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plate/next
/r/askTRP05/06/15 06:23 PM
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a real man knows the difference between reality and ideology
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:11 PM
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I don't know why you are downvoted. Guess this place isn't as "amoral" as it claims. You are staying with this girl, and in a relationship with her (though not exclusive and not overtly open) for the duration, cohabitation is a commitment. There are few true dichotomies in life. The fact that you aren't fucking kinda makes her not a plate. You are in an asexual ltr with her and fucking on the side. Practically speaking though, cheating is a formula for disaster, especially if you are considering…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 02:01 PM
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That is probably a good point, I haven't looked lately but yah it is mostly a gay male problem, not a princess problem. http://www.aids.gov/hiv-aids-basics/hiv-aids-101/statistics/ (why isn't there a bar for white hetero males?!?)
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:45 PM
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Ugh, according to the CDC 1 out of four people with HIV are female in the US, what the fuck? What retard could possibly turn this into a "women are more vulnerable" line of shit? http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/gender/women/ Of course the CDC is on it now that it has been framed as a womens health issue.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:38 PM
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Looked up some numbers at: http://wonder.cdc.gov/controller/datarequest/D58 Rate per 100,000 disease, male, female Chlamydia, 150.48, 479.88 Gonorrhea, 114.04, 118.57 Syphilis, 5.10, 1.51 I'm not even sure the data is there to make a claim about women being more "vulnerable".
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:35 PM
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nobody said life is fair. Expecting to rewrite society is gonna make you the most unhappy person in the world.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 03:25 AM
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Haven't been in a while, talked to a CBT guy. There is a lot of B.S. but I was able to pick his brain a bit on a lot of mechanical stuff, i.e. hypothalamus vs amygdala. Differences in limbic system function between the sexes, various studies, meditation, rewiring/reparenting via cognition, etc. I had no problem challenging him on the loftier claims though. He was no red-piller, I wouldn't mind asking him about a couple concepts though, but at least understood that there are genuine differences b…
/r/askTRP28/08/14 06:28 PM
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I couldn't do that to my kids.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:32 AM
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he nailed it. do your homework, read the sidebar, ask good intelligent questions, not emotional ones. Don't preach to us, don't cast unjustified aspersions, don't make moral judgement, don't ask me to clarify that mess you wrote. You don't ask a fish how to catch fish, especially one who's truthiness and very perception depends on current emotional state. read the sidebar newbie.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:12 AM
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Yup, reads like you should have been banned. New users complaining about how they want things to be, how they think things should be, or how they imagine things used to be will be removed and banned. And of course: Mindless, endless bitching is annoying. The mod team will delete and ban on the spot. The hamster is strong in this one.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:01 AM
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good, let the butthurt flow through you!
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:52 PM
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I read it, did you read that big link about concern trolling (i.e. the rules?)? It was (and is) typical.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:46 PM
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ah, victim complex, good, let it flow through you...
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:40 PM
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4 simple yes/no questions for you. zero or more followup questions depending on responses. are you male (with a penis)? were you born a male (with a penis)? do you like sex (not just "need")? do you like sex with women (with a vagina)?
/r/askTRP27/08/14 06:41 PM
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"I love you" try /r/altTRP maybe?
/r/askTRP27/08/14 06:07 PM
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I don't care how you feel either :)
/r/askTRP27/08/14 05:53 PM
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You are avoiding the "with women" part of the equation for some reason. I don't care how you act personally. Just saying that this is a specific forum that might not apply to you, and is no judgment against you if you don't have similar goals.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 05:44 PM
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It was no where on your list of things you "enjoy".
/r/askTRP27/08/14 05:36 PM
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I might have put more ambiguity/tease in the response: "you gotta do better than that." A, doesn't meet your standards generally speaking. B, you do want her to hook you up/wingman, but not with the gap troll. C or did you mean shit test denied? D ???
/r/askTRP27/08/14 05:30 PM
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I agree, If you don't desire sex with women, then this isn't for you.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 05:18 PM
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and since she might be "coming home to roost" you need to take extra precautions (bring your own, make sure they are not available afterwards). Also what do you mean she "thinks", you need to look at the official report.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 05:13 PM
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Can you be in a (assuming non-exclusive) relationship with her AND focus on self improvement and increasing your SMV? You can try being more dominant with her in and out of bed. If you can't hold frame then you gotta bail though. Might be good practice, you are gonna fuck her anyway.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 05:08 PM
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Dude, you need a vasectomy if you are gonna play this game for this long (they are pretty awesome if don't want kids, or more kids, or ANY support liabilities, get follow up sperm count documentation). I really don't recommend the vindictive/litigious route, think abundance. But read this in case she does try to cuckold you, and do not legally marry her under any circumstance (and check common law in your area). http://message.snopes.com/showthread.php?t=15290
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 04:56 PM
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This is a joke perhaps? Why would you ever get back with an ex, let alone one that picked up herpes in your absence?
/r/askTRP27/08/14 04:38 PM
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loving the bank receipt/burner phone comment :)
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 01:57 AM
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He needs to follow up and get a paternity test if she keeps it and declares him the father.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 06:47 PM
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I'm not convinced she knows who the father is.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 06:45 PM
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Yah, it is a great product idea in this climate, and probably an appropriate pose. I imagine the ads will feature Crispen Glover "eye raping" you.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 08:39 PM
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Well, kudos on the body language read. But anyone can be roofied, so no prob with easy detection, they are gonna make a ton (and beta it the fuck away).
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 08:09 PM
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Since getting my fill of sex, I haven't had any desire to look at porn. There is some relationship there, not exclusively TRP though.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 02:59 PM
