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Waiting too long is anything beyond second date. If it does not happen on third date it's a huge red flag If one desire someone one have an urge to sleep the night together
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:44 PM
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Yes, it is women complaining. I do see women constantely complaining that men is not aproaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:32 AM
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Men naturally want to share our success with someone who genuine like and love us and is our loyal follower and team mate. It's then attitudes and voiced opinions turns into entitlement, expectation and even requirement it all goes south
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/26 09:57 AM
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We did live in small villages at that time. The choice was limited. Maybe women had 3-5 young men to chose beween. We men where forced to marry unattractive women too as our choice was the same, limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:13 AM
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Yes we do. Majority of men are married and have family and kids with women they are not very much attracted to. Don't you think majority of men want a model looking woman? who is hot, thin and feminine. Men do want that. But we make do with what is realistic to get. Women should do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:10 AM
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You wanted them 100 years ago, so why not now Same for us men, we have to endure women we are not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:39 PM
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They don’t. Men don’t owe women fun dates either
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:37 PM
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Men do not think about previous men. It is simply just important piece of information to have. If someone treated an ex partner in a specific way but does not treat the current partner the same, that does mean something. It’s important in order to compare to evaluate how your partner view you. Example: a man that treated his ex-girlfriend with lovely dates at expensive restaurants but does not go to any restaurants with his current girlfriend. That says something, doesn’t it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:24 PM
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Truth. I can dress in a suit every day of the month and no random unknown woman will spark up a conversation or take intiative for something. It simple does not matter for average looking men if they dress well or not. Makes zero difference so it’s wasted effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:56 PM
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Not if she loves the man and have genuine desire for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:08 AM
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One should always go with genuine desire, both ways. I believe it will inevitable lead to unhappiness in the relationship if it’s not mutual desire. And that unhappiness will express it self in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:58 PM
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Women are the same. Being a divorcee with multiple kids out on dating market again after a 13 year LTR. A lot of childless women want nothing to do with a man who got kids since previous relationship. Some even rudely state their aversion against us in their dating profiles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/23 09:05 AM
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Then she can be the one to pay for the whole first date then. But they almost never do that. They get angry if the man does not pay for everything even if she got plenty of money her self.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:43 PM
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Pairing up with your looks match should be good enough for both women and men right? But many women who are a 5/10 then they wake up in the morning walk around believing they are a 7/10 or higher due to makeup, filters and endless male attention in social media and dating apps. Majority of women are average in looks just like majority men are average in looks. Women should be happy with a partner on their own level, their real level that is. Not their delusional level they falsely believe they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:36 PM
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male gaze is men's unconscious and primal brain working in the background doing it's job of mate selection. Selecting the best DNA/Genes for healthy and beautiful offspring. The unconscious will rate a particular woman to be "girlfriend"-material, "wife"-material, "mother to our children"-material. Looks is not end all, it's the vibe and the charisma of the person too. Multiple women can be equally beautify/good looking but only one of them is seen as favorable, the other ones are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:39 AM
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It's the whole polarity thing that runs through the genders like a red thread. The opposite to one gender is seen as attractive in the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:21 AM
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Women are grossed out by a 35 year old man who are a virgin and never had a relationship with a woman in their whole life. It's a big ick and I don't blame them for feeling that way. It's the other side of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:41 PM
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Autistic question. Is this something odd or strange to you? Some people got a sex appeal and a sexual vibe that makes me desire them sexually. But I do not desire them in the romantic sense. It's the same for women and for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:16 AM
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Remember it's not a fair comparison to compare an older man (your dad) to a young man in his 20's or 30's who is not yet at that maturity level. Good to have this in your mind then comparing qualities.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/22 08:14 AM
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Regardless of Tate brothers whereabouts you put the finger on a interesting observation. Why is men receiving negative instructions then women are receiving positive instructions? Women doing positive things are cheered up on, while men are not. Why is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:26 PM
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Humor and fun, positive mindset, happy mood, positive and happy outlook on life, life energy, more adventurous, more sponaeous. Hanging out with a group of younger women in their early 20's vs older is.. very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:18 AM
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You are joking.. right? Look at all women running and drooling after toxic men like bad boys, players, f*ck boys, etc. Especially younger women who get their panties wet by these "degenerate" men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:35 PM
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You will jump straight into the bed if the man is hot and very good looking. What does that say about us if you make us wait? that we are seen as undesirable by you.. that is the only truthful answer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 10:43 PM
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Then a woman is dating a successful man and expecting him to pay for her. Just because he happens to have a good income and make a decent chunk of money he should pay for her stuff.. It's abuse plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 10:34 PM
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"If she is not fucking you, she is fucking someone else" If you detect this, drop her quickly on the spot. There is low odds she will suddenly change her mind serval weeks/months later and come back to you. Either there is genuine desire and she view you as first choice right from the beginning or there isn't. Women always got thousands of options to select from at all times, even less attractive ones.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 09:17 AM
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True. A lot easier to get just sex than anything serious. Most women in their 20's want to be on the carousel and have their freedom. Fun and adventures is more prioritized, only if the guy is very very good he will get a shot at a relationship. Ask them young women the question "do you want to tie yourself up and limit your freedom? YES/NO" and see what the answer will come out as.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:39 AM
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It's all about money, resources and lifestyle then it comes to women. Desirable personality traits = $$$ for her to consume/spend "I want a guy who is smart and intelligent" "I want a guy who is driven and ambitious" "I want a guy who is goal oriented and got plans for the future" "I want a guy who got self-discipline and are hard working"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:27 AM
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Alluring with the carousel is the trill, excitement, adventure, unpredictability of that life style. I totally see why women, especially young women get drawn to it. We all know women in general crave drama and chaotic life. Serious co-habitation relationships and family life is predictable and mundane in comparison to the adventurous single life filled with nightlife, traveling, parties, fun.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 10:58 AM
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Either I'm number one or I'm not number one. If I'm not number one for her we have no business dating at all. Then some other guy out there is her number one. As a guy I always know who is my top pick(s) already at the OLD talking phase before we met. I know what woman I desire and want most of them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:53 AM
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Being polite to others vs being respectful to others. Two different things. I agree with him that respect is something one got to earn. Default mode should be that one is polite and at least neutral to others regardless if you know them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:04 AM
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Yes. What happened to doing things unselfishly for an other person as an act of love. You know, cooking a meal, washing or ironing someones clothes because you genuinely love and care about that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:28 AM
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Here in my country more women use Tinder to find a serious relationship and serious long term dating than the ones who only look purely for hookups/sex. I guess US is different from Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:39 PM
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This is how it is. With the advent of online dating women have reorganized themself as concubines in harems for the 10% good looking men. They rather be sexdolls to be used for the hot and handsome men, than enter into monogamous relationships with men who are on their own level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:14 PM
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It's the opposite. Men are content and happy being alone than women. Women usually need social interaction to a larger degree. I can be happy in a cabin in the deep woods for weeks enjoying life without seeing a single soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:14 AM
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Of course they do. Wanted to clarify that "men struggle with women" only applies to a small minority of highly attractive young women. Men with good education, job and income can get other for them undesirable women very easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:25 PM
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They struggle because they got standards and don't go for just anyone. These men have ghosted, ignored and rejected 1000+ women in the previous years because they're not good enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:53 AM
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A man putting boundaries and rules for his woman what she is allowed to do = abusive Says she can't go out party at night club with her friends = he's abusive Says she can't sleep over at her friends place = he's abusive Says she can't go to Las Vegas over the weekend with her friends = he's abusive Says she can't go travel to abroad on vacation with her friends = he's abusive Ofcouse there is cases where the man is really abusive and controlling, exercise physical or phyical violence. But a a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:32 PM
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Pre-selection. Most women want to get with men that a lot of other women also want. Chris Hemsworth, Justin Bieber, Drake, etc. I figure all famous celebrity high status men have sleept with many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:25 PM
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Yes I do use apps occasionally. All the points listed apply to me. Have been married and have multiple kids, that is not so popular I've come to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:38 AM
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Get better treated by service people in different venues, in stores, hotels, etc. Better treated by people in general I think. Get free paid for taxi, uber, hotels, airline tickets, entrance fee to events, dinners, drinks. Can monetize their beauty/looks and make a living out of it if they chose to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:58 AM
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Then a woman wants a man but he does not want her it's usually the case. At least he views her to be below his level. His perception is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:36 AM
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Evidence is everywhere everyday, on TikTik, IG, Twitter, etc. Then you read or hear about a woman who complain about an man that only wants sex, ghosts her, slow to respond to her texts, not want relationship. It's a woman that have shoot outside of her own level in terms of looks. A man wants a woman who is on his own level minimum, otherwise he will stay single/bachelor until he finds one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:56 AM
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Attraction is not only about the physical, the face and the body. It's also includes all these invisible parts like charisma, charm, personality, humor, drive, ambition, intelligence, smartness, etc. That is why you see beautiful women being in a relationship with a man that you deem "unattractive". Because you as a external spectator only see his psychical looks, you are unaware of all the other parts which are important pieces to the full attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:24 AM
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It's alright to be intelligent, smart, have opinions. The issue is then you act argumentative and disagreeable, it lead's to right-wrong arguments and conflict, an ego issue where one party feel it must be right and "win" the argument. It's tiresome to be in a relationship where that happens frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:18 PM
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I've seen women at multiple occasions voice the opinion that they want a man who is "experienced" in the bedroom. That he have sleept with many. So for some women at least it's a plus that the guy have a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:54 AM
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It's common. I see a lot of simp shit going on on Twitter. A girl in her 20's posts something like "I've run out of money, my bank account is empty. How will I survive the week until I get my salary". And random men who are strangers send her $5, $10 or $20 by CashApp or PayPal. Or girls outright begging for money on their birthday on Twitter, or begging for money for a new phone, clothes, shoes, whatever. And random unknown men who doesn't even know her in person do send her money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 12:13 PM
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This sentiment is true, at least for women in their 20's who are more picky. I've heard girls say they find 5% or less of the men on Tinder attractive to their eyes. An dude in the average range is invisible to them. And if they happen to match with him, they certainly wont go on a date with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:00 PM
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Most people are just.. normal. Nothing wrong with that. If you want a comedian, jester or clown maybe you should look at a hiring agency for these.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 07:11 PM
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Agree, a lucky one night stand one or two times a year does not count as a "having sex". It's not a fulfilling sexlife. One should at-least get laid once a week or once every other week at minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:12 PM
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Yes I expect to be treated the same. If you are someones 1:st choice you should not be treated less good than her other previous partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:11 PM
