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because she is not after sought-after guys. bullshit. the bottom 80% of men are invisible to women. most of them want the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:59 PM
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You’re dating an American chick? Ohhh boy, you’re fucked. Divorce is 50%. Flip a coin, that’s the chance your relationship will last, lol I just find it so dumb. It’s a waste of time really. I’d rather level up and date traditional women in another country. Oh well, everyone can’t level up though. We need dudes like yourself in society
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:26 PM
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oh okay. in general though being in a long term relationship as a man in the united states is very dumb. i hope you're not dating an american girl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:55 PM
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delusion at its finest other women influence the market because they are options for dudes to date i don't even know why i address this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:19 PM
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you're behaving like a simp if a girl plays that card even once, her head is in the wrong place. she has shit character, why would she even do that to begin with if she was a solid chick
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:15 PM
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nobody cares what you want most women want dominant, assertive men that have money sex is apart of the bargain. you fail to understand what you bring to the table for men. your whole psychology is fucked up. you are the classic example of what is wrong with modern american woman, congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:13 PM
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no. the man should kick the woman the fuck out, immediately if she doesn't want to have sex, okay, that's cool. take your stuff, and leave what you fail to realize is that high value dudes have options. there are other girls out there that are willing to have sex and get into long term relationships. most chicks in the united states aren't worth getting into a long term relationship with anyway but that's a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:03 PM
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what? i'm not hesitant to say anything. women cannot refuse to have sex with a man they are seriously involved with. of course there are caveats to that. the man should be stable, taking care of all finances, preferably be high value, etc. i have a feeling you've locked down a beta dude and are taking advantage of him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:00 PM
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what does that have to do with anything you have problems and i feel sorry for the men in your life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:29 PM
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there is no "want" sex is a requirement, it's a default. that's the problem, women want to negotiate sex. it's on the table 100% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:08 PM
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you don't understand gender roles so you default to perverting my statements and thinking you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:00 PM
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that's why dudes shouldn't be dating chicks with this type of mentality. a chick is a good girlfriend when she gives her guy sex when he wants
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:47 PM
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that's because most men are blue pilled and women run through them if you're a high value man with a good head on your shoulders, you understand the following: if your woman is not giving you sex, you get rid of her. period. there are no if, ands, or buts. 95% of the time she is capable of giving you some sort of sexual satisfaction. when chicks whine about "ohhh i can't have sex tonight!!" it's usually bullshit. they're lying through their teeth and being disingenuous as fuck. they could tolera…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:42 PM
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why are you still with that chick? she sounds like poison any girl that tries to negotiate sex in exchange for chores from you should not be taken seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:35 PM
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You have zero understanding of this topic We’re done here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:49 AM
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they are. it's cancer for men, for women it's good though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:00 AM
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not an incel, i get laid regularly Second, those “statistics” are completely made the fuck up. not completely made up. most chicks are chasing the top level men You think most women are “sharing guys” most women WANT the high value guy. but most can't get a guy like that in a monogamous relationship. so the women either a) settle for the average faithful male or B) stay single in the past most chicks were settling with average guys because there was no social media/internet. things are changing …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:33 PM
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idiot. it's not that straight forward. the bottom 80% of men are invisible to women, period. the guys you see in relationships are being controlled by their women and given sex here and there. they are in no way commanding sexual access in their relationship most girls are sharing and fucking the same set of guys. most guys are not fucking anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:35 PM
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tell that to the bottom 80% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:25 PM
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no it's not. retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:18 PM
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most onlyfans girls are not making money dude lol. check out /r/onlyfansadvice, they're mostly dumb thots lol the ones that have a chance are the top % chicks that are very hot and have the body/looks the average 6-7/10 girl? she's spamming subreddits and twitter trying to make $30 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:14 PM
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nope. game is required, money is the entry point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:08 PM
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men can get hook ups if they self improve. most will not do that though also, long term relationships in the United States are cancer for men and should be 100% avoided
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:07 PM
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If men stopped using tinder, what would that solve?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:58 PM
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i'm thinking ukraine or colombia. maybe poland, and maaaybe thailand
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:06 AM
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not asking for a walk in the park. is it objectively easier compared to united states women. if it is, that's good enough for me. also, it looks like you live in the UK. i wouldn't move there, still too western for me. eastern europe, south america, or southeast asia
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:33 PM
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Well I’m gonna find out. Not gonna let myself rot in the states. Plus, it’s the one thing I haven’t tried yet, moving overseas and trying to date there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:07 PM
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Do you realistically think you’ll find a girl in the states to agree to all that? Let’s be real here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:17 PM
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Imo the best thing to do is move overseas and stay there. Don’t bring the girl back to the US or any western country. She’ll just get poisoned and end up like an American chick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:15 PM
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Maybe true about Eastern Europe, no idea since I’ve never been. Colombia is an option, also Thailand
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:13 PM
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I’d say the difference is that in another country, you’ve got culture on your side. The women have been raised to be more sweet and they have a different mindset. Compared to American women who were raised on independence and getting what they want. That mindset shift is what will make it easier on guys that want to meet women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:12 PM
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Yeah, that’s what I plan to do. I have a company, plan to base my finances in the US but actually live in another country where it’s easier to meet women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:10 PM
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yeah contribute of course. i think one of the ways to live there full time is investing into the country to get the visa
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:35 PM
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that's a pointless question, it'll never happen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:34 PM
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I'd get married in the US to the right person after proper vetting. ya, there's always a chance. my thing is that it's just too much of a gamble, even with extreme vetting. would rather just make it easier on myself and relocate elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:33 PM
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you haven't tried dating them though. once you do that, the bullshit comes spewing out in all directions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:32 PM
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yeah that's obviously a requirement. for the sake of this question though we're saying everyone has the money
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:30 PM
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have you seen american women in the states? the ceiling is already pretty high here, can't see it being much worse elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:30 PM
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please, try and date american women, then you can see what we mean
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:29 PM
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it's dating and sex. why would you hinder yourself if you have access to the entire world. go to a place where it's easier on you to meet women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:15 PM
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i don't think you've tried dating american women, you're in for a big big surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:13 PM
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you may be right on the eastern europe part, no idea on that, have never been. colombia may be a better option also, i wouldn't say it's black pill. just a bit more realistic. dating in the US is harder, why not ease up the difficulty and date in another country
