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Resourcesstenay/r/seduction26/09/24 07:54 PM
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stenay/r/MGTOW14/01/18 10:48 PM
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stenay/r/askTRP22/07/20 09:35 AM
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stenay/r/askTRP11/03/20 08:54 PM
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stenay/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:07 PM
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stenay/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:45 PM
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Lifestylestenay/r/seduction22/03/20 05:05 PM
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stenay/r/seduction29/02/20 08:51 PM
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Outer Game stenay/r/seduction22/07/20 09:37 AM
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stenay/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:10 AM
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Like I said you didnt read my post properly (apparently you cant read). I started approaching before Corona started. Approached a couple of women and one of them went well. A week or two afterwards the lockdown started and I havent been able to approach. And yes I am looking for some advice but not from you since it seems like you cant even read properly. I am done wasting my time on you.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:36 PM
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Its a reupload of that guy's videos. The original guy removed all the videos when he got (in)famous.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:15 PM
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As for you u/stenay - What is your success rate? What is the response? It's telling you leave that bit out to be honest. Did you even read my post man? Read my post properly before pointing fingers. I couldnt link my previous thread because this subreddit removed my post when I tried. Anyways I am not looking for any validation from you so I dont give a fuck what you mean by "its telling"
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:14 PM
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My ex was what you would call a plain jane. She was the nicest most loving person I knew. Sadly we had to breakup due to long distance
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:51 AM
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I wanna find myself a plain jane lol
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:35 PM
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I started reading 48 laws of power. I am in the very beginning but do you do think those laws are "practical"? What practical benefits fo they bring to your life? I mean its nice to know "never outshine your master" but how often am I in a situation to do that? In my entire I think I came across this situation once.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 03:02 PM
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Calling your plate a hoe. Yeah...
/r/askTRP11/03/20 06:34 AM
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I was carrying my groceries in Poland and some random guy started staring very angrily at me (I am not white). I looked at him and he stopped in his place as if he wanted to start a fight. I was on my vacation and didnt want any trouble so I left.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 06:32 AM
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What do you usually talk about with these girls? What topics do you discuss?
/r/askTRP11/03/20 06:27 AM
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and the whole fucking corona virus panic. Lol I was just thinking about that. I wanted to run day game but I dont know how it will work with this Corona virus. I can go out and find absolutely very little crowd. On the other hand there can be lots of people but I could catch the virus. Are you taking any precautions in case you catch the virus? Our government is telling us to even work from home. I can imagine that walking outside for a couple of hours is not the best choice.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 06:24 AM
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Whats a comfort test?
/r/askTRP11/03/20 06:20 AM
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I would be careful in how I proceed with this. Tell her nicely that you dont like her behavior. If she doesnt stop then talk to your manager. Keep the "alpha" behavior for outside of work. Work places quickly label anyone with a spine as "not being a team player".
/r/askTRP11/03/20 06:15 AM
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2) You have some misunderstanding. You are not hitting on girls. You are talking to people, and if that leads to something "romantic", she's probably not going to tell the world. Going to another city is OK for practice, but then you need an excuse for being there, and it just becomes trouble if you have any kind of success. When I ask for her number its definitely hitting on her isnt it? Another followup question is it ok to appraoch women who you may see daily? e.g. Women on your work route. I…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 03:39 PM
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You'll be known as that friendly "Indian" guy who it's easy to make friends with. This will not happen because like I said in another comment I will always try to "number close". So at this point I am hitting on them. And I want to approach a lot to improve myself. According to Roosh a newbie must do atleast 100 approaches.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 03:38 PM
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Let me give you a bit of a context why I have those fears of coming off as "creepy". I have posted this before. I am a brown guy who looks indian(even though I am not. But I am from the same region). You know the reputation people from our region have. We are famous for being creepy. I live in the Netherlands which is a predominantly white country. Now imagine an indian looking guy hitting on everything that moves around his city. Cringed hard, didnt you? You will say dont hit on everyone but I …
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:35 PM
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I am not very good looking I am also brown :(
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:30 PM
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If I do it again and again in the same area I will get a reputation.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 08:51 AM
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We are going around in circles now. Read my comment again
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:13 PM
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So your answer is to just ignore everything? With a girl I can exxagerate her shit test and turn it into a joke. But I can't do the same with work colleagues. I can't do the same when someone disrespects me. Because then they know they can behave however they want with me and I become the punching bag
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:13 PM
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I did that one time. I came off as an annoying person and there were several weeks where the guy wasn't talking to me.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:10 PM
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That's always the case even with shit tests. I guess the question then becomes when is it a shit test and when is it actual disrespect? Because it seems like the line is very thin.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:10 PM
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Wouldn't you be failing shit tests then?
