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So you say one quality man, yet now you say pumped and dumped 40 times? You do realise there is a middle ground right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 09:15 PM
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This. Honestly OP’s thinking is so off the mark it borders on a personality disorder. How does having sex outside of a relationship mean you are more likely to cheat while in a relationship? Make it make sense. The only counter argument OP will make is “well would you date a heroin addict?!?!?” and other ludicrous false equivalencies. OP you will NEVER be in a healthy, happy relationship with this mindset, know that and seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:01 AM
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If calling people racist makes you feel better about creeping on girls in clubs, sure lol. Just remember not to get too angry when you’re rejected!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 03:00 AM
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Firstly Id rather be called a racist than be murdered or mugged. Secondly I’m sorry you’ve somehow equated a creepy guy approaching me in a club to some unlikely scenario of being mugged multiple times in the street and made this a race issue. You’ve completely diverged from the topic in a weak effort to call me hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 02:40 AM
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If they had endangered your life in the past then that would be a natural reaction, yes. As a woman I hold my keys between my fingers walking back to my car for this exact reason. I’m not going to risk my safety to spare someone’s feelings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:49 AM
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If that happened (which it didnt) then anyone approaching you on the street after work would rightfully make you weary. I don’t get your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 11:57 PM
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Note your wording “most”. However I would say ALL women have had a man react badly to rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:39 PM
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Woohoo! This makes me so happy! Congratulations and your ring is beautiful 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:19 AM
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Where’s the hole he punched in the drywall from when he got mad at his mum once for confiscating his iPhone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:44 AM
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I’d also love to know how many of these men are overweight, have poor grooming and hygiene habits yet expect the woman to be turned on when they start humping her leg at 11pm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:49 AM
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Never understood how nudes are so normalised. I have never once sent a nude, nor have I been asked for one. I haven’t even received one aside from the occasional random dm from someone across the globe. It shouldn’t be normal!! The consequences are not worth it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:57 AM
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1 in 5 women have been sexually assaulted. I am convinced the men that hate “believe all women” hate it because they are rapists themselves and don’t want to be called out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:28 AM
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I’m glad to hear someone talk about this! Call her Daddy is so cringeworthy! Made the mistake of listening to part of an episode...never again. That’s some next level pickmeisha content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:00 AM
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I strongly disagree. I think low quality men don’t mind being chased cause they don’t get any other attention from women. A high quality man though? Absolutely not. You ever heard of “men love a challenge” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 09:39 PM
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A man will never respect a woman who had to chase him to get him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 12:17 AM
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The issue is a lot of women and girls confuse the rush of validation with empowerment. Women claim they feel “empowered” after taking their top off in front of a crowd of cheering men, when in reality they felt a dopamine rush due to the men being sexually attracted to them and giving them attention. They believe giving men what they want is the only way they will be accepted and loved. This is why it is so important that women base their worth off more than just their looks and sexuality. Your …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 03:23 AM
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If the fact that 80% of women initiate divorce isn’t enough to show that women are unhappier in marriage then I don’t know what to tell you. I advise you to read your first paragraph to yourself in your head. Maybe then you will realise how ridiculous it is. You are basically saying that women marry to get divorced. Ah yes, man spread genes! Man can’t control urge! Man is monke. Ugga bugga 🥴 Marriage is measured by divorces? How does one measure marriage? Again, if he is that concerned, prenups …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:23 AM
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How does 80% of women initiating divorce indicate that marriage is beneficial to women?? You just proved the opposite is true. Yes she can earn her own money, but most men love providing for their woman and family. It’s in their nature, or at least the men I know. And it’s naive of you to think that the father does as much work raising the child as the mother. 100% useless if a man wants to raise a child by himself I guess? Same goes for women. Your whole argument is about divorce which is not w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 01:59 AM
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I’m curious, which laws state that a man must provide for a woman financially in marriage? And I’m also curious as to what the benefit would be for a woman to marry a man that did not want to provide for her? Would make more sense if she didn’t want children, but if she did, then would she be expected to carry children, raise them AND provide financially? Ohhh but women benefit more...right. That’s the thing with you MRAs is you yell that systems are unfair to men when the alternative is infinit…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 10:54 PM
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Right so where is your irrefutable data that marriage only benefits women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:33 PM
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Here: https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health Also Paul Dolan’s research shows that the happiest and healthiest population sub group are women who are unmarried and without children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 08:57 AM
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Married men live longer and have more life satisfaction than unmarried men. It’s the opposite for women. Go figure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 08:06 AM
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What woman wants to get railed for an hour straight? Sounds painful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:47 AM
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Women make up 70% of victims killed by an intimate partner. They are also far more likely to be killed by a relative than men. Men are 7x more likely to commit murder than women.