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:12 PM
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thankfully there are less of you in another country compared to in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:09 PM
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i'm not talking about tourism, i'm talking about actually living there full time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:51 PM
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ding ding ding. i think there's far few men like us. which is kind of good. there would be too much immigration to other countries if hordes of men realized that the dating game in the US has severe problems
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:47 PM
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10% is a godsend, what are you talking about? you should be really happy with that number. and that's the whole point, the level of delusion american women have is off the map
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:08 AM
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what are you saying? cold approaching in mass is not an efficient use of your time if you're young and haven't had much sex, then pay for hookers and get sexual experience that way. if you still want to get dating experience, then sure approach for a bit and do some tinder. but after a while of wasting your time being flaked on, you ultimately want to realize that chasing girls is a waste of time. you should be happy being by yourself. dating in the USA is shit right now, learn to cope better
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:52 PM
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why would you do this? it will take a bunch of time and what will you gain? do you really think any of those girls would have sex with you or start an LTR? the chances are super low, you're better off doing something else
/r/seduction07/07/21 11:25 AM
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this only works if the girl in question is a hoe and has a group of hoe friends if you're dating and interacting with more traditional girls, then it wouldn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:14 PM
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you're delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:12 PM
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How old are you? 12? You realize you’re being fed a lie right White men only seem like the most attractive because this is the United States. Imagine you’re living in a country with 99% black people. Is white male still the most attractive? Hell no lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:44 AM
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The man leads, the woman follows. It’s not equal Western women won’t let men lead. They’re too busy being fed lies, occupied with their careers/other priorities, and generally being entitled and picky since they’re bombarded with tons of attention on social media and online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:08 AM
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Lol. I might have to check out that discord
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:02 AM
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How do you know that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:01 AM
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So Indian men are incels? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:00 AM
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I might be fucking in two days. Tinder. These things take time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:12 AM
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yeah, my profile is basically an advertisement for sex. everything is super sexual, pictures and bio there is no manipulation bullshit. everything is flirty and direct. i'm here to fuck and i'm tongue and cheek about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:53 PM
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The quality of men I'm interested in impressing seems to be impressed. I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:18 PM
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we are not impressed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:19 PM
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i care about dating enough to talk about it, but not enough to actually get involved everyone wants to date and have the success they want, you can't not want that. that's apart of human nature talking about it allows you to express yourself, even if it doesn't change your situation. it can also help inform others about what you're experiencing so they can see they aren't alone in this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:21 PM
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such an attractive offer, i'm sure men are lining up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:53 PM
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mgtow has been perverted into some incel women hating group what it should be is men that understand the dating market, have assessed whether their efforts are worth the potential pay offs, and then make the decision to actively date or simply not care about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:32 PM
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are you 12? you must be within that age range
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:28 PM
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a woman that came up to them in a bar and offered sex is she hot? if she is and the guy didn't accept, then he's gay. it's really that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:25 PM
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yeah, unattractive girls get rejected. if a girl looks decent and the guy is straight, then he will fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:22 PM
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this is true and false at the same time. i'm a top % guy. i have the money, 6 pack abs, not fat, still have my hair, decent face, near 6 feet tall am i getting bombarded on tinder with matches? no. that's the part that pisses me off cause almost everyone gets it wrong. just because you have a solid physique doesn't mean you're going to be drowning in matches i do agree that i'm on tinder to fuck. not looking for a serious thing, because frankly, it's a waste of time. not many girls measure up, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:17 PM
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not really. people are people. american culture is definitely a thing though. not sure how it compares to germany or eastern euro for what it's worth, people can be shit anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:12 PM
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yeah. i agree, that's fair. i can definitely see for a guy that is inexperience or only slept with a few girls then sex must seem super super important to him. like desperation level of important. i was definitely at that point in my early 20s i think the main thing i would say to a guy like this is this: fuck hot whores. take a vacation to a sex tourist country and fuck your heart out. get those sexual experiences with those 9s and 10s, really slam out as many as you can. you'll start to finall…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:17 PM
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yeah, sex feels good, so what? it's just a sensation. my point is, so many loser guys build it up to be this end all be all. like if they can just fuck the hot cheer leader with a tight body then it'll feel like heaven and they will be in heaven. no. that's just a children fantasy. if you actually had sex with a hot girl that has a tight body you realize it's not all that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:06 PM
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i'm right though. casual sex is probably the most successful scam in the entire world so many stupid guys think casual sex is going to make them king. it's not casual sex is like a 12 year old wanting to play with hot wheels cars every night. it's sad, and incredibly over hyped. sex in itself is extremely over hyped. because porn makes it out to be this extremely pleasurable and heaven-like experience, having sex with a hot girl, when really it's not all that. it just feels good, then you nut, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 08:05 PM
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you're an idiot casual sex is over rated. extremely, extremely over rated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:52 PM
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you need to get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:50 AM
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you are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:25 AM
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yeah, the world is just like you. dummy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:11 AM
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You’re misguided. Casual sex is a waste. Wait until you’re more experienced then maybe you will understand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:47 PM
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Having casual sex without a connection is not an accomplishment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:40 PM
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Yeah, what is your solution to your dating issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:57 PM
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What I said in OP is objectively true information.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:56 PM
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Let's be honest, "manipulating the market" can get you somewhere, but inherently it's still fucked. Most of what you're doing is just coping with lesser results, and even then you're still probably busting your ass for it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:46 PM
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I feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:44 PM
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You're not seeing the full picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:43 PM
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You're wasting your time. Try if you want, but don't say I didn't tell you so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:38 PM
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You still don't get it do you? The world doesn't care about your sexual affiliation. You're not gonna make it out on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:35 PM
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You're doing yourself a major disservice by trying to engage with a woman in a romantic way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:34 PM
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You're saying your chances of getting divorced are less than 50%, the data says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:27 PM
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Doesn't mean anything. Where are your results.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:23 PM
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You can't win the game though. The amount of effort required for such a small chance makes it an obvious opt out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:22 PM
