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non-monogamy is also far more common in the LGBTQ community, likely less cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:38 AM
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Not a woman but I am bisexual - When I was single there were literally 2 occasions where it was a dealbreaker. I would reveal on the first date (or if it was an obvious hook up, didn't bother since I use protection anyway). Most of the time they were curious, sometimes there were insecurities. My reasoning was any man that meets your standards will have options, I'm no different :) Don't feel like I'm "missing out" when I'm in an exclusive relationship. ​ Helps being good looking, charming etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:33 AM
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Size queens need to know ahead of time whether you meet their standards, so I doubt it happens often at all. Source- bi guy with a 7 inch bone pressed dick who has been rejected by male and female size queens 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:50 AM
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lesbians want to be penetrated too. that's what toys and fingers are for
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:25 AM
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it's bone pressed, which is from the base up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:13 AM
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Too busy lurking r/ladyboners
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:15 AM
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The point is you were attracted to that person at some point. Give it a college effort address the issue(s) that made you lose attraction, if they're under your partner's control. Yes, kinda requires effort, willingness to communicate openly from both parties. if you lost attraction, you put in some effort yet it's clearly beyond the point of no return... move on. You can settle in other areas, but lack of sexual / emotional intimacy should be a dealbreaker for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:12 AM
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Plus, some women in relationships do this in lieu of actually cheating. They flirt, dance a bit, exchange numbers yet don't follow up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:12 PM
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I can imagine these behaviors are prevalent enough to notice... though everyone's susceptible to our preferred echo chambers, world views and biases. Anti-intellectualism is commonly attributed to the uneducated (you can see it analyzed during election cycles). I'm totally willing to concede that's broadly true but I push back when someone wields their undergrad as an appeal to authority when they're uninformed on a given topic... it can go both ways. ​ When I was dating, I actually rarely obser…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:29 AM
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Haha, that checks out... I'm a restaurant manager and part time student. Nothing wrong with being selective ;) I'm also easy on the eyes, charming enough and values can vary even among the educated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:42 AM
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I must be an outlier... I'm an uneducated man living in a major city who has dated ivy-league educated women and my gf earns considerably more than I do. I think for women in this demographic, having a bachelors isn't necessarily a deal-breaker. Assuming you have other redeeming qualities, earn a decent living (ie doesn't have to be 6 figures) and most importantly convey through conversation that you're an intellectually curious, socially competent man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:00 AM
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There's some truth to that. My GF is my height and she's mostly dated taller men, but I'm good looking, jacked and otherwise compatible enough that it didn't matter. That would be an example of a preference. However, there are some women who would consider it a deal breaker. And it's controversial but some won't date / hook up with a particular race not due to racism but bc the look doesn't do anything for them. There are other examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:35 AM
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Bill Burr is my favorite comic, seen this before. And I agree, there's nuance. Maybe I'm coming off as a white knight but when someone says 'there's no barriers when you're good looking' it's concerning It's similar to 'you can grab em by the p****' Anyway, he seems to understand the difference so it's whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:13 AM
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I've posted imgur links with gym pics (ie w a pump) on a thread here about how most men can just get to 15% bf, add 10 lbs of muscle and they'll be in the top 20% of men Maybe I'll create a before and after thread. Also, it wasn't entirely clear by what you meant. Believe what you want, I don't care 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:01 PM
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What I find disturbing is the attitude that there are no barriers. If a woman tells you she's not interested, leave her alone etc... Listen to her. Are there a generation of men who simply ignore women bc 'ppl lie all the time'?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:20 PM
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Haha you can find pics of me on my reddit profile. Tell me I'm a virgin who doesn't know what he's talking about lol If a women tells you no, a firm no you need to listen to her.. I could careless what you believe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:15 PM
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Actually there is a very clear way. You need to take no for an answer man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:30 PM
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So you concede that there is a barrier. Cool. This sub reddit is full of naivety, delusional notions from inexperienced people... Totally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:23 PM
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Yep. That last statement is disturbing. Yes, there are people who will not fuck blacks, white, their peers etc. Yes, most people do date / hook up within their peers groups. Don't take this personally :) I too fucked nearly all races, women in their early to mid 20s (when I was single) before going exclusive last year. I've also good looking, naturally look young and have my natty status questioned regularly. I didn't expect most 20 somethings to want to date a guy in his mid 30s but they did ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:59 PM
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That attitude is kinda disturbing but I get it. Allow me to rephrase... There are girls who are exclusively attracted to older men. Some don't date near their peer group. There are also people who aren't physically attracted at all to black people. Or white people. Or Asian. Not bc they're racist but bc the look just doesn't do it for them. This segment of the dating pool is unavailable due to factors beyond your control and there's nothing you can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:03 PM
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Doesn't matter. If a girl prefers men 10~ years older, they're unavailable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:40 PM
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And you shouldn't. Girls who are into men that age are effectively unavailable to you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:53 AM
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I'm in a relationship, approaching the 8th month. Don't consider myself to be Red Pill... skews misogynistic, over generalizes behaviorial traits. Impressionable young men post here all the time while lacking the real workd experience to question RP tenets * However, I think there are some grains of truth and even a handful of constructive takeaways from RP theory - ie improving yourself will make you a more viable option
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:28 PM
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And she only wanted casual sex in the first place, then it is a win-win for both parties!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:42 AM
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My nudes have circulated through 36% of Chicago at this point. I'd consider it free advertisement
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:31 AM