/r/MensRights29/09/20 11:01 PM
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Girl, don’t speak sense here. They don’t like it
/r/MensRights29/09/20 10:43 PM
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Fair Was scouted by NZs top agency and had a contract with them for 5 years. Don’t use Instagram much. I’m 5’11, skinny and young so I fit their requirements I guess 🤷🏼‍♀️ Public Health Rugby
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 06:42 AM
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I disagree. Being choosey with who you date indicates you don’t tolerate mistreatment, know what you want and demand respect. That in itself is high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 01:08 AM
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I’m a former model, masters degree, in a relationship of 1.5 years with a professional athlete and engineer who worships me and I follow FDS. Why on earth would I lower my standards and accept cheap, low value men if I can have better? Makes me laugh when people say all the ladies on there are ugly “femcels” when we are probs out of all your leagues 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 11:04 PM
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We have horrendous rates of DV in New Zealand. One woman every month here is killed at the hands of her partner. For a population of 5 million that is a lot! There have been so many campaigns over the years attempting to reduce it but none have really been successful because it is so embedded :( this is a great step though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:00 AM
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Took me two years and multiple other women coming forward with similar experiences with the same man to realise I was raped. Said no countless times and it fell on deaf ears. For two years I blamed myself and never told anyone because I wanted to believe I was in control of the situation. Only after the other women came forward and filed a report did I gain the courage to tell police and say it happened to me too. Why should we have to put up with this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:43 AM
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I think you are confusing being a genuinely good person with being a stereotypical “nice guy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 11:16 PM
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Honestly where is the lie though, I legit do that before a date 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:32 AM
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Girl, I feel you. I spent 4 years believing I was constantly horny and didn’t understand why some women wouldn’t “put out” for their husbands/boyfriends. I remember thinking “I’ll have sex with my husband every night, I won’t be like those prudes!” It’s funny how when we finally start to focus on our own enjoyment instead of male validation, it unveils our actual sex drive. I’ve found mine is much lower than I previously thought lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:40 AM
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My boyfriend surprised me with a weekend away for our one year anniversary. Didn’t tell me where we were going because he knows I love surprises. Booked a suite with an outdoor spa and patio overlooking the lake and paid for everything. Took me skiing and on a day trip to a neighbouring town too. He has never once gone against his word, I trust him wholeheartedly, he lets me know everyday how beautiful and sexy I am and how much he loves me through his words and actions. I have never felt so val…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:14 AM
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Wow so it really sounds like a universal problem then. Sounds a lot like my friend (the one who spent $800 on the gift). All she wants is a serious relationship and to settle down and get married, yet she chooses boys that are immature and are clearly not into her! Hearing your examples of your married friends makes me worry that they will never change. Another problem is the more this happens to them, the lower their standards drop because they think no one wants them when in reality they are j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:08 PM
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Interesting perspective. I for one cringe looking back at a few things I did before discovering FDS. We all start somewhere!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:56 AM
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Yup have absolutely done that. Especially because their boyfriends have zero redeeming qualities. For a minute they come to their senses until their boyfriend gives them a crumb of affection then it’s back to square one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:15 AM
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You’re right. I think the reason I get so tired is because I involve myself and want to “fix” them. They always appreciate the advice and agree with me just to throw it back in my face every time. It has come to the point where I need to distance myself for my own sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:24 AM
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I agree. It is hard though because we have been friends for so long and I wish they could see their worth. It is draining for me though to constantly have to deal with the fallout. Looking forward to moving for work next year where I can hopefully meet more likeminded people!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:22 AM
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That’s my prime minister! She is amazing ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:24 AM
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I actually read them all, and I do see your point. But for me personally and like many women, I want a family and I want to raise my children at home. So I look for a man who is a provider. If a man is tight with his money, how is he going to provide for our family? Doesn’t seem fair to have children, raise them, AND be the breadwinner does it? Your point only stands if a woman doesn’t want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 09:08 PM
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It’s not so much saying a man should pay so he commits to her. It’s saying a woman should choose a man who pays because it shows good character and generosity. No high-value woman wants a man who is tight with his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:13 AM
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Lmao ok so the woman should ask herself that but not the man? Women don’t just get pregnant randomly. The man MAKES her pregnant. Is that difficult to understand? 2 people make a child and thus two people are responsible for said child. If he doesn’t want it, tough luck shouldn’t have had sex. Otherwise men can just go round getting multiple women pregnant and face zero consequences. And obviously goes without saying women should get more options as she is the one who has to carry and grow the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 09:13 AM
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If they’re a crazy woman that they don’t love and don’t want a child with, why have sex and risk a child with her then? Also, a woman shouldn’t be forced to abort a child because the man who MADE the child refuses to support her, don’t you see that? Also, what about rape victims? Should the man have the right to walk away and take no responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:08 AM
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My friend keeps sending paragraphs like this to her POS boyfriend and then wonders why he responds with “I’m sorry you feel that way” Told her to stop sending them and that no amount of reasoning is going to magically make him care. She goes “you’re so right” and proceeds to send him another essay anyway. Idk why I bother 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:41 AM
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I live in a big city so have no idea why I feel like I’ll not find someone better! I guess it just seems impossible to have someone I’m in love with who treats me like he does lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:08 AM
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I think you’re right. I don’t feel challenged enough by him because he agrees with everything I say to avoid any type of conflict, but I NEED some conflict because that’s how I emotionally connect. Just the thought of hurting him absolutely kills me :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:03 AM
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