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Tell us what you know then. And you aren't seeing behind the scenes. You're just seeing the highlights
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:21 PM
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Dude, you and I are common men. I'm talking about men you see who weren't born in positions of status or power. These men can be rich, in shape, well trained, etc. It's still extremely hard. I'm decently maxxed out and I can tell you first hand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:14 PM
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And how do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:13 PM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:13 PM
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Flip a coin. That's the chance you'll end up divorced. You are not special, you're apart of the statistic just like anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:11 PM
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No, the real "winners" in the dating market are the men who get the benefits of both casual sex and long-term relationships on deck Lol. And whose actually getting that besides celebrities? It doesn't happen. And even if it does, it's extremely hard for common men, even if they are looks maxed, money maxed, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:08 PM
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If he was able to make all that money in the first place, he can make it all again. Why would a guy willingly fall into this shit when there's so much information out there warning him not to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:07 PM
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Yeah, I want 10 billion dollars. Am I gonna get it? Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:05 PM
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Doesn't matter. Successful guys have the drive to get into relationships. Most of the time it doesn't work because of what I explained in OP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:04 PM
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It's real. The divorce rate is around 50%. Why take the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:01 PM
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You want to win, but you can't win. The next best thing is to not lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:00 PM
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Get looks, status, game in order to attract the women and keep them desiring you. You're underestimating here. It's not easy, even with all of that. I have looks, 6 pack abs, game, money, etc. It's not enough. Intelligent guys with experience and the goods understand this. It's still a grind, it doesn't get much easier
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:47 PM
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Sure, but at what point does the effort required not become worth the rewards? You can spend your time grinding, meeting women, dating. But you'll no doubt become frustrated along the way. It's not easy, the success rate is low. So you're right it's possible and you can get "whatever you want". But the price is extremely extremely high
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:45 PM
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Let’s break this down bit by bit because I’m feeling myself now. ... you're "feeling myself now" ..? Ohh boy, I may have to check out of this one after that comment. "Withholding sex" is a "tactic" by immature people. Any mature person does not pay attention to stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:49 PM
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what are you talking about? why are you so concerned with this concept of "withholding sex". how does this even enter your mind. this is wild behavior, i'm concerned for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:16 PM
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your argument is baseless. "withholding sex" is a childish statement. what, are we like 12 years old and need to withhold things from each other to get what we want? nobody cares if a woman won't have sex, there's a thing called prostitutes. a woman should want to have sex with a man that she's into, period. any talk about withholding this or that is just a power move by entitled bitches with elevated egos and "self-worth". in short, they're a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:47 PM
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believe it or not, you can have sex early on and still have a connection with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:42 PM
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i actually don't care about n count it's just that almost every girl nowadays is an ungrateful bag of shit that just isn't worth my time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:30 PM
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I’m gonna block you now. Bye concern troll
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:46 AM
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you are crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:39 AM
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you certainly are a strange individual. you have my pity
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:59 AM
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You’ve just proven my point then. You are bias and have these misinformed views.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:35 AM
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Yawn Oh and for the record, you've lost the argument. I tried to take you seriously earlier on, but this quickly devolved in to some fantasy that you have concocted in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:29 AM
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Lol. Dear god. I haven't laughed this much in a while off of a reddit conversation, holy shit lol. Fuck man. This was hilarious. Whew, you done?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:25 AM
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This is the part where I stop taking you seriously. Oh wait, I already did that a couple of posts up. Clown show is over. I think we know who won this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:17 AM
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i've read your points and to be honest, you're being roasted so hard right now in this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:11 AM
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You're reacting again? And in the worst way possible. Your behavior is similar to that of a jack ass. Ad hominem is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:07 AM
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Because you aren't. What more do I need to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:04 AM
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False dichotomies. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:03 AM
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You are not an appropriate person to judge what is or isn't an appropriate level of social skill in the dating circuit. That statement is completely and categorically incorrect. You have absolutely no idea what constitutes the bare minimum of social skills required to successfully converse, interact, and go on dates with attractive women. And no, being a woman does not automatically qualify you to make such statements on this subject matter. In short, you’re not ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:52 PM
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Wrong. You’re confusing things. I don’t think you understand what social skills are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:21 PM
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You aren’t that guy. So why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:21 PM
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yes, they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:10 PM
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most men don't compete. how can you take in account most men when they are irrelevant. i think you have your facts backwards. as far as the standards of women concerning looks, they're way too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:09 PM
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I also see plenty of attractive women on hinge and bumble ages 22-24 and most of them want guys a few years older those girls are sexually and/or emotionally unavailable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:03 PM
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most don't. but there are some that do. take is easy. no need to get worked up over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:02 PM
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*most women let's be honest, it's mostly men debating this kind of stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:56 PM
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just give it some time. pretty soon it's gonna blow up and come full center
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:54 PM
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that's not good either. that basically means once you're 30+ you'll get attention from single mothers in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:53 PM
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i don't think you can argue with me on this. this is a common thing. online dating gives off this illusion that attractive people have become more attainable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:53 PM
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like i said. relax. guys have these skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:51 PM
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This sounds like it was written by someone who doesn’t get laid Paying isn’t the issue. Don’t go on expensive dates. Keep it short. Drinks, that’s it. Why are you going on so many paid dates at the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:15 PM
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They will MEET. But who will actually fuck? There’s a difference between meeting and actually fucking the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:12 PM
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I’ve been on plenty of dates. They usually go no where though. The power of social media and online dating is too loud
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:11 PM
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It’s a basic phenomenon. Online dating apps give the illusion that you can meet these attractive people and they’re out there for you. This is a common thing, I didn’t come up with it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:58 PM
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the thing about the apps though is that the people are easily accessible. all it takes is matching and then sending a message. and just like that a little bit closer to actually meeting. that's why it skews the expectations in the dating market. back in the day it wasn't that easy to meet attractive people like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:49 PM
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are you a woman? most guys on tinder have no idea what they're doing. there are definitely some guys on there with solid social skills though. point is, you couldn't date them all. it's an endless overload
