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steppenwolfofwallst/r/askTRP28/09/16 04:47 PM
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The replies here have been good, but I'll add: guys really need to stop thinking women care about money so much, and status as society often defines it. If you're fun, exciting, and decent looking, you'll get women way more than if your only traits are having a good job and money. The fun, slightly rebellious Walmart stock boy will get way more women than the manager or rich tech nerd who tries to awkwardly hit on her while checking out. Why? Because status isn't about what's on paper. If the st…
/r/seduction27/09/25 02:29 PM
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In my 20s I had a few sex partners. I was fat, boring, and a strong Christian. After my divorce at 39, I have had 10 sex partners, and they were all ages 19-26. In fact, in the last week alone I have had sex with a 24 year old and a 26 year old. I am not that tall (only 5'6"). I just have a fun personality and work out 4-5 times a week. I keep pretty young in attitude and in some interests, but I also am mature in many ways too (a good job, good communication skills, etc). I do pretty well on da…
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:31 AM
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Here is my experience. I have pretty much dated in the 18-25 range since my divorce (I'm late 30s). None was a sugar daddy thing (in fact I explicitly tell them that if they are looking for that, don't bother because I'm not paying for what women their age throw at me for free), and if anything, we split bills or we'd switch up who paid. Even on Bumble and Tinder, with my real age listed (I list it lower, but lately have just been using my real age) I have no shortage of younger women liking, ma…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:31 PM
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This is an area that tripped me up in the past. The bottom line is that you have to balance power/aloofness with making her feel good. As long as she knows you're alpha and you regularly hold frame, you absolutely should show emotion, feel emotion, and even express it. There's a reason guys who are good with women are called "sweet talkers" and "charmers." The way you describe this, it sounds like you came across as either boring, dumb (a two-word reply?), or even autistic (never spoke your feel…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:48 PM
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I am 40, and over the last two years since my divorce, I have had some sort of sex (i.e. oral, etc) with two 19 year olds, a 22 year old, a 26 year old, a 31 year old, and made out with a lot more in the 22-28 age range. This is far more sex and dating than I ever had in my teens and 20s. I have actually met them online, but have to be a little sneaky about it, because I do prefer younger and prettier women. I put a fake age on tinder (usually 28), then hide it using Tinder gold. That way, I sho…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:35 PM
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You represent a LOT of power to her - a teacher and a bouncer, and you are one of the few guys who doesn't seem to want to fuck her, AND you rejected her advances too. In the female psyche, you're the equivalent of a 10/10 at this point. I am seeing 3 very attractive women right now - 18, 19, and 21 - and all of them love older guys. When I told the first I'm almost 40 her response was "that's *young*." I was a teacher and got a much better paying business job, and two of these women want to re-…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 08:31 PM
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If you know any priests or nuns, you know that the only ones who actually follow the rules about sex for any length of time are totally weird and/or super angry. The others are banging people behind the scenes. Evolution has wired reproduction into our brains (well, at least the desire to do it, via sex). If someone is willing to commit to fundamentally denying this most basic desire, then they are either crazy/weird, will soon go crazy, or are going to just screw women (or men...many priests ar…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:48 PM
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Just a technical question here. Does boost put you in front of every woman in the area, or is it impacted by age settings. For example, if I'm in my late 30s, will I really show up in the stacks of a 21 year old woman whose age range is maxed at 29? I have a feeling boost won't put me in those stacks. A super like, however, would, correct?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 06:02 PM
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I agree. This is an interesting study that basically showed women in relationships with older men didn't have "daddy issues": http://psycnet.apa.org/record/2015-55834-001 . I'm nearly 40 and the ones I date in their early 20s have no more of fewer issues with their dads then the women I've dated closer to my age. In fact the two most obsessed with me have dads in their lives who are still married to their moms.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 10:55 PM
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The only problem is the algorithm, which has gotten more punishing lately, at least for me. I was doing very well in 2017 as an older guy...hot girls in their 20s, many matches, 20+ dates, make outs, sex, etc. In late 2017, it went so boosts mattered more if I wanted hotter girls. But, boosts delivered. In the last few months, I noticed that even with boost, my prospects haven't been there. I got off and back on, and I might as well have disappeared. I think I'm being "punished" for getting off …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 07:11 PM
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Just FYI, if you want access to an article, http://sci-hub.tw and its mirrors are your best friends. And, you can try http://libgen.io/scimag/ . Just type in the title of the study (or the doi link) and voila, your article will usually appear.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:08 PM
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I am in good shape for my age and have a youthful appearance. I run about 100 miles a month, lift, and eat well. My written profile is usually something funny, and my job is listed as my business ("founder at..."). I usually open with something related to their profile that is funny, flirty, or a pun on their name. I find that they don't ever say anything about my age when we meet and just assume I'm close to their age.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 04:45 AM
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Very true. Tinder has a lot of hot women on it. Granted, it is a lot of effort to go from swiping, to matching, to messaging, to a date (my stats are similar to yours), but I've met some very hot ones. I swipe right on probably half though, because there are some awful ones, just like in real life.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 03:13 AM
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Good advice! I have used some similar techniques to do pretty well (a lot of dates with girls half my age). I agree you should lie about your age. I put mine at 28. However, I recommend using Tinder Plus/Gold to then hide your age (a feature of Gold). This creates some plausible deniability if they figure out you're older than they expected. I occasionally do reset my accounts if it goes dry, but overall I find that boosts get me good exposure to pretty girls. For me, this is a better deal than …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 03:11 AM
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If you feel creepy banging women at their peak hotness, then that's on you. And, biologically and in terms of brain development, they aren't "basically girls."