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Everyone's replaceable. My GF and I have seen each other's tinder activity while we were still dating... we have options. Most people get tired of having options eventually and want something with substance, exclusivity etc. Building a connection with someone, shared experiences is what makes you special.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:34 PM
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Yes... While maintaining my masculine frame, of course!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:53 AM
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Idc what anyone says, Top Gun is a classic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:11 AM
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Exactly. Assuming they're not obese, most avg men can gain 10 lbs of muscle and get to about 15% bf within a couple years. This alone would put them in the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:47 AM
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They can, for something casual. Some will delude themselves into believing there's a chance of developing something serious. Others are aware it's strictly casual and that's all they want at that point in their life... Everyone has to face reality eventually, which is why most couples are typically "looksmatched"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:53 PM
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Average women do not easily or consistently pull incredible looking men... it's a notion perpetuated by this subreddit. They can on occasion "get lucky" and find a guy out of their league in a dry spell (happens to everyone) who will temporarily lower his standards. ​ The disconnect you allude to is that smv =/= rmv
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:30 PM
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No, you have to make sure you're actually in a deficit to lose fat. Training simply keeps your muscle tissue around (along with high protein intake). He should track his calories for a couple weeks while monitoring his weight to determine what his calorie deficit should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:24 PM
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Or, just say you enjoyed her company / night but you don't think we're compatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:11 PM
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A virgin in their mid 20s is something a sheik can reasonably demand. In modern western society, where girls have access to tinder during college, expecting a virgin is extreme. Most people date around their looks match. Women can occasionally hook up with men out of their league but it isn't on demand and they're delusional if they conflate their smv with their rmv
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:49 AM
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Point being the women you just described do not get those men b/c they have unreasonble standards. Finding a virgin or someone with a very low n count who's in their mid-20's is a very tall order. He's either under-qualified yet oblivious like the women in your example or possibly just looking in the wrong places - ie tinder. My guess is it's the former
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:00 AM
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You have a good resume but you're losing them while on dates. My guess is women can sense your desperation to get into a relationship. You should be focusing on having fun with women on dates while asking about their hobbies, interests, passions etc A woman will make it clear she wants to take things to the next level when she's ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:01 AM
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I have to find a particularly unflattering before image that I have in mind, but yeah why not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:24 AM
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Sure. I'll make a post about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:22 AM
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One is a male model, the other runs a niche powerbuilding channel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:26 AM
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I get it bro, you're insecure about your below avg height. All good I've dated plenty of women who value physique / muscularity about as much as height. It unquestionably improved my smv going from 25% DYEL to 13% with 20+ lbs of muscle. The improvement in facial aesthetics from weight loss alone can move you up a point. Alex is a terrible example bc he's just an ugly, short jacked lifter whose target audience is male powerbuilding enthusiasts , the other is a male model lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:19 AM
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Cool. I forgot my comment had nothing to do with height. You can improve smv by losing weight and adding muscle mass. And some women highly value muscularity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:02 AM
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So you agree, women will date short men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:56 AM
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The difference in height is negligible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:53 AM
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Jeff Nippard is the same height
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:08 AM
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There are women who highly value physique or muscularity. I'd argue the avg male (25ish % body fat) could gain a full point on the scale or more by dropping to 12-15% bf while adding 10lbs of muscle
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:48 AM
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"Most average women get pretty much what they want. If they want to sleep with a hot guy, they can do that. Sex with attractive men is on tap 24/7/365. They have options. Are they exercising those options? Yes, when they want to." The avg woman can't get a hot guy when they want bc hot men have higher standards as a result of having more options. Can an average woman get lucky with a hot guy who is in a dry spell every once in a while? Sure, but it's not on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:37 AM
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Unless you're a good looking Bi guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:14 AM
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Probably bc the women you really desire wouldn't give you the time of day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:43 AM
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It's not being aloof and distant per se, as this will eventually lead a woman to placing you in the FWB, FB category until she eventually locks someone down. A guy has to be secure enough to allow the connection organically grow while you're both free agents. The testing will still take place and it benefits the guy who expects it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:31 AM
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Diminishing returns aren't as severe with good genetics (ie good insertion, symmetry, flow etc). I would guess size increases have marginal effects on your SMV once you start the intermediate-advanced transition. As for body composition, 10% is about as low as most natural (or non-competitive) lifters should bother going if their concern is maxing body / facial aesthetics. And even that isn't necessary with adequate muscularity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:25 AM
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Gerald Butler in 300 😅😏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:05 PM
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He was shredded... Tbh I can't remember a role where we was remotely close to being overweight. Getting to 8% bf for him might not be so dreadful lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:27 PM
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For the super hero / action hero roles, usually involves a steroid cycle while peaking for the film. You'll notice they rarely hold onto the lean mass after production. But the great thing is you don't need a competition ready physique to attract most 99.99% of women. 15% with decent muscularity is more than enough. Having a great body certainly helps but ultimately it only gets you in the door, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:06 AM
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The point being is that 15% bf alone puts you in the top 20%. I can tell by your numbers you have the long arm issue lol. You make for it being 6'2 I imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:01 AM
