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stell4rbe4m/r/ExRedPill13/09/16 08:54 PM
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stell4rbe4m/r/ExRedPill01/05/17 01:48 AM
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"Women choose the wrong guys". Haha who should they choose then? Should they get with so called MGTOWs that claim to be nice men that can't get laid but talk shit about women? I think you need to look around at different relationships. The vast majority of women are not in a relationship with a 6'2 millionaire Chad. The vast majority of men are not with women who look like Adriana Lima. Most are with average looking people because they themselves are average. You can't expect to look like a trol…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/17 04:32 PM
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And? Women are just as critiqued, and maybe even more so. The beauty/plastic surgery industries are mostly marketed to women, telling them that they need the latest procedure or beauty item because they're not good enough as is. Everyone that isnt the ideal super model (which doesn't even exist btw) goes through this. Not only short men are looked down upon. Every one has standards for who they want to interact with. There's nothing wrong with that. 5'6 men aren't owed a pity flirt.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/17 02:42 PM
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Wasn't ER short as fuck yet still killed women? Great logic you got there. Any guy can kill anyone. Just because you're shorter doesn't make you any less of a threat. What you don't understand is CONSENT. Fantasy rape sex is not forced sex. Its consensual sex. As long as both partners are willing to partake in a rape fantasy its consensual. Women can be in pain as long as there is a safe word and consent to being in a vulnerable position. Your girlfriend WANTED to you to slap her and spit on her…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/17 01:43 PM
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Men need to earn their place in women's lives, especially if they plan on getting married/having children with them. Eggs are expensive and being pregnant is extremely taxing on a woman's body. Woman screen to be as sure as they can be that they man they choose is reliable and won't just up and leave them. Besides, its mostly men that pursue the women. They approach her because they see something they want from her whether it be attention or sex. If a man does not fulfill the standards she has f…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/17 01:38 PM
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Agreed. I've talked to so many women that hve been abandoned by their partners. I even know of two men tht fathered children outside of the marriage without the wives knowing. Also 3 women a day die at the hands of men due to domestic violence. Those are just reported numbers in the US. I would imagine the numbers are much higher in other countries. Women bear the brunt of domestic violence yet they still take the risk of being involved with men. Men can't have sex and they cry. Boohoo. Men are …
/r/ExRedPill09/06/17 07:20 AM
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Scattered thoughts. Nobody owed ER sex or affection. Women do not owe men ANY sex or affection at all. Men have to earn it. Instead of being bitter about it (which means they feel entitled without having some anything to earn it) men can do something to improve their chances. ER killed people because he couldn't get laid. So are women supposed to have sex with desperate lonely men to avoid their emotional tantrums ? Um.. No. MGTOW are just a bunch of babies claiming they're walking one way while…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/17 07:09 AM
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I agree (ish) but my point is that men don't HAVE to have sex everyone that crosses their path just because. and that is what red pill pushes that I disagree with (among most things). they try to hve sex with every girl they can because they only see girls as sex objects but then whine about only being seen as cash cows by girls. It's merely a projection. They will never be happy with that mentality.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/17 02:24 PM
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I hate this "spreading your seed" bit I always hear red pillers spout ... Evolutionarily you have to take care of your offspring in order for them to reach mature age so they can reproduce too (if you want to get technical) so your DNA can actually be passed down. It's not about fucking a bunch of people. "Spreading your seed" is bullshit narrative and an excuse to act as an r type while expecting women to be k type. If red pillers were really into that they would have as many kids as possible b…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/17 12:58 PM
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I'm not saying you are, I'm saying I don't know you (nor does any girl that's just barely meeting you) and you MIGHT BE. And if youre giving creepy ass sexist vibes, that's not gonna make a girl want to hang out with you especially since theyre already weary of being assaulted. Don't make it worse for yourself by being a sexist pig, is what im trying to say. Respect woman as people and watch your life flourish. Treat them/think of them as subhuman and you will live in misery your whole life. Goo…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 01:45 AM
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who knows you might be, you might not be. Woman's worst fear when going on a date is the man turning out to be a serial killer. Man's worst fear is the woman turning out to be fat. Do with that info what you want.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 01:28 AM
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haha if it is sex based then good luck with your endeavors but youre going to crash and burn. Youre looking at the trends you want to see. Open your eyes. Did you know that 3 woman a day are killed by their partners? Woman have every reason to thoroughly evaluate the person theyre dating and if they can tell that youre a shitty sexist, youre going to run into some problems. You know what, with how you think about women you don't deserve to be in a relationship with one. If you really do think wo…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 01:23 AM
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I see. I think youre thinking about relationships in a very check list way. youre just looking to check off boxes in what the other person has to offer you without making personality/chemistry an important factor too. I can be wrong but that's what it seems like to me. You don't see woman as equals and that is definitely coming across to them which is why they leave you. Maybe you don't realize it but the way you say things or maybe certain ways you phrase things, even joking around, can come ac…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/17 12:31 AM
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You talk a lot about what YOU want but are you even deserving of that? What I mean is do you think a woman that has had low sexual partner count, has a good career and wants to be a mom would go for someone like you? It just seems like you want a certain person without thinking about if this type of person would want you back. feel me?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/17 11:50 PM