/r/askTRP31/08/17 02:35 PM
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As someone who regularly dates girls in that age range who is in his thirties, I'll tell you my experience. I would avoid volunteering an age as soon as you meet them, especially if you look younger, because they won't ask. I have had girls hit on me, talk to them, and if I reveal my age too soon, they get put off. Their logical mind kicks in ("OMG, what will my friends think?") before you have won them over and they'll back off. However, never lie if they ask, but be vague. If they ask my age, …
/r/askTRP17/08/17 07:46 PM
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Their parents don't have a say as to whether their kid can have sex in this case. Parents can get a civil protection order, or possibly get her charged with unruly and the older guy charged with "contributing to the delinquency of a minor," if they really, really want to push it and the police decide to be total dicks about it.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 08:07 PM
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First, you say you "live in the US," but that doesn't give you the complete picture. Laws about consent vary by state, with some as low as 16, and others 18. Check your state individually and look at the rules. Also, taking her across state lines (like for a trip) and having sex there, could result in a charge based on the way the federal "Mann Act" has been used. And, if it's legal from an age of consent standpoint, they still could technically push other things, like a "contributing to the del…
/r/askTRP16/08/17 08:05 PM
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Part of the problem is that a lot of younger women don't have their settings to even show guys your age in their queue. This means most will literally never see your profile. I suggest setting up a new Facebook with a lower age (late 20s). Then, get tinder plus. It costs, yes but it's cheaper if you're under 30 haha. Then you can choose to hide your age from the profile. This way you'll show up in their queue, but your fake age wont display, so you won't have to deal with it later that you lied.…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 07:47 PM
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Very true post. At a Milo event I went to, these guys were handing out red pill related cards. These were literally the fedora wearing guys that people stereotype this sub as containing. They were scrawny, awkward, wearing damn fedoras, and had no sense of hygiene or fashion. Obviously, the red pill for them was just another universe to enter into and discuss (kind of like spending your time reading about and discussing the star wars universe) and not about actual change.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 01:23 PM
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I know very few sloppy and fat fifty year olds who even know what game is. If you're sloppy and fat, then stop being sloppy and fat. Most sloppy and fat 23 year old guys can't get 23 year old girls.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 08:23 PM
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I get that it's the internet and anybody can claim anything, but as other comments on here will verify, a decent-looking older guy with a good personality who takes care of himself can totally get younger women. Trust me on this. My two buddies also pull the same age women as I do. Some of it boils down to how pathetic guys their age are (low T, boring, absorbed into video games, etc, rather than social activities) but part of it is that if you're older AND high quality physically and mentally y…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 12:56 PM
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Very true. I've had more sex with 20-somethings now than I ever did in my 20s. And, I banged my first 18 year old when I was 37. It's funny how life works.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 12:39 AM
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That is a tough one, but some of the 20-somethings I have seen on Tinder have worse skin than I do (and I'm late 30s) from over-tanning, smoking, etc. That makes it harder to tell these days because younger people can look so damn horrible thanks to rampant unhealthy living.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 12:37 AM
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I really hope older guys don't take this to heart. I'm in my late 30s and I date women ages 18-30. That's it. That's my range, nothing over. The average is about 23. I get 100s of matches on Tinder, and go on dates weekly. And, I'm almost always the "cool" one when we go out with her friend group, and I promise you I'm more fun and exciting than virtually any guy in the groups of 20-somethings I hang with. You may be basing your analysis on your average 30-something, who is likely a low-T, borin…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 11:43 PM
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This is why you have to lie about your age on different apps. I set up an alternative Facebook and set my age at 28 on Tinder and Bumble, even though I'm 39. Since I am in great shape and look young, nobody has questioned it yet. Literally not a single one, and I have met girls in the range of 19-28. Then I tell them the truth and by that point they like me enough to hamster it away. Knowing how women work, it is far better to ask forgiveness than permission.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 01:18 PM
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This is the best advice. I set my age as 28, even though I am nearly 40. I look and act young, and not once has anyone questioned it. Even when I tell them my real age, by that point they don't care. I know how the female brain works, and it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission. You have to set up an alternate Facebook account to pull this off on Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 01:15 PM