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:44 PM
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the people on the dating apps really believe that they can have those attractive people. before online dating and social media, no one actually thought they were getting with people they saw in magazines
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:40 PM
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because it's harder to meet people once you're out of college. i'd say you're about 95% fucked romantically. most of the girls you'll meet now probably have boyfriends or husbands of 5+ years, especially the attractive/average ones that you would like to date. only thing left now are the scraps, enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:31 PM
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i won't rebut anything when all you do is assume things and to answer your ques obviously there's more to it than photos. you're talking about something that i haven't even touched on in my OP. what are you doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:30 PM
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the point i'm making is the average guy has options. just not the options he wants
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:29 PM
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yeah, now you're getting it you think i'm joking but that about sums it up lol. this current generation is gonna have an extremely rough dating life you could always fuck whores but even that has it's downsides. the good news is there's always internet porn, guy/work friends, and internet communities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:27 PM
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yeah, but again, whose willing to actually fuck these girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:24 PM
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Because "everything sucks and you might as well give up" is so useful. never said that. just giving my take on this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:17 PM
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you could fuck a 3/10 land whale with shit coming out of her teeth right now if you wanted to. but would you? exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:14 PM
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again, you're reading way too into this. you need to relax. yes, guys can and do get these social skills. yes, they have the skills right now. again, relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:13 PM
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you are a clown and the entire point of my post completely flew over your head
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:12 PM
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you're being run by women. you should make your own conclusions. why are you letting women influence your thoughts so much. pretty soon you're going to turn into a woman. next thing you know, you'll be getting cucked and love every minute of it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:11 PM
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most women just emotionally react to stimulus. that's just how it goes. i'm hot, i'm cold, i'm annoyed, i'm happy also, most women cannot do something that is emotionally uncomfortable, which is why you see men mostly discussing things like the future of the dating market, the consequences, what can be done, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:08 PM
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it depends on upbringing too. if you didn't have a good upbringing to facilitate dating you could still end up single for me i probably would have been jerking off to magazines and trying to go for fat girls that lived near me or i knew from friends/social/work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:58 PM
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you're reading too much into this. anyone who is functioning can reach a sufficient level of social skills with some practice. you're making a big deal over a little thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:52 PM
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I disagree. Sex for most men and all of it's trappings is good enough that there is no demand a woman can make that some man won't try to fulfill it. Is that a fault of men? Maybe? Who are we to say what someone should value? the problem is most men are chasing something that does not exist and they don't even realize it. they want the attractive girl that has sex with them and is sweet, but that girl doesn't exist. so they keep trying to hit on more girls, only to get rejected more, end up in c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:50 PM
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don't listen to him. he is a cuck and part of the problem. he's doing a major dis service to men by spreading cuck fantasies and advice like this. it's very hurtful because guys with no experience don't know what to believe. so they are fed this garbage and it warps their worldview completely in a bad way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:39 PM
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you are delusional. there is literally no point in communicating with you any further. all your arguments are based on what women have told you. in effect, you've been brainwashed by women and believe your personal successes are the norm. you have no understanding of anything other than what you see happening to yourself or what women whisper into your ear. in short, you are a cuck i think you should talk to other men you respect and get their opinion on the dating market. you haven't even began…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:37 PM
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that's like saying try to nurture a garden without being given the proper soil, water, or any sunlight. it's not possible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:32 PM
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if i was doing "game" in 1995 and i was still the same age as i am now, i would probably just find a fat girl that lived nearby or i would remain single. i probably wouldn't even want sex as much because there'd be no porn. probably would be jerking off to magazines or something and singling it up to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:29 PM
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you're right, i agree with you. but at what point does the effort not become worth the rewards? the pay off is still the same and always has been. pussy, feminine attention, etc. but the demands are going to keep growing and growing as you've stated. at one point, the quality/quantity of the demands is just not going to be worth providing for the return that you are getting. the pay off has to increase, which it can't i also think that the success rate will also decrease. so even if you're bring…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:18 PM
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most guys should be happy with a 4/10 or 5/10 from online dating. thing is, most guys are going to want higher than that, and they're not gonna get it. furthermore, those same 4s and 5s aren't going to be easy to get, depending on how they look. i'd say once a girl is a 3/10 that's when a guy should expect to get her with relative ease, but no guy would ever want a 3, these are the disgusting, fat, and gross girls. that's exactly why they are easy to get, because NO ONE wants them think of it li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:10 PM
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yeah, basically. that's why you have a lot of women divorcing, torturing their men, and not respecting them and why you have guys not willing to commit to 5/10 girls because they believe there's still more girls out there to bang and be casual with. or they think they can lock down a hotter girl like a 7, 8, or 9. when really it's just an illusion, a false hope by most guys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:05 PM
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i wonder what it was like in the weird in between period where there wasn't as much information and then things transitioned into online dating taking over one would think that the guys that found themselves in marriages or long term relationships got fucked out once social media started hitting the scene and the women were catching on to it lol not even due to their own decisions, just times changing and being unlucky enough to be in a spot that was "good", only to turn into shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:57 PM
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women don't care. the world could burn to shit or it could flourish. they literally do not care one way or the other. it's all just emotionally reacting to what's currently happening
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:53 PM
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what you're saying doesn't change the dynamics of the situation guys are getting on dating apps expecting to get a certain caliber of girl. they aren't able to because the standards are too high and these girls are being hit up left and right. you're thinking about it too much in terms of abstract ideas. i think you need to understand the fundamentals and economics of this market. you haven't touched on that at all which leads me to believe you do not understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:50 PM
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expectations from guys have certainly increased. because they see other guys getting more attractive girls and believe they are able to get those girls as well. this is the same with women. it goes back to what i was saying with social media fucking it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:47 PM
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the system makes it difficult for people to meet in the first place. it's a broken system
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:14 PM
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the truth, that's what people should know the truth. don't bury your head in the sand, learn what is the reality then make your decision
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:13 PM
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average guys were still getting laid more compared to average guys now, due to a variety of reasons. one of them being social media has skewed the standards and expectations of both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:10 PM
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cold approach is shit imo. probably the least effective way to meet women. has been purported as a legitimate method to get girls by the scam PUA industry. so many guys made fortunes and tons of money pushing cold approach and teaching "cold approach tactics" lol. it's all bullshit, and it's such a successful con because sooooo many guys are bought into it. they want it to work and want to believe it so badly that they dump their money into these programs the best approach is the warm approach t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:08 PM
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meh. yeah the game has changed. is it even worth playing now? definitely not. it's gotten to the point that the rewards and pay off just isn't worth it anymore. you can get around it by putting in more effort, but at the end of the day the success is so infrequent even when you are near "maxxed" out, as you would say