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Same women treating men she goes out with differently is upsetting. If an woman treats the regular guys she meets with the same as she treated the hot good looking famous celebrity movie star then men have no problem with it. We demand to get treated and recieve exactly the same as Leonardo Dicaprio/Brad Pitt/whatever rich famous dude got treated. If we do not, it's a big problem as it's dual standard from the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:50 AM
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If a blackpiller stand on a street and ask 100 women he find attractive if they would like to come with him home. Do you think the result would be different? That is real life and I believe the ratio of rejection will be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:21 AM
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It's usually only high earning men that can afford to have an stay at home wife in modern times. Average earning people can not sustain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:49 PM
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An woman who take care of her man and his needs is a high value woman. She is submissive, agreeable and obedient. He is the leader and she is the follower in the relationship. She make breakfast and serve him man coffee at the table every morning. She cooks dinner and serve him at the table then he gets home from work. she "makes" the home. She irons his shirts and dress pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:29 PM
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If you are married what the husband earns is legally yours too. Being an housewife is much less difficult than working full time job. What is best, the husband making 100k and the wife zero. Or they both work full time making 50k each and the woman doing all household work? The same amount of money will be spendable by the family either way, but the woman got to work twice as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:00 PM
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Wrong. An housewife get paid indirectly for her work at home by her man. What he earns outside of home is also of hers. This talk about "unpaid house work" is just nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:22 AM
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True. In historic times an women that chose an mate based only on looks/hotness would be doomed to starvation/death. Being abandoned or having a man that is egoistical/selfish would be a death sentence to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:59 PM
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Good observation. It used to be a balance between good looks and provisioning/security (natures intention how it should be). Today it's one sided due to modern medical achievements in birth control. This did not exist pre 1960.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:33 AM
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An 0.50% man is one man out of 200, far from impossible to find someone like that. In a larger city with millions people there are many that fits ones personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:31 AM
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I'm talking about expectations. Don't expect of others what you are not yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:39 PM
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It's things you are. But if yourself are lazy you have no business complaining to others they are lazy. Same for being boring. If you are boring yourself. Which many hypocrites complaining on others for being boring are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:49 PM
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Sure. But you can't expect someone to give you something you have not given to them first. Many women are entitled and believe they should only receive without giving equal value back.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:24 PM
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You get what you give What you give to a man is what you get in return. If you are cheap, he's cheap. If you are boring, he's boring. If you are lazy, he's lazy back to you. And so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:45 PM
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A lot of wants, but not a single word about what she offers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 11:04 AM
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Casual dating is dating with the focus on having sex without any commitment. It's hookup culture. I don't see that was very common back in previous decades. If two persons where dating regularly is was with a serious indent to form a couple and be committed to each other in a relationship. Casual dating is hookup culture. Just fool around, have fun and fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:11 AM
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No reason to take offense. It was not to you, but speaking in general terms. In my 20's in the 90ies dating multiple persons simultaneously didn't even exist. If you dated you had serious intention and you dated one person at a time and you where loyal and exclusive already at the dating stage. You broke ties with that person prior to start dating another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:59 PM
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Not after one single date, but if you are regularly seeing each other and having sex it's shitty to sleep with someone else between your dates/hangouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:01 PM
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Some lessons I've learnt by being in multiple relationships and co-cohabiting with women for 16 years.. Don't invest more than she does into the relationship, then it's easy to cut ties if that moment comes. Dreaming up long term plans with her for the future will make it hurt more if things break. Have plans sure, but take thing one step and go slowly. Let her show to you by her behaviour and actions that she deserve it and is worthy.
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 11:29 AM
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Why didn't she ask these questions then she was 18-22y? "where is romance". No because then she was busy getting stuffed by a lot of men for fun, not for romance. CGA's shows on YT are great.
/r/MGTOW209/07/21 12:08 PM
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Desire is a per-requirement for falling-in-love with someone. How can you fall-in-love and feel very strongly "I want him/her" with someone you don't feel physical attraction to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:53 AM
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Have said it before and will say it again. All relationships begin with sex first and then may turn into a serious relationship if both want it. If true genuine desire exists both persons want intimacy from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:47 AM
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Disgusting behaviour. Dating someone and leaving him dry sexless while seeing the fuckbuddy / FWB between dates. So mean and insidious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:44 AM
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I find the audacity some women got disgusting. The hypocrisy and double standards. They want to be able to have fun, adventures and sleep with any dude they desire while their boyfriend/husband is at home being loyal to them. Flip the situation. The girlfriend/wife being at home while the man is out partying, traveling and sleeping around with a lot of women. These hypocrite women would be in crazy rage about it. This "open relationship" and "poly" is just trash. It's all about them hoeing aroun…
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 07:33 PM
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and that is not enough. He must be good looking, have humor and a great personality too. So you are down to 0.01% or less of all men. 1 man out of 10000
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 07:04 PM
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As a high value man you are in control of the "game". You are the one calling the shots, not the woman. Whole different power dynamics from regular dating as an average joe. Of cause one should be careful to protect oneself and think strategely multiple steps ahead.
/r/MGTOW205/07/21 03:21 PM
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They want attention, just like all women. Ignore them and treat them like they don't exists. Give them the silent treatment and they become even more miserable, lol.
/r/MGTOW205/07/21 11:09 AM
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some women get upset then men got standards that rejects them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:57 AM
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Not all of us. Some men actual want a companionship. I don't care about validation, does not give me anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:58 AM
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that hammer hit straight on the head of the nail the polarity thing again. yin and yang. two opposites that attract each other
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:29 PM
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If an gf bring up the topic of "open relationship" for discussion she have already cheated on you in her mind. The relationship is already over as she has lost all respect and loyalty by even thinking the thought of sleeping with other men. If you are a asshole like me, say yes to it. Then bring over an 18y escort then she's out and f**k her on couch paying for it with her money.. or just do the clean thing and break up
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 04:09 PM
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Nah, you do not know that 100 is then. This is 100 pounds: https://www.instagram.com/p/CPujUtKnM9X/ https://www.instagram.com/p/CPl8OpGHZjB/ https://www.instagram.com/p/CPtKOxxnaqa/ https://www.instagram.com/newyork__style__/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:03 PM
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What every successful guy need if she is hot, slim and weights below 100 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:21 PM
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Well yes, nature and evolution have made women to be more aesthetically pleasing so men actually want go after them and fuck them so us humans procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:48 AM
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It should be one-to-one exchange of value. If one person contribute more financially the other should do more household chores and vice versa. It doesn't need to be perfectly balanced or keep't score or anything. You know yourself what is fair share. Otherwise it is abuse and exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:16 AM
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society doesn't agree with you and women in general does not agree with you you're cherry picking bad apples, an statistical minority that is minuscule wealth is a social marker of many positive desirable traits in a person like intelligence, smartness, success, drive, ambitions, creativity, social competence, being popular and likable by others, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 10:20 AM
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Others view me as high value. I belong to the top 0.1% wealthiest and most successful men in my city and the whole country.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:56 PM
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Dating apps should have function where one can move the conversations that you are interested in to a separate priority list so one have a better overview and don't see the uninteresting convos. I only initiate conversation with the most interesting girls, like 3-5% of my matches. Then I was most active I did get ~3000 matches in a year spread out on multiple apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:46 AM
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wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:30 AM
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What are the benefits you miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:09 PM
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False. Men usually want to keep our freedom and remain free as bachelors. Because we are not as social beings as women are and does not need relationships as much as women, we have a lot of interests, hobbies and fun stuff we rater would spend our time on instead of a co-habitation relationship and kids. Generalizing men are more content and happy with life on our own. Women are usually the ones that want an relationship. And we men sacrifice our freedom to the women. That is why it's "men give …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:51 AM
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For a man, it is like letting other people or events, situations affect your emotional state. If you get angry, start shouting and swearing because your car broke down or something stop working, that is an example of mental weakness. Mental strength is being stoic and stable, like a rock. Not being thrown off your feet by situations, events happening to you or around you. Being an coward and lacking a spine (stand up for you self) and balls (courage) is also related to being mentally weak. As an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:29 AM
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Yeah sure. Some women get into relationships without having any genuine desire for the man. It's mostly an status/money transactional relationship. Does he give you tingles, make you wet and horny? yes/no If he was unemployed and struggling sleeping in his pickup truck would you still get together with him? yes/no If there is genuine desire the answer will be yes for both questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:09 AM
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alpha/beta is blanket labels for "mentally strong and physically strong" vs "mentally weak and physically weak". Because that where it all do settle in the end. beta guys are mentally weak. They do not stand up for them self and what they think and want. They do not defend them self and fight back then they are picked on by others. alphas are the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 07:52 AM
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That is the trend for the western society. I've noticed there are far more women in their 20's and 30's today than it was a few decades ago that doesn't want to sacrifice their individual freedom for an serious long term relationship. So they prefer to stay perceptual single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 07:08 AM
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Yes, it's common to mix these two up. Sexual attraction/desire is one thing and general attraction (personality, etc) is another. Raw pure sexual desire and arousal is the kind this post discusses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 11:03 AM
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Never give a woman more than she give you. Find it best to keep things equal between you, give one-to-one what she gives, time, energy, attention, affection, money, gifts, etc. That way if she decides to leave or you decide to leave it's easy to break up and move on. And have your priorities straight. your self, your happiness, feel good, needs your purpose (your success, work, passion, goals, plans) women
/r/askTRP19/04/21 09:43 AM
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If you go out to a resturant to eat, do you go into the kitchen and start cooking, get you plates and wineglass yourself? If a man provides 100% of financial security, the woman must bring equal value in return. She does this by take care of the house, household and kids, it's her natural role in life. Have been in "modern" relationships too where we did split everything 50/50 regardless of income. That's fine if you like that kind of relationship. But most women does not really like to split al…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 07:30 PM
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Be feminine on the outside, be feminine on the inside. Bring value to me beyond just the sex, company, social part. Cook tasty food and serve me at the table. Make and serve me breakfast and coffee at the table in the morning. Iron my shirts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 12:43 PM
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I'm their type and they are attracted to me. Otherwise we wouldn't match and talk in the first place. One does not swipe right on someone who is not your type and that you aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:50 PM
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It's both's responsibility to make the conversation fun and entertaining. Many girls today in online dating act like little spoiled princesses on a pedestal expecting the man to do all the work. Many girls in online dating are boring and are not making an effort and investing into the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:10 PM
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you don't. almost all persons that did become successful from nothing are men. going from zero to $2 million requires an tremendously amount of work. Men get obsessed, passionate about building a business and making a lot money so they are okey sacrificing everything else in their life and work really hard to reach a major goal they want to achieve. women, being social creatures you are, are not willing to neglect your friends, family, social life, free time, shopping, live frugal, stop spending…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:11 AM
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Devoting your time, energy, effort and attention is giving value.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:44 AM
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why does men have to make the convo fun. why can't the girl do it. and if the girl is boring?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:34 AM
2