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ah, yah, well that is a different matter. If she is at a healthy weight and has nice tits and ass to boot, then what is she thinking? You always have your options and agency. I don't have any advice except frame. Possible mega shit test? Or coming down with anorexia (edit: or dysphoria or ???)?
/r/askTRP24/08/14 10:43 PM
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just my $0.02, natural tits are nice, but a healthy body with implants are better. If $10k for implants and a tummy tuck are no big deal, offer it up (realize you will be increasing her options too)? Personally I can't discourage anyone from being healthy, but if healthier her doesn't do it for you then you gotta be willing to move on or do something different.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 10:18 PM
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ignore/next. Block her posts but not her if you want to leave the door open, and the door is only for sex, not this giggly high school one-itis shit. Fuck some of those other likers for shits sake.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 09:31 PM
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You need more pics of you with babes.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 08:14 PM
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honestly that is a mental conditioning issue. There are some who think 6's should be deprived of sex so they get their shit together (not sure how plausible that is), but if you want to be able to fuck a wider variety then that is all in your head. Being able to fuck anything seems like a reasonable strategy also.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 03:37 PM
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we have bigger problems than made up rape statistics and ignoring male victims of all manner of assault. You sir are a fuckwit. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_statistics#mediaviewer/File:Rapes_per_1000_people_1973-2003.jpg
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 09:12 AM
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well you have to take that with a grain of salt too, lying about being raped is a problem for men, but perhaps moreso if you are black too. If men get longer sentences and higher conviction rates than women, you can imagine that black men get a double whammy. I wouldn't call it privilege, but good old discrimination. It is an interesting quandary for femists since they would have to admit that women lie and manipulate based on race all the fucking time.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 09:00 AM
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I take it to mean that realistically we aren't mindreaders, and we shouldn't act like solipsists. Whatever attachment or commitment you might feel for another, you cannot expect the same in return, ever. Only actions have true meaning, words do not. I don't know if it is biological programming or social programming or just internalized BS, but women and children first is a thing. I don't doubt a parent's ability to love a child unconditionally, but in that hierarchy women also tend to take uncon…
/r/askTRP22/08/14 10:12 PM
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heck, there is research on using pigs for surrogates. Why buy the cow when you can rent a pig?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:28 PM
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I'm sure women get a pass on convictions and blame more often too.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 09:45 AM
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why the attachment?
/r/askTRP20/08/14 02:51 AM
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Trauma (the T in PTSD) is defined as anything that happens suddenly and is of emotional significance. Another kick in the balls is there is a cumulative effect to trauma. Had a shitty childhood? less likely to respond well to future trauma. Watch buddies blow up, watch your dad hang himself, learn girls werent what you expected? cumulative, and understandably so. Problem with PTSD is you get stuck. i.e. 20 years later you are still getting over it. But folks are reasonably back to normal in 2-3 …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 10:23 AM
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Dude, that is some shit, a lot to process. It is clear you are a survivor though, so hang in there. Untold traumas from deployment, and your dad, and the girl is the icing on the cake. A CBT therapist would be a good thing for you. As far as home remedies, understand you are traumatized first of all. Understand there are somewhat predictable phases of grieving, i.e. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stages_of_grief#Stages , shit comes and goes, but you have a general map of what to expect anyway. And…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 09:06 AM
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A lot of the data is horribly skewed too, because it is compiled by "true believers" who grouped divorced people in with unmarried people. To ignore the divorce rate and the effect that marriage had on those people is simply preposterous. Single never married people compete quite well with married never divorced in terms of life expectancy. "married men are healthier than men who were never married or whose marriages ended in divorce or widowhood." IF you were to put "ever married" in the opposi…
/r/askTRP16/08/14 04:42 AM
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Well, unicorn salesmen bring out the worst in me.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 09:56 PM
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Lol, "look at me I'm alpha!". I'm not the one creating mountains and putting myself on them. Nobody ever said you can't have a good relationship with kids and their mom without marriage shackles either. I think that is the only "semi" reliable path forward in the current climate. You seem to be implying that it is just the legal institution making your situation possible, and not the people involved. I think you are delusional, sorry, so many contradictions. It is nigh impossible to give a marri…
/r/askTRP15/08/14 09:40 PM
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look, we are here to be honest with each other, right? to make sure our perceptions are based on reality (i.e. redpill). We are charged with adapting. Most everyone here has made huge mistakes and learned from them, we have to be open to discussion. There was recently a fancy post regarding happiness, and if you buy into it it equates happiness to having your expectation met, if you bank your future happiness solely on this one person, whom you are housing and feeding and providing all the finan…
/r/askTRP15/08/14 09:10 PM
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the financial stability of not having someone who can walk with half your stuff and future income based solely on their feels sounds especially satisfying, as well as the option to lease newer models.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 08:09 PM
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I married the mythical unicorn. Yup /s
/r/askTRP15/08/14 07:32 PM
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report back in 10 years...
/r/askTRP15/08/14 07:02 PM
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yah, the other guy was apparently Corey Thomas, so now we know who wins in a fight with Christy Mack+Corey Thomas vs War Machine. Anyway these dudes are pretty entertaining talking about it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n1kBC7Y2kxE&feature=youtu.be
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:41 AM
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look at it this way, there will be 10% of the guys doing the same work that %100 were doing before, and getting one-way bitch memos instead of gratitude. Put some faith in the theory. She wants to splice female/female genes (where do you get Y chomosomes?!?), so you won't be fucking the whole time (if at all, probably more like an extraction), she certainly has other plans for you once you are outnumbered 10-1, there is no hiding it. This is a mega hamster, nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 10:20 PM
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it is a continuum with several dimensions and the only way-points are relative, this is a nonsense question.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 12:14 AM