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True. Most people can eat in a deficit and ride newbie gains to a dramatically improved physique... one that will put them in top 10% of men (in the dating pool, not the lifting population)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:16 AM
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My gf and I viewed each other's Tinder queue before we went exclusive... finding regular sex wasn't a concern for either of us. People are more likely to date casually until they find their relationship match. The avg woman has more options than the avg guy, so you see that disparity on apps. In my anecdotal experience, women have usually initiated (or hinted at) the conversation of advancing our relationship. There are no gate-keepers when interest is mutual. When the pacing isn't mutual the un…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:04 PM
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I would rate myself consistently under a 5 throughout most of my 20's. ​ Then, I addressed my mental health - exercise, proper nutrition and wellbutrin is a potent combo for depression. The exercise, lifting and running, has resulted in a pretty good physique, which helps with finding sex. I'm now relatively happy working student with a supportive gf. Rate my avg happiness level at a 7 I would venture to guess much of it has to do with obesity in America. Life is far more taxing in that state th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:19 AM
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Good. Take your time, there's no rush
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:13 PM
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I manage a highly profitable pizzeria in a large city filled men who are better educated, look as good or better and earn more. Yet my educated, vivacious 8 gf makes north of 100k and I regularly dated women who met my standards. The weight women put into a particular category varies on the individual. Stop pitying yourself, hone your strengths while improving on your weak areas. Many companies are providing paid training and a slew of benefits right now to candidates who would be deemed under-q…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:51 AM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 09:11 AM
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life sucks then you die, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:52 AM
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Good point. And often overlooked here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:00 AM
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Many men in their early 20s struggle with the Madonna whore complex There's a lot of projection in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:37 AM
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A woman with a low N count might not be comfortable enough with sex (or with her prior partners) to try new things. So, yes. The more experience gained, the more confident and capable a lover he/she will be and more willing to try new things as a result
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:10 AM
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Same things either sex can universally improve upon... GGG Good, as in good oral technique for example. Game, as in willingness to try new things / explore in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:47 AM
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Learning from experience, practice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:07 AM
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I meant the traditional dating model (ie male is the breadwinner, financial provider role)... She's already brought up the cohabitation convo and I'm open to it. I could see us even getting married in time. My point was women exist with differing values, some not aligned with the traditional model
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:43 AM
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And she's my gf, not a fwb You can contribute to a relationship in many ways beyond finances. The old fashioned traditional approach you follow is fine but it isn't for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:28 AM
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My GF earns over twice as much as me. She doesn't expect me to provide for her financially, rather contribute evenly to our dates etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:17 AM
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Many delusional opinions are found here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:28 AM
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Just say you're having some work done at your place
/r/seduction15/11/21 12:22 AM
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You're vastly overestimating the demand for children in modern western society. If you want to take it in this direction, I'd argue it's more of an inferior good. Take Econ 101 again
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:00 PM
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Birth rates have been in steady decline for years, dropping 4% last year alone. And people are using Tinder to find casual sex, not a relationship that will lead to a family (i met my GF on Tinder, I'd argue it's an exception). Increasing scarcity of natural resources, the ever shrinking middle class, rising debt all factor in. Now, I'm not reductionist by any means but if the inherent value is childbearing, then that stock has been dropping for a while now. The avg women has an advantage over t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:14 PM
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​ It should never really be said in real life because, if true, it's self-evident and the younger women who are down don't need a sales pitch Source - guy who looks young for his age
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:49 AM
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I mean this can be useful to help emotionally stunted men get laid with emotionally unavailable women, but in the context of a relationship (which OP desires), being unable to share a vulnerability reeks of... Wait for it... Insecurity!!
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:40 PM
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Don't confuse insecurity with vulnerability. Despite what you may read, in a relationship women are jot going to bail on you
/r/seduction08/11/21 02:54 PM
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Self help without the guidance of a therapist can be harmful to people around them. Extroplating concepts that don't apply to their interpersonal relationships for example. Diagnosing partners with personality disorders etc, but I digress 😅 Again, he's read way too far into a pill's philosophy and has very little experience with women to come to his own conclusion. It's ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:24 PM
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Upheld. I'd argue it's relevant bc it's a common theme in the meta of this sub - inexperienced guy / woman being led astray by notions of a particular pill, dating strategy, perpetual postulating by people who would be much better off getting real world experience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:10 AM
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About as valid as the opinions of the women who digest a new self-help psych book each week. And yes, he's clueless... Felt like pointing out his female counterpart
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:21 AM
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I agree w/ your sentiment outside of women holding out for months. Leveraging sex as a tactic runs counter to the idea of healthy expression of ones needs in a relationship. ​ Anyway, sex is important but most of the younger men in the various pill communities seem to believe the notion that you must consistently blow her mind to keep her happy. Reality is neither of you will likely be the other's best sexual partner and good sex usually requires a bit of... you guessed it - communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:52 AM
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Sure, the subtext of the interaction is implied - it's man to woman. But we are responsible as individuals to keep decorum and according to OP he's getting these comments before the topic of sex or any form of escalation for that matter. ​ There is nothing "Rapey" about a playful verbal counter to what is, at face value, a rude comment. ​ Maybe this sub-reddit can post a sticky thread for obvious red lights for those trying to improve while respecting boundaries.