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:05 PM
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most people are using dating apps. they are becoming commonplace. just because you individually are not partaking, does not mean dating apps go away as for "taking those skills back to the apps", doesn't work like that. dating apps and social media are by DESIGN complete shit. they almost are setting you up to fail. the women are exposed to endless options thanks to these apps. this has caused the sexual marketplace to completely turn on its head. obviously there is no regulation, so it's a free…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:02 PM
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i don't want it. things are getting shittier, that's just how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:54 PM
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i'm just sharing what i perceive to be the truth. unfortunately the "truth" looks very doom-ish
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:53 PM
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those guys didn't get laid in the first place. average guys on the other hand? sure, they could probably get laid before dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:51 PM
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yeah it's actually fine tbh. problem is it's a terrible system lol. people were designed to get into relationships and have sex. that's just human nature. we've created an artificial environment that discourages relationships lol. no one will see the damaging effects of it now, it's still too early. in 10-20+ years down the line though we are going to see the results from this type of living. shit, that will be something to see. at that point it would be too late to undo the damage. it's like a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:40 PM
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the only way it can be repaired is if the entire system collapses and people collectively see how broken the system is. until it's exposed right in front of their face then it will just keep going
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:32 PM
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problem is no one is meeting in real life anymore because dating apps are the easiest option
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:29 PM
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i wonder how many of those relationships actually last. would be hilarious to see that like 90%+ end up just breaking off or fizzling out for one reason or another lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:28 PM
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Fool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:43 AM
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you're an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:49 AM
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Men will continue to be cucked. If you don’t see this then I can’t help you I don’t think you even understand what I’m talking about There’s video of blonde American girls with blue eyes literally torturing men on the street. Seriously. They are ridiculing their men in public. Behind closed doors they are probably throwing things at these men, hitting them, yelling at them, literally treating them like a slave lol. It’s fucking crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:34 AM
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You’re a clown
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:21 AM
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you don't know shit lol. hilarious. the idea that you THINK you know what you are talking about lol. haha, oh man. you're gonna be in for a shocker 20 years down the line: "50-70% of all university males are unable to have sex". yep, it'll just work itself out right? rofl such clownery
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:46 PM
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you're not having fun though. you're just having the illusion of fun. what's really happening is you are being cucked and are "pretending" you are having fun. it's kind of like keeping the wool over your eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:42 PM
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because of pussy and femininity. and males are cucks men will always be cucks at heart to be honest. it's like an innate wiring to gravitate to pussy at all costs. it's actually really really hard to break that wiring. you'd have to first understand what is actually happening to you, why you feel compelled to behave certain ways towards women, and then actively fighting biology i don't know this for sure but i would say cucking was a more effective strategy before social media and online dating.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:26 PM
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you're missing the point. it's not about me. this is about the entire dating marketing. sure, just tell men not to date. let's see what happens lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:23 PM
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yeah. the problem cannot be corrected then. women will continue to take more power and eventually more and more men will be cucked out of the dating market completely. you don't have to reach into a gun cabinet. just watch as all the men get cucked and are unable to date. while the women date whoever, ride the cock carousel and find simp guys to take care of them lol and still be unhappy at the end of it all because the entitlement will just grow and grow to unrealistic standards this is about m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:22 PM
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Yeah, these morons proclaiming that this is fun don’t understand that. It’s only fun when you’re winning. If you’re dating entitled bitches then it’s not fun. Unfortunately for you, most women are entitled and bitchy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:30 PM
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Yeah it’s only fun when you’re winning. Most guys are losing so flirting and dating is not fun. By losing I mean the girl is entitled and a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:28 PM
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This probably won’t be the next thing but eventually sex robots will be a thing. Porn will become much more immersive. Once we have the technology, the need for partners and sex will be replaced with virtual realities/sex robots
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:23 PM
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Because why date men. What’s the incentive to settle with an average/slightly above average man. There is no incentive. The standards have increased. An even if you meet the standards as a man, you still have to deal with entitled and bitch behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:20 PM
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In the past women depended on men because there were certain things they could not do. Get certain jobs, vote, etc. They needed a man to gain equality. Now, they don’t need a man, they can do everything a man can do. Society encourages them to do this too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:04 PM
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Wrong. Hot guys still have to work for it. Entitled, bitch behavior does not discriminate. All men deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:38 PM
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In a society like that the top men will just reap the rewards anyway. Keep in mind, the bottom tier men will always eat shit regardless of the environment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:34 PM
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By allowing women equal rights and letting them do whatever they want. That’s how you lose control and end up being cucked If men actually had control then it’d be worth it to get in relationships. But men don’t so it’s not worth it. Just a waste of time with the promises of fake rewards. Kind of like a casino, the house always wins
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:26 PM
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it's because women are more likely to just accept the situation and not make noise about it. men are the one that want to take action, initiative, and see change. like it or not, the terrible dating situation in the west is because of men. men have allowed the women to take over. in effect, we've cucked ourselves. if all the men collectively stood up and started controlling all the women, then it's a no brainer who would be successful. but men would never do that, because we're cucks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:17 PM
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the average man will always remain the average man. basically not getting sex and unable to succeed in the dating market. maybe even picking up a 30 something single mother if he is willing to lower his standards for the upper level of men, they will either a) decide it's worth their time and effort to entertain attractive girls, b) decide they would rather settle with a 5/10 even though they are much superior in looks, money, status, etc or c) decide that they don't want to do either A or B and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:57 PM
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problem is that it takes of lot of self realization and exploration to get there. for some guys, they may need to bang a lot of girls and hot girls to come to grips with the reality of the dating market. only after they've experienced it for themselves will they decide they no longer want in the dating market anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:52 PM
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yeah. i actually met the fucker in real life. he came to my city and hung out with the local PUA guys of the city. this was back when i was bought into his bullshit. but slowly i started opening my eyes to his bullshit. the first moment was when sonny arvado exposed him. fucking jmulv has been using seeking arrangement and paying chicks to try and fuck them. he tried to release a SA product but got shut down by the CEO of the site. little bitch wanted to rake in more money with fucking a PUA cou…
/r/seduction17/04/21 10:20 PM
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jmulv is no saint. he's a fucking piece of shit that lies through his teeth constantly
/r/seduction17/04/21 10:03 PM
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probably is banging 4s and 5s. he's a fucking liar. he will lie to justify himself constantly. what a shit head
/r/seduction17/04/21 10:02 PM
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jmulv is a piece of shit. he just knows how to sell to guys that are sick and tired of the obvious shit eating pick up instructors that just want your money
/r/seduction17/04/21 10:02 PM
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it's hard to tell. john is a very good liar. he literally perfected the art of lying and creating believable stories. that's how he bangs the girls, and that's how he also tricks guys that watch him. he is very compelling with his lies. and for people that want answers and the truth, he is able to feed them that has he really banged 1300 women? i don't know to be honest. after the modern life dating exposed video, i don't even know what to believe anymore. the 1300 number could just be a fucking…