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Trust me, if you have the right skills you don't have to pay a 20-something woman hundreds a month to have sex with you, even if you're in your 40s. I just get on Tinder and approach in real life, and I maybe spend money on a coffee or beer for them.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 01:12 PM
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One of the girls I casually see is always talking about her friend who is a sugar baby with some rich older guy, and here I am going hiking with her, watching movies at my place, or eating at Wendy's. I told her the other day "women buy me things, not vice-versa." She laughed and agreed. It's great. This whole BB concept that you have to buy women's love as an older guy is really total crap. If they like you enough, they'll buy you stuff, or at least be happy going hiking and eating at Wendy's, …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 01:13 AM
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The youth culture nuance you mentioned is important and a good point to add. You can't be the old guy trying to act young. However, authentically embracing it on your own terms is much different. I know about it enough to participate to a degree, embrace what I like, and also know enough to mock the worst of it, which they like as well (since a lot of them can't stand elements of it as well).
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 12:48 AM
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The truth is, based on the stats, is that girls typically end up dating guys their own age. This is for a variety of social and societal factors (like they are usually only around guys their own age). However, what women are attracted to, and what they do if given the chance, are different matters. My experience is that since the millennial generation of men is full of fat, emasculated, video-game playing pussies, a fit, mature, and fun older guy can be very successful.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 03:34 PM
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Your response is my experience exactly. If an older guy is decent looking, has good frame, and can actually be around younger women enough to present himself as attractive, he can easily get younger women. My recently divorced friend told me that he found that getting 20-somethings is far easier than women his own age (late 30s). He kind of assumed that he would only get late 30s women, but found that on Tinder and in real life, it's the younger ones that are most interested and prettier (obviou…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 03:28 PM
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This isn't reflective of my experience at all, or my friends. I regularly date and hook up with girls 10-20 years younger than I am (I'm 39). One girl I'm currently seeing every week is 24. They have so far all been white and attractive. I have about 3 clamoring for dates that I am currently stringing along some on snap chat until I have the time (ages 19, 24, and 28). My experience is simple, that if you want to attract younger women, you have to look younger, be physically attractive, have som…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 02:22 PM
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Thanks, that's helpful. I'll have to experiment and see what it's like.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 03:08 AM
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Can you let me know a couple of things about CMB? I'd appreciate it. I do pretty well on Tinder and Bumble getting younger women and I don't want to waste my time with CMB if it is just going to match me with the average 30-something woman I see on Ok Cupid (entitled, fat, and way past her prime). How do connections work out age-wise? I'm nearly 40 but date younger women (all throughout the twenties). I don't want excluded from 20-somethings automatically because I list my age correctly. Is your…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 07:01 PM
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I think it's called "understanding human psychology." I don't know anybody who changes ideology when you just slam the full truth in front of them. It would be nice if people worked that way, but they don't.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 02:26 PM
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I grew up Christian, did the whole Christian thing in college, and even went into a job field connected to Christianity. The result was hardly any sexual satisfaction, a low paying job run by women and betas, and calls to be humble and a doormat anytime I questioned any of this. Now that I am older and more red pill, I definitely regret the role Christianity played in my life. Trust me, belief in God is great, spirituality is great, but embracing Christianity full bore is a bad idea unless you'r…
/r/askTRP30/10/16 11:00 PM
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This. I found out one girl who did this to me a lot had the biggest crush on me. I always take the gay comment as a giant shit test. My last ltr used to say it all the time. I was negging her in public and she said something about me being gay and my response was something like "that's what dating you will do to a guy." She giggled and so did everyone around us.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 07:11 PM
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The reason I ask is that my background is in psych and I worked at a mental health center before leaving to start by own business. And my experience from those at that center (master's to PhD) is very touchy-feely, semi-sjw, and blue pill.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 05:46 PM
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