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:30 AM
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As a 36 yr old who regularly had success w/ 20-somethings who meet my standards (in a relationship now), his advice is valid if not a bit dramatic. Maybe save the sarcasm when people are offering advice YOU requested. ​ She wants attention / validation from you. Offer her virtually none of it while pursing other girls who are interested. If she asks why you're suddenly MIA, tell her you're busy but might be available to hang / for a date. If she balks, move on :)
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:55 AM
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Being around 6ft matters, I don't think there's a threshold bc women never measured me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:44 PM
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I wouldn't get too concerned about nudes. It's not a requisite for sex at all. Pushing for nudes can make you come off as a fuckboy. The vast majority of women I've slept with (casual or otherwise) didn't exchange nudes with me before our first time. Assuming you've already had good sex with a woman, bring it up in text. "Show me something to keep me up through this Zoom meeting ;)"
/r/seduction15/10/21 12:06 AM
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Twas a joke
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:58 PM
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What's your snap? I can set you up homie. Crawl b4 you walk
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:48 PM
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Like what? She also has a high body count!? 🥵🥵I want my woman to match my libido, which usually means they've had plenty of experience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:02 PM
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This level of delusion is the norm here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:57 PM
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The risk of acute damage from a single cycle is pretty low, assuming it was done properly (ie having bloodwork done pre and post cycle, following through with a PCT), but it's not unheard of. There are influencers around your age who are on TRT for life from one poorly administered cycle. ​ Shredded as in sub 10% bf? Sounds like your regressed slightly, plateaued for while before you started making gains again. Interesting. ​ Started lifting around 3, still making gains a few years later but wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:47 PM
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How much of your gains have you retained and how long has it been since your cycle? Guessing the theory is you can keep most of the gains since you grow easily as a new lifter. My counter point is even if your body is naturally obtainable, without the aid of test (hoping your ran a test base) you're bound to see some regression post cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:04 PM
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Hopping on a cycle as a new lifter is probably one of the dumbest decisions someone can make. You'll grow perfectly fine in the first year... Most people don't even have proper lifting technique down, let alone have a clue about training / nutrition. Sorry, I'm not against using gear as an adult, rather view it as a form of augmentation like breast implants for females. However there is the potential for serious, long term health consequences so advocating the use of PEDs to get a beach bod is r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:52 PM
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Don't. Raw sex is pretty common nowadays, from that random at the bar to educated professionals you meet online. There are condoms that provide a natural feel for both partners. One woman told me about her post-divorced summer romp in Europe shortly after we started fucking.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:43 PM
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"N=1, lets now extrapolate this broadly onto an entire sex and derive immutable laws from my experience" ​ This subreddit in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:01 PM
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'hey, you should come over tonight. I'll get us a bottle of wine (or some white claw etc) and we can make dinner together' Cheaper meal, usually a fun activity and forces her to put in a little effort. If she balks, get busy with life, other women etc then extend the same offer the next time she asks.
/r/seduction21/09/21 08:51 PM
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Haha, I'm not delusional ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:13 PM
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I'm definitely not a 1% man yet have done very well on Tinder... This community is absolutely delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:15 AM
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I'm a 36 yr old with a very good physique who looks young for my age. When I was dating, my range was mid 20s to mid 40s. I've hooked up with an exquisite 21yr old girl this year 🤷 I told her the same thing when she brought up how her peers were commitment phobic etc. Not for my benefit (she lives in a different state), but bc older men (in her case, men in their 30s) generally have gotten past the whole Madonna whore complex phase of life, have a healthy view of sex and are actually interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:30 PM
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You're welcome. Might be a good topic to post about. I'm bi in a monogamous relationship, she's straight yet very open minded and adventurous :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:43 PM
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The way I see it, it's very likely neither of you are each other's greatest sexual partner... to this point. When you grow closer emotionally, the sex tends to improve, assuming there's communication. We're offering each other a unique experience, which really a culmination of all the emotions in the relationship to that point. This includes sex. So, there's little point in wondering where you rank among her past partners as long as you satisfy each other. It's easier to have that discussion ear…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:39 AM
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Actually kinda busy but I will respond to this later since you put in the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:45 AM
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My gf was seeing a 6'7 roided guy with a porn star dick before me (we shared our trophy pics early on) We hit the same positions etc... Im also bi so she's actually a bit insecure that I may be missing sexual acts. Not the case but it can go both ways. If she said that within earshot, it was likely intentional
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:37 AM
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Face actually matters more imo. I also know a few taller guys w avg looks and poor social skills who struggle to get matches. So yes, all things equal I will have more options. It's an injustice you'll just have to accept. Not the worst of them if you just glance across the globe right now. That woe is me attitude radiates off you bro. Like a toxic variety of the Napoleon complex. Gtf over it, looksmax and slay. Or don't :)
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:05 AM
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I met many a "short" Latino w/machismo who absolutely slay. I'm sure it narrows your options a bit (ie the taller viking in seeing) but it isn't hopeless
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:45 AM
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My gf and I started off casual. Her tinder bio read 'the taller, the muscular the better' Were both 5'11 (tbh I'm about ¼" shy so she's taller than me) I'm decently jacked and have an above avg face Height like many physical traits is usually a preference, not a deal beaker
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:28 AM
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Brad Pitt could pull speaking Mandarin ;P Agree w/ your point, though I think it's fine in the initial stages to use a canned response... particularly if there isn't enough rapport to come up with something original
/r/seduction25/08/21 02:57 AM
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They're all well versed in pill theory... No need to develop fundamental social skills, game etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:13 AM
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I'd give it a month to meet via OLD. The more attractive the woman, the longer the queue and they likely have other obligations. Once you meet, expect her to be available at least once a week if there was good chemistry.