men are willing to work 16 hour days every day of the week, women are not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:21 AM
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Doesn't all mothers spend at least some of it on their kids. Clothes, iPads, iPhones, Playstations, vacation trips, sport and adventure activities, furniture, nicer cars, larger houses, etc. Nothing say she have to spend all of it on their kids. She can spend some on herself aswell, I don't see any problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 11:22 PM
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Parting with money in a divorce doesn't matter much at that level. Men who got the skills and talent to create money can always create more. If your ex-wife take a chunk is no big deal. The man will always make it back easily. And you want your kids to have a good life. So giving some to the mother of your kids is not a bad thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 10:04 PM
2

Never witnessed it myself, but read many stories of women confirming the RP world view. Classic example is their man becoming unemployed, losing his status job position or turning from winner/successful into a broke loser by misfortune or financial catastrophy. Losing all his assets and money, becoming broke with only debt left.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 09:50 PM
1

Yes I do. A man who is centred in himself, confident with strong self-esteem does not care what ANYONE say or proclaim, not even his best friends, siblings, parents, co-workers, etc. What a random person say is nothing, it's zero..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 09:08 PM
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Any society that embraces that on a large scale will collapse. Turning from order into chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:58 PM
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Better you self look it up. Why is decadence and hedonism a bad thing? Nothing wrong with having a lot of sex with the same person in a long term relationship. If you behave and carry yourself in a non respectable manner on said parties it's bad yes. If you pull it all the way to the end. Men do not want to settle and build a family with a prostitute who sells her body on the street, with someone who uses drugs excessively or act in a frivolous manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:34 PM
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Because high value men want someone who is a decent human being with fairly good morals. Someone who can become a good and caring mother to their future children. Stable and committed long time partner who they can trust. An loose woman that used party around on the weekends, do drugs, drink a lot and sleep with random men from clubs and dating apps is viewed as unstable and can't be trusted. High risk she will cheat with other men behind his back. Or just behave badly to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 09:13 AM
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Comes down to desire I believe. She may have higher genuine desire for a guy she went home with from the nightclub than for a long term boyfriend. So she treats hookup better than a boy friend, because she actually likes and desires him more as a person. Maybe because he is more good looking, more fun, has a better personality, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:48 AM
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Had a great year and made a lot of money in the stock market. Wanted to splash some. Worth every cent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:25 PM
1

Yes first dates. The girl I went to spa date with is a famous celebrity and pop artist here, not any random girl. If Ariana Grande ask you for a date you don't say no, lol. Had a great time, very charming woman and the best date I've been on so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:14 PM
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Yes, gotta check if she got excessive credit debt or a lot of student loans. Also watch how she spends her money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:26 PM
1

Not possible to send pictures on Tinder. You have to move the conversation over to an other chat-app for that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:16 PM
1

Words can not hurt anyone. Vulgar catcalling does not hurt you in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:14 PM
1

Yes we do. I'd once took a girl to an spa for an 6 hours date. I did pay like $400 in advance. An other time I went to see an Ice Hockey game and put up $140 for us both in advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:06 PM
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Also this idea than women can exchange sex for favors, gifts or money is toxic. If your woman pulls something like that on you, you got to stand up on the spot and discipline her about it. Sex is equal. Both give each other equal pleasure so everything is even. Don't mix in other irrelevant stuff into it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/21 11:19 AM
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Yeah I'll agree, maybe one drink is fine if the girl is worth it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 10:03 PM
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Yep. I changed my dating strategy because of this. Now it's purely hookups at my place or her place. Usually no dates out on town and no upfront investment. I may entertain her with take out pizza/tacos or home cooked food and a bottle of cheap wine/beer's at my or her place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 09:27 PM
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Using an slower pace work good for me. I basically write to her once a day only, 1-3 messages max. Then silence for 24 hours until next day, occasionally I'm silent for 2 days, but I make sure to respond within 48 hours. The girls I'm regularly talking to all have shown strong physical attraction and genuine desire.
/r/seduction11/02/21 08:58 PM
3

want to see the world.. on someone else's expense
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/21 07:50 AM
2

Yes, exploiting emotionally and mentally vulnerable men. It's despicable really. It's abuse of weak people. Don't mind escorts or sugarbabying, because there is a real value exchange. The man is getting physical pleasure. With this online-only stuff the man is getting nothing.
/r/MGTOW231/01/21 02:20 AM
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The only thing you have to say to a girl is "come over to my place tonight. got pizza and beer/wine". Do you need to say more? If a girl want to get with you, she'd made up her mind about it in the first 5 minutes of meeting you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/21 08:02 PM
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Everyone is different. Some men/women want to love, some does not. Sex is a large and important part of a relationship for men, but it's not all, companionship, support, etc. is also important to men. Easy access to sex beats putting in a lot of work, time and effort into chasing hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:33 AM
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No one is saying that actions are everything. Comparing action to words is a way to spot how honest and how much integrity a person got, very useful. If a person say she will do X but instead do nothing or do Y or Z insted, she is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:11 AM
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Lillith talk bullshit. An one night stand or a hookup can of course be the begining of a long term relationship. All that is needed is that both persons like each other and there is chemistry/communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:04 AM
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Yes we want her for one thing... an serious long term relationship Attractive and beautiful women are for LTR's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 07:42 AM
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Also have a look at the quality of sexlife men have. Having sex only once a year or once a month is bad sexlife. Have sex at least once a week is a minimum for it to be healthy/good sexlife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 10:46 PM
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Back in the days you where exclusive not only in a relationship but also while you dated each other. In today's slut-culture it's okay to date and fuck multiple people simultaneously as much as you want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 09:04 AM
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At a certain level of money it start to matter, like $10m and up. If you have below that you will still be rejected by hot model-looking women who are 8-10's.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:04 PM
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Thanks but no thanks.. I want to be the fuckboi that dicked her good then she was 18-24y
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 11:43 PM
0

There is two kinds of men, the extrovert/insecure/unstable guys and the introvert/calm/stoic guys. Extroverts are the ones who are clingy and need constant external validation from other men or women to feel good. Extroverts are more talkative and outgoing and that is what most western women prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:38 AM
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Usually it's for practical reasons. An single dad with 2 kids and a single mom with 2 kids is unpractical as there will be 4 kids living in the same house (part time or full time). Have kids and may want more kids with a younger woman, so it's most practical if she doesn't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:03 AM
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Usually single dads have his kids part time, every other week or so. So there is time to date on ones free week then you are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 08:55 AM
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In that case (both high earners) the couple should hire a full time live-in au-pair/maid/nanny to take care of the chores of the house and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 09:37 AM
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The question boils down to.. is she worthy of being provided for? If she is a virgin (or close to) and 18-22y I don't see any problem with providing for her. She must also submit and be agreeable, following my lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 09:13 AM
1

