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stellaman/r/seduction13/04/11 03:27 PM
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stellaman/r/seduction01/01/11 07:28 PM
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"I'm just looking for a friend right now." then "...and seeing where we wind up" Your text was not congruent with her expectations. Even though she was direct with her words, she could have been simply deflecting your advances out of habit (remember, pretty girls get hit on very often) and you possibly would have still had a chance. By saying to her "see where we wind up," you're telling her, "look I heard what you said, but I still want more than that, though I will be your friend for now" You'…
/r/seduction31/07/11 07:39 AM
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She sounds clingy and obsessive, but I still don't recommend telling a girl that you're going on a date with someone else, especially one who just got out of a relationship.
/r/seduction22/02/11 12:37 AM
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While I don't necessarily agree with his comment to his friend, I don't think it makes him a douchebag. He could have just laughed the comment off but he felt good about himself and decided to indulge the moment.
/r/seduction22/02/11 12:33 AM
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Unfortunately for you, you were the only one on the train that night.
/r/seduction22/02/11 12:18 AM
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Maybe you miss the way you felt when you guys were together. That was my main problem. But what I realize is that my world in high school is so different than my world now. Having her back is not going to make all my troubles and problems go away. Realize this. Having her back WILL NOT MAKE YOU HAPPY. You said it yourself. You guys were dysfunctional and their were problems. You are putting her up on a pedestal. "If only I could have her back, all my problems would go away." They won't. Take the…
/r/seduction26/01/11 11:00 PM
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I've gone through this and find the best way is to talk to myself and say "I'm not the one who should feel bad. She's missing out on this. I am successful, I am happy, I am a GOOD person. I don't need a specific girl to validate this." There is not just one girl out there who you are compatible with. Don't compare new girls to your ex. Take every person for who they are and you will find happiness.
/r/seduction26/01/11 10:33 PM
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Dates should never be one activity. I always plan 3-5 mini activities to accomplish through a date and am prepared to abandon some ideas because of information acquired throughout a date. This allows you to eject from a location if things get boring or are going the wrong direction, and lets you personalize the date the more you find out about the girl. It shows you know how to have a good time, are assertive, and have a plan. Sitting over dinner and talking for an hour is boring. There's only s…
/r/seduction05/01/11 07:02 AM
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No problem, and I didn't want to come across mean. It's tough going from an AFC to learning the dynamics of attraction and seeing them actually work. When it works on the first few girls, it feels amazing. You may want an LTR and could be using seddit to achieve that, which is perfectly okay. In fact, I'm becoming more involved with a girl which I could end up in an LTR with, but I always remember, she should be chasing me, not the other way around. This doesn't mean you can't be cute and everyt…
/r/seduction05/01/11 06:49 AM
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The issue here is, and I don't want to sound rude, but you're putting her up on a pedestal. This isn't r/relationship advice. You bought her flowers already? You're too invested in this one girl. It's cute, mind you, but she should just be "another girl" until you've at least gotten sure signs of sexual attraction. From there, you can move on. Keep it simple, arrange meetings where things can lead somewhere (not where she's sick and slunks off to work), and you'll be fine. And if it doesn't work…
/r/seduction05/01/11 04:56 AM
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It's true. I went on a date with a girl today and caught myself a few times before I spilled some vulnerabilities. I remembered, it's my job to remain alpha and her job to chase me and figure me out. I went back to my mysterious self and continued the date. It ended with a k-close and second date. I actually like the girl, that being the only reason why I almost slipped and let loose. She'll just have to try harder to figure me out.
/r/seduction05/01/11 03:32 AM
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This is sound advice. You don't want to get into a serious conversation with the girl. Agree and continue. If she's into it, it will work.
/r/seduction02/01/11 09:10 AM
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I understand from her point of view. I'm sure it can get annoying, but this is the exact reason that girls are attracted to guys who can actually embrace them -- because so few actually can. You should almost feel bad for the guys who don't understand this.
/r/seduction02/01/11 09:06 AM
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Not every guy can be interesting and exquisite. In fact, most guys aren't (which is exactly what you're describing). The same way many guys seek out beautiful women, you are seeking someone with your desired qualities. There are always going to be people who don't fit your qualifications and that's something we all have to deal with.
/r/seduction02/01/11 05:45 AM
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Do you just walk up and introduce yourself anyway, even though you know none of them? This is tricky and depends on context. It's awkward at an affair with so many people to go around and individually say hi to everyone as you walk in. If you know a lot of other people there, I'd say ignore the girls and begin immediately building social proof by enthusiastically greeting those who you DO know. Take off your jacket, get settled in, and then come back and you can introduce yourself to the set. Ho…
/r/seduction02/01/11 05:36 AM
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Reading, Timing, and Location Reading her body language to know if she's into you / when it's right to make a move Making the move at the right time Knowing if your location is suitable for escalation and making a move (sometimes K-closing is not acceptable in public) Where is your ideal setting for PU? Are you having trouble transitioning from bar to bedroom? Give some more details
/r/seduction02/01/11 05:18 AM
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They're just trying to be nice. If you aren't looking for a friend, don't linger and talk to them. Use them to build social proof before moving on to opening sets.
/r/seduction02/01/11 05:15 AM
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Good job. That text was a bit premature, but I'm still surprised she didn't answer it. Possibly it didn't go through? Regardless, success. Now don't get one-itis and become obsessed with this girl. Detach yourself and expect no answer and roll with the momentum to continue PU other women.
/r/seduction02/01/11 05:14 AM
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Good shit my friend. It's all in the numbers. Weren't successful the first two times but only the last one matters.
/r/seduction02/01/11 04:17 AM
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Just created an account for seddit. I have a main reddit account, but don't want to use it to post in seddit, so I will be using this username Now in response to your topic: What you're explaining is the ultimate goal of anyone who tries to understand seduction, that is -- be a natural. And this goes far beyond seduction, becoming a natural at anything has an "essence" and we see many naturals out there in all aspects -- Lebron James, Derek Jeter, etc. What you must understand though is that it …
/r/seduction30/12/10 06:08 AM
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