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:09 PM
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I didn't wanna give a specific example because then people focus too much on that example. Here is a recent one. A guy at work makes faces and rolls his eyes when I am presenting my ideas. He does that with some other colleagues as well. He does it to colleagues he thinks are beneath him(expats, immigrants). Normally I would call him out but I have to ignore him. I was already told that I need to try and get along with the team and my soft skills need work. So I am currently ignoring all forms o…
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:08 PM
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What would you even do with that information?
/r/askTRP07/03/20 04:26 PM
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A girl was touching my chest while giving me a handjob. She said "you are so hairy". I didnt know what to say lol.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:22 AM
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Wow. How did you decide to avoid these women for example nurses and hair dressers?
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:06 AM
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What is considered "short" ?
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:04 AM
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No. he shouldnt say anything like that to his boss. Keep her on your side and humour her without sleeping with her.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 09:33 AM
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I am 31 and recently was talking to a 20 something girl. She asked me why I wasnt married at my age. Really felt like a grandpa. I told her I havent met the right person yet.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 09:04 AM
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you went to a new city every weekend? how often did you change the city?
/r/askTRP06/03/20 02:55 PM
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How about overexposure and becoming "famous" as the creepy pickup guy of the town as mentioned in this thread by JamesSkepp(Cant link his thread because my submission gets removed) I wanna practice a LOT but I am afraid of those things. How do I decide the locations/frequence of my approaches so I dont "burnout" a city and dont become famous as a creep?
/r/askTRP06/03/20 02:30 PM
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You do approaches for approaches sake, you do more of them in a week than most men do in a decade, you do them every week. There's always an increased risk of some girl/whiteknight getting angry. How many approaches per week is too much? is 30 per week too much? How about 10 ? I "burned" my hometown to the point that I was recognized as "that guy who seduces women" and that wasn't uncommon for PUAs who stuck with it. Thats somethign I am afraid of. Whats a solution to this problem? Would you rec…
/r/askTRP06/03/20 02:21 PM
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I got accused of harassment a couple years ago at a big event and I was literally being lambasted in the street by random people over it. My worse nightmare. What openers were you using and why were you accused of harrasment? you were just trying to get a girls number right? I went to an event at a bar a few weeks ago with a RP bro and I gave him some openers I didn’t have the balls to say. He did one, got a harsh reaction and for the rest of the night the people in the bar were passing notes ab…
/r/askTRP06/03/20 02:07 PM
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Really sad to hear this man. I could feel your pain from your sentences. On the other hand I believe you are a fighter who is dealing with it like a champion. I hope you get better.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:55 PM
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How did you respond to her line?
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:53 PM
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Sir Simp of Simptown XD
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:48 PM
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What should he do then? Approach uglier girls?
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:02 PM
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Shit. Why did they give you their number then? I dont like this :( I recently started approaching as well. Its hard to get a number anyways and then they do this.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:02 PM
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The past 7 number closes, however have ended with a “not interested, but your very bold and brave for having a conversation with a stranger like me”. I feel like this is a toleration move and these women see me as feminine and/or boring. They said that after giving you the number or when you were asking for the number?