/r/seduction17/04/21 10:00 PM
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He’s lying about the 1000 pics. Jmulv is a piece of shit. He lies incredibly. Watch the expose video by modern life dating. It’s fucking wild
/r/seduction17/04/21 08:01 PM
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Really? Her tits don’t even look that big imo. But yeah I can see him doing that. He doesn’t wanna admit it though. What a scum bag
/r/seduction17/04/21 01:13 AM
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you're actually retarded because what the throw away account said is true. if you actually did your research, instead of being an ignorant mother fucker, you would realize that jmulv was set up by rsd derek. jmulv got manwhore arrested shortly before he was set up. manwhore probably got butt hurt sitting in jail and asked rsd derek to get payback on jmulv. long story short, he meets with jmulv and sets him up by telling him to go approach 2 "girls". yeah, those girls were in on the whole thing, …
/r/seduction14/04/21 11:54 AM
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yeah the mods should remove this post because it is obviously a troll coach that is trying to get back at john anthony. anyone who is reading this or stumbles upon this thread should know that OP of this post is a fucking shill, making baseless claims, is a loser, is a competitor coach, etc now, with all that being said, i personally believe that john anthony is not 100% honest about what he is doing. i do have a strong feeling that he has paid high end whores $500 per night to go to the club an…
/r/seduction14/04/21 01:05 AM
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most are
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:33 PM
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when you think women torturing men is the standard for relationships. it is. women hold most of the power in a typical relationship in the west cause the man has no options
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 01:20 AM
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bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 11:58 PM
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cause you're trying to troll me. and there's point in explaining this to you because you'll just hamster away anything i say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 11:56 PM
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missing the point. yeah the guys can marry. but it'll be with a fat, 5/10 looking girl with pimples all over her fuckin face and messed up hair. so yeah, they'll marry
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 11:55 PM
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you're too misguided to have this conversation with me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 11:16 PM
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you may have already rationalized to yourself that the downsides are worth the upsides
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 11:15 PM
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you're too young. you don't know anything yet. when you get older such as 21-25 years old you'll likely start taking advantage of men on sites like tinder and the like. it's not that common to be a single guy for 10+ years. don't act so surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 11:15 PM
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i suspect you're young because you have shown me you do not understand how the dating sphere works in the united states. it's not about what you want or what your ideals are. there is a system in place, you will just fall right into the system like any other person. so don't get your fantasy hopes up. everyone is just apart of the cogs turning here, you're gonna just end up in a predefined bucket that most chicks end up in when they focus all their time on career. if you don't have a guy now and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:47 PM
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yeah, i do like the pressure put on me as a man to a degree. the pressure and fact that if i don't prove myself and work fucking hard, i won't get anywhere. life is unforgiving. a hot girl will never know what that feeling of hard earned reward is like cause she just has everything handed to her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:34 PM
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how many women am i seeing on social media/in extended social circles in their 30s+ still successfully dating...? a large number of them wrong. women in their 30s+ will have a difficult time finding men to settle down with. not all of them, but a majority will have a difficult time bitter revenge fantasy. reality is not based on this quantitative value you put on women. truth is all types of people fall in love and lust and end up marrying or ltr'ing you haven't dispelled my arguement. why would…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:31 PM
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this is actually extremely hopeful for guys struggling and suffering in their 20s right now. the hope that one day in their 30s, if they've played their cards right, and have hit peak wealth and physical fitness, they can have a plentiful amount of women and never have dating problems ever again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:25 PM
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the problem is you don't understand how relationships work in the united states. you're still living in some fantasy land that you've created in your head. there's a system in place. there's a reason why relationships fall into place with the chick having more power than the man. it's not just two people meet and they get together. it doesn't work like that, there's tons of influences at play here. tinder is at play, social media, onlyfans, tik tok, friends of friends. all of that is in play and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:13 PM
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well. here's the thing. most relationships in the united states are toxic for the man. so really, saying you're in a LTR as a man in the west isn't something to be proud of. in reality, it could actually be a living nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:07 PM
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it's all just rationalization. the wall is real. i think women would do themselves a huge service if they just realize that the wall is coming, and try to plan for it. most women don't do that though because the cock carousel is just too much fun. when you're in a free carnival and the rides are going 24/7, it becomes extremely hard to leave. until you're at the point where the carnival closes down for good, and now wondering where to go next. i predict that post wall, the chicks that didn't loc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:58 PM
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the thing is though that you're trying to have your cake and eat it too. this is why tons of women are down voting me and are outraged. they don't want to face the reality that their situation has tremendous upside but also a huge amount of downside the girls that married post 30s probably already had boyfriends of 5-10 years+++. the key is they have locked in those guys for almost a decade and have been steady BF/GF with them. now if a girl was 30 years old and she's starting from scratch to fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:50 PM
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are you a woman? i personally would say the wall is real. it usually is around 30 years old for women. women don't wanna hear this though, they think they'll be young forever and they have plenty of time. not true. ages 18-27 are the golden years. it's the one thing you can take solace in as a man, knowing that you have much more longevity in the sexual market compared to women. women really only have that short window of time. in their 30s, their toast. like i said, men will still fuck them, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:35 PM
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lol. i remember when i use to go to clubs in my early 20s. holy fuck, what a shit show lol. 2-3 hours of bullshit every friday or saturday night. maybe making out with a chick if you're lucky. getting some flakey phone numbers, lots of conversations that go absolutely no where, etc. my friends would sometimes get lucky and get some excuse to leave with a girl to go back to her place, but they'd have to wait until 3 in the fucking morning right when the club closes for those opportunities lol. i …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:27 PM
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this advice doesn't work. if you're not in that top 20% looks for your location then here's what will happen. you'll meet all these women in your community that just want to be friends with you. the ones you do meet that are single are going to look absolutely disgusting. 5/10 looks, fat, not cute at all. it's retarded. there's no point in discussing something like this because its not grounded in reality. all the decent looking girls that are fuck-able are either A) locked down already or B) no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:00 PM
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the wall is real. trust me. there's a point where a hot girl no longer is a commodity. meaning, she just blends back into society like the average man or old person. it's very real. i'd say one way to slow it down is plastic surgery. without surgery though, eventually those tits will start sagging up, and that ass won't be that plump anymore. the wrinkles start coming in too. sure past 30 a girl can still fuck some guys off tinder and what not. but in terms of getting a guy to commit for a serio…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:51 PM
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yeah i guess. here's the thing. if you were an attractive guy growing up, you'd have girls crushing on you, high school girlfriends, etc. if you didn't have any of those experiences, then you're just an average dude in the bucket. meaning, your dating future is going to be extremely fucking rough. you essentially have two options: 1) lock down a fatty 5/10 looks while you're in high school, treat her like a queen, and hope she doesn't walk all over you. or 2) stay single and continue to jerk off…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:47 PM
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what i said stands true. if you're dating a girl that looks remotely decent, 9 times out of 10 she will be a toxic cunt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:05 AM
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If you are just pursuing sex for the sake of sex, fine, but that's not what I was referring to at all, and that's not WHY the advice to grow social circles is given. ohhhh i get it, so you really aren't even talking about how to get sex. you're just talking about doing clubs and shit. yeah waste of my time. i'm looking for sex, relationships, and dating. not rock climbing and shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:04 AM
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This. Most clowns who promote this social activity advice don’t understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 10:55 PM
0

