stevesteezy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Potential Comfort Test: How Did I do?		stevesteezy	/r/askTRP	18/11/14 02:02 AM
0	How to keep myself interesting without divulging too much about myself.		stevesteezy	/r/askTRP	12/11/14 06:08 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Potential Comfort Test: How Did I do? Go slower in these interactions if you can, ignore her prompts for you - script the events or flip the script even (which you did to a degree by asking her if she does indeed love you). Thanks, that's good advice.	/r/askTRP	18/11/14 11:43 AM
1	Potential Comfort Test: How Did I do? I mostly agree with your definition but the examples you gave both sound like shit tests to me. As far as I know, comfort tests are testing your primal instinct to care for a girl, which, when unwarranted is beta, but when necessary, is not. She was actually upset, so I believe this to be a comfort test and not a shit test, which would be seeing how easily I'm willing to give up comfort for no good reason.	/r/askTRP	18/11/14 11:38 AM
1	What Beta tendencies, if any, do you still struggle with? These are what i need to work on the most. I'm getting better though: V. Adhere to the golden ratio VI. Keep her guessing VII. Always keep two in the kitty VIII. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary XVI. Never be afraid to lose her	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/14 09:36 AM
1	White guys: do you notice black girls not finding your beta traits as much of a turnoff? What you're experiencing is something that is true about girls that are used to dating assholes, not specifically black girls. My girlfriend is like this. When we started dating I was in a weird blue pill/red pill between stage and she found the blue pill traits I still had INTELLECTUALLY APPEALING. This means she would tell me that she liked the fact that I didn't do "x" thing that her old boyfriends did. However, this is something that is only appealing in the frontal lobes of the brain. The i…	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/14 09:11 AM
1	How to keep myself interesting without divulging too much about myself. No offense to you... most people who can be honest with themselves are fucked up people who need help. No offense taken. I also am curious for you to elaborate on that though.	/r/askTRP	13/11/14 12:20 AM
1	How to keep myself interesting without divulging too much about myself. Thanks for the advice. she's used to lots of validation you aren't giving her, and you are a mystery to her. She's used to figuring people out socially, with ease. This is completely true. She's said multiple times that she has trouble reading me and she fishes for compliments that I don't give her. I'm actually an ENTP though and she's an INTP. Feel free to understand her in the ways you can. but NEVER think she can be therapeutic for you. I'm not really looking to tell her for therapeutic reas…	/r/askTRP	12/11/14 10:12 PM
1	How to keep myself interesting without divulging too much about myself. yeah I'm confused. That doesn't seem like a good strategy.	/r/askTRP	12/11/14 09:57 PM
1	How to keep myself interesting without divulging too much about myself. Wow that was actually really helpful. "Evade, tease, obfuscate. She thrives when she has to imagine what you’re thinking about her, and withers when she knows exactly how you feel." Relieving to see I was already doing some of these and now I know what I have to work on. Thanks man.	/r/askTRP	12/11/14 06:36 PM
1	How to keep myself interesting without divulging too much about myself. Thanks. Is it safe to assume that anecdotes that make her more attracted to me are ones where I was empowered?	/r/askTRP	12/11/14 06:21 PM
1	How to keep myself interesting without divulging too much about myself. She recently said she wants to get high together so she can "explore my mind".	/r/askTRP	12/11/14 06:09 PM