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You aint gonna be friends for long once he gets married anyway, you might as well spell it out for him if you do consider him a friend. You don't really have anything to lose. Have him secretly talk to a divorce lawyer and sit in divorce court, and reiterate the probability of divorce and how they don't give a crap about infidelity, just who makes the most. He is totally screwing himself.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 07:58 PM
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It isn't a contridiction in TRP, it is the reality of the current societal environment. Women got incentives to break up traditional families for personal pleasure, and here we are. Good luck!
/r/askTRP08/08/14 02:33 PM
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"Don't know who you are referring to, lets just do it in the shower.", if she declines it is clear who has the hangups.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 02:11 PM
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says she will have a hard time not cheating and also reveals this: "Weve been together for six months, and am plannign to get married soon. Ive always wanted to have kids, i have this motherly instinct inside me haha. Hes a software engineer or something like that earning 100k/year, so its not as if they wont be well looked after!" God I feel for that guy, he needs to get the fuck out of there.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 12:50 PM
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+1 for "Peddle stool" :) But yah, these guys don't know what ugly is, they are their own worst enemies.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 12:08 PM
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I'm lost, and not sure it matters, the fuckbuddy had a female friend, and the guy is now fucking the friend, and we give a fuck about her why? Is she your mom?
/r/askTRP06/08/14 08:40 PM
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What just struck me is how self-pedastalling these women are. I want to say "pretend they are both guys and re-evaluate your position here". I think you would hear crickets, because XY.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:22 PM
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lol, I can't imagine putting my dick between the teeth of someone I'm at rape-level odds with. I'm sure some fnatzi could hamster up such a scenario based on her feels, but nope.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 07:18 PM
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plate/next
/r/askTRP04/08/14 07:57 PM
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He "won" the girl, white knight complex. He lost the fight to apollo and all he cared about was a girl at that point. Sure he trained well, and secured something of a career, but she was obviously a central figure in his motivational patterns.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 11:42 PM
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lol, rocky is blue pill as fuck. What kind of homoerotic banter is this?!? (not that there is anything wrong with that, just saying not TRP)
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 11:27 PM
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The feminists on the pedestal constantly highlight white males as being the patriarchal "boogie man" to distract attention away from their own excessive privilege. They use race to further their goals when it is convenient and ignore it when it isn't convenient. It should be no surprise that someone as painfully sexist as a feminist should also be racist, despite all the Orwellian hamstering lip service. Don't worry black ladies, feminists will get around to you, just like they have mens best in…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 08:38 PM
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Skip it, your buddy shouldn't be making you go out of your way to see him get married. Besides, married people don't usually hang out w/single people, so the nature of your friendship is likely to take a turn for the worse anyway. Marriage is stupid, and "pay homage to my bridezilla" location weddings are even stupider, chances are they will divorce, keep your money.
/r/askTRP12/07/14 08:00 AM
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I would definitely tell him. He can't have any agency about what he doesn't know, and he needs to know if there are any filings against him (check at her county clerks office website or have someone check in person). And if he has half a brain he is gonna need it. Who knows if it is his, or if it isn't but was put on the birth certificate anyway (limited time to contest that and the courts might not care about you not being the biological father). He can't prepare for what he doesn't know.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 03:31 AM
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This is reddit and not a thesis, and your powers of deduction are wack. you demonstrate numerous failings that imply your lack of education, and i deduce you are a child molester, refute it, or get back on topic.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 08:42 PM
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i did refute it, no i am not obligated to spell out all your errors, it is on you to prove your assertions or retract them. and still find time to adress the main question of cross-understanding which is what you use to justify this teachers behavior.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 08:06 PM
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try to focus on the subject at hand here and stop making crazy wrong statements. i asked for cross-understanding and got a personal attack, think about it for a second.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 06:00 PM
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Did you just go Ad hominem on me? Why does it matter if it is extra credit? it is still credit, used to reach a compulsory goal. Do you know what a hamster is?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 05:24 PM
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It seems like the second she is in power she makes sexist decisions, no really, she isn't exactly like the men she imagines, she can rationalize it all day. Shave your crotch and show us for extra credit (now imagine a guy teacher doing that to women and explain where this cross-understanding part comes in)
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 04:10 PM
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plus when proving you shaved your nethers, you better get permission in writing, or she hits a campus rape button (spaced 3 feet apart per regulations)...
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 04:03 PM
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From here, it seems that 2 sounds more like a cause and 1 more like a symptom, a rationalization of complex issues. I can pretty much guarantee that you having (safe) sex will have zero impact on society though :) I like speculating wildly sometimes, but the possibility occurs to me that you are not forgiving yourself for something (possibly not even your own fault) and "punishing" yourself by setting impossible standards.
/r/askTRP04/07/14 12:00 AM
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In the secular view, morals usually have some reasoning or purpose behind them, is that the case here? can you expand on why you feel the way you do about sex? Can those concerns be mitigated?
/r/askTRP03/07/14 09:19 PM
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Just fyi, morals are always below reproach here, technically trp does not accept or internalize societies programming in regards to how men should treat or be treated by women. It is about sexual strategy, no sex=bad strategy, making a legal commitment just to have sex with a woman=worse strategy, IMHO.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 08:42 PM
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when the bar on "being a great mother" was lowered all the way down to having crotch fruit.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 05:20 PM
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Look, you are a smart kid. Think about it this way, all encounters start with attraction, all ltr's start with being with someone. If you think that you will find your one true love on the first try, well the odds are quite against you. You are putting too many expectations on yourself and on an initial encounter (i.e. naming the kids on the first date), and not gaining any experience points. The moral perspective you have isn't terribly rational, and you aren't a mind reader, nor terribly adept…
/r/askTRP03/07/14 02:16 PM
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futurama covered it pretty well :)
