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| 12 | Absolutely scrotesque | stevebuscemispenis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 12:30 AM |
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| 24 | One of the best break downs of the minds of men who watch porn. Protect your peace and protect your wombs ladies. #AllmenThis is something I’ve only really learned about recently. It’s still difficult for me to grasp. Like, I just can’t wrap my head around it. I can’t IMAGINE viewing half the population in that way. Insanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/22 06:10 AM |
| 7 | One of the best break downs of the minds of men who watch porn. Protect your peace and protect your wombs ladies. #AllmenHoly fuck, this is so mind boggling.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Join the FDS Discord server to keep in touch with your FDS sisters!Is the Discord still running? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 03:27 PM |
| 15 | Holy shit this is genius 😂😂😂🤣🤣😂Tea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him.This week I’m moving out of the place my ex and I share (separate rooms). We’ve been on and off for 4.5 years, I’m breaking the cycle. He doesn’t know I’m leaving yet, but when I’m gone I need to keep reminding myself I’m gone for a reason… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 05:18 PM |
| 13 | Another Breakup Survival TipBreakups are always difficult no matter how much of a shit the other person was. FDS really does help massively to remind you of your worth and to point out low value unacceptable behaviours that you’d become accustomed to. Good luck on your healing path! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 02:37 PM |
| 18 | What are some red flags about men’s cleanliness?Dirty/long fingernails and toenails is also the first thing I thought of. Some dudes really be walking around with fucking talons inside their dirty broken Reebok’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 07:21 AM |
| 6 | What are some red flags about men’s cleanliness?You said it perfectly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 07:19 AM |
| 23 | What to do when you see a Pickmeisha receiving terrible advice on other dating subsHey, one is better than none, and if they benefit from this in any way then that’s totally a win, so good job. I’ve gotten one person onto FDS (and Reddit in general) and it literally changed her life and perspectives and helped her leave her abusive ex bf and process/understand the situation better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 07:12 AM |
| 10 | Absolutely scrotesqueBut that would mean having to respect my wife and prioritising her pain and medical condition over my erection >:-( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 01:27 AM |
| 14 | Absolutely scrotesque“Conjugal right” AKA “I deserve to rape my wife”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 12:30 AM |
| 15 | My strategy for Pickme AnthemsI kinda do the same thing with the word ‘hoe’ and always imagining it’s directed towards a man. He a hoe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:54 PM |
| 10 | FDS is NOT mISanDrY, FDS is ANTI-MISOGINY and PRO-WOMEN!! Learn the difference!Ooooofffft | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 07:02 PM |
| 2 | LVM chase the women they want and let/make the women they want to use, chase them.‘The Grass Is Always Greener’ mindset amongst insecure LVM because they’re not good enough it’s projected onto everything/everyone around them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Women can predict a man’s interest in short-term uncommitted relationships just by looking at his face - Scientific study resultsScrotenocchio: everytime you disrespect women your hairline moves back a millimetre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Are You The “Clingy” Type?“If I’m too much, go find less.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Use a privacy screen on your devicesHA, I chortled. This is actually genius. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 03:24 PM |
| 2 | She kicked him out of her house mid stroke lol. Don't let them use you as a fleshlight.u/savevideo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Dating coach says to implement a 3 month no kissing rule. Thoughts?Ugh we’re damned if we do and damned if we don’t lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Dating coach says to implement a 3 month no kissing rule. Thoughts?Yes! I’ve also seen her videos shared where she shames victims of childhood trauma. She’s trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:23 AM |
| 2 | If you're still using dating apps, you're a pickmeScrote Bingo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:34 AM |
| 3 | YepAnd it makes him mad??!?!!!? Wowee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Another post to say "thank you" and to say to the newcomers, Give it time!! Also this might be some helpful advice for recovering kinkme's.Sorry for assuming you hadn’t! It’s 6am I’ve got brain mash >.> I haven’t read Attached yet but tbh there’s a tonne of info and resources on the AT sub :) I’ve started reading The Body Keeps The Score and it’s a pretty broad overview of trauma and connecting behaviour dots to things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Another post to say "thank you" and to say to the newcomers, Give it time!! Also this might be some helpful advice for recovering kinkme's.You should look into attachment theory! Learning about my own attachment style and patterns/behaviours has been groundbreaking, explains a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:45 PM |
| 11 | If you're still using dating apps, you're a pickme“I don’t know how to use a washing machine and I WILL raise my voice at you” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:23 PM |
| 2 | If you're still using dating apps, you're a pickmeAbout a year ago I moved to a different city and my best friend convinced me to download Hinge because “it’s different”..... After making my profile, no exaggeration, in the span of a minute I received the most disgusting message from some sultana looking old scrote talking about doing drugs and having sex with me. Never again. The sheer audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Caught Red-Handed (Literally)What the fuck! I’m so sorry you had to go through that, that’s actually so fucking traumatic! Why can’t these cretins just be normal human beings? Like I can’t even begin to wrap my head around it... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 04:50 PM |
| 2 | If he wanted to, he would!Delegation, mental and emotional labour PLUS you just know whatever it is won’t get done correctly/to standard anyway 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:49 PM |
| 2 | If he wanted to, he would!Heya real quickly I’ve only just seen STBXH used here recently, what does it mean? Thank y’all :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | This is just so sad. Them LVM got her manipulated that one night stands are really going to have any benefit to her.Holy fucking revelations! I needed to see this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 01:58 PM |
| 15 | There is no obligation for you to stay with an unaffectionate man.Ooooooffffft this one got me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Instead of going on walk dates, buy yourself a trash grabber so that you can pick up trash in a way that at least benefits your local communityAgreed! Her describing the sniffs made my heart smile 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Honestly never though of it this way, I love it!Stunning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 06:45 PM |