/r/askTRP06/03/20 12:51 PM
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Doesnt work in every country (atleast as an expat). I witnessed it first hand. I live in the Netherlands and I was traveling in the bus one time. I saw a black guy try to say hello to the dutch guy. Here is how the conversation went: Black guy: "Hey man. Whats your name?" Dutch guy: "Nothing" Black guy: "Oh you have no name" and then the black guy stayed silent the whole trip. I felt sad and had second hand embarrasment for the guy.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 12:45 PM
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A few days ago a girl kept looking at me at the airport. This happened like 3 times in an hour. She was sitting at the seats right in front of me so I thought maybe a coincidence. I had planned to approach her and then she called her boyfriend... When we reached the destination and I was walking back the same girl is standing at the luggage belt looking at me again. Why the f are you staring at me if you have a bf?
/r/askTRP06/03/20 12:37 PM
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Had a girl at work standing at the entry of our hall and looking at me for a good few minutes. I saw her from my desk but I didnt know what to do so I just ignored her.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 12:30 PM
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Possibility #1: The other women notice her interest you, and then a cascading effect occurs where the other women get interested in you. This actually happened with me when I was a student. Some girl liked me and I showed some interest back in her. As a cascading effect I started getting IOIs from like 5 more girls. I was too beta at that time to do anything about it though :(
/r/askTRP06/03/20 12:28 PM
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What if its someone who is in your company but you dont interact with them? (i.e. in another discipline) A sales girl in one of the hardware teams has been giving me major IOIs. I am planning on leaving the company in the coming months as well.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 11:49 AM
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I have three questions. I am afraid of approaching girls when there is someone nearby. How do I fix this? I am afraid of approaching girls in my city. Is it better to always go to another city? How often should I approach in the same area without becoming famous as the local creep? When someones nearby So I hesitate approaching girls when some other person is nearby and they can hear me. I have approached three girls so far and they were all alone in that area. I get a lot of anxiety thinking ab…
/r/askTRP06/03/20 09:22 AM
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I am afraid of running into my office colleagues, neighbours while approaching. Not to mention a lot of expats coming here are juniors in my university and they are tightly knit with my colleagues. I am afraid of word getting out that I am a creep who hits on all his juniors.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:29 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:36 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:36 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:36 PM
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Thank you for your comment by the way.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:35 PM
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Ok last question but how about this ? To fix this I was thinking about traveling to another city on Saturdays so I can approach women there. Maybe something thats 30-60 minutes away from my city. As its not sustainable to only approach women overseas.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:31 PM
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Thank you very much for such a detailed answer! The bad Me: no it's ok. Her: (smiles and maybe a bit uncomfortable) I don't know what to say. Like I said in another comment I didnt know if I was being creepy and she was just being polite. I didnt wanna force myself on her and wanted to be careful. girl at the museum: she was in the queue and left. Chase her and say "Excuse me, I saw you leaving the queue, are they closing the museum or something?". She was actually leaving the museum ahead of me…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:21 PM
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Thanks for your answer. I think its more about me not being able to read her properly. When she made an uncomfortable face and told me "I dont know what to say" I thought I was now harrasing her and she was just being polite.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 01:15 PM
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I am such a dumbass. Where do you learn these things? I have read a lot o theory but still make these kinds of dumb mistakes.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:36 AM
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Dont follow any books for masculinity. Just do masculine things like other people in this thread are mentioning. There is a big difference between reading books and taking action(as I have learned when I recently started approaching)
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:29 AM
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ok thank you. She said she was wanted to go to museum but it wont open till 9.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:24 AM
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I was afraid that she was just being polite and I was being clingy. She was russian but she was of chinese/mongol origin. Those girls are known to be very polite.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:22 AM
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What two chances are you speaking of? I recognize that bread was one but what was the other one?
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:26 AM
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What a pathetic post. And what's with insulting the "attention span" of people who were probably gonna try and help you?