/r/seduction22/08/21 05:58 PM
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Are you going to get plastic surgery to achieve this ideal aesthetic? Have a decent sense of style, get into shape (15% body fat and 10+ lbs of muscle* should be obtainable naturally for most men within 2 years of training) and don't look at women through a particular "pill's" lens. ​ Most women's taste in a physically attractive man are malleable particularly if they like you. I'm exclusive with a woman who's 5'11" (i'm 5'10 3/4, w/ a beard) and she typically dates clean shaven, taller men with…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 03:47 PM
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Same. But I'm natty who occasionally gets asked if I take gear when I have a good pump so... No need 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:30 PM
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I'm dating a woman who's tinder bio read "the taller, the muscular, the better ;) ' She's 5'11 and I'm a quarter inch shorter. I just have an anesthetic physique with above average muscle mass (aka with a good pump you might question my natty status). So it comes down to individual preferences vs deal breakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:45 PM
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David laid is significantly more attractive than AlphaDestiny and it has little to do with the height difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:34 PM
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Hmm. I had a fling earlier this year w/fun. Cambridge-educated feminist. I'm paraphrasing but one conversation I found rather illuminating was about sex. "sure, support us in the fight against the patriarchy etc but when we're in bed behind closed doors, I expect you (the guy) to take the lead" So, it isn't domination over this particular woman's eyes, since we both asserted ourselves during the act of sex... The normal give and take of the act but she did defer to me. Submitting her self to my …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:17 AM
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Gets toxic at times and tbh I think there are a lot of young men who are disillusioned from Tinder. They seek echo chambers, fall into a self-defeating mindset etc. You may not lack experience but I think many men do. I think she's objectively more attractive than me but there isn't a huge disparity. She earns over twice as much but there is a healthy power dynamic. Not denying looks matter. We're not going to fuck 'uggos' but there's a threshold where other factors have a larger impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:27 PM
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No. They're qualities that keep a woman around. Looks get you at most a couple weeks in bed. Women move on from 'fuckboys' quickly. I'd argue you'd be better off getting some IRL dating experience rather than debating pill theory on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:58 PM
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Charm, charisma, humor. Chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:25 PM
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Can't Comment on London either. Yes she certainly has. We even showed each other our private collection of past nudes etc. The guy I followed was 6'7", shredded and on TRT at minimum and w/ a porn star dick for good measure. As long as we like each other, which we do, why should I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:16 PM
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Chicago. Certainly helps living in a large market but you also have a higher concentration of 'high value' men (and women). Women can screen with extreme vigilance here. Another data point... Ive been seeing a 5'11" woman with an incredible body, sexy auburn eyes with a great smile etc.. Her bio quite literally states she wants a taller guy with muscles. I check only one of those boxes. Point being there are deal breakers and preferences. If you have other redeeming qualities, you don't have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:24 AM
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A 20 something on tinder thought I was height fishing her after telling I'm 5'11 "oh, so you're 5'9" If I'm going to exaggerate, wouldn't I choose the 6 foot standard? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 10:59 AM
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My anecdotal 2 cents - not shredded (14%ish bf but a good natty physique Above avg face but not traditionally 'hot' (a 7 with a distinct look... Im someone's 8) Am white (Greek jew and I play off it in my bio) I consistently get laid with women that meet my standards via tinder. Shocking I know. If we're talking about the hottest, most vain 2% then yes, be a 6 ft÷ model. There are other criteria beyond pure looks for most women even for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 10:55 AM
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You can get laid at that height without being a male model too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 10:17 AM
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They can see the first line of your bio. Maybe get a pic at an amusement park next to a 'you must be this tall to ride' post, arm slung on it. Humorous and suggestive ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:44 PM
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Girth matters more than length, OP Porn does distort sex and penis size. Im 6.5 w/ decent girth yet believed I had an avg dick bc of porn. Humblebrag aside, with enough foreplay a 4 inch dick can satisfy a woman. So yeah, don't worry about it. It's likely not the first time she's seen a smaller than avg sick
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:28 AM
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Looked like 45 minutes extra per day. You don't get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate. Weightlifting provides a transient boost post workout and will improve T Levels overall... But it isn't the remedy for chronic low T. Both males and females see declining endogenous T production as they age. Eventually men use TRT to offset this natural process. I don't see why women should be excempt from hormone optimization
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:01 PM
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Looked like 45 minutes extra per day. You don't get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate. Weightlifting provides a transient boost post workout and will improve T Levels overall... But it isn't the remedy for chronic low T. Both males and females see declining in endogenous T production as they age. Eventually men use TRT to offset this natural process. I don't see why women should be excempt from hormone optimization
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:24 PM
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Looked like 45 minutes extra per day. You don't get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate. Weightlifting provides a transient boost post workout and will improve T Levels overall... But it isn't the remedy for chronic low T. Both males and females see declining in endogenous T production as they age. Eventually men use TRT to offset this natural process. I don't see why women should be excempt from hormone optimization
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:24 PM
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Looked like 45 minutes extra per day. You don't get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate. Weightlifting provides a transient boost post workout and will improve T Levels overall... But it isn't the remedy for chronic low T. Both males and females see declining in endogenous T production as they age. Eventually men use TRT to offset this natural process. I don't see why women should be excempt from hormone optimization
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:23 PM
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Can you cite that study? Is that 2 extra hrs a day or week? By all means you should, within reason, accommodate your partner and help ease the burden... Stress can have a mild impact on T levels but if your libido is in the tank, that's an issue that should be addressed by a doctor. Which is her (or his) own personal responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:02 PM
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I too think a vibrator would be the best LTR candidate for some women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:03 AM
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This presumes responsibilities aren't evenly split. Stress comes with the territory of the ambitious. Sorry, but men are not responsible for a woman's personal hormonal health. Stress management skills and HRT can remedy low T for a woman who's too busy to allocate a few hours a week for exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:57 AM
