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Bad use of incorrect statistics while using anecdotal experiences to paint an incredibly skewed picture.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/23 03:34 PM
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It’s okay to feel this. It’s a reminder that you are a human, life is messy and nothing is black and white. You can still be there for her in whatever capacity you feel comfortable with and that she’ll allow.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 05:54 PM
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Your argument has no bearing or facts. Its not worth interacting with. You posted a shit tier blog and tried to pass it as data. You’re lost. I feel bad.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 05:04 PM
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Thanks for taking the time out of your vacation to post something so dumb that it’s comical. Needed the laugh. Take this L from across the globe.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 04:26 PM
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Oh no, you actually believe that…Wild. Good luck man. I hope you get the help you’re looking for.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 04:25 PM
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I cant tell if you're joking or serious. This site is dog shit, there are ZERO facts or citings...just a handful of quotes without context. Even the years and dates are sloppy and all over the place. Leaves out SOOOO many variables. It's like a C- middle school student who has no idea what the fuck they're doing set this up. DO better. If you wanted unbiased data you could have tried at least a little:https://singlemotherguide.com/single-mother-statistics/ https://realdiapers.org/single-parent/ …
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 01:43 PM
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Brain rot. What are you even talking about? I hope some of you can recover from this because god damn.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 01:34 PM
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Dead beat dad
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 10:03 PM
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I was a product of it. I understand it very well.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 09:17 PM
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A loser dad or a loser mom or didn’t have a support system. It’s easy to get lost in the cracks. But if you’re implying a mom…well where is the dad? At least she was there.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 06:43 PM
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This isn’t even about respect, this is a horny dude with zero social skills.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 04:00 PM
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Get therapy and discuss this with a trained professional. Talk to your wife about how you feel. The grass is not always greener…
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/22 03:50 PM
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Amen brother. It was hard as fuck to make some realizations but man has it made me happier, healthier and way better at communicating.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/22 06:34 PM
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Hard disagree. And if you believe what you said it sounds like you need to “pull yourself up by your bootstraps”.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/22 06:32 PM
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This sub hates it when you direct the question back at them. I 100% agree with you. We need to hold mirrors up to ourselves in this partnership as well. 2 sides to every story.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/22 06:30 PM
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Andrew tate is just surface level. He’s done saying his whacky controversial stuff and just echoing what most adult men should know…work hard, take care of yourself, fail often and learn from it, be a follower and leader when required. Nothing special…his view on women is vanilla conservative.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/22 06:26 PM
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I put the responsibility for the failed marriage on myself. We both stopped communicating, it festered for years and turned into resentment for both of us. I knew it needed help, she offered and I was too proud to go to therapy. Fast forward, therapy is fucking amazing. You get out what you put in. If we had done it sooner I think we’d be in a much different story line. The experience does not change my perception of women, it did however change how I view myself, the short comings I never reali…
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/22 06:23 PM
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I don’t even know what you’re on about at this point. I said your blanket statement was factually wrong. You’re using your failed experience to make assumptions about an entire sex. It’s essentially saying, “I learned nothing”. 2 sides to every story, identify and walk away from toxic women (or vice versa), take accountability and if expecting us men to take accountability for our failures and action is frowned upon then ban me and maintain whatever sad echo chamber this sub is.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 06:08 PM
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Your experience is not everyone’s. I know, tough concept. While you’re busy making false blanket statements, I was targeting OPs situation. We’ve DMed at length about the scenario. It might not be salvageable but if you don’t learn from a failed relationship you’re going to fail again. It takes two. Good luck finding happiness and removing the sodium from your thought process.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 12:59 PM
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You’ll grow out of this with time. Not all women (or men) are the same. You’re hurt and I get it. Good luck on your new journey. Like I said. This sub is way too jaded.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/22 08:25 PM
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Incel talking point. Ignore this like the plague. So cringe.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/22 03:07 PM
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Yes, sorry I abridged for the poster above since he was aware of the situation. You did try, just not in a way that was conducive to letting your wife know you cared. It’s a common mistake and trap that is very easy to fall into, myself included. Glad we got to dm and dive into this and I wish you well.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/22 03:01 PM
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He’s admitted to not trying hard if any at all. I agree with your post, but we have a scenario laid out in front of us. He neglected her while thinking what he was doing was showing her he cared and a way that was meaningful. Full stop that’s not how it works for a lot of people. I fell victim to the exact same thing. Therapy has opened up my eyes in a way I never thought it could. Walking away from a dead end or toxicity is absolutely a good choice. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/22 12:54 PM
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I got you. I’ll send what I sent him.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/22 12:44 PM
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I feel you 100% I can offer some advice I recently learned / experienced for whatever it’s worth. I’ll dm you tonight. Stay strong.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 08:03 PM
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She has a love language and you’ve neglected it. Been there before. Shit is real my man. I would highly suggest reading the book and both of you discovering what y’all are. Then take some god damn counseling and log off of reddit. This sub is jaded as hell. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 07:16 PM
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No. Period.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/22 04:46 AM
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Nah