I believe it is required that the parents of the bride pay a dowry of $20,000 to the groom if they marry.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/01/21 10:13 PM
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Was thinking for myself "what model agency is she working for", "what ad campaigns has she done". Yup, every supposedly "hot" girl with a insta account call them self "models" these days.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/21 09:04 PM
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Agree, that is a good way to live ones life. I do myself. Never invest or do more that you get in return. Be it attention, affection, time, energy and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:36 PM
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They settle, but they may not be genuinely happy with their choice of man and content with their life. This is common if they did felt aleady in the begining they did chose someone who they felt was not good enough man in all aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:13 PM
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Not really, a thug may be of any race. It's a guy living outside the law, an criminal, an drug dealer, gang banger, or similar lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:09 PM
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While changing ones mindset into a asshole may slightly increase your chances with women. Walking around being a jerk, rude, arrogant may take a negative toll on ones well being and mind. Negative mindset will make one less content and happy with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:04 PM
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It's viewed as gay/homo to use filters or photoshop so majority of men don't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:18 PM
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Women use makeup and maybe also filters. This make you look a lot better on the pictures on dating profiles and social media. Us men usually just take the best picture and put up as they are without editing. So it is kinda unfair to compare men's pictures to women's pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 12:42 PM
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They did "swipe right" of course. There is always attraction and desire, at least in the beginning of the relationship. But people change. How they act, how they behave, what they say, life events. So the genuine desire, lust and love that did exist, disappears by time due to reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 11:56 AM
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Alpha/beta is a mindset and mentality. It has nothing to do with ones length or appearance/looks. You can be ugly or short and be Alpha. You can be hot, handsome and be beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 11:54 AM
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Beta is a mindset/mentality. The typical weak guy who doesn't stand up for him self against others. The guy who lack backbone, balls and are fearful. He who bend over and take shit from others, be it his girlfriend, wife, relatives, coworkers or kids. If your gf/wife demands or ask for something, will you say "NO" to her face? the beta will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 11:09 AM
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Make her contribute her share then. If you as a man don't, it's your own fault, isn't it. If she can't or does not want, just refuse to buy/get it. Don't be such a weak spineless beta cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 10:26 AM
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Just make sure you as a man put in equal or less than her, and you're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 10:17 AM
1

Kids ARE happiness. You will notice then you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 11:21 AM
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Weak, spineless and no balls. Probably bends over to every whim and want she got. Give me this, give me that, etc. A relationship should be balanced. She must provide same value as you provide.
/r/MGTOW217/12/20 08:37 AM
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Not only sex. We did normal boyfriend-girlfriend stuff. Going to the beach to have swim and have picnic. Cooking food together and enjoying wine/music. Watch movies and relax. Going to the park for walk and enjoy ice cream. Going to the gym working out together. Going to restaurant enjoying food, etc. The normal stuff a couple does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 04:03 PM
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Some young women finds older men attractive and have sex-appeal so it's not only about money. But sure it's part about the dough and the lifestyle it brings. It's those few 5% middleaged men who are millionaires that get the interest from young women. Traveling the world, living at luxury hotels, dining out at classy restaurants, nice handbags, shoes and dresses. Stuff that regular men can't provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 01:05 PM
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The last woman I dated for 4 months earlier this year was 21y, and I'm in my 40's. A subset of younger women 18-25 find older men to be attractive, have sex appeal and charisma. What is attractive is subjective and every one is different in their preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 12:58 PM
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Sperm quality drops slowly but still fertile at old age. Famous singer Julio Iglesias got a kid his 80's. Plenty of cases where men got kids in 70's and 80's. I'm not saying it's right or good to do, but it happens now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 12:44 PM
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It's seen as a failure, that the man is rejected and discarded by all women. That the man is undesirable and unattractive. Male virginity above a certain age is viewed as a failure by both women and men. Also part of the ever ongoing dick-measuring contest among younger men. The higher amount of women a man has conquered, the higher his status. It signals he is desirable among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 09:21 AM
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What is HV is subjective and differs from person to person. A man who is viewed as High Value by woman A may be viewed as Low Value by woman B. A man who is successful and a billionaire may be viewed as Low Value by some women. In measuring "high value", attraction is a large part of the it. Beside things like age, background, style, swag, charm, charisma, personality, etc. If a 16 year old girl is into rock music bands subculture, an guitarist in a rock band maybe viewed as HV in her eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 09:02 AM
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I did not say looks is everything that a woman value in men. But looks are atleast 70% of it. Looks is not 100% for men either. Then it comes to pure sexual encounters looks is 100% of what is valued as HVM. In nightclubs or on dating apps for hookups. If a woman are just out to have fun in the bed it doesn't matter at all what a guy's job, career, income, wealth, etc. Even his personality doesn't matter much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 09:13 PM
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It's "high value" in the eyes of women. A broke unemployed bum that are good looking can be HVM. Good genetics is very valuable in eyes of women. Not only do they want to socialize and sleep with him, they also want to bear his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 03:45 PM
1

LFA is very good. Link A.D Link MLD Link Are some RP YT channels I personally find entertaining.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/20 04:02 PM
8

She want to keep the cake and eat it too. She want dick from multiple men while still receiving what is given only in exclusive relationships. Well hun that is what's called "casual dating" or hoeing around. Because the fuck-boys are not giving it to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 02:42 PM
2

Good, don't fall into the Simp/Beta/Orbiter/Friendzone category. These are men that give more than they receive back. Ie. being taken advantage off. If all men did follow the rules all these E-thots and E-girls on Instagram, Facebook, Tictoc, what-have-you would be starved of attention as no men would give them any if they did not give it to the men themself first.
/r/MGTOW202/12/20 01:27 PM
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Follow the rules and you will be good. Then dealing with women it should be 1-to-1 - Give her the same amount of attention she give you. - Give her the same amount of affirmation she give you. - Give her the same amount of time as she give you. - Give her the same amount of energy as she give you. - Give her the same amount of money, resources and effort as she give you. So never give a Like, Follow or compliment to a woman if she doesn't do the same to you first. Give compliments only in real l…
/r/MGTOW202/12/20 10:36 AM
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It's usually a income vs chores swap. Not that you as a man can or want to do physical stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:28 PM
2

Yep, after WW2 and the American presence in Japan, Philippines, etc. there was mixed children born so there sure are some western DNA floating around in some east Asian countries.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/20 12:53 PM
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As the saying goes, "women are born with value, men are born without value and have to create their value". As you say a lot of people doesn't understand this. They falsely believe a 20 year old woman is equal in value as a 20 year old man, and that a 40 year old woman is equal to a 40 year old man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/20 01:27 PM
2

This. Why even be social with people like that. Just turn around and leave the room/area. There is no obligation to spend time with toxic people who isn't polite and treat you with respect, even if they are your own relatives or siblings.
/r/MGTOW209/11/20 07:55 AM
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All RP guys are not like TRP. These are mostly the younger crowd of immature 18-25 year olds who are out to party and have fun. Us older and mature RP men doesn't share all of the views being displayed there. We want serious relationships, family and kids.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/20 11:37 AM
1

Yep, that is f**ked up. Turn around and run if you encounter that kind of behavior. A woman that feel tingles, butterflies, excitement for you and as such got genuine sexual desire for you actually want to have sex with you as much and often as she can and will take initiative to do it. If she doesn't, watch out and think twice about her motives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/20 11:14 PM
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Gaming women work, but usually takes a lot of effort in terms of time and energy. So it's a trade off. Is it worth spending the time and energy or the less hassle to just pay up $60 to a 18-22y sugarbabe chick to come over your place to f**k.
/r/MGTOW222/10/20 08:10 AM
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No. I want to take on leadership and be the leader in the relationship. Being a dominant, assertive man with high confidence I natural gravitate towards submissive, "insecure", "shy" type of girls that want a strong, driven, ambitious man to lead them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 02:19 PM
1

We reward women who give us pussy and sex with money, attention and favors Only weak men who feel they has no options with other women will stay with a woman who treat him badly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:33 AM
1

Same experience. Negging is dark triad game. It work very well on some women. Sometimes I'm surprised by the effect of this type of game, ex. telling a woman she is the opposite of beautiful makes her more interested in you. Logically it should'nt work, but it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:28 AM
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Men who are bald are more masculine and more manly. They are also better in bed at fucking. Due to being more aggressive because of elevated testosterone. Men with hair on the head come across as more weak and gayish. Just compare The Rock, Jason Stetham and Vin Diesel to Tom Cruise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:10 AM
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Despise these men. Simps throwing away their money to women for nothing make me angry as they do all men a disfavor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/20 08:35 AM
1

Because you are a woman that have sleept with virgin (unexperienced) men. A virgin man is not equal to a virgin woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 11:17 AM
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Yes, it's biological programming. It made sense in the hunter and gatherer era to team up with the biggest and baddest man that could kill with no remorse. That is why women lust after aggressive and violent dangerous men. Not only for the excitement and trill, but also for the protection. In todays modern society this DNA programming doesn't make much sense. But it is what it is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/20 08:18 AM
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At that age, forget about it hun, delusional thinking. If you are a hot chick 20-24y then yes it's possible if you're lucky. An alpha male wouldn't give a second of thought to a woman that old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/20 05:56 PM
1

For men it's nothing new, it's been like that since dawn of humankind. It's a new reality for women only.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:48 PM
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Both genders care about looks and personality, but for men it's like 70% looks and 30% personality, while for women it's less weight on the looks side and more on personality/traits side. That is why we see beautiful women in relationships with men who are overweight and average. The man have a great personality and are fun to be with, makes her laugh and feel good or he is successful (wealth and status). Not only traits as charm, humour, wittyness counts into attraction, also drive, ambitions (…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:47 PM
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That is false pretense as female and male attraction is not the same. For men the outer appearance and looks of the partner play are much larger role in terms of desire. But for women the personality and personal traits play a larger role than the looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 11:07 AM
1

Isn't that oblivious. Men doesn't want be husbands or boyfriends to any women. Only the women we want and deem worthy of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 10:48 AM
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always keep her needing you. Never let a situation be created where she doesn't need you This is what kept families together prior to the welfare state and women in work. Today women break up their families left and right just because of small minor things that didn't break up families in the past.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 06:45 AM
1

Traits and skills seen as valuable in the eyes of opposite gender. The value that the person brings into the relationship. Ex: a women who are good at cooking is seen as a valuable skill in the eyes of men. A man who are hard working and ambitious is seen as a valuable trait in eyes of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 09:49 AM
1

