insecure ones)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:08 AM
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It shows a good deal of interest and intent to cold approach
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:06 AM
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Moreso in friends group, social media, work, etc. Girls rarely cold approach at bars/clubs unless you're top 5%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:05 AM
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Lol traditional but not for anyone else but you? Can you please explain what constitutes "traditional"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:03 AM
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I've been cold approached and chased by girls on IG and at bars and know a lot of guys who have married and taken women throwing themselves at them. It's pretty common outside of reddit actually
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:46 AM
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I'd make the argument that women subconsciously lust harder for guys when they are required to chase as a result. Men don't operate this way. A girl doesn't become more attractive who wants us to chase her, it's just seen as high maintenance and annoying. women DO however like the chasing those who they find to be above their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:41 AM
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If it was legalized you wouldn't have to pay 2000k for a 7/10 Becky. Her prices would be dictated by the market
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:57 AM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:55 AM
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How exactly are measuring "humor and wit" Are you the type that finds reddit humor "witty and funny" Cus imo it's cringe AF and wit and humor is entirely subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:32 AM
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I can already tell you have a bad personality and mentally draining to be around. Lol makes sense why your single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:48 PM
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The problem isnt that all untaken men clowns The problem you're overweight and probably ugly and that's why no guy "worth a damn" wants anything to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:19 PM
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What an insanely dumb comment. The critieria for donating sperm is to not be dieseased, have a college education, white and over 6 ft? You're a moron if you think that makes someone "high quality"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:17 PM
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You seem to put a lot of blame on others. Maybe the problem is you, your personality and your level of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:15 PM
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Well said. Women (and many people in general) have a tough time discerning confidence from arrogance. Pretending to know or be good at something when you lack experience can be construed as "confidence." Being too dumb to understand your limitations and employ restraint can be easily be "construed as "confidence". The whole idea that "confidence" is the basis of a "good personality" is irresponsible and lacks nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:03 PM
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Yes op they've done studies. Men of ALL ages find women 18-24 the most attractive and that NEVER changes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:58 PM
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Lol exactly. The levels of cope are legit insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:57 PM
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Society tells and expected men to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:46 PM
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YES. I'd lose attraction and can't be in a relationship anymore. Any normal guy would feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:52 AM
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You're slow man. Keeping hot girls around you as "friends" is a constant reminder to your girl you have a high sexual market value and have options should things not work out. Can't believe I actually had to explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:09 PM
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It's unhealthy (your doctor lied sorry) and looks grotesque more than anything. Sorry to break it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:31 AM
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Exactly. You need to constantly send a subtle reminder to western women that they are easily replaceable. They have been conditioned to play games with men and in constantly looking for ways to scrutinize and evaluate your sexual market value.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:10 PM
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Exactly. Being "safe" can easily be seen as boring depending on the girl. Most girls actually aren't attracted to safe guy. Unfortunately women reward bad behavior and enable the cycle of degeneracy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:08 PM
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Well 8+ are tough to set up dates with since they have 200+ chads in their inbox and are probably in contact with maybe 4-5 out of those 200. You have to be the best of the best to get dates lined up with them and have to be on your A game during the date to close. Ñogistic wise is tougher too since most the really hot girls want to meet out in public first so having then come straight over is more difficult. What happens is alot of top tier dudes who want a quick lay end up going after 5-6/10 s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:05 PM
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~3% are chads and ~7% Chad lites
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:06 PM
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keep coping incel. My jaw is very strong and similar to the guy in the OP. You can't even see my nose either you dumb incel. I'm also 6'4. Nice try tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:32 PM
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Hypothetical, Lol! Love how betas/Incels can't help but deny good looking and successful guys are out there doing great with girls. I'm getting 200 likes a day (posted proof on my profile), meanwhile guys like you are grateful to 1 like from a fat girl once a week Keep coping and living in delusional tho thinking its an even playing field, whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:25 AM
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"relationships"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:06 AM
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Spoken like a true incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:04 AM
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I have high standards for sure I'm just saying it's more competitive than you think even for chads. There's more legit chads on these apps than you want to imagine. Competition on the USA is just crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:43 AM
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No they can't because the top 5% of women are bombarded with 10000s of actual quality Chads and Chad lites. It's still extremely competitive even as a Chad. Sources: I'm in "top picks" on bumble and hinge so like .5%. I've talked with girls about this after smashing. You can't fathom how competitive online dating has become
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:12 AM
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No high value dude with options is attracted to "big" girls just fyi. They all just want a quick lay till something better pops up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:10 AM
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Yep the marketplace determines all that and tends to unfold as it should. These los IQ copecels on Reddit can live in delusional about their looks, personality, etc. Worn change much
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:08 AM
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Everyone thinks they have a non shit personality. Plus trying to measure someone's "personality" is too abstract of a metric to even quantity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:53 PM
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There's a giant difference between sexual chemistry and sexual lust. Not gonna explain it to but your confusing the two so thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:23 AM
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I'm sure your lesbian dance theory degree is making you a fortune. Ps, i work in medical sales, no degree, and probably make 3x your salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:18 AM
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Lol how do you differentiate sexual chemistry from sexual lust? It sounds like you're conflating the two. By your own definition, I could say I have "strong sexual chemistry" with every girl I want to fuck who also wants to fuck me back. Lust isn't logical/tangible either. It's so funny when girls use buzzwords like this without really knowing what they are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:08 AM
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Lol another dumb comment. You literally made it a point to refer to "Loki as a charecter, not the actor" so my point was based off that... Can't believe I have to explain that lol Anyhow, your point is still bizarre. Loki is about equally as clever as thor therefor they should be equally attractive, since that seems to be your top criteria for attractiveness. (yes I get they're moviec charecters.) you're entire methodology of evaluating a guys charecter/personality seems pretty flawed and unreal…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:59 AM
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You're probably conventionally unattractive yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:48 AM
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How about big nose and ugly smile? Are those traits attractive to you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:46 AM
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Everyone has a personality so that's not saying much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:42 AM
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I'd love to get your definition on "sexual chemistry" what factors aside from looks indicate to your brain there is "chemistry"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:41 AM
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Your attacking him without realizing how dumb your previous post just was. You claim Loki has an "actual personality" comparing him to Thor, as if Thor has no personality. Loki is a villain and narcissist yet you seem to think that equals "personality." Your logic is so flawed it's pretty funny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:38 AM
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Bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:34 AM
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Not true. Plenty of "chads" banging 5/10 Becky's on dating apps. This is why even obese women are instantly bombarded with 10000 likes on day 1 of downloading these apps. Statistically there's tons of chads who are looking for an easy lay with a 3/10 let alone a 5/10 so no clue what you're talking about that "such thing isn't possible". That's pure nonsense. I'd be considered a "Chad" by conventional standards and am happy to bang 5.5/10 as long as she was slender with a nice body. Her face does…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:30 AM
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