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It's possible to date women above your socioeconomic level assuming the gap isn't extreme Women are just as apt to demand a prenupt in 2021 as men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:50 PM
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It is an issue for some women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:30 AM
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Only if she also happens ugly and is tired of waiting on a desperate, more attractive guy to hit her up ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:00 AM
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Unless they're on Bumble where it's required for women to initiate, some women also shoot their shot on an app w/ men who they feel are above their level. They're 'breaking the norms' in an effort to get his attention. I honestly don't like using the scale but for the sake of simplicity, I don't swipe more than "2 points" under my level. So yeah, they're on my 'level' and comfortable enough to take the initiative or rarely the woman is more attractive and I'm just her type... or they prefer to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:39 AM
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They'll usually say things like that to women they perceive as lower value. Or lower relative value There are oblivious idiots out there too but after having candid conversations w/ women who I considered 6's (based purely on looks... personality, accents, ambition, chemistry certainly factor but i think the discussion is based on Tinder), they seem to get blunt proposals like that often. Your point is valid... I was one of the guys who flirted effectively ie put in some effort
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 06:50 AM
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Sounds like an avoidant attachment style, as counter-intuitive as that seems
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:34 AM
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I've double booked at the same cocktail lounge. Humblebrag ikr but I think as a guy you're probably going follow through w/ both unless there is a massive disparity in desirability between the two and the logistics w/ the hotter one conflicts
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:04 AM
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Cute but crazy. Proceed with caution
/r/seduction04/07/21 12:11 AM
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Women do like muscles, or more accurately men who are fit But, Face >>> Body for most women Facial Aesthetics max out at lower body fat levels you're not going simply to hop on a SARM cycle and crush if you're kinda uggo (absent other redeeming qualities) Source - nattydaddy with a 8.5/10 physique, 7/10 face
/r/seduction12/06/21 08:15 AM
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Say "My Big Mac's already super sized, ty" with a wink. Ask for her iG
/r/seduction25/05/21 08:50 AM
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Me - "What are your thoughts on awkward silences?" Her - "I don't mind at all" About on hour into a Tinder date. We had sex and 3 month fling. Sometimes it's ok to acknowledge the totally normal lulls in conversation.
/r/seduction25/05/21 04:30 AM
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I think it's easier when you have a safety net. I found pretty intense, raw attraction and one good relationship from it. Using apps about 4 yrs, started lifting and it turns out I have pretty solid genetics which helped.
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:03 PM
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I think the best advice here to have a diversified portfolio. I skew introverted, so dating apps have been a godsend. Guess I'm one of the 10% who've had success on it. But, it is a crutch. Let's use another app for an anology... GrubHub it's convenient, satisfying option with little effort. You can find good options in your area on GH. But it's not practical to feed myself daily using it (those who are likely aren't on this subreddit). I still have to do grocery shopping and prepare most of my …
/r/seduction23/05/21 03:30 PM
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Crazy is a broad term but I agree with about BPD. Problem is that the tell-tale traits of BPD aren't obvious until you've been dating them for a minute
/r/seduction13/05/21 04:06 AM
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if you want something deeper, then you need a deeper confidence Assuredness
/r/seduction12/05/21 06:02 AM
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Toss up between Hs / College and my mid-30's. Stopped keeping track after 20 ​ Edit - currently in my Mid-30's. Everyone from my peer group to 20-somethings who like older men to the twice divorced cougars looking for her next "narcissistic" ex are fair game... but I wish OLD was a thing in my early 20s lol
/r/seduction12/05/21 02:14 AM
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If I'm a High Value Man who a lot of Which is important for men to ensure there's a libido match early on. Porn sex confuses me a bit... do you mean women don't have to be a good partner? Most women want to please men they're dating. If they're so rigid as to not even try, they're likely not worth your time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:01 AM
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Omg Porn also warps the your idea of a "big dick" ​ Turns out I have a big dick, but it's average by porn standards. This whole time I could've been harnessing BDE
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:50 AM
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Lol good. It's a still an honest showcase of your options and communicates that she is in fact replaceable even if you don't say it explicitly (which I hope no one does lol) And that's usually accurate. You should see some of the half-hearted ice breakers on Bumble... Like theyre there bc it's not Tinder but they're clearly not down with taking the initiative haha
/r/seduction11/05/21 03:30 AM
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You should express your desire but telling her you're going to rewatch her nude videos is just a tad bit creepy (even if they know you will). That was your first mistake. Sending nudes unprompted was your second mistake. And you missed out on a fuck buddy, at best :0)
/r/seduction11/05/21 03:20 AM
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I would've showed her my tinder match pool for the week, let her swipe a bit as well. Remind her that just about anyone is replaceable :)
/r/seduction11/05/21 03:00 AM
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Where are you most in your element? ​ Go when there are women around. Interact with them. ie . Whenever I karaoke, i'm usually giving off a fun, carefree vibe. People like that kind of vibe. And there are still plenty of women who're more comfortable meeting men "out in the wild"
/r/seduction28/04/21 03:25 AM
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I'm a pizza guy who's dated ivy league educated professionals. Better than avg looks, very good body, smarter than the AL avg bear and charming. Demontrate you are a man who respects yet isn't intimidating by her intellect Edit - also a student financing my own education. So I have something else going for me, my mission of you will
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 03:17 AM
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I dated a recently divorced woman last year. We had unprotected sex from the start, and I assumed it was fine bc she's recently divorced professional who is probably just getting back into dating. Turns out she fucked half of Istanbul last summer as she was getting over her ex and making up for lost time Yeah, not having bareback sex until I'm exclusive for now on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 01:28 PM
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Fun. You fuck until you pass out from exhaustion during the honey moon phase
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:28 PM
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Maybe!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:13 PM
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if an introvert like me can take a solo trip and meet people, going entirely outside his comfort zone, anyone can do it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:42 PM
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I went on a solo, spring break road trip to Milwaukee last weekend. Met a nice attorney in an upscale cocktail lounge. When we got onto the subject of dating in 2021, he told me he doesn't use any apps. Just meets women at social events. The next night, I went to karaoke downtown. Met a hot 20-something who went back to hotel w/ me that night. I likely would've never matched swiping on her even though she likes older men. Did I "get lucky?"? A little, but it wouldn't have ever happened had I sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:56 PM
