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Red Pill TheorystellarMan24/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:38 PM
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It shows that you're investing more into her than she is into you. It's weird to us, because we want someone to invest in us, but it doesn't work that way for women. It shows that you don't have a lot of other options. It sucks, cause it's damn near impossible to fake if you don't actually have other options. But being aware of it is very important, so that you can have slightly more control over your actions to prevent it. There are posts on TRP all the time about how men are the prize. If we'r…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 04:18 PM
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It's exactly what you mentioned. Your eyes have been opened to the things you were unaware of beforehand. You see her for who she really is, not who you want her to be. That makes it easier to stay unattached from her when she flakes you. Guys who are early in the game or MOST men fall for girls quickly because they really want a relationship for whatever reason.. validation, continual sex, good friendship, etc. They meet women and immediately the halo effect kicks in, all of the girl's good tra…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 04:09 PM
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Ah, life. This is exactly why it's so crucial for men who feel this way to learn to socialize with men and women. That includes but is not limited to learning game. Learning game will definitely help you get over these feelings, mainly because it smashes them into your life over and over very frequently. As someone who has felt like this over and over again, the one thing that brings me out of the worst lows is to spend time with quality male friends. Going back out into the field to approach wo…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 07:01 PM
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Haha. I love how OP and all the comments are being mass-downvoted. Lots of guys are butt-hurt that game is important and they should actively pursue learning it. The male hamster is strong in this thread.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 03:58 PM
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Those friends of yours have game. Anyone that can pull girls consistently most definitely has game. Most attractive people have better game for a couple reasons. One, they have more opportunities to practice. Women will talk to them for longer and be more receptive to their approach or even approach them. Two, they don't have to "convince" themselves to act like a cool bad ass. They look the part, so it makes sense to them and those around them. Not saying much != bad game Sometimes saying less …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 02:58 PM
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Hahaha dude, Owen is 5'8. That man knows game like the back of his hand. It's his life's passion. If you're arguing that girls like him for his looks... Come on dude.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 02:55 PM
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Yeah. The great thing about RSD is they emphasize actually going out. "Field experience is king" - Everyone in RSD "You will learn more in one night of going out and approaching women than you will in a lifetime of reading books" - Owen Seriously, this is so crucial. Whats funny is that after going out, watching the videos is an entirely different experience than watching them before. Epiphanies will hit you like a brick. Your brain will start creating connections and explaining your experiences…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 03:07 PM
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Love it. This is how boys become men. Currently going through a similar path at your same age, in an extremely similar situation. This is the life to live. It's tough as a motherfucker, but god damn is it satisfying.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 03:54 AM
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Anime eyes. Enlarged pupils and/or extended eye contact. Easiest signal. Talk close to her face, does she turn away? No? Go in. If this is new to you, it's gonna feel weird at first. You'll notice a lot of girls will turn their head, then actually get closer and more flirty with you. Funny how it works. If she kisses you or turns her head, doesn't matter, carry on with the conversation as if nothing happened. Don't say anything about it, no big deal. Try again later.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 08:35 PM
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Something tells me you didn't get over that first hurdle with cold approach. That shit is tough. The energy and effort required to get good is insane. You have to want it badly, and find joy in the process, otherwise you'll give up. All depends on where you're coming from. More attractive guys or guys with decent social skills from the start won't have to try as hard to get results, but they will have to try hard to reach their full potential. Saying that it didn't teach you anything tells me th…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 04:12 PM
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Everything sounds good, lot's of teasing and being playful. Did you ever go in for the make-out? If not, you should have. Not escalating fast enough bores women, believe it or not. They think of you as "weak" if they give you a signal and you don't capitalize on it. If you fail to capitalize enough times, they'll ghost you. This has happened to me over and over, you can say I've learned this the hardest way possible.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 12:39 AM
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Wonderful. I've been considering the 30 day challenge now that I live in a city. Question. On weeknights, especially Monday and Tuesday, where would you go?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 09:36 PM
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Ah, a circle jerk I see. Don't mind me, carry on.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 06:40 PM
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Lol. Read the sidebar. TRP is about sexual strategy. If the game is "too hard" cause it doesn't stroke your ego the same way that video games or porn do, then gtfo or quit your bitching. No one thinks it's cool except other like minded weak boys. There's a sub for MGTOW. It's not here. Go find it.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 02:27 PM
