stilettonyc Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	An interesting forum...Im happy to answer questions as a I am a Professional Escort		stilettonyc	/r/seduction	16/07/18 03:49 PM

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1	Cold approach for older women in store/traffic etc. and it not being creepy?? all i can say is dont force it. it will happen when the moment is right. Trust in who you are and what you want the rest will take care of itself.	/r/seduction	05/09/18 04:40 PM
3	Cold approach for older women in store/traffic etc. and it not being creepy?? Im 43 and will tell you that if you arent looking juast to get laid pick up lines dont work. Also, most women at the age are extremely confident. Be easy going and natural, make an observation about them that doesnt sound like an obvious compliment. Its all in what is implied. Women overthink and we love to read between the lines.	/r/seduction	05/09/18 04:09 PM
5	How to react when she brings up sexual topics? Could you give a little context? Is it through a messaging app? on an actual date? or in random conversation?	/r/seduction	28/08/18 08:10 PM
1	What is it that makes girls message you first, send extra long messages, reply in an instant? A lot of girls seem to be so interested at first but then treat you like hot trash the next day, how to avoid this? I would say dating is a numbers game, especially with apps. Whoever is the most interesting gets the date. Girls really like guys who can be witty. If you can display that immediately, you will have a better chance of converting the conversation to an actual date.	/r/seduction	28/08/18 04:25 AM
-1	How should I text going forward here? (Tinder number) If her bio was sexual, how do you know shes not an escort? I personally dont ever use Tinder but I know escorts that do. Outside of that, she sounded a bit flat. She wasn't engaging you in conversation, she was merely answering your questions... Next...	/r/seduction	28/08/18 12:11 AM
1	Great sex with previous casual partners, can't stay erect with gf (a 10) ROFL. Are you sure about that? I double checked the lyrics before I posted it. According to web lyric sources its Duran Duran. :) As far as your advice, I would agree with you but I have feeling it will just make things worse for him. In theory NSA sex seems so simple for most people...but rarely is that simple.	/r/seduction	23/08/18 12:55 PM
8	Great sex with previous casual partners, can't stay erect with gf (a 10) You are young. You have been dating for 3 weeks. Sex for 1 week??? Relax. You spent a few sentences talking about how great the relationship is and the rest complaining about it. You are leaving for Uni soon and have your whole life ahead of you. I dont mean to sound harsh but you need to put things into perspective. It is just sex. You are young. Your testosterone levels are not falling. You want it to work so bad that your dick is feeling stressed. I was stressed for you reading your post. In …	/r/seduction	22/08/18 11:48 AM
1	How do you talk to a girl you haven't talked to in a while? 3 months is not a long time at all. What would you say to any friend you didnt speak to over the summer? Women dont have scales and horns. Approach her like you would anyone else you would want to curate a relationship with.	/r/seduction	21/08/18 09:21 PM
56	Best guide on how to eat pussy...PERIOD First a man has to find the clit. I can't tell you how many men think they know where it is but are often off the mark. If you need her to show you, tell the girl you want to watch her play with her vibrator. If you want to get really creative, tell the girl you are Indiana Jones searching for the Holy Grail. This will get a laugh. Laughter releases endorphins that take away stress and pain. Second, communication. Every woman is different. Ask her how she likes it. I was a swinger at one point a…	/r/seduction	16/08/18 01:42 PM
1	An interesting forum...Im happy to answer questions as a I am a Professional Escort Yes, of course. I care about every client I spend time with. However, just like a therapist, it is extremely important to establish boundaries. I have known many of them since the beginning of my career and continue to see them after 6 years. In fact, I just celebrated a birthday and many of them, some who I only see once a year, email, text and call me with really nice birthday messages. Sometimes caring for someone as a friend/human being can be more intense than romance. It all depends on the…	/r/seduction	16/07/18 05:15 PM
2	An interesting forum...Im happy to answer questions as a I am a Professional Escort Thank you for your question. I would say that most men really just want to feel appreciated and connected to someone. They call me because I engage with them and it is sincere and genuine. Intimacy on some level is missing from their life. They feel safe with me because I am very open but also diligent with their boundaries. There is little pretense. I think some people get caught up that seduction is theatre. This is the biggest misconception. I know the ages on this forum vary but so do the ag…	/r/seduction	16/07/18 05:05 PM
2	The fine line between confidence and being an asshole Are you working on confidence or just being more extroverted? If you are trying to build rapport, get a date, or network professionally, then it is important to listen more than talk. This is the key to being confident- understanding that you shine the brightest when shining the light on others. I have an intense personality and I have found that I yield the best results when I sit back observe and listen. I'm still being myself because I care and am interested in learning about the person I'm s…	/r/seduction	19/06/16 04:48 AM
1	Trying to avoid falling in the 'friendzone', what should I do? I'm confused... how are you falling in this so-called "friend zone" when she is asking you for help? Isn't it a good sign that she trusts you enough to ask for her help, in a moment of vulnerability?	/r/seduction	17/06/16 12:36 PM
1	How to reply when women give you deep complements? I have given people (men and women) these kinds of compliments, when I sense they may be having a bad day. Who doesnt want to hear something nice? Like you, I often find that they are at a loss for words. I'm ok with that. I'm aware that meaningful compliments aren't all that common. I have also been on the receiving end and I am always quick to respond with "thank you for making my day."	/r/seduction	17/06/16 12:04 AM
1	Compliments? Keep it simple with a "thank you." Politeness and manners go a long way.	/r/seduction	16/06/16 11:55 PM
1	Becoming more sexual? I don't see what is wrong with your approach. It seems to me that you just haven't met the right girl. The mental always drives the physical. Sense of humor is important of course but that is v. different from flirting over text/sexting. The problem is that everyone wants instant gratification - the women want to know you find them attractive and then later will act bewildered when the guy loses interest or perhaps they decide that now there ego is satisfied they no longer are hunger for the int…	/r/seduction	19/05/16 04:18 AM
1	Im confused about seductive coquette This is not really a role for a man. If the girls is desperate or insecure, yes she may pursue you relentlessly but do you really want that/ What a confident, secure woman appreciates is a confident man. If you have to resort to game-playing because you lack confidence, fake it till you make it.	/r/seduction	06/01/16 05:49 AM
2	Yeah, I'm done with online dating websites. online dating is good for two things: when you move to a new city and when you need a rebound.	/r/seduction	06/01/16 05:34 AM