Same, haven't gone on a date with one, but did stumble across a couple on dating apps so they sure exist but are a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 08:38 PM
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The women on FDS are narcissists and psychopaths. A woman that lusts for money and materialism rater than a healthy emotional connection and relationship with a man is nothing more than a psychopath. There is no love and emotion for the man. They just think how much resources they can extract and squeeze from the other party. A normal functioning woman would not think and behave like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 08:04 PM
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Same goes for men. Would rater live happy life as a bachelor than in a co-habitation relationship with a low value woman. Smart men does not invest money and energy into low value women, because we know we won't get back an equal return of our effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 07:33 PM
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No amount of strategy and demands can make a low value women get a high value man. They can sit on Reddit and Twitter and rant about they being "queens" that deserve top noch men all day long. The delusions some of them have are laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 07:30 PM
2

Women can improve their "value" in same say as men, by personal development. Improving important female skills like learning to cook and bake well. Cleaning, doing laundry and ironing shirts. Becoming more submissive and obedient. That is how women improve their market value.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 07:26 PM
1

You got a point. Doesn't have to be that he doesn't love her. But he is indifferent to her and put her into her place, she is free to leave at anytime if she doesn't stick to his will. The opposite is once the man gets down on his knees and start simping for her it's the beginning of the end of that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 06:18 PM
1

Serious relationships start with sex first and develop from there. If there is true attraction and desire you want to make out with the person as quickly as possible. This is the same for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 11:24 PM
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That sub is just a bunch of bullshit. They deal with golddiggerism. JThat a man spend a lot of money on dates does not make him more worthy or better than those who do not. These gold diggers just out to be spoiled with gifts and freebies. That is what they are looking for, free meal tickets. If you have real interest in a serious relationship with someone, you as a woman should be fine with a walk in the park or the beach (spend zero dollars) because dating is about learning to know someone and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 11:07 PM
1

According to biology it's the male who is strong, dominant and protect the women and children from danger, not the opposite. The strenght vs weakness polarity only applies in one direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 08:27 AM
1

I disagree, Tinder, Match.com, OKCupid, etc. are markets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 07:33 PM
0

BDSM is only healthy if the man is the dominant party and the woman is submissive as that is what is the biological nature as it's been for 100.000 years sinice we where cave dwellers in stone age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 07:32 PM
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Yes, if she still goes out alone to the nightclub getting drunk with her slutty girlfriends even then you say "No", means she doesn't respect your will and you should break up with her. Actual abuse is never ok.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 06:31 PM
4

True, that word is thrown around then the man set rules and boundaries for his woman and enforces it, and the woman does not like it. Slutty and loose women need to be put on a tight leash. In a relationship women do not have freedom to do everything they like.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 03:10 PM
3

People don't understand the more they strive away from biological roles and values the more unhappy and miserable they will become. It's been in a certain way for 100,000 years, and people think they now very recently can rearrange the family and societal structure and still continue stay happy and content with life. Lol, good luck with that. People create their own misery and unhappiness, so now drink up and enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 09:42 AM
3

Untrue, statistical polls have shown that women in more traditional societies are much more happier than women in the western world (south and central america, east asia, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 08:44 AM
1

While it exists, it's very rare as women can not respect a man who are weaker than she is. A weak man with a dominant women is sort of a agreed up on BDSM relationship. It's not a normal and healthy romantic relationship between woman and man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 08:25 AM
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Sending out vibes of desperation and chasing too hard is a turn off. Be laidback, stoic and let the women come to you if they are interested. Running after her like a drooling fool just make you look like clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 04:45 PM
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Men should stop being so desperate. You can approach a woman you like one time, if she ignore you or doesn't respond, she can fuck off, just next her. Do not compliment women, do not give attention to women, do not give validation to women (women who does not do the same to you).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 12:20 PM
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There are different personalities. It is still the default that the man is the leader and take charge, make all the important decisions. The woman take a submissive and obedient role by his side. That is what most woman biologically crave and will make her happy. It's kind of funny to see "strong independent woman" complain that their lifestyle choices made them miserable and unhappy. That goes for most single women of all ages who reject the traditional role too. Oh really wonder why? Not that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 08:49 AM
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Absolutely. But the point is in a relationship where should be mutual giving and receiving both ways. The man should receive equal from what he is giving. Does he? are the woman giving to him equal value of what he gives? if he doesn't he is weak man lacking backbone that allow himself to be humiliated and abused, a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 08:24 AM
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And still a lot of woman go on hookups from dating apps or one night stands from night clubs/bars just to have sex. True that most women doesn't just want to have sex, but there seam to be a large minority that do want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 02:01 AM
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Seam more to be feminism and "woman empoverment". They also seam to lack understanding of female-male relationship dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 01:42 AM
1

Very true. Many males in western society are weak cucks. Any man that do not stand up for him self and allow other people to treat him bad lack backbone and balls. Women despise weak men. They ridicule and laugh at them then they are socializing with their girls friends. On the contrary they adore strong dominant masculine men and throw them self at their feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 01:23 AM
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Well, only low quality men would accept something else than that. Key properties of a high quality man is: strong, dominant, assertive, leader, ambitious, driven, goal oriented, got backbone, balls, protective, righteous, etc. Most men are low quality men. They are weak both mentally and in body, gets trampled up on and bossed around by everyone, at home, at their job, out in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 12:23 AM
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Nothing wrong with spoiling ones woman. But the woman must deserve it first. Spoiling is nothing that will happen for nothing. If you submit yourself and are obedient and do has he says, and take care of all his needs, he may spoil you. The woman should cook and serve him at the table, give him blow jobs multiple times a week. And good sex every day or every other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 08:52 PM
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Agree it's a bit misleading as it has nothing to do with value really. A better term would be "desirable people" and "less desirable people". How desirable one is in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 08:39 PM
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Always protect and be secret of your money before entering a co-habitation relationship. Crypto is great as one may keep ones money regardless what happens and no one knows about it and can take it away from you. Pretend to everyone around you that you got no money and are broke.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/20 08:58 AM
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Gangbangers, criminals and drug dealers also got kids. I do not live in the US so I have no insight how it work over there. Do criminals and gangbangers pay child support if they become a father? are they put in jail because they don't pay to the mother? thinking most of these don't give a shit and just abandon their kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/20 08:46 AM
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Funny that some see it as extreme, then it's common among both men and women in current times. All bachelors are doing MGTOW. All players, fuckbois and badboys are doing MGTOW. Leonardo DiCaprio, Justin Bieber, Brad Pitt, etc. have been doing MGTOW at some point of their lives then they just wanted to stay single and have fun. A lot of women do it too these days. Any woman that wish to stay single and not tie her self down in a relationship is doing the same.
/r/MGTOW210/09/20 07:26 AM
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Yes, she loses the respect and with that the loyalty, with loyalty gone she may cheat freely and look for other men to replace the current one with. Very important to set the frame from the beginning and keep it during the relationship. You are the boss, you are the leader, she submit and obey you. You control and handle the finances in the relationship, major decisions you both discuss but you make the final desicion, etc. Women really want strong men who take leadership so she just have to fol…
/r/MGTOW209/09/20 10:51 AM
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Betas.. weak men that lack balls and backbone. Weak men that does not stand up for them self and trampled up on. Noticed many in relationships is or become like this. A strong man does what he want and the women just have to ride along with his decision or GTFO. A strong man is the leader and the boss of the relationship. A women is a follower and should submit and be obedient to her man.
/r/MGTOW209/09/20 10:03 AM
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Like some acient greek philosopher wrote thousands of years ago "The oath of a woman I inscribe on water" Women have no responsibility, accountability and integrity. These are properties of men. A woman's words are not to be trusted. I previously lent money to women, did they keep their word and paid me back? no they didn't. Because their feelings about me changed pre and post, their words and their percieved reality did also change.
/r/MGTOW203/09/20 06:10 PM
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My belief too. The only way to have a long term happy relationship is that the woman submits to the man and the man leads and are in control. Once the man succumbs the control/power to the woman, her respect will decline, and will lead to her loyalty will decline. The relationship will be rolling downhill until it hit bottom and the woman break up. As someone said the most powerful word one can tell a woman is "No". Telling her "No" signals to her you got backbone, balls and don't bend over for …
/r/MGTOW203/09/20 01:53 PM
1