Yeah um, no one has time for shit like that, let’s be honest. We’re here to meet women. Not jerk off and pretend to be happy at some bullshit club or event that we could care less about. If you really want to do a club or event then chances are you won’t be getting any pussy at all anyway, because you aren’t looking for pussy at that point. In short, it’s a waste of time. The chances of pussy just “falling on your lap” like that are really fucking low. If you want to go that route, prepare to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 10:53 PM
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Actually, finding a decent relationship is nearly impossible in the United States. You can find a relationship sure. But one of few things will be present. 1) you’ll get a fat bitch that is 4-5/10 in looks. Doesn’t look that good, and dread having to fuck her. Or 2) you’ll get a decent looking girl but she will be a cunt to you, take advantage of you, set the relationship up so she is always on top. Essentially cucking you so that you have no power So yeah, enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 10:50 PM
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Problem with joining local clubs and events is that it doesn’t solve the fundamental problem. If chicks aren’t attracted to you, they suddenly won’t become attracted now that you’re in the same club as them, doesn’t work like that. It’s like the creepy guy thinking he has an advantage cause these girls are in his class. Um, no you don’t you loser. First of all, all these girls already have boyfriends or husbands of 5 years++. So already you’re wasting your time at clubs. Second of all, even if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 10:44 PM
0