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 07:43 PM
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no more happy birthdays, you guys are done, distance yourself and move on and focus on self improvement. In fact why mess around with separation papers, just file for divorce and get it over with.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 01:54 PM
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Twisted, yes. The whole institution of marriage is pretty twisted though if you haven't noticed. The courts do not care about monogomy, only wealth redistribution (usually with the kids for coercion). He understands his role in allowing himself to be emasculated, but his wives/mistresses also take advantage, which is also arguably "harmful" emotionally. Hope this guy uses protection though, giving your spouse a disease is going to far IMHO.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 01:54 PM
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Yes but it was really just hypergamy :) Leading to maybe a million dead guys over one girl... "Helen going to Troy with Paris started the Trojan War. Paris was a guest in her husband's home, so not only was there adultery to avenge, but also disrespecting the rules of hospitality which were seen as sacred. "
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 11:46 PM
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Seriously, the whole of the illiad, a 10 year siege, was cuz of a broad, penned ~1000BC.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 11:33 PM
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Oy vey, you deal with "logic" when you have none?!? Good day sir, and good luck with the "chicken" defense...
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 12:28 AM
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If you had focused more on STEM and less on SLEASE then you would realize how stupid your adding ozone comment is.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 12:18 AM
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You are an idiot or a troll, or both. Your "logic" is completely scatterbrained, good luck in prison, bring lots of spray...
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 12:08 AM
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Uh, you haven't really thought this whole thing through very well. Tell you what, this is real easy, since you are so sure it is legal, go ask your states attorney if he is cool with you secretly enhancing the atmosphere with oxytocin to make money and pussy, show him your results, then write us a postcard. Make sure you spray him too, cause it's all legit and shit...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 11:52 PM
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Do you have a source on that? I can't see it being economical.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 11:34 PM
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Alcohol is legal, you are rationalizing...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 11:06 PM
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I don't really think the "drug" status is going to offer much legal protection, especially since you acknowledge it has effects (as does the fbi and interrogation units). In denver it is 2nd degree assault to trick someone into getting stoned, even though pot is legal: http://www.denvercriminalattorney.com/criminal_charges/assault.html It doesn't really make sense to play the amoral card to the limit, but you make your own decisions and deal with the consequences here, hopefully you don't draw t…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 10:51 PM
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Lol, doesn't matter. Amoral doesn't care about laws, only about what they can get away with. Spray me...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 10:35 PM
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Morals aside, I would stab someone in the face if they sprayed me with oxytocin to try to manipulate me, then I might start lactating...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 10:26 PM
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It is perfectly legal to be charged as a terrorist engaging in chemical warfare too. I mean you talk about solipism?!? (I can do anything I want to anyone as long as it is legal) Sorry if you were dealt the Steve Buscemi card (sorry Steve), but you have veered off into sociopath land.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 10:02 PM
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I think you are resorting to legalities to justify it, while at the same time documenting the effects of it. It is good to be aware of its effects, but I would not be in favor of having my hormone levels "legally" altered to make a sale, in fact I would fight pretty hard against it. You are inviting a shitstorm on this sub...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 09:09 PM
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This is a little too dark for my tastes. There are plenty of ways to trigger natural Oxytocin (i.e. massaging nipples/cupping vagina), and you can be completely upfront about your intentions "this will stimulate oxytocin". You are talking about deliberately secretly drugging someone, as well as drugging customers, that is fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 08:22 PM
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" train girls to have better sex" This, absolutely, plate or ltr, do your homework. So many women dont even understand their own vaginas, let alone their minds. Men even less so. If you just want to "hit it and quit it" then don't sweat it, but if you want repeat customers and referrals (a good strategy), then wake that shit up. Make a science out of it.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 07:49 PM
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"Because the idea of a classless, leadership-less, egalitarian future, where everybody is given the chance of trying anything, fucking up and still be on their feet is better than any current political system." Um.. It is ok to be realistic about capitalism, but you have to be realistic about WHY this ideal doesn't work too. IF you define "fucking up" as doing absolutely squat, yet expect to be fed and clothed and have society pay for all your offspring, especially those who are working and tryi…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 09:19 AM
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I like "Yes" for a safeword...
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 05:39 PM
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Translation: I'm going to assert that ALL men will cheat on you if you are loyal so don't be loyal, and nobody will call me on it because vagina.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 03:47 PM
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Some women are so convicted, but we are not mind readers, so don't count on it.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 11:48 PM
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around here meetup is ALL womens/mom groups, unless you like bbq or are gay. Start one and see what happens.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 05:27 PM
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I use shears but ALWAYS manage to nick my sack :(
/r/askTRP20/06/14 01:12 PM
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Apparently he grooms them. I just pluck out the long ones so I don't get that crazy scientist look, no biggie. Shall we discuss manscaping next? :)
/r/askTRP20/06/14 12:22 PM
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This is purely political. They realize a benefit of male biological process in sperm donation (and huge markups to largely lesbian couples). But don't want to enable men to have reproductive options. It reads like insane ramblings.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 10:12 AM
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And there is no biological process involved in creating sperm, or working your ass off for child support for 18 years to support your ex's biological habit. These people are completely self absorbed.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 10:09 AM
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I got your meaning, he has to do something different in any event, and certainly your first post can be interpreted as not giving her any attention, so it makes perfect sense to me.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 03:41 AM
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Why not? If you can afford it.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 12:26 AM
10