Found active dates to be the best. Where you do some fun activity together, like bowling, playing mini golf, visiting a museum, gallery, concert, etc. Bar hopping and visiting multiple places to eat and drink may also work. Key is that it should be active and fun, and not be boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 09:04 AM
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Agree. Either skip pursuing woman or spend only minimal time and energy on it. I won't play silly games of seduction to be able to get a date. Fuck no, either I'm her first choice or I'm no choice. If she is not up for a meet up within reasonable time cut her out and stop texting her until she's up to meet. Want to get to a agreed date/meetup in 4-6 messages or I lose interest. Wont waste endless hours of chatting with a girl for nothing. I have done that in the past and it's just a big waste of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 07:34 AM
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Insane, isn't it. She just want a stupid beta man who will happily slave away and pay for her and her kids, while suppress his own urge to procreate and spread his genes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/20 10:28 PM
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Yes, I've started to see girls who put up selfies with plants in their Tinder profiles. Also in the profile description. It's starting to be a thing. Was non-existing last year.
/r/MGTOW26/07/20 06:12 PM
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You need to be stoic then you can call a woman out on bs. Don't argue like a little girl with her, don't be moody, angry, frustrated, furious, what ever. Just say single word "No" or a few words and that is it. If you are a strong man, you just stand silently and hold frame. No need to run your mouth to her like a woman. You are not a woman, you are a man, you are a rock, you are solid.
/r/MGTOW225/07/20 08:53 AM
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I figure it's both to create some drama in their life for entertainment and also to assert the guys strength. To see if he still got his balls and backbone or not.
/r/MGTOW225/07/20 08:33 AM
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Doesn't matter how hot you are if you have a pain-in-the-butt personality. She could be picky with men then she was 18-24, now she is in rapid decline towards the bottom so she will settle or be left alone in the dust.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/20 08:02 AM
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All women are child's to some degree. These are just small shit-tests she subconsciously run on you to assert your mental strength. Women need a man who is strong and reliable, a rock she can depend on. What you get is a women who submits to you and are obedient. Someone who cooks for you, and take care of you and your needs. Or one chose opt out of that and go MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW229/06/20 02:20 PM
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Women always have respect initially. It's later then the man lets her run over him multiple times without objecting that she loses it. It did happen to me in my latest LTR. That is just how (some?) women are.
/r/MGTOW229/06/20 10:57 AM
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Good, that is understandable. It requires sort of a personality change and that may not be for everyone.
/r/MGTOW229/06/20 10:52 AM
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It's because you are acting weak and beta, you are acting and behaving weak in front of her so she's lost the respect for you, her perception of you have changed. A woman needs rules and boundaries set for her. If she behaves bad, you got to stand up for your self and discipline her, tell her that if she doesn't change her behavior she's out the door and being replaced with another girl. Majority of men out there are weak and beta so we see this same scenario replayed time after time. You may wa…
/r/MGTOW229/06/20 08:32 AM
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Nice time hanging out at the beach.. now all you need is a cute girlfriend in a bikini to wrap your arm around
/r/MGTOW227/06/20 11:02 PM
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Ah yes, but you know if you click and vibe with someone pretty fast then having a conversation right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:46 PM
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No? okay. As a guy I know immediately then I enter a room in a nightclub or the beach whatever, which girls in the room I want to fuck and who I don't. Doesn't take more than a few seconds to scan the place and evaluate who are hot and desirable and who is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:17 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:13 PM
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A woman will decide within 5 minutes of meeting a new guy if she want to fuck him or not. It's pretty black and white. Attraction and desire is biological, either you are subconsciously sexually attracted to a person or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 10:00 AM
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True. I believe one have to have a dominant personality for it work out long term. Most guys are beta and weak so they slowly succumb the power of the relationship to their woman. The change in power dynamics in turn make her respect, loyalty and sexual attraction wither away by time. One has to discipline her and put her into her place then she behaves badly or try her games and shit tests on you. Got to maintain power and leadership of the relationship and be a strong alpha at all times. Major…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/20 08:59 AM
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Telling the truth. They well know in advance that the guy they are about to hook up with is a fuckboy/player and they will get played and used. They go for it anyway because of his good looks and the excitement and fun he brings into their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 10:30 AM
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Let an unattractive/average guy send DM's to ten model looking girls (8-10's) on Instagram and see how it goes. My bet is that he won't receive a single reply back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 09:46 AM
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Very true. Some women falsely believe that sleeping with a guy means she has a chance to get him as a boyfriend/partner. Lost count on how many stories I have a read of women complaining that the guy she is regularly seeing will not commit to her, he's only using her for causal sex and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 09:37 AM
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They just sit down without really looking first, and down they go Happens more if drunk I guess
/r/PussyPassDenied21/05/20 10:34 AM
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Tempted to believe women are genetically set to expect resources from men. In ancient times the man went out to hunt down prey and bring home food. His women prepared and cooked meal for them and gave him sex. Men paying for dates, food, drinks is just the modern version of the ever old "men provide resources, women provides sex". In current modern times this can be problematic in the early stages then you are not regularly sleeping with each other. So best to go for cheap dates in the beginning…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/20 11:15 AM
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It is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:13 PM
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True, Did notice some even put their onlyfans addresses on their dating profiles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/20 10:05 AM
2

Would say software development and programming is very essential in year 2020. Let's shut down the whole internet for a few days/weeks and see how many people will come out screaming and complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:10 AM
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Lol, so funny. She can quit streaming and earn money doing honest work, how about that? She can have $10 from me if she gets down on her knees and unzip my pants
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/20 09:46 AM
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It's mostly for high-earners and wealthy men it doesn't matter for a relationship. For other guys who are not in that category it may matter a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:07 AM
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That's funny because women sometimes are attracted and feel desire for guys who behave in an arrogant and assholeish manner. Like telling rude jokes, rude teasing, making fun of her, etc. An contradictory paradox. The same guy that she feels attraction for, she should stay away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:41 PM
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An average man that got money can solve it through an sugar-relationship with a hot young girl or get one from an other country. The hot chick may get stuffed by other alpha chad's on the side for fun, but at least the average man get access to her body for his pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:52 PM
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Blanket statement to divert off betas with weak confidence. Translation "She will do hook ups with the person she deem worthy of it, just not with YOU". She will do it all you can be sure of that, raw, anal, face-fucking, threesomes, foursomes, groupsex, orgies, etc
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/20 01:51 PM
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Women can get causal sex anywhere. I guess it is convenient just to pick and chose among hot dudes on a dating app. As a man it's hard to find someone who is good looking enough for long term relationship. I have had around 500 matches but only been on 3 dates last years because most where not up to par. arg, it's tiring.. Yes I do ghost majority of girls.. most times I'm even too tired or lazy to hookup for sex. She must be something special or hot enough for it to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:08 AM
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Reading this left a bad taste in my mouth. - entitled and full of her self - superfluous, shallow - doesn't appreciate things, nothing is good enough - self centered and egoistic No long term planning, only living in the moment right now. Only partying and having fun. Sleeping with new guys right and left. Typical of some young women in modern western society. "travel slut" is a label that fits her well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/20 08:40 AM
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Just see them for what they are to the core, opportunistic creatures that are out to take advantage of you. They may be sweet and "love" you, but in the end it all boils down to that they are there to grab your assets and use it for their own pleasure. Don't opt out of women, but never succumb to oneitis and always protect your belongings, assets, investments. Never give control of money to a women, even in a serious relationship. Never let a woman know how much you got and what you earn. Keep h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/20 02:41 PM
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Women are amoral creatures in some situations. They may cheat, lie, backstab, etc. while feeling happy and in good mood about it. Pure opportunists and very selfish at times.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/20 02:26 PM
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Sorry hun, you can't be a trophy wife then you have carried an other mans child, coz you ain't no trophy Why would a man invest in a woman that got kids with someone else. It means you are paying and financing HIS genetic legacy. It makes you a cuck. Does not make sense from a rational/logical stand point. As a single dad with your kids 50/50, maybe you can split expenses for everything with a single mother 50/50. But nothing extra. That is the only viable option for these single mothers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/20 02:02 PM
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There is one way to test that. Force her to pay half of everything and see how long she stays. If she is all okay with paying 50/50 for everything, including cars, vacations, dinners, housing, groceries, birthday gifts and so on she is not one of those.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/20 05:28 PM
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It's funny and disgusting at the same time..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/20 10:21 AM
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Sorry you can't. If I spoil you, I own you. There is no such thing as both eating the cake and keeping it. Please can someone tell these hoes that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/20 10:03 AM
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"alpha" is a bunch of different personality traits really, where a man can have one or more of these traits. It's not static, one can acquire these traits or proceed to lose them. I guess "alpha male" is a guy who got a lot of these traits in his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 11:24 AM
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Never ever become a Beta Bux. That is why I'm only dating women below 30. Older women can have my dick, but they will never ever have my money. That is reserved for myself and younger girls. I can hook up with older women for sex but I will never spend a single dollar on them. They can pay for them self.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre12/03/20 09:23 PM
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I'm sure there a fat and smelly neck beard in some basement looking to man up. The same type that give away all their hard earned money to e-thots on Twitch and Snapchat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/20 07:09 PM
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Truth. If there is sexual desire things will flow easily without work..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/02/20 12:29 AM
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Pretty much the current dating/hookup culture. People are not exclusive any longer as where expected back in the days. Today women can date multiple men at same time or have sex with others while dating another. Not much to do and things will not change. Sucks if you are looking for a serious relationship. How do you know that she is not fucking or dating others behind your back. I guess one night stands and hookup is the way to go. I sure as hell will not invest energy and time in someone who i…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/02/20 03:05 PM
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As long as it is men's duty and responsibility to be the approach-er and initator of relationships, you women will never be left alone. The day women start to take initiative, flirt with and talk to unknown men in public spaces, online dating spaces, social media spaces is the day you can expect to be "left alone". It will never happen due to biological reasons I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:54 AM
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It's not a shock, who is saying it is a shock. But that women are hypocrites and threat men unfairly depending on their attractiveness level is good knowledge to spread around to other men so they are aware of this. With guy A you would jump straight into bed same night or suck him off in the toilet at the nightclub. But guy B has to go on multiple dates and pay up a lot of money before he gets any action in bed. Good that men know about this bullshit behavior so he doesn't get unfairly treated …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:13 AM
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Maybe you are mixing up introversion with narcissism and ego centered personalities. They are assholes that only care about them self and their needs. Introverts are sympathetic and empathic people that prefer to listen more than they talk. - social anxiety / shyness / lack of confidence- aspbergers/autism in various degrees Why someone is behaving in a certain way may be one of these or a mix of multiple issues. What I know is introverts love to be social with real friends that accept them as t…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/20 09:00 AM
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Where's the father, why is HE not paying. Ask the father to pay. Don't ask us, it's not our blood and DNA.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/20 09:14 AM
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Arm tattoo
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/20 03:46 PM
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Delusional.. someone with a 300k salary wouldn't touch a used up 28y with a 10f pole. Why would he then there's plenty of cute and good looking 18-24y chicks out there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/20 05:12 PM
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Real streaking is all naked. Streaking with while wearing a bikini bottom.. meeh
/r/PussyPassDenied09/02/20 11:01 AM
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Every girl has a inner whore who's lusting to bust out given the opportunity. Girls live in the moment and crave adventure, excitement and trill. That is just how they are.. all of them have a little slutty devil inside them, even the religious "good and innocent" girls.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/20 01:49 PM
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Great comment. The shaming of incels and men with problems getting women is bullying and is silly. There are men in relationships or married that doesn't get sex, imagine that. Dead bedrooms is a real thing. Incels should not indulge in self pity or rage/anger, it's not constructive going forward.
/r/MGTOW207/02/20 12:21 PM
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She will ride the CC secretly on the side with hot studs.. guaranteed If she's previously been "working" as a hooker/sugar babe there is no moral limit in her mind that will hinder her from doing it if she get the opportunity
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/20 11:35 AM
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Back in these times you at least more or less "owned" her and she was submissive and obedient to you so it was a fair deal I guess if she's a 18y virgin. Not so much today..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/20 11:28 AM
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It's a difference between being fuckade and giving the best sex of your life. A lot of women have relationships with men who are boring in bed, but have other good qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:27 PM
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Taking back an women that you broke up with that had slept other men make you the biggest cuck of all cucks. Never ever do that. Only women can do that because male and female relational and sexual dynamics are different. Women can take back or stick with a man that has slept with other women, but not the opposite.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/20 09:09 AM
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It's just the culture that the man is expected to pay and provide for everything and the woman stay at home doing nothing but taking care of the household and kids. It's the same in many other parts of the world. east Asia, middle east, south and central America, etc. Nothing wrong with EE women as long as one know what one are getting into. There is no thing as two working partners, shared economic responsibility, etc.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/20 04:01 PM
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Women today are selfish. They do not want to sacrifice them self to their man and family. A good woman are submissive and obedient to her man. She let him lead and make the big decisions. She just follows along on his journey as his loyal companion. An submissive and obedient woman are a happy woman. That is reason to the wide spread and ever increasing use of anti-depressants and SSRI meds. Western women are not happy and not content with their life. And it is all their own fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/20 12:17 PM
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I'm not MGTOW but kind of pragmatical RP. I'm open for a relationship if the right girl come along. Did stop chasing women as I come to the conclusion after 2 years of being single it is a big waste of time. If a girl shows interest in me and I like her I will pursue her. Beside that I will mostly ignore women. Been in LTR's with two women the last 15 years prior to becoming single. I love women but finding someone who is a good on all levels and worthy of me is hard. So many things that must fa…
/r/MGTOW224/01/20 12:21 PM
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10k a week, omg talk about delusional. An escort or college girl full night will run you $100
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/20 11:48 AM
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The mind/brain is flexible can be changed/transformed. New traits can be adopted and old traits can be removed. Alpha and beta is a mindset and a bunch of traits and properties. Those guys we call "natural alphas" become that way because they where brought up in a certain way by their parents then they where very young children and toddlers. I also read a study that young boys that had high testosterone level did grow larger dicks than boys with little testosterone (aggressiveness, confidence, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 06:20 PM
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It's like a Schrödinger's cat type of situation. The answer is Yes and No at the same time but you don't know until you open the box and take a look.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/12/19 10:36 AM
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"Women are gatekeepers of sex, men are gatekeepers of commitment" - unknown Women decide if there will be sex or not. Men have the deciding power if there will be a serious relationship or not.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/12/19 01:13 PM
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Date's doesn't have to be expensive. Some ideas.. - take a walk in the park and eat ice cream - go to the beach for sunbathing and swiming, bring home made food and drinks - take the car and go out in nature for an adventure, bring home made food and drinks - go to some fun free event and have some cheap fast food like pizza, burritos, etc - go on a full day/half day road trip in your car to some interesting/new place - go to see a movie together - go to a bar and have a glass of wine or beer to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 09:55 AM
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Agree, 180 is huge for a woman. I believe women should aim to be 132 and down. (yes it's fine to call me a misogynistic asshole for saying that)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 09:12 AM
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One does not need game. All you have to do it make her feel good, happy, positive and safe with you and you are pretty much set. Make her laugh and have a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 04:33 PM
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True, that is my experience too. If a woman likes you she will respond to any message, it does not matter how boring, corny or rude it is. And she her self will take initiative to message you at times, not only be a passive responder to your messages. If she initiates a convo you know she is into you and like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 12:04 AM
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Don't be so hard up on yourself. It's never to late for a man to build a family and have kids if he want to, and have the will and energy to do it. Julio Iglesias Sr. did become a father then he was 90y, while that is extreme, it shows that is never late to breed with a young woman if one likes to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/19 01:00 PM
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Due to "makeup". A chick who is a 5 put's on makeup and become a 7. Now she looks her self in the mirror and think she is entitled to a man who is 7-8 then in reality her SMV only warrants a guy who is on her own level, an 5
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/19 09:38 AM
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A lot of them are delusional and have a false sense of what they are really worth. Average chicks that really believe they can get a hot guy. If they manage to get one, it mostly ends up with them being used and kicked to the curb then the guy is finished
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/19 09:33 AM
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The white knight / neck-beard I would say Women has been doing this shit since stone age so I don't blame her. Some people are just lazy and take the easy road, in her case to sell her.. yeah you know
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/19 09:23 AM
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Law of physical attraction. You feel a strong attraction to another person you want to kiss and make out with the person more or less immediately if you had the opportunity to do so.
/r/MGTOW10/11/19 08:47 AM
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You can be as witty, clever and smart as you want as long as you are submissive and obey Now girl get down on your knees and unzip my pants
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 10:35 AM
1

