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I think I finally have, just wish she would express it in another way than this.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:39 PM
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Sometimes you have to weigh your options and be realistic. I'm not about to dump a virgin (well, not anymore) who is conservative, responsible, doesn't have vices, very minimal social media interaction,, and has a college degree in economics just because she is a negative nancy (first time I heard this term and it nails it, lol). My ex-gf who I recently dumped was a hypergamous deceiving attention-whoring psychopath.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:37 PM
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I just posted an update to this if anyone would like to know where it headed. I edited the post above rather than posting another thread.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 02:33 AM
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I really don't think anything is wrong and I've been using this sub for years. You're fine, just check your OCD huh ? Don't you at least think she should have said something like "I can't wait for us to start our journey together and I'm so glad I'm with you now". I mean, the hypergamous nature is still there between the lines, but at least it isn't saying I'm her new beta for resources because her ex can no longer help her grow. It's like an admission love is not even a consideration of who she…
/r/askTRP05/05/19 05:44 AM
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Yes, you are right. That is why her hamster description of him doesn't match my impression of him. Her reasons almost seem petty, but I suppose when the grass is greener on the other side the old yard looks like a complete garbage dump site to a hypergamous woman of this level.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 05:37 AM
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I think you have a problem and you are overreacting. What she said was clearly not a red flag and I highly doubt you will even maintain this relationship for at least a year. No offense and I say this sincerely, you seem to have OCD or another legitimate mental disorder. I'm not joking here, don't get offended. I do have OCD and overthink things and that is partially why I posted it here for second opinions. She doesn't know anything is wrong or that I interpreted her remarks that way.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 05:32 AM
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Brilliant! I just read “the breaking phase” and you hit the target on this one. You described exactly what happened to her ex-bf. This guy was there for her during her studies, seems very supportive and all around a very nice guy, and probably expected he would be rewarded by his behavior and sincerity towards her... only to get dumped and forgotten the moment she graduates. Our relationship is too new and I haven't fallen for her yet.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 05:18 AM
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In response to Sonny_Luna. I have strongly thought about your perspective and it reminds me of a quote from Lucious Seneca that is the following: “We suffer more often in imagination than in reality”. I don't want to operate from an angle of weakness or fear. All women are hypergamous, so why should her Freudian-slippish admission of being hypergamous disturb me? On the other hand, the writing is on the wall. There is no doubt at this point of her intentions, so I would be extremely foolish to e…
/r/askTRP05/05/19 05:04 AM
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I "stalked" his social media to see if her representation of him matched my own observations and it didn't. I think it's wise to collect data and look for lies and deception, but it would be beta and foolish to reveal to her that I know and have collected that data. There is no knowledge that is not power.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:47 AM
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Doubt its a mind game. She thought she was shsring her true feelings and opening up, tellinh him he was the superior man. Instead she gave you a glimpse of the real truth Correct. It wasn't a mind game. The tone of her voice was that of a woman trying her best to convince me I'm the greatest thing that ever happened to her, while "helping him move on" mocking her ex-bf for being pathetic for trying to keep in touch with her after she dumped him. I'm certain she had no intention of causing dread …
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:43 AM
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I don't know. I tend to behave this way in all aspects in my life, not only women. I over analyze the hell out of everything.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:27 PM
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I agree. Better to have peace of mind from creating strong boundaries than getting cucked because you don't want to appear insecure. Women want to feel owned by men they truly desire anyway, so any woman who thinks he would be insecure is a woman he doesn't need in his life. Period.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:12 PM
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Do it, then go into the bathroom and stare in the mirror. Repeat after me "I'm a man and I deserve to be respected". You don't have to verbally say it, but just think it in your mind. Look at yourself deeply. You'll cry a river if you care for her, but what she is doing to you is eating you up inside and eventually she will betray you and it will end up nearly killing you. Go out now with your pride and respect. She'll get pumped and dumped by this guy and come begging back eventually, but you w…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 08:25 PM
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Blocking her would show her that I am hip to her game and I that was affected by it enough to retaliate with a block. Would you block a distant family member or old acquaintance you rarely communicate with because they "became busy"? I know her reason is BS, but still. Not really into trying to meet and bang new chicks for the sake of banging. I spend my time on my business and bettering myself. I don't let my dick rule my life. I'm in excellent shape. It was a learning experience for me how rev…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 08:18 PM
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Damn, reading that sent ALL the wrong mental images my way. When she said "my boyfriend would not like that or else I would.” She is telling this guy she would let him fuck her brains out if it wasn't for you knowing about it. In no way is that shutting him down. Shutting him down would be blocking him. I think deep down you don't want to dump her because you know he will be fucking her immediately after. You're trying to cling onto this broad to avoid him fucking her. That's not a mentally heal…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:58 PM
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Honestly when I read "baby's daddy" I paused and would have said run for the hills. Unfortunately, you're already 8 years in deep with this woman and her child. If everything is going fine with this woman, I think you should continue having a relationship with her. If you lost your virginity to a single mom with a kid, I do understand how you feel like you're missing out, though... especially after being redpilled. This is a tough one. Would you consider this woman your best friend in life?