Confirmed, from my own situation and other "friends". Dude was in the hospital and wife (2 kids) started fucking around. I pressure my ex to get a job playing the "I can get terminated any time" card and she has an affair (instead of looking for a job). Wives generally fucking suck. Value your independence.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 11:53 PM
1

Buy an hour of time from a local divorce lawyer. Understand property division/custody/common law marriage/alimony/taxes/etc for different income spouses in your area.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 10:44 PM
1

Well if you love your brother, you should point him at this sub. He is sending $200 a week to thailand working two jobs for a girl he sees three times a year? What if you had a sister doing that?!? You would slap her in the face. He is in desperate need of a reality check if you want to do something supportive for a guy. Or is your love of women in general greater than that for your own brother (which is disgusting). Do the right thing.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:45 PM
6

Go die fighting for your country, go rot in prison on false charges, go marry someone who changes their mind and takes your money and kids, and have a judge throw you in jail when you run out of money. There is no patriarchy and there is no equality and you cannot see the bigger picture if you are going to be gynocentric (selfish) about it. Life isn't fair, but you have it easier than most, so what are you bitching about?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:30 PM
2

Every other time I go to family court, I see another man being thrown in jail. The prisons are full of men, the battle fields filled with dead men. Most acts of violence are against men (but "violence against women!!") Tell me about your precious body again princess...
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:23 PM
2

No problem here, though make sure you do your homework and try to get something that will appreciate in value so it is an investment.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 08:13 PM
2

Lol, you sound like eric cartman. Why would she be anxious to fuck if you aren't even thinking about the pussy (ya know, where her best orgasm bits are?)
/r/askTRP18/06/14 11:41 AM
0

Just tell them you don't want to be an emotional tampon and that you would rather have sex. If they say no, then calmly walk away with a confident grin on your face and see if they don't change their mind.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 11:09 AM
2

She was being deceitful, and for some reason you are blind to that. We don't know what about, but she doesn't TRUST her partner with the info. To presume she has good reason is bullshit, she already violated their trust, but you seem to want to sweep that under the rug and give her a pussy pass. Fuck that, you would have to be desperate to not see this as a clear violation of trust and a setup for worse to come.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 05:55 PM
2

Might be hiding something?!? The fact that she IS hiding something is the central theme of this thread! Quick, fawn over every pretty girl you see and see how far you get in life. Do you know what a white knight is? (no, it isn't a compliment). You are fodder and you are only fooling yourself.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 11:45 AM
1

Funny, I bring up projection, and STILL you keep talking about taking it in the ass and sucking cock... You are Elliot and I claim my $2.00.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 02:46 AM
1

I thought you were done w/me? Why do you go on about honesty when you are a lying sack of crap yourself? Apparently you want to rescue this guys wife too (insecure much?). Such a fucktard you are.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 10:16 PM
1

Take a bath hippie
/r/askTRP16/06/14 10:08 PM
0

Lol, and here we have the projection side of BP. You are the epitome of what RP describes, in every facet of your being. Care for honesty?
/r/askTRP16/06/14 09:51 PM
5