Don't date/hook up with "fuckboys" then, as simple as that. It's you own fault. The most attractive men have plenty of options and is not looking to commit to one woman, why would they, it doesn't make sense for them to. They will use you for their own pleasure and throw you away afterwards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 12:27 AM
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"women control sex, men control commitment" - unknown I'm sure there are millions of men who got the personal qualities that she is looking for, but they are not phychically attractive enough. Same old story. You can put 10 men in front of her that got everything she want, but none of them will be good enough. And the men who is good looking enough to her standards won't commit because they don't have to (players, fuckboys, chads, badboys, etc.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/19 05:28 PM
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They may see multiple chads. Don't think they are that few, like 3% or within 5% is you stretch it. Some young and attractive girls have two to three "fuck buddys" they see regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 08:24 AM
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Multiple women are sharing one hot guy. He got them on rotation. I even heard women saying openly that they did know the attractive guy was regularly seeing multiple other girls and they where fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 05:36 PM
6

Hey sugarbunny, with 3 kids in tow no man regardless of his value is commit and stay, not even an short and chubby little dwarf.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/19 04:05 PM
3

It goes both ways. Woman invest time in men and men invest time in women. Fuckboys does not want to invest time so it's a good way to filter them out by forcing the man to invest time before they get to be intimate with you. A fuckboy won't go beyond three dates without getting any action, but a man who is truly interested in you as a person will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 03:30 PM
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Western society will collapse if the current road continues, just matter of how long time. A lot of men in current society are tried of this shit show and don't give a fuck if the earth burns.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 02:32 PM
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Because they are trying to enable women to wean themselves off noncommittal fuckboy Chad's. That can be done in other ways that to require men to invest money in them. Like investing time. These non-committal men are not willing to invest a lot of causal time in the woman they are pursuing so they will bail out then they have to spend a lot of their time and energy without receiving any sex from the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 01:51 PM
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She's complaining it's a hassle to put on make up and nice clothes? hey she is doing that every day anyway before going to work or school so it's a moot point. She won't be more attracted to you because you spend a lot of money on her. Attraction doesn't work that way. There are plenty of ideas for free dates or dates below $10 and it will be the same outcome in the end anyway. She either likes you or she does not. She either wants you or she does not. That handsome and hot dude she goes home wi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/19 12:26 PM
2

So funny! love the last sentences. Now it's time for you beta boy to man up and take on your destined role as a step-dad to chad's off spawn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/19 11:14 AM
1

Ok, I can recommend LFA, he's spreading red pilled life wisdom and life advice, he's a genuine and great guy. Have got some useful stuff from him. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkS25_BA441NQMkbJG_k9Kg
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:02 AM
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I like LFA on YT. What is your opinion of him? Agree it's mostly the same topics on repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 09:17 AM
1

Unknown woman that they are interested in, not their girlfriend. My advice to young men is to never give attention and compliments to women that does not deserve it, especially online. Never like unknown girls posts on IG/FB/TW. Never write cheesy comments or compliments, never follow their account if they do not follow yours, etc. Attention and compliments are to be given face-to-face in the real world only. You got droves of young women feeding their ego on attention/compliments from mentally …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:19 AM
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Agree, did see a lot of bs and man bashing in that group. Yes some girls go on dates to abuse men, ie. for the entertainment and to get free food and drinks. One rule I have is to only do cheap dates until we are seeing each other regularly and sleeping together. Treating her with ice cream, coffee, tea, beer, wine or non expensive fast-food, etc is okay, but nothing expensive initially the first 1-2 times. My advice to young men is to protect your money and never ever give away your money to so…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:47 AM
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True, you have to pay one way or the other. If you have a relationship and girlfriend you have to pay, if you are married and have a wife you have to pay, men always has to pay, exept if you are not the few lucky 5% ones who is a chad and have women lined up in a queue to fuck you. That is not most men's reality, so just spend money on yourself and buy pussy then you need it.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/10/19 03:36 PM
1