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:35 PM
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That's actually a very good point and for anyone reading this thread, that threat alone is worth forgetting about the money. Luckily for me, she doesn't even know my real name or where I live. I have a different social media profile with an alias and all my friends there don't know anything personal about me either. You see, I had an ex about 12 yrs ago that stalked me and my family. It took me 2 years to get her to leave me alone and that was a lesson for me to always have a way to disappear fr…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:47 PM
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That's why I can't stomach to touch her now after losing respect towards her. The thought of putting it in a "cheap prostitute" makes my testosterone levels drop like a buzzfeed writer after guzzling down a gallon of soymilk.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:29 PM
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Well, you're probably right on the bulls eye there, but I have no problem with her thinking I'm some asshole, as it's better than being remembered of as a beta fool.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:10 PM
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I expected a response like this but damn I feel like my OCD would eat me alive if I moved on without getting it back. I want this chick to think twice about asking men for money again.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:02 PM
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$550 in one sum.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:59 PM
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I once found out a very special lady friend of mine was a high class escort after a year of friendship. I told her I was a virgin and she was blown away and excited to train me. I wasn't really a virgin, but oh my I learned a lot from her. She did anything I wanted and wanted me to be her bf after, never asked me for a thing. Must have had some daddy issues. Befriend a whore is my advice.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 04:11 PM
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I've told myself this many times, but then I hamster it away that I'm too much of a perfectionist and nobody on earth can live up to my standards. I pick my battles and don't mind X and Y, but I'm not leveling up until Z is terminated. I don't care about having multiple plates. I only have time for one woman and don't want to risk getting an STD from being a manwhore.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 01:57 PM
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That's an important detail you added, about the hood party. All those things added up and is why you lost respect towards her. At that point you probably viewed her as a liar and then as a cheater. I do wonder if you still would have lost respect towards her if everything else seemed cool in your relationship except for the Snapchat thing. If she deleted it after a little dread or manipulation, perhaps things could have worked out... or is that my hamster spinning. I have been lifting weights si…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 01:23 PM
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Thanks for the advice. No, I actually didn't, that is something I hadn't considered, but ouch, I would never have taken back a women who cheated on me. You must have been very desperate at that time, but we all make mistakes and I'm glad that you developed enough to be at the point you can now offer others advice. Best of luck man!
/r/askTRP19/12/18 01:07 PM
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Thanks man. The most she has ever done is deleting *some* pictures, but she always leaves some up. There's no way she is moving in if she's going to continue posting swinging bait. What do you think her answer will be when we continue our discussion later today, that it's either no attention whoring or I'm going to fuck anyone I want to get the same validation. Any good theory has power of predicting the results. I'm a redpill newb, so please bear with me.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:29 AM
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I hamster I run a business at home, time away from my home is wasted money. I have a large condo unit in the city which has an unoccupied room. I want to move her in with me, but in that unoccupied room for convenience, so that we can have sex anytime we want and not see each others face whenever we don't want. She has a job which will keep her busy. Plus she will be the one to do all the cooking and cleaning. It's very convenient for me. As it is now, we tend to hook up on the weekends but she …
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:10 AM
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I don't know, you tell me. Here's how it went. I went no contact with her for 3 months. She sent me a photo of her face full of tears begging me to talk to her and promising me she will do anything for me. She wrote me messages saying she can't imagine life without me, yadda yadda. At that point I was like "RedPill yeah baby!" but it just didn't work in the end. She will do anything I want *except* closing that Instagram account. Telling her I will fuck other girls if she doesn't is my last opti…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:22 AM
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Thanks man. She is friends with a whore on Facebook. There is a woman who is known to be mistress. She is a single mom and whores herself for money to support her kids. Her page is full of seductive pictures on the beach or on her bed. I saw a picture of her together with my girl at some local small time modeling event, which was taken by someone else and posted on a mutual friends page. I asked my girl what she thought about that woman, pretending I didn't know anything about her lifestyle. She…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:45 AM
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I've went dread before. All she does is blow up my inbox begging me to talk to her etc., but when it comes to these Instagram photos she is just not willing to give in and that is why I'm so suspicious of them. Dread isn't working when it comes to this problem, neither did me "holding frame". It's as if she is obtuse to why I was dreading her, so eventually I had to to reveal why. Was this a bad idea?
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:20 AM
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The same strategy applies. You are basically leaving them but you will tell them the reason above to lessen the damage. If they only want you for beta bucks then you wouldn't be hurting them anyway since they don't really love you in the first place.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:28 PM
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No, It worked for me but I only did this to one crazy chick to get her to stop stalking me, but think of it like this. If you have this favorite pet cat of yours and one day it just disappeared and you saw it alone roaming the country side, in good health, you would feel "good for you ol' pal" and be much less agitated than if you saw your favorite pet left you to live it up with your neighbor down the street. It's much better to think your cat just wasn't a people person than to imagine it just…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:06 PM
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Tell her you would rather be alone, that you're not a people person, you lack emotions, that you don't know what love feels like, that you don't want children, and that you feel like something is wrong with you. If she thinks you're leaving her to be an isolated monk she won't be hurt too much. If she thinks you're dumping her for someone else it will devastate her.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:53 PM
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You need to stop thrusting your manhood right at the moment you bust, resisting the urge to get the most out of it. Your orgasm will feel incomplete and you'll be able to go a second round much sooner. It only takes me 1 - 2 mins recovery if I get the timing right. If you keep doing this your balls will get sore over 3 - 4 rounds and the final bust will be much more satisfying due to increased sensitivity. You will be done for the whole day though. Warning: You are highly more likely to get some…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:29 PM
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