Lol, you have gone full hamster. Guy posts about wife sneaking around and you are on about pimples and wimmens rights and shit. Never said don't be honest, idiot.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 09:39 PM
0

Who said to he should lie?!? You are an idiot. She is the only one doing any deceiving and already your hamster is in overdrive.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 09:33 PM
1

She is being deceitful, hiding information, putting her relationship with the ex's kid before her agreement with the OP. What is this shit about "Honesty"? It is just horseshit. She won't give a fuck about his feelings, that is honest, or she wouldn't do it in the first place.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 08:57 PM
1

Happy fathers day Dad. When biomom flaked out, you fought for us, found a respectable woman to help, and kept us from devolving into completely useless humans. I learned to fight the family court system too and am grateful every day for your example. Rest in peace.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 08:23 PM
2

Lol, only you think you are a woman.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:21 PM
1

Lol, good chance you will be supporting said lesbian and the kids (and nothing like progeny), you talk about unicorns...
/r/askTRP12/06/14 03:15 PM
3

You can EASILY put down any person you want as a contact, or make health care decisions for you. It isn't oppression, just ignorance of the law/laziness. look up Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care and Health Care Directive
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 07:11 PM
1

Lol, of course it was directed at the OP :)
/r/askTRP06/06/14 10:56 AM
2

We need more wet pussies :) It is our patriotic duty!
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 08:16 PM
2

Too many blue pills means more discrimination against males it seems. A bunch of women who can be freaked out by rape propaganda are not going to be in a position to defend a society. They will just be fucked and waive a new flag, having lost any respect for their own men. Meta CC.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:21 PM
2

re-reading, sounds like his folks probably put the screws to him if he left and went home after drinking at your place. It all sounds pretty stupid. YOU had a hand in putting all that shit in jeopardy. Does alpha=idiot?
/r/askTRP05/06/14 02:36 PM
0

what "honor" are you hoping to restore? You were hosting underage drinking and your dad was allowing it. You got caught, kid is a douche, you can tell him so, but you (and your dad) still have agency. Maybe he found the gorram bible or something, who knows?
/r/askTRP05/06/14 02:26 PM
0

Lol, I'm done worrying about that shit, just a lotta "teach men not to rape" over the environment. So many folks want to capsize the economy over pure speculation, socialist radfem love it, gives em something else to yell about. Nobody said life was fair, don't buy a beach house if you are worried. Funny thing is, ALL our problems of this sort can be blamed on overpopulation just as easily as overconsumption, so lets blame womens biological clocks for trashing the world :)
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 09:10 AM
1

doesn't seem to be working. 2x as many dislikes as likes. It sucked. Not an unbelievable story, but bla bla bla.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:06 PM
1

Curious, given there is no real expectation of exclusivity, if the OP has set such an expectation in his relationship then why is the GF calling the shots (and hanging out at bars with folks cheating). Shit test?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:46 PM
1

Part of "game" is them wanting to come back, be resourceful.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 01:54 PM
2

It boils down to self confidence. Since you are independent you are better positioned to focus on self improvement and improve confidence in yourself and desirability in others. The "feels" will reduce as you are using your agency to do something about it.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 10:00 PM
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I mean he is claiming BP, and not running off to codify the prostitution with marriage. So "not by much" is off by many orders of magnitude. Half your shit and income with a license to walk doesn't compare to $80 (hopefully)
/r/askTRP03/06/14 07:28 PM
3

Seriously dude?
/r/askTRP03/06/14 07:18 PM
4

or a bug chaser
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 07:11 PM
3

Thanks guys, wow, don't know how it wasn't obvious! me Defensive much?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 06:48 PM
2

Lol, do you think she has no role in the CC? Just a "victim"? Good chance she will tire of her new partner as well, though there will be even more social pressure to not. Now if they can only find some guy to donate sperm AND money...
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 06:06 PM
1

I'd be careful with that one, can easily be twisted to mean roofies or some other blame it on men thing. Im sure hamster is a percent, or some other sexually repressive environment as well (habitrail?).
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 01:22 AM
12

yup, she is dead to feminist now. knew it the moment I read that. Here come the claws.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 06:20 PM
2

Funny, I never found mansplaining derogatory, it is how you address people acting like children. Fem's use the same style all the time, but simply handed that bit of authority over to us on a platter. Thanks fems! Yes we do own it now!
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:40 PM
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be careful, alimony may still kick in after 10 or so years of marriage in many places. and here the formulas pay her before the kids, so even though i had custody, she got the same amount as she would have if she had custody. (until she screwed up and lost maintenance), and don't think a judge wont go harder on you if you are a guy, there is an endless stream of pussy passes handed out in divorce court, go sit in on a few.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 07:59 PM
1

We are getting increasingly speculative here, I am merely pointing out some tangible points. I think kids are a damn good reason to control ones urges (if you can't then don't be a parent, women have responsibilities here too). Kids have a right to full access to both parents, as well as their combined resources, but nobody is talking about their rights. splitting means single parenting one parent at a time. And as kids get older (and anytime really) they don't need that hassle of bouncing betwe…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 04:02 PM
1