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A woman opened me on Bumble with "Whats up Catfish?" Evidently it was a reference to the show and intended to be a compliment lol. ​ I asked myself if I made this cringy attempt, would I expect her to unmatch? The answer was Yes, so I unmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 04:56 AM
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As a bi guy (and a solid 7 - w/ a good body), I could open Grindr and have a guy on par with anyone in her queue ready to meet within an hour. As for "no reason" for her to hang around, maybe not. If all you have to offer is a decent lay without much else, then yeah she'll seek other options. Particularly if she's only interested in casual sex at the moment. People do eventually get over the novelty of abundance. Substance, chemistry, deeper needs win out eventually. ​ ** and that's not to insin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 04:23 AM
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I actually did loosen boundaries a bit at times. Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 10:54 PM
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Again, she's self aware and trying to address her faults... Self improvement Plus she's got other things to be preoccupied by. She wouldn't be able to sabotage anything. And it's likely not in her nature. She'd just withdraw and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:20 PM
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She ended things and suggested a month break. I agreed. She's not ready for anything resembling a relationship right now... BPD or no BPD. Wished her a happy bday last week, had a nice exchange... She asked if I'm OK blah blah blah I'm going to date, do me. Ball is in her court. I woundnt mind being a friend, platonic or otherwise eventually but I'm not getting invest emotionally (ie in a relationship) w her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:52 PM
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Often claimed to be the victim in past relationships. Never offered up what she have contributed to the demise of past relationships... Though having seen the patterns it requires no further explanation. Devaluation shortly after going exclusive. 'youre thinking months in advance and I'm just thinking about next week'... Yet she was making plans for a trip to Mexico, even showing me the locale, different hotel options. She's sent me different' projects' .. Suggested reading (usually in neuroscie…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:21 PM
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I care about her... We were exclusive for a minute afterall. Is the desire to not want to be hurt by someone who is unstable (in a relationship) yet still be quite fond of their qualities, to admire them as a flawed but caring soul mutually exclusive? And she's not a victim in this circumstance. Self aware, acknowledged her faults. She's working on it. I want her to be happy..I'm a work in progress too... Hence the mentor with benefits dynamic. Both of us are in a transitional phase in life. . A…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:01 PM
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Some love bombing language - some bold gestures, pushing away while projecting issues... Usually in a complete reversal of course. . Claims her ex was BPD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:09 PM
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She's a very intelligent, self aware human who is actually working on her mental health. She's been a mentor figure with benefits... Having similar trauma in the past. And I enjoy her company
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:48 PM
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I just had my first experince with a likely BPD woman. I heard they boomerang back... is that true? Sex was pretty good and I do care about her. Wouldn't mind another bout in couple months
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:57 AM
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Like, BPD women (and avoidant attachment types perhaps) will do that. It's not a typical response. If stable woman is pulling away, it's usually for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:52 AM
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one day you're screaming you love me loud, the next day you're so cold
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:45 AM
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Most women understand that men's casual sex standards are considerably lower than their dating standards. The ones who don't accept it post on r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:34 AM
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One of the best tidbits of advice was from a gay co-worker who clued me in on a basic skincare regimen. Genetics helps too but that "dusty" appearance often comes down to skin maintenance - IE sunscreen, daily moisturizing, staying hydrated, plenty of veggies etc ​ When I shave or keep short stubble, I'm often mistaken for someone in their mid / late 20's. You hit on something by mentioning the age cut-off. Even with a very good physique, everything on point... people have a set age limit that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:24 AM
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It's absolutely doable but tbh I wouldn't recommend it beyond your beginner phase. Takes a level of calibration that's on par with a bulking cycle. ​ Eventually, you're going to have to increase your calorie intake to support new tissue growth. Better off eating at a slight surplus to minimize fat gain / optimize muscle growth then cut later.
/r/seduction14/07/20 03:25 AM
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If you're new to lifting, you can get away with eating at slight deficit during your newbie gains phase.
/r/seduction12/07/20 08:10 PM
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You're likely above average looking (probably an unaware 8) who lives with hot, industry women... Not to take anything away from your epiphany, but with access to hot bartender social circles, literally all you have to do avoid stepping on your own feet
/r/seduction30/06/20 12:09 PM
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Pay for 50k iG followers, photoshop yourself into some exotic locations, and the obligatory shirtless pic next to a sports car while holding a puppy, niether of which you own. Or lose the pessimism, work on yourself a bit and stop chasing women that are out of your league? You need to prove you can hit for a good avg in the minors before you get promoted to the majors
/r/seduction20/06/20 08:28 AM
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2pac - how do you want it Song will have you running game on any woman that makes eye contact At least the first couple verses before it veers off into different beefs he had at the time
/r/seduction20/06/20 08:14 AM
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This disrupted my life plans as well... And many others like us. On the plus side, everyone is going to hornier than a prisoner out in parole after this 👍
/r/seduction24/03/20 08:41 AM
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Lol. It's never too late to alter your trajectory. Unless we all die of course. So maybe don't worry about it after all? But srsly, had a great night with a girl in her mid twenties as a guy in his mid 30s just before everything went defcon 4. Takes some upkeep but you can age well :)
/r/seduction24/03/20 08:21 AM
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I'm in no way suggesting self improvement ends at 30, the opposite actually. From lurking this sub, it becomes pretty clear that most of the men are somewhere in their 20s. The lifestyle you can offer becomes the most important factor as you age. Sure, you'll still get laid with above average looks and good flirtation but there comes a point where the most desirable women, won't settle for a hook up let alone date you if there's too large of a socioeconomic gap. Success respects success aka Game…
/r/seduction24/03/20 08:18 AM
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Check in when you reach your 30s
/r/seduction24/03/20 07:53 AM
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Flashing your trade wages in the face of a gold digger probably won't accomplish much but agree with the underlying message of the post
/r/seduction24/03/20 06:35 AM
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Are you in an alternate time line without a worldwide epidemic or just dgaf?