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/22 01:39 AM
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Self supportive, driven, and has her shit together. Laid back and goes with the flow. A great sense of humor and has no interest in complicating what should be a fun experience. These are my barriers of entry. They’re out there. Once you drop the angst and approach with positivity things get a hell of a lot easier and better.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/22 05:34 PM
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Exact opposite. People want real connections. Use trash, find trash. You’ll come across some duds, that’s true for everyone, do your vetting up front. Met some amazing women getting back out there.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/22 05:10 PM
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Seriously? We have 100 years+ of easily locatable data to show us exactly what to expect from a mens perspective in divorce. And women are expected to perform comparable forms of sacrifice in the same scenario. Whats your point? Everyone makes big compromises here in very different ways.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/22 04:08 PM
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No, what I'm reading here is one side of a very complex story. I don't know any of you, but if I've learned anything from divorce its everyone plays a part. Women and men leave relationships every second of everyday. It takes 2. You and I both played a pivotal part in our marriage failing. So any kiddos walking into this sub...grain of salt, this is mens version of FDS. Marriage is amazing when all cylinders are firing in unison, but take steps to protect yourself up front and don't be a fucking…
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/22 03:35 PM
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Take any advice you see here with a grain of salt. Your looking for feedback from seriously damaged individuals. A lot these wounds are still fresh and the advice is going to be heavily skewed…we’re not ever going to here the other side because there is ALWAYS another side to the story… Upon reading some there is some good content but then there is “women evil” lol. Learn to tell the difference and be honest with yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 06:23 PM
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Trust until you’re given a reason not to. Keep your guard up forever and you’ll die a conspiracy theorist or remarkably painful to be around…spoiler: nobody likes that shit, it’s cringe. You need a reset, heal from the experience, but learn from it too. then do things at your own pace.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 02:44 AM
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What did I just read lol. Jesus. Lol. Cancel the trip, don’t renew vows, divorce. Time to grow up kiddo. That party will never be worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/22 06:47 PM
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It works both ways kid. Guys can change just as much or not at all. I know I did.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/22 01:11 AM
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Yup this. It’s not a fallacy. She found something they fits her better and that’s life. This is full on copium.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/22 01:52 PM
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yikes lol
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/21 05:27 PM
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Depends on state, but really...not much. Divorce court doesn’t really care who’s at fault for something as trivial as cheating.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 04:46 AM
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You are and the world is entitled to tell y’all are acting immature as fuck. Be happy, do you, but don’t expect everyone in here to agree with this whack behavior and mind set. If taking out your angst on random women giving compliments is cool then I have some bad news for y’all... For the record I’m part of this group. I guess divorce didn’t melt my brain. FDS is whack, be better.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/21 02:12 PM
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Yeah it’s weird. Op tries to flex like being rude is cool and that it’s a trap. Like take the compliment and move on, fuck dude lol. Instead he ponders if he “crushed her ego” lol wtf this is some high school incel shit. The comments are some scorned women...I mean men, who are literally pledging to just jerk off for eternity because they tossed the coin and got burned. If that’s what this sub has devolved into so be it.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/21 01:26 AM
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Don’t bother. This is some weird incel shit in this thread. Kinda sad.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/21 06:47 PM
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Jesus...it’s not women, it was the woman you were with. Not everyone is the same. I get your guard is up from a bad situation but not everyone is out to “get you”. Drop this behavior quickly if you can. It’s not conducive to ever being happy again. It reeks of “all men are the same” energy.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/21 01:58 PM
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She cheated because you weren’t giving her good dick and making her feel wanted. She went and found it somewhere else. Whether it was physical or mental, you didn’t deliver. It could have been a lack of communication or you were soooo busy collecting material goods y’all lost focus on the team aspect. Not enough background to make a 100% claim, but you made my point for me. Cheating works both ways and happens when something is missing. Lay off the incel readings.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/21 12:59 PM
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bro, you're both cheaters (I am too so no judgement) Get the fuck out and enjoy life with your kids. You're doing better than most. You're both toxic as fuck for each other.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/21 01:35 PM
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Hysteric bonding hit you like a freight train. Sorry man, it happens. Mentally she sounds done and that’s near impossible to bring back. But it sounds like you’ve made some seriously big strides to self improve. Channel that in your next relationship / endeavor.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/21 02:22 AM
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I speak from experience on both sides of this.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/21 04:36 AM
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Bro, cheating is a side effect of failure. This works both ways, its not like this unique to women. This is cringe and could have been caused by any number of reasons. People cheat when they're not getting what they need / want. That whole rational male site is incel fuel...anyway sorry if this happened to you.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/21 08:12 PM
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Why would we? We don't have to deal with side effects, the morphing of our bodies, the possibility of death or any number of complications. You'll let a person refuse to bake another person a cake, fight tooth and nail for a firearm (which I own many of and enjoy) , but draw the line in the sand for women to make a choice about their body and how it functions. Ya'll still act like women are property. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jgGpFYEMiw0
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/19 06:27 PM
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Reproductive rights / FREEDOM would be a fantastic start.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/19 05:41 PM
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Pro gun too. I think a better argument would have been " I wish the right/republicans would fight for women's rights as much as they do for gun's" would have been a really strong statement.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/19 04:35 PM
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