If she's clean (my standards) I take a break from pumping and munch the clit till my nuts relax a bit, or just finger her clit. You will get the hang of recognizing when your point of no return is by "listening" to your own body. Also kegels (and kegels for your partner(s)), you can hold that shit back all day with practice (and be in a pretty damn good feeling place). Alternating between hitting the g-spot (with your dick, non-rhythmically) and the c-spot (light touch, rhythmically) is good for…
/r/askTRP01/06/14 03:51 AM
1

If there are no kids and income has been about equal, then maybe they suffer "lost equity" (just learned that today). There was a recent post on it. Plus lack of confidence. OF course there are studies saying that women don't go with men of lesser income (very hypergamic like) and men don't care about womens income as much, so it is kinda complicated when considering property settlement as a factor. Despite this disparity, most courts chop it all cleanly in half (with no kids).
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 01:09 AM
2

Cheaper to keep her, you are missing incentives put on providers only to stay married and incentives to divorce on providees, about %50 of marriages have a stay at home spouse in the states (and why do we give them tax breaks?!?), plus if there are kids the dads want what is best for them. There is a very good chance they will lose custody and income to a spouse who is acting selfishly (childishly).
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 12:55 AM
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Different reasons. Why risk your income and options on marriage when the legal system has become so biased against your gender? When infidelity will actually be rewarded in a spouse by the legal system? That a guys "family rights" are basically non-existent. It is a lot more complicated than "general effect", if you give a crap about society (not blaming anyone who doesn't). It is somewhat telling that you mentioned motherhood and not fatherhood.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 12:34 AM
2

Mostly agree, just wanted to call you on equating lonely=sad, plenty of folks would have been happier in life if they never bought into that in the first place and ran to the chapel to try and avoid it. It is an emotional argument.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 08:38 PM
1

But upon re-reading that, I think even encouraging "chasing hotness" is a bit gynocentric itself. Get fit because you want to be fit, period, and if you want wimmin then it can't hurt (but zero thinking about the approach probably will).
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 08:20 PM
2

I think this the same sort of conclusion elliot came to. But even though he was in good shape, he didn't put in the right mental effort. And there isn't one "game" that fits all shape and sizes of men or women. Women didn't flock to him or his bmw, yet crusties like hefner are swimming in hotness, even from a wheelchair.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 08:09 PM
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Well sometimes it isn't to gain something, but to maintain some status (i.e. gynocentrism, attention whoring gone mad from the female, attention giving gone mad in the male). I think the pedestal is starting to crumble under all the weight though...
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 11:06 AM
1

I meant the author of the article, who is also freaking out about the safety of vaginas everywhere, Ben Branstetter, needs to get a pill.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 02:27 AM
1

On the bright side, there is a post "woe is me, I'm a female" there that clearly points out how pathetic "woman=victim" mentality is. Just saying they were not the tired old man haters before defaulting and in some cases speaking up about how idiotic the fem-influenced newbies are being. Can't say how long it will last of course, but it has some upvotes.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 08:50 PM
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Didn't that shooter guy also support femist causes and hate on mens groups? He needs to strap in and take a pill.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 08:15 PM
1

Also, we encourage taking personal responsibility. You aren't going to change society in the same timeframe you can change yourself. If it ain't happening with a girl then unanimously the answer here is "NEXT", not "hunt them down", nor "lament your loss for decades". I mentioned it earlier, but 4 men died that day, we have to look at his actions, not his words (those are cheap), nobody was safe from this guy. Also those people who died might not be in support of political agendas like gun contr…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 02:29 AM
2

4 of the six victims were men (not including the shooter), nobody was safe from this guy. Not sure how ANYONE can look at four dead guys and two dead girls and then draw any conclusions about his psychotic ramblings. Besides, the people that paid the ultimate price might not have been about political movements like weminism or gun control, so using their deaths in ANY political manner is for the lowest forms of life on the planet. Who cares what he said, look at what he DID! Actions being louder…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 02:16 AM
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I agree, every other post here is "NEXT", not "hunt them down and kill them".
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 06:27 AM
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I think I get where you are coming from. Yes parts of society treat us as disposable, and we can sometimes internalize that. But it is unhealthy for us to take that internalization and further to think that someone else is somehow less disposable, that we are obliged to "hang in there" for longer till they decide to end it because of our perception of relative disposability.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 03:57 PM
1

CK is such a tool sometimes, if you haven't noticed. Total "white knight"er.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 04:59 AM
1

It's funny, my instinctive response was to think I should out-spunk you at the sperm bank :) But we are men, long term planners, strategists, problem solvers, as well. We can hardly complain about the current state of affairs in the future if we don't look at the big picture now. And I can't help but feel played based on my instinctive response either. This is something I would flip if I could.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 04:41 AM
1

And if you support feminism, then do. THE SPERM BANK OF CALIFORNIA : a project of the Oakland Feminist Women's Health Center Rainbow Flag: 'nuff said. Worth noting that the profit margins are huge also.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 09:24 PM
1

Not trying to be argumentative, but there are tons of threads on parenting, and this is the first time I've heard anyone make such an assertion. I think it is worth considering that you are probably breeding with a feminist by jizzing in a cup is all. What happens after that I will leave to your imagination...
/r/askTRP07/05/14 09:12 PM
1