/r/seduction23/03/20 11:19 PM
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The outbreak certainly wont but governments cant expect to shut everything down for much longer than that
/r/askTRP15/03/20 05:33 PM
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Due to the epidemic? Maybe. I'm not a bombshell by any means... Above avg looks, good body etc. Having enough charm to get women out helps.
/r/seduction12/03/20 07:03 PM
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People are still gonna fuck, but you'll have to remove the mass virgin orgy from your calendar
/r/seduction12/03/20 07:05 AM
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It's freshing to see contributions from men who aren't twenty somethings.
/r/seduction25/01/20 08:20 PM
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i think college girls, who are likely still financially dependent on their parents, don't mind if another college guy lives at home. This is just a matter of logistics and he has a solution
/r/seduction08/01/20 07:14 AM
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It's a helpful way to increase opportunities but shouldn't be the sole option. I say this while relying on it primarily. it's a problem ​ This just happened btw, went out with a match on Tinder... went from meeting at a xmas festival downtown chicago, to drinks and a late movie which we made out afterwards. As good as you can expect a date to go... ultimately she ended up ghosting. ​ So, yeah. Par for the course
/r/seduction03/01/20 05:28 AM
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I'm interested in his response to your 3rd question. You can form a ltr with a women after a hook up if you're both compatible btw.
/r/seduction02/12/19 04:52 AM
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That's POF, 2019. almost as if they allow spam bots so their premium membership looks more appealing...
/r/seduction21/06/19 04:31 AM
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"You should really work on your manners, princess" With a smile. Then leave.
/r/seduction11/02/19 06:22 PM
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Very important. Seduction follows attraction. You can't seduce what isn't attracted to you. It matters less as you age, when other factors come into play. What a woman looks for in her early 20s will be different than her early 30s. "Women are attracted to your lifestyle, Men are attracted to their body" Ever notice how most of the famous seduction gurus are above avg in looks btw?
/r/seduction09/02/19 02:55 AM
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Yeah. Forbidden fruit is tempting but not worth the squeeze.
/r/seduction23/12/18 07:10 PM
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There's so much risk involved hooking up with a Co-worker (especially as a professional), not to mention that it could be an affair for all he knows. What if he freaks out runs to HR after you make the pitch?
/r/seduction23/12/18 11:45 AM
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Guessing that's part of the allure for her
/r/seduction23/12/18 11:17 AM
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You certainly didn't give a fuck about the orientation
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:47 AM
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There's a serial killer targeting people at random in my area of Chicago. Gonna try this once he's caught
/r/seduction10/11/18 04:39 AM
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Same happened to me. Not sure what I did to tank my Elo score. But, 10 plus a day is either an exaggeration, or they have a very high market value and right swipe on everyone, filtering the matches later.
/r/seduction04/11/18 02:43 PM
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Totally. I worked construction at uncle's company for about a year in Tennessee. He employed siblings, one in her early 40s and the brother in his early 50s, who lived in the area most of their life. He used moisturizer and sunscreen regularly while his sister neglected her skim through out the years. As a result he looked considerably younger than his sister with healthier skin. It's truly a remarkable difference. Look at it as a basic maintenance routine for your skin. He claimed to start in h…
/r/seduction20/09/18 03:07 PM
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My best advice is to shamelessly flirt with as many college age girls. There's no use in worrying about the criteria of a fwb, pure one time hook up as they will tend to evolve naturally. Don't worry about the minutia, stop over analyzing the trivial bits and enjoy the college booty ffs 😃
/r/seduction03/06/18 06:12 PM
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You'll ideally have chemistry in both scenarios, the main difference is that you're escalating sexually much earlier on
/r/seduction02/06/18 11:37 PM
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A beta with alpha tendencies would totally say that. Everyone knows true alphas are one dimensional, emotionally stunted and have no less than 20% Neanderthal DNA.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 07:05 PM
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I still get about 3-4 matches whenever I swipe. Think it would be worth it to change? I heading to FL in a couple days and was planning on using the Gold membership for a month to set up a few meets.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 12:07 AM
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Yep. They may be a bit turned on by it, in the moment, having a man assert themselves , by putting them in their place (aka like handling a shit test). But, you are not going to 'tame', or domesticate a spoiled hb9+ (or hb7/8 that perceive themselves higher). They've gone their entire life getting what they want. Sure, the smarter ones will give you lip service, likely play along out of amusement, but the pattern of defiance will pop back up. Like shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 09:34 AM
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If you act like this in every, you run the risk of becoming known as the uncompromising, abrasive douche. Trump is in an absolute position of power. If you're in a position like that, yes you can pull stunts like that. Even get co-dependent women w/ daddy issues w/ it. But for the rest of of the world, I think using those tactics whenever confronted/ challenged w/ an opposing view (esp when you're wrong), is kind of ill-advised.
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