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:21 AM
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How about a girl who replies quickly. Writes longer messages not one word answers but never meets up. She never makes a plan or makes a plan and cancels at the last minute. I even told her if she really wanted to meet me she has to make time not look for time and she replied with "I know :("
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:10 AM
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I have seen this kind of behavior. I am probably nowhere as good looking as you but uglies and fatties really have a princess attitude. One time I was using hinge and a girl was showing this kind of behavior. I told her that "princess attitude" is so unattractive. She got all mad. And kept bringing it up how she is not a princess. She is a strong independent girl. We had some arguments and she reported me to hinge. And those cucks over at hinge always side with the girl. I have contacted them ma…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:34 AM
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I can't tell you that bud. Sorry :(
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:12 AM
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Thanks. I was gonna continue talking to her but when she said "I don't know what to say" with an uncomfortable smile it made me think that I am making her uncomfortable so I left her alone. I wasn't sure what she meant by it.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:53 PM
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No for the museum she said she had to wait till 9(which was coming up soon). But I get your point. For me it's not possible to read social cues like that cause I am an idiot. Another point is I was afraid of coming off as creepy, needy or clingy.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:48 PM
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You have the right mindset (approaching abroad is great for that), just need some practice. What things did you like about my mindset/approach? I can enhance and maximize those things
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:26 PM
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Thanks for your advice. I didn't know how to escalate with the bird girl. In fact I didn't have any hopes it would go well and I was expecting a rejection like the first two. The problem was I couldn't ask for her number since I was gonna leave today. I couldn't just stick to her like an annoying weight hanging around. How would you have continued the conversation? (or changed?)
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:25 PM
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I thought I made her uncomfortable. How should it have gone according to you?
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:12 PM
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Ok. Next time I will pretend I didn't see anything and keep walking. Tell me is it safe to go to a bar or should I expect fights tonight?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:51 PM
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I wanted to go to the bar. You think I should cancel my plans?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:38 PM
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Are you also a person of color? Does it happen with you often?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:36 PM
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?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 04:48 PM
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What power games did I play with him? I just looked at him and ignored and moved on.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 02:36 PM
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Yes so that's what I did today. Let's see if I run into a crazy moron in the bar
/r/askTRP02/03/20 02:34 PM
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Lol guess I need to be ready for more such incidents in the bar tonight.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 01:51 PM
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Lol at phaggot Reddit. I would usually continue staring at a guy if they stare at me but not here. Like I said I am in eastern Europe and most people here don't speak English. I think if I get in trouble I wouldn't be able to communicate with the police as well. I have a flight in a day so better get out of here safe and sound. For being colored yes I am brown.i am not from the us rather I live in the Netherlands and those guys are much more civilized.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 12:39 PM
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I am brown
/r/askTRP02/03/20 12:37 PM
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But it was 10 in the morning. Drunk guys so early in the morning?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 12:36 PM
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They are the most beta looking phaghots I have seen.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 12:35 PM
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Why did this happen ? What do you mean by keeping an eye out? You think he will try to attack me or something?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:14 AM
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Lol
/r/askTRP01/03/20 09:43 AM
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Constructive criticism? First read my question properly. Multiple women didn't run away from my approach. I approached one girl in two days. Second I am spacing out my approaches. There is nothing creepy or arrest worthy in approaching women. Third I would advise you to comment from your real account and not use a throwaway
/r/askTRP01/03/20 09:37 AM
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Oh god please shut up. Arrested for being harrasment? Just for saying excuse me do you speak English? And it's not multiple women. I have so far only approached one girl. Stick to your dating apps and stop giving me advice.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 09:30 AM
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This is what I heard from roosh "newbies should do 100 cold approaches. These approaches can be on the street,bus stop, coffee shop, mall, bar
/r/askTRP01/03/20 09:18 AM
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I do lift. I have visible shoulder definitions but no bicep or chest. I am also chubby so no abs. I would say around 25 percent body fat. I wouldn't say I am attractive. I would say like a 6.5 or a 7. I have had one serious gf before whom I met through a dating app. That lasted many years.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 07:12 AM
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I have to find women to do that. I had a lot of trouble with that today and women didn't seem to want to talk to me
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:57 PM
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I do respect myself but what should I have done in that situation? If someone is rude to my face I can answer them but nothing could have been done in that situation
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