But that is the thing, I do get it. RP about the reality of sperm banks, you're welcome.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 08:58 PM
1

So you would have your offspring raised solely by ONE or TWO feminists? And even perhaps see your offspring politicking for such an agenda someday? That is sorta my point, you have to consider the clientele of these banks too. RP HAS to care or it is ultimately self defeating, no? Your progeny will be almost exclusively raised in such an environment. Is RP about anonymous parenting? Don't we want to maintain frame in reproductive areas also? That would be giving up a lot of control to hamsters o…
/r/askTRP07/05/14 08:48 PM
2

I guess the basic question is do RPrs only concern themselves with the adaptation within the current generation, or is it also in scope to adopt a proactive stance for future generations, like so many breeders ARE doing. And if not, and we are just sperm donors, then we are also enablers?
/r/askTRP07/05/14 04:40 PM
1

I think it explains the plane kid lady nicely, and at least the mice learn not to freak out...
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:44 AM
2

I don't know that she is coming from an entirely feminist camp here. She obviously flies around the world and has plenty of entitlement (i.e. move all the men away from my child). I don't see her as being particularly liberal. She is just completely self-engrossed and elitist.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 03:59 PM
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http://www.legalinfo.org/life-events/living-common-law.html canada is going the other direction. Live w/someone for two years and they can claim unjust enrichment, probably comes down to who has the most money loses regardless of circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 10:06 PM
1

To flip that, why is adoption necessary? It doesn't change who you are, and if you are great with the kids and are there because you want to (and this is the important part) and because you continue to want to, then what is wrong with that? I do think the don't date single parents thing is more of a generality, it can work out well, especially if you have your own hobbies and pursuits and she isn't demanding of all your time and resources.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 08:58 PM
1

So why would you suggest that a man adopt someone elses kid if you are aware of the system? If the relationship sours, which happens more often than not, why screw up his exit strategy? The fact that he has an exit strategy means it is more likely they will be together because they want to be together.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 08:53 PM
2

Seriously, he got married because he wanted to do the right thing when he learned he was going to be a father. But you imply that he wasn't pure enough or something so his actions up to that point were dishonorable in your judgement, but you are way out of line there, trying to tie intercourse and expectations of honor like that.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 08:00 AM
1

coitis wasn't the problem, nor is it dishonerable. I'm at a loss to why you are judging him on who he has slept with and calling it dirty, when the only thing you have to go on is the fact that she was dishonorable in lying to him about being pregnant and taking advantage of his inclination to "do the right thing" when he thought he had a kid on the way. Could he have handled it better? Maybe, but you are speculating wildly and acting like doing "the right thing" is dishonorable. Are you a hamst…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 07:56 AM
1

Most of that can be avoided by not getting married, being able to walk away if it does get nutty.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 06:39 AM
2

why should they marry at all? marriage doesn't make a relationship, and it screws up any exit strategy you might have. You have to be willing (and able) to leave a bad relationship to find a good one. Marriage is pretty blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 06:36 AM
5

are you saying extra marital sex is dirty?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 06:29 AM
1

Don't worry about that, they are learning too, we all are. It strikes me as a bit insecure to be hostile about how bluepill something is, when obviously your head is in a fucked up place with the situation. But harsh judgements aint gonna help. I see you trying to figure it out and I can relate.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 12:53 AM
1

Are you sure it is another man? Might it be a woman? If you are the breadwinner then take charge of that situation first and foremost, she doesn't get access to anything. You don't need to be paying for two lawyers unnecessarily. If you have been married for less than 10 years (check your local laws) you might dodge alimony too. You need to be interviewing lawyers on the sly and asking better questions each time.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 12:46 AM
1

The sad people can be a trap certainly, what happens is that you get some folks who are stuck (over whatever trauma it is that they need support on), and then they accrete in these groups. If it isn't a limited time engagement then it is a big red red flag.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 12:24 AM
1

Interesting study, proposes that women can more accurately gauge intelligence just by looking at a persons face, men have less use for that apparently.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 06:05 PM
3

This belongs in WTF. She doesn't feel compelled to leave the guys room if she doesn't want the advances?!? Is this the hamster version of the castle doctrine or something?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 07:36 AM
1

What is it about this girl you like? I'm not saying mothers can't be intrusive, but this is a pretty major violation of trust, and you have a whole lot more stress because of her bad choice in a bad situation. You might want to be more aware of your mothers influence in future relationships, but this one is going to be hard to salvage. She is going to have to earn her forgiveness and trust on top of whatever other problems you had. They usually don't want to bother, especially at that age. Your …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 05:11 PM
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Congrats, I managed to stand up to my entitled ex of 15 years (stay in bed, notorious infidelity). I got the 2 daughters, and eventually got out of maintenance. Had she loiered up it would have been a different story, but securing custody at all costs has to be your primary goal (and you have to be prepared for it for your kids sake). I interviewed a lot of lawyers on the sly, and all the women ones were completely useless, except one who was a friend of my sister and who gave me solid advice.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 06:32 PM
1

I think you have accurately assessed the situation.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 12:20 PM
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