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I joined one too. Only been to a couple meets thus far but I can tell it's going to be helpful. Anything that pushes you just slightly out of your comfort zone while also providing some sort of value is always a good choice. Look up School Street Toastmasters. They have so many clubs it's unbelievable.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 03:48 PM
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I'm afraid she is using it right. It's you that is mistaken. Can a man not love his tools? Why can't a female?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 02:53 PM
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I see what you're saying. While I do agree with the OP for the most part of his post, that particular comment was in poor taste. Empathy and "seeing the deal from the other side" are the most important parts of being a good salesman. Those aren't my words, but from a very successful salesman I know personally. However, there is no reason to bash the man's path. That doesn't do anything for you nor him, it only brings resentment. Plenty of men have become very successful with clothing lines. If t…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 07:07 PM
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100 times yes. Masturbating without porn is actually kind of difficult. You really have to force your brain to create sexual imagery or thoughts to get off to. It's like a work out for your sex drive. Leaves me feeling actually proud of myself when I finish rather than ashamed of myself.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 06:26 PM
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All depends on the person. Try this: Go one full year of eating clean. Have a burger or pizza every now and then (once a month) but make sure they're of high quality, either home cooked or out at a nice restaurant. Absolutely no fast food. If you keep this up, I guarantee you won't enjoy fast food. The smell of it will gross you out. The look and taste of food like Doritos will disgust you. Why? Cause you know how they make you feel. You will associate fast food or junk food with a terrible feel…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 02:37 PM
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Yeah probably. But I had been getting the vibe she wasn't sexually interested in me enough (compared to the other men on her ladder), so it was more of a test and that I also just didn't want to pay for her. I only enjoy providing for a girl if she's really into me. This one wasn't.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 02:18 PM
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Ha, actually had this happen recently. Girl was 30. I'm 23. She was cute and I wanted to fuck her. She was playing way too hard to get. Kept prying me trying to figure out what I do. First date, shes all over me making out. Won't go home with me, wants to go to the club with her friends... hmm. Couple weeks later of flaking, we meet again. We have dessert, we split the bill ($10) and her mood changes. Turns her head when I go for a kiss afterward. Later asks to be friends. Nope, no thank you. Go…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 10:47 PM
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Selection bias. You're most likely thinking of College, University and Business entities. Think about the "popular" kids from your high school. How did they end up? Edit: Interesting feedback. I do believe that we are collectively evolving, and who better to survive, prosper and breed than successful Alpha males. It makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 09:36 PM
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That was on an episode of the mating grounds podcast, perhaps that's where you heard/read it.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 01:53 PM
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Clickbait 101. Chill out bro. Just get the point across, no need for all this fluff.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 02:18 PM
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Ok before everyone flips there tables over, remember this is ONLINE DATING. The only metric these women have is your pictures (looks + perceived status). If you're top 20% percentile looks wise, meaning you match with hot girls and get responses, congratulations, have a blast. If you are NOT 20% percentile looks wise, DO NOT USE ONLINE DATING. Plain and simple. Guys, I learned this lesson the hard way. Multiple times. I'm your average faced/average height guy (very fit tho, above average body), …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 01:27 PM
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Cause I want to help people. I know what it's like to metaphorically take your ball and go home. I've done the whole "fuck the world, smoke weed, watch porn, play video games". I did that most of my way through college, even for a year or so after finding information on this subreddit. That wasn't enough for me. It was slowly killing me inside. Thankfully, a couple years back I started actually applying the advice and lessons I was learning, stuck with it, and never turned back. Now I see that i…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:50 PM
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Because that's not sustainable. Drink a 6 pack of beer and play XBox daily, then tell me how your finances, well-being and health turn out in 40 years. Do you have a beer belly? Do you still sell your time from 9-5 to help someone else get rich? Have you traveled anywhere? What's your sex life like? What have you built/accomplished? I do not claim that this road is particularly healthy, just healthier than the alternative. How exactly is this road healthier than the alternative?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:49 PM
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Yeah... for now. I think like this too from time to time. But ask yourself, are you simply just giving in? Meaning, yes, you know how the world works, it's not easy, it's not pretty, and if you have a major set back, it can feel fucking impossible. But, there's this way to live that's really easy. No up front rejection, no internal struggle, no need for strength, just nice and easy. Oh, but no real success or long-term satisfaction either. All you have to do to live the easy life is do what you …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 09:23 PM