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I appreciate that. Thank you for your contribution to exrp. I know he's actually decent person, just unfortunately got caught up in this stuff. I wish he would read this sub, but even if he does I know its a tough mentality to forget. Good luck with everything.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/17 07:27 PM
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Anyone would be bothered by a lie. You're just extremely paranoid. And i agree, if she was truly lying about that she would've come clean by now so I really think you should drop it. I'll tell you this much. IMO its hard to find someone that you connect with mentally, that you're physically attracted to, that shares similar values with you. Cue abundance mentality bullshit obviously you should never be hung up on one person and think theres no one else in the world, but fuck if you find someone …
/r/ExRedPill31/03/17 06:27 PM
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Its really ironic that red pill men are always paranoid about being manipulated when they are the ones always manipulating women into sleeping with them or seeing them as some super alpha macho male (not saying you do that). Its just a projection of the self. If you don't play any games why would you assume she does? Most people do not and if they do they're just immature. If you don't behave this way, she probably won't either. Assuming any underlying motives is just plain silly. Besides what w…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/17 05:59 PM
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Wow you guys have been together for awhile. Tbh I think breaking up would be for the best, for you both. You need to do some personal growth. Do you feel like you love yourself? Insecurity and lack of being able to trust stems from not believing you're worthy of love/trust.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/17 05:27 PM
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Have you ever considered professional help? Like a psychologist or something. Maybe they can help you work through your insecurities and issues. Trust is THE fundamental component of all successful relationships (romantic or platonic). If you don't have that, you don't have anything. TRP is so fucking toxic because it teaches you not to trust women at all, for anything. You're denigrating her integrity by being so untrusting of her, especially when she hasn't done anything to deserve it. If you …
/r/ExRedPill31/03/17 04:19 PM
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You're better off winning the lottery than hoping someone will change. You absolutely need stability and emotional intelligence in a partner and if he isn't providing that now what makes you think it's gonna get better? You can't ignore the red flags and your gut instinct. It's a million times better to be alone than with someone who doesn't value you or respect you. Don't think of it as a loss, there's always something to learn from relationships. I really think you should end it. Better 9 year…
/r/ExRedPill07/03/17 10:11 PM
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I can see where his paranoia stems from. His father is twice divorced, his mom is a lesbian and has a partner, his step brother knocked up some crazy chick. He told me he felt like a pet in his first relationship cause his ex pretty much called all the shots. I can totally see why he is attracted to the red pill cult. He feels like a victim in the world. Smh.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/17 04:47 PM
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Hey ! Girl here. These are just some of my thoughts. I kinda dated a red piller so I've thought about these things a lot, hopefully some of it will resonate with you. The crux of a stable, healthy relationship is trust. So red pillers, by default, will never experience a stable, healthy relationship because they believe in AWALT. Not only do they NOT trust women, but they don't want to be vulnerable. Lack of vulnerability means that you'll never be your true self or express your deepest dreams, …
/r/ExRedPill03/03/17 06:29 AM
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I too (very casually) dated a red piller. I found out he was into this stuff when I scrolled through the ppl he was following on twitter and saw Roosh and Gaylube whatever. I noticed that he was extremelyyyy insecure. He obsessed over his height (he was like 5'11 not really that short) and checked out other dudes to see if he was more muscular. Or at least thats what it seemed like. He also said some weird shit. Like in front of his mom he said "hey mom (my name) is gonna move in, she's gonna do…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/17 06:10 AM
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This was a really great post! It gives me hope for other red pill guys. I don't think they're inherently bad people, they just believe some pretty shitty things (I guess due to low self esteem). Would you say you got sucked into RP because you were a hopeless romantic ?
/r/ExRedPill17/10/16 02:07 PM
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Hey BigAngryDinosaur! I always enjoy reading your comments on this subreddit so I appreciate you taking the time to write to me. I've been trying to stop lurking the subreddits and RP twitter accounts but I can't seem to help it at times. Its like that bad car accident that you just can't look away from. Recently I've been making more of a conscious effort to NOT look, but sometimes its like second nature to type in Red Pill or MGTOW into the search bar. Will work on that. Completely agree with …
/r/ExRedPill15/09/16 08:26 PM
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I try to tell myself that RP men are just a drop in the ocean but I guess its affected me so much because my father is shallow with regards to looks as well and I've been aware of this since I was really young. Something that affected me a lot was a remark he made about an overweight lady crossing the street and he wondered (out loud) why any one would marry her. I know that looks are only part of attraction towards someone, but RP kinda solidified a lot of the things that I had grown up with du…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/16 07:11 PM
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That's a good way to look at it! Focusing on your goals achievements. Sometimes I want to kick myself because of how much RP has infiltrated how I feel about my career choice. I want to be a medical doctor and since reading RP I worry about how old I'll be when I graduate and family life, blah blah blah. So stupid of me. Thanks for posting!
/r/ExRedPill14/09/16 07:04 PM
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I'm avoidant attachment so I never wanted to ask what we were. I have my own commitment/trust issues and I know that my fear of expressing my feelings did not help the situation. I should've been mature and nipped any insecurities I had with him in the bud, but I didn't. Big learning experience for me. I am more than just my looks but I'm looking at it from the perspective of how MEN would perceive my value. I know that beauty value decreases overtime and men (at least RP men) prioritize looks a…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/16 06:10 PM
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