Because the dominant, masculine and strong male turn you on. You are all good baby, it's natural.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/19 11:18 AM
3

That is why you always should do video conf. in Facetime/Skype, etc with a remote girl you are talking with. Plenty of catfishes, escorts, camgirls, instawhores and golddiggers out there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/19 10:08 AM
1

Well, it's just shows that both general attraction and sexual attraction is very important for a relationship to survive long term. If both are in place the odds are high that it will be a strong, healthy and happy relationship. Of course an relationship and attraction need to be constantly maintained and taken care of, it doesn't take care of it self.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/19 01:08 PM
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That is kind of deep, and true
/r/PussyPassDenied05/09/19 08:18 AM
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Just felt sad for her part. She didn't understand that her highest value as a woman was in her 20-26 and that is then she should score a good long term partner. Well it is all down hill from here, ain't it..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/19 05:41 AM
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Sure all women want material things. An alpha male would buy her a frying pan and tell her to cook a nice dinner for him. If she complains about the gift, you say "if you don't like it, there's the door" and you point to the door with your hand. Buy her a gym card and tell her to get slim/fit. Buy her a pair of sexy classy high heels and a tight dress that YOU would like her to wear then you go out eating dinner on Saturday night. For a gift you don't have to buy what SHE want, but what YOU want…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/19 09:25 AM
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That is what expensive external attributes like expensive bags, shoes, clothing, watches are about. They want to look like belong to another social class than they really do. It's silly and childish behavior if one think about it, walking around with a $1000 hand bag and being a broke ass with zero dollars on the account. Some men do the same, it's usually expensive watches or cars, motorcycles, etc. But much more common among women due being social creatures.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/19 08:28 AM
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True. This ties into the saying that the man leads and the woman follows. In a good and healthy relationship the woman are submissive and submit to her man. This is the social dynamic that will make both happy and create a happy relationship. The man takes initiative, directs and guides. It's all about being a strong, just and fair leader and keep a alpha mindset ("frame"). The best relationships I have had is with girls who are easy going, laid back, fun, got charm and just submits and follows.…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 01:24 PM
2

I use the method of divide-and-conquer That mean I do break the larger task/goal into smaller parts, then I go ahead to methodically achieve each part. I may also break a part down further into even smaller sub-parts if needed.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 01:10 PM
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Agree, sex is great exercise and make you happy and feel good afterwards. Have a lot of sex in a LTR or with the same man each time. A woman who have different men inside her each week/month is just disgusting and repulsive for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/19 07:31 AM
6

Agree, PUA and Red Pill is two different things and some people tend to mix them up PUA/Dating Coaches is weakness. It's weak beta shit
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 09:16 AM
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All good to have a monogamous long term relationship, I would say that is preferable to have access to pussy at all times. If you scored a really nice chick, a slim/fit good looking 8-10, you want to keep her in your life. Key is to maintain a alpha mindset. If you maintain a masculine alpha frame, she will be happy and committed, she will keep her feelz, the tingles and excitement. The "zero fucks given", "abundance" mindset is a part of the masculine alpha mindset. You are not dependent up on …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 09:04 AM
4

True, have matched with escorts/callgirls on Tinder and sure they show off their sexy wares but no face. She was a nice girl to have chat convo with, an med student in her twenties that made extra money on the side.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/19 03:57 PM
3

With a baggage like that she should be happy with any man walking into her house. ​ Woman like this is delusional as they does not seam to understand that then you got a heavy liability like that (three boys at home), the woman must offer a lot of things to the man to compensate the negatives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/19 09:01 PM
1

Delusional.. with her age she can not put up any requirements. She should be happy if she can get an old and weak short man to put up with her shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/19 01:44 PM
1

That was brutal.. feel kind of sorry for the guy. What a bitch to say something like that
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 08:33 PM
5

Honey, I think there are a 70 year old dude somewhere for you if you keep looking. ​ Men want younger woman because we like beauty and good sex. A dude in who is 30 want a chick who is 20-25. A dude who is 40 want someone who is 10-15 years younger and so on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/19 08:21 PM
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As a father of multiple kids I can tell you, living in the same house as an infant or small child is a living hell more or less. You would be insane to choose to live together with a woman which got a small kid 0-4 years which isn't yours. You will become a cuckoo after a few months due to sleep deprivation, screaming, crying, and all things. Living on your own and hook up for sex now and then is another thing, meet for a few hours and then you're out the door..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/19 07:30 PM
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Sure bitch.. but I will: a) stop paying for you from my paycheck b) bring home 18-20 year old escorts and callgirls dressed in high heels and fuck them on the kitchen table, in the sofa and in our bed
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 08:06 PM
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Why not articles about the reverse situation. Her husband fucking 18 woman at the same night. I would throw the whore out on the street if just sleeping with one guy. Disgusting just thinking about it. ​ I'm open minded about sex, have no problem with threesome with another girl or pair-swap if the other girl is good looking, slim and worth it.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 03:02 PM
1

Sounds good to me. Maybe she is into choking? that is a plus
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/19 08:59 AM
1

Women are hardwired to be both sexually attracted and generally attracted to masculine characteristics. They where hundred thousand years ago in the hunter-gather era then we lived in tribes and and they are today. You say masculine characteristics and traits have no place in society, how wrong that is. Risk taking, ambition, drive and entrepreneurship, building and discovery, adventuring, conquering is core masculine characteristics. Ex. start-up and building companies and businesses are mascul…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 09:52 AM
4

It's very easy. Women adore strength and despise weakness. They unconsciously adore men who are mentally strong and physically strong. They unconsciously despise men who are mentally weak and physically weak. Then you get an understanding that this woman do work by biology everything becomes clear. As long as you as a man act and behave like a strong and masculine man and treat her as she want, she will stay loyal and committed to you. If you get fat, out of shape, and weak, a pussy/doormat, she…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre24/06/19 08:31 AM
4

True, if you act and behave like a strong masculine alpha (mental strength + physical strength) and put her into her place where she loves to be (submissive to you), she will stay loyal, committed and happy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/19 08:28 AM
3

Legit. I'd see some married north American woman who is on business trips to Europe looking for hookups on Tinder in my city. What happens in X stays in X.. their gullible husbands at home in US while their wife is riding a hard stiff cock at the hotel room They are much easier to score also compared to local girls as they know there is no consequences at all
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/19 08:15 AM
1

Yes, isn't that is a lesson. My rule is no splashing money on expensive dates the first three times and not before having sex. We can meet up at her place or my place and eat some pizza/food or take a walk in the sun and eat ice cream or a drink/beer in a bar. If the girl is into you for the real she is fine with something simple. Otherwise she just see you as a free meal. Some girls go out with guys just for the entertainment, not because they like them.
/r/Chadfish23/06/19 07:54 AM
3

Yes they do. Even the most man-hating and man-bashing feminist will turn into a little giggly girl in the presence of a strong alpha. Regardless of what comes out of their mouth publicly. Woman unconsciously despise men who are weak in body and weak in mind. They adore men who are strong bodily and strong mentally. They are hardwired biologically to do this. As long as you are confident and strong they respect you. If you turn weak and beta they will lose their respect for the man. And with that…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 02:58 PM
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Exactly, the less attention and validation you give, the more interested in you she becomes. To much compliments or worship the less interest she gets in you. My experience is that negative comments/messages but in a witty/humours way (not being mean or too rude), "negging" often gets a positive response from girls. In other words you're projecting your dominance and superiority as a alpha on her and that is turning her on sexually and her interest increases. Well this is basic red pill/game stu…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 12:14 AM
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She must be worthy of your attention and validation by submitting herself to you. She must be submissive to you as the strong alpha. Women submits them self to confident and strong men. You can see it happening both online and in the physical world.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 11:48 PM
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I believe all woman have insecurity inside them by their biology. They need the validation given by men. That makes them feel good and happy, they have a need to be liked by people around them. This is by biology and nature. It's not wrong to give validation to women. But only give validation to your girlfriend and do it preferable in person. Not to random and unknown women or thots online. The truth is that these online woman really does not give a single fuck about you as a person. Stop give l…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 11:44 PM
2

Persuade her to have threesome with another girl? or partner swapping? that way you can fuck other girls without being unfaithful. If she agrees to have threesomes, that is best as you can bring in new girls all the time as you like.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 05:00 PM
2

Have a zero-fucks-given attitude is good. And being a asshole works well on some girls that are sluts/thots. I remember one time I got home drunk after being out drinking with my friends. I did message a unknown slutty girl on Facebook that she had nice dick sucking lips and that I wanted to mouth fuck her with my hard dick. To my surprise she responded very well and took it as a compliment.
/r/Chadfish14/06/19 07:18 AM
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Good approach. Boys don't waste your time on chatting with girls (that may never be really interested in seeing you in the first place). Shoot a few lines and ask her for # or ask to meet up. As you matched in the first place she is somewhat attracted and interested. If she doesn't respond, tell her to GTFO.
/r/Chadfish14/06/19 07:04 AM
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True, I have seen this work out many times in the real world among friends, co-workers and acquaintances. A woman should never be allowed to be sure about her man, once she takes him for granted it is mostly downhill, she loses the respect for him had she had initially in the relationship. He becomes weak in her eyes.
/r/MGTOW08/06/19 03:07 PM
1

Well put. This is very true.
/r/MGTOW08/06/19 03:00 PM
1

Smart nerds/geeks concentrate on their thing and create a successful project/company and they will have all the money and pussy they want in life. Successful projects like Puppet, Docker, Google, CoreOS, Minecraft, it's all created by geeks giving a shit. Regarding rms, I have to give him credit for in the younger days creating GCC and GDB. In my younger days I could not program in C because all compilers where commercial and did cost $300 to purchase.
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