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This is HUGE! This is a major lesson that I've recently learned through a boat load of poor interactions. It has helped me so much. Being confrontational has NEVER worked. Even if it turns her on, she'll end up walking away out of spite. Being light on your feet and playful, while remaining confident is the best way to go. Nothing should feel forced. If you do this for a while, you'll notice there will be "windows" where escalation or teasing can happen, all you have to do is listen and act on t…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 02:38 PM
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I know these types of people. I agree with you, but a better word to describe these types of people is bitter. All people experience anger in their random wave of emotion throughout their life. Healthy and successful people know how to channel their anger into something productive. They don't necessarily "bottle it up", but they don't wear it on their sleeve either. Part of me believes the most amazing discoveries and feats in the world were partially fueled by anger, but I can't prove that of c…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 11:38 PM
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Lifting, meditation and writing in a journal. It's been said over and over again, but for good reason. These activities are incredibly powerful for channeling your anger and correcting your path in life. Other than that, having projects to work on. We're men, we need stuff to do to keep our minds busy and away from bullshit distractions. Obviously this takes practice, for instead of working on mine, I'm currently responding to this comment. Will-power is crucial, start small.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 06:01 PM
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All really good advice man. You've hit the nail on the head, this is how you become confident and social. But, do you know where you will find very similar advice to this? the seduction subreddit Your ego is telling you that you are better than "PUA" or "seduction", and you're listening. This is a weak frame, my friend. Either that, or you know most of the TRP crowd will agree with you, so you've chosen an easy topic to write about to gain "TRP points". Similar to how Roosh V spouted a bunch of …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 12:42 PM
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Sucks for those of us who have been reading TRP for a couple years now, but decided to make an account in case they just HAD to share something with the community. Happened today. I really enjoyed writing the post titled [Rid Yourself of the "One Size Fits All" mentality]. It was a message I feel most men here need to hear. It appear's its gone now. I can still access it, but I don't see it on the front page. Anyway, what's the duration of time an account needs to be alive for a submission to no…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 01:37 AM
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Use his quote as a start. I just finished Fahrenheit 451. While it was a quick read, it really opens your eyes to the dangers of group-think and what can happen when you try to step out of it and live by your own principles. Would recommend.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 09:58 PM
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Seem to be utilizing that letter A an awful lot. I wonder why...
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 01:29 PM
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Completely understandable. I'm the same way, tattoos aren't my thing. Doing things just to get girls, that's what I struggle with. To be completely honest, most of the activities I've incorporated into my daily life were to get girls. Yeah, do things just for you, but at some point, you need to get laid. If you're not getting laid as you are, you have to change something about yourself. That's how I got started in this. I think most guys start like this, when they realize that it's not working t…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 03:47 PM
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That is a great question to ask yourself, something I struggle with daily. But regarding Chris, that method works for him, and to be honest it does work. Women do find muscular tattooed men attractive, and instantly place them in the AF category rather than BB. He has a post specifically about looking like a douche bag to get more girls. And while yes, it seems slightly lame and pathetic, it does indeed work, especially if you want quick hook ups. It's a simple strategy and again, it does work. …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 01:49 PM
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Haha, dude. It won't. You have to actively work for it.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 09:46 PM
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There is obviously no one answer. Some things that have helped me: Lots and lots of pain and suffering Countless rejections - some very public and humiliating, still survived Rejecting vices - frequent blue balls, having to overcome social anxiety in a venue full of drunk people due to staying sober, some bored and anxious nights due to not smoking weed Cold showers everyday - this doesn't need an explanation Resisting laziness - forcing productivity despite not wanting to start Learning the fol…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 03:23 PM
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If that's how you feel, something tells me you aren't capitalizing on your opportunities. The biggest gains in my life have been from doing things I greatly resisted. Detach yourself from your ego and your suffering will no longer seem as significant. Then you're free to do anything you want. Nothing to lose, right?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 02:08 PM
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Hahaha. While I get the point OP is making, this is a great comment.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 05:40 PM
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