| 11 | Honestly never though of it this way, I love it!Then God created Steve lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 06:43 PM |
| 114 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoOmg! Plus “towels don’t need to be washed, you’re clean when you use them” >.>.>.>.>.>.>.> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 100 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmao“Must be nice to be a scrote!” Fuuuck lmao this got me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 06:34 PM |
| 17 | I dated a Softboi so you don’t have to!The Barefoot UTI ™ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:29 PM |
| 4 | I’m bi but following FDS is completely killing my attraction to menYES while waiting to cross at the traffic lights in broad daylight with other people around. Just no shame. It made me gag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:02 PM |
| 35 | Stop Normalizing “Avoidant” Attachment Styles for MenRight?! If you’re telling me about your attachment style then you better also be in the position where you’re self aware and actively working on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts?She mentioned she was coerced into it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Men battering women for rejecting them must come from more than just a sense of entitlement.When I’m out and about I’ll have my headphones in but won’t have anything playing so I can still hear everything going on around me. Countless times I’ve been catcalled/harrassed by men but I just pretend I’m listening to music and can’t hear. I can guarantee this has saved me from SOOOOO MANY aggressive entitled “Oi I’m talking to you, don’t fucking ignore me” type scrotes. Plus it makes them look foolish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:44 PM |
| 4 | Getting rid of my old bdsm stuffJust quickly, but thank you for saying this! I’m pretty young and hookup culture is insane. It’s near impossible to have a friendship or even a conversation with a man without being sexualised. Fairly recently it’s been getting to me more and more. I interact with people human being to human being, and if that sort of ‘energy’ and ‘connection’ isn’t there then there’s nothing in it for me sexually, like what’s the point?! I’ve been made to feel like I’m wrong and unusual for viewing sex and inti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Gross guy on snapchat thinks he reckons he has a "good chance" with me for being the complete bare minimum of what a human should beWHEEZE! Yes! Such goblin-like behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 03:42 PM |
| 18 | Age that women first noticed men were looking at them sexually in graph form. Comments are full of the usual male denial that this ever happens. Gotta wonder why they feel so personally offended at this graph that they’d issue kneejerk rebuttals🤔When I was 6/7 years old I’d go over and play with the neighbours dog. The neighbour in question was a man in his late 30’s that smokes in his house and had coins in plastic cups everywhere (and was probably on drugs idk). I remember he used to give me biscuits and alcohol to drink from a plastic Chinese take away container because he didn’t have any clean glasses. He’d put me on his shoulders and would always tell me he was going to marry me when I was 18... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Another night on OKCupid.....Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | McScrote and the AudacityHoly scrote! That reminds me, a few years ago my friend and I were at the shops and a random man followed us to our car. We sort of noticed just as we were approaching the car so as I got to the drivers side I didn’t unlock it but this strange man literally had his fucking hand out ready to OPEN THE BACK DOOR OF MY CAR!!!!!!! I was in shock. I was like “what are you doing!???!?” And he responded “how’d you get your body looking that good?” or something along those lines. Like....... I just don’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:47 PM |
| 9 | Husband has a porn collection of one of his studentsI’m 23 and even I don’t use Snapchat. If a guy asks me for my Snapchat it totally puts me off. Also kind of unrelated but this just reminded me, IRL some fucking random scrote asked me how many Instagram followers I had! I nearly scrEamed lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Who else felt it was your fault you were sexualized because of your bubbly/friendly personality and poor boundaries?Real quick, what does OLD mean? I keep seeing it pop up here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Another night on OKCupid.....Not gonna lie, I zoomed in on his little icon photo and laughed a little | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Another night on OKCupid.....His...his what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:33 PM |
| 39 | I am so over this—second person blocked this week“I just have a low opinion of myself” that made me cringe. Like, seek help and try to figure out where your inferiority complex stems from, then learn to love and value yourself before wasting more women’s time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 01:15 PM |
| 11 | I just had this exchange after telling a man us females don’t enjoy the “attention” we get. I’m fuming that these men exist.r/selfawarewolves I’ve heard it countless times when men try to discount women’s experiences like this. Like a weird one-upmanship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:23 PM |
| 21 | Used fds on a male "friend". It's actually quite a relief to just let it go.Thank you. This hit me especially hard. Yesterday I came to the full realisation that someone who I thought was my genuine friend and cared about me human being to human being had other intentions. It fucking hurts, and I’m even crying writing this. Knowing that the time we spent together and the friendship we had that I valued for what it was, he had that thought in the back of his mind. Like YUCK. I could NEVER imagine spending time with and befriending someone just so I could hopefully get so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Polyana Viana, female UFC fighter who beat up a mugger in RioOh yeah, it’s not connected to my actual keys. It’s actually connected to the wrist attachment part of my personal alarm and I wear them both together at the same time. Sorry, should’ve elaborated! EDIT: It’s also not the pinky ring type thing, I’ll add a link to it here: https://www.knivesdeal.com/Cat-Self-Defense-Knuckle-Key-Chain--Hot-Pink_p_1355.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 01:23 PM |
| 5 | Polyana Viana, female UFC fighter who beat up a mugger in RioYes yes yes! Relying on your keys as a self defence weapon is ludicrous! Not being able to access your car/home AND the chance of the attacker or anyone else getting a hold of them (and who’s to say the person that acquires them doesn’t know where you live)?! I bought a personal alarm which has a wrist attachment and I also purchased a cat shaped ‘key ring’ that doubles as a sort of knuckle duster for an absolute last ditch emergency self defence weapon. I know I wouldn’t be able to physically f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 07:23 AM |
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