Like I said. You’d be surprised at which is actually better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 10:00 PM
0

Think about it. Having to work your ass off and entertain toxic 5s and 6s for a chance of sometimes fucking them. You really think that’s a good deal? Don’t be mistaken. These chicks aren’t going to be falling all over you. The toxicity and entitlement is a packaged deal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:59 PM
1

You’d be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 05:57 PM
1

meh, if we're lucky before the year 2100. but who knows. they may not be around during our lifetime. or at least we will get to see the very early stages of sex robots towards the end of our life if there is a company that ends up focusing and producing sex robots for people, before i die i would write in my will to donate all my money to that cause when i'm dead if my investments end up becoming millions of dollars, i would gladly donate that to sex robots. anything to help the future man not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:00 PM
-1

Most people don’t understand this but if you give a woman a choice, 99% of the time you’re gonna end up in a losing situation as man. That’s just how things are. That’s why most relationships today the guy is completely enslaved by the chick. You talk about slaves, dudes are being enslaved right now lol. How fucking ironic. So it’s okay for chicks to enslave their men today but it’s not okay the other way around. And trust me, most guys in their relationships aren’t getting much. They’re dealing…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:27 AM
1

You don’t online date. Girls are flakey and don’t commit to plans, especially the hot ones. Good luck making plans with a hot girl on tinder, practically impossible. Like I said, these chicks are validation seeking on the app
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:19 AM
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there is no incentive. what i want is an ideal scenario. obviously i'm not going to get that. that's why we're living in the world we are in today where women have choice and can sex starve men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 11:01 PM
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the problem is too many girls have big mouths. when a girl starts acting up i just immediately lose interest. the hamster running their brain gets far too triggered that it becomes pointless to continue, regardless of the circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 11:00 PM
0

it's not about what a woman "wants". if a woman had a choice, she would shit all over you and take control over the dynamic immediately. that's what is happening right now in relationships in the united states
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:03 PM
1

these girls are probably just trying to manipulate and cuck you. this isn't something you should be putting on display as if its an accomplishment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:00 PM
-1

it's not about what the women "wants". if you actually gave a woman a choice, she would run over you immediately, take all your shit, fuck you over, and then rationalize why she did it or not even think twice about it. that's why it's important to have a subservient girl. when a girl says she doesn't want to do that, then she's a lost cause from the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 09:59 PM
2

Basically, why is it something you have to stress instead of it happening naturally? because entitlement. the women act spoiled and entitled. stuff that seems natural won't occur
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 09:57 PM
1

the 5/10 girls are not even that good quality. the point i'm getting at is a lot of women on tinder are not relationship material. the fact that their 5s just makes it more embarrassing, being a decent guy overall but having to resort to slamming out 5s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 09:56 PM
0

... dude. what in the fuck are you talking about? like, holy shit. you're pissing me off right now dude. this is well known stuff. i'm not saying anything new here. 80% of the women are going after the top 20% of men. what part of OLD is for women don't you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 09:55 PM
5

yeah, it works for WOMEN. it does not work for men dude, what are you talking about? are you insane. OLD has always been shit for men. this isn't news dude
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 09:03 PM
3

barely. i'm willing to bet that those hotties on tinder are not fucking guys off the app. it's all just for show/validation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 09:03 PM
2

yes, exactly. that is exactly what i want, you worded it perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:59 PM
1

i think you're still caught up in this fantasy that you actually have a choice in who you're dating here. let's be honest, you're just sifting through the list of fatties and 6s that you're being thrown usually the relationship type girls are scooped up far early by high school boyfriends and in friend connections. relationship chicks are not on tinder, you can best believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:58 PM
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it's popular because it's the easiest way. you can sign up within minutes. anyone can sign up. that's why it gains the most traction. it's online, it's quick, it's easy. cold approach and going through friends is harder. why are you harping on this? obviously the easiest approach is the most popular
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:56 PM
-2

when i ask her to be somewhere at a certain time, be there. when i ask her to follow my lead while we're doing something, she follows. also anything that has to do with sex, she listens and agrees most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:54 PM
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i don't give a fuck what female dating strategy says. they could eat shit for all i care girls in the united states take advantage of dudes all the time. the typical relationship here is the guy being pussy whipped by the chick. the guy has no power whatsoever while the chick has the power and control. i would not get into a relationship with a chick that wants to try and control things. if she's putting up demands or saying/telling you things that you can or cannot do, then you're fucked. the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:50 PM
1

it's not so much about YOU, it's about the girl. most girls using OLD are not fit for relationships. they are immature, too independent, too flakey, not serious enough, etc. these are not relationship material girls. far from it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:43 PM
1

there are some smoking hot chicks on online dating, problem is no one is fucking them. they're just there for show
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:42 PM
4

online dating is shit. i would think that's well known by now
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:41 PM
1

you're wasting your time talking with her. she has a hamster running her brain. pointless to try and reason with it, just move on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:36 PM
1

cold approaching is a waste of time. unfortunately you will not be able to approach enough girls to get dates on a routine basis. maybe in the days before online dating where cold approach was literally the only avenue to meet people, it would work better. but due to online dating i don't think it's as viable anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:31 PM
-1

what i want is a woman to just listen to me. that's it it's really not that hard, when you think about it just listen to what i say. when i ask for something, give it. when i want something, do it. obviously i'm not going to be a crazy man and ask for absurd things. but the general outline of the relationship should be: listen to me a majority of the time. and in exchange, the woman should expect to receive all financial obligations taken care of it it's really that simple keep in mind, that's t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:25 PM
4

meh. getting laid by a fattie or 6/10 doesn't really interest me at this point. especially when you need to entertain and jump up and down like a monkey for a date in order to get it. if you're having them come straight to your place or you go to theirs then that's different either way. i like the ability of choice. when i was fucking girls from tinder i didn't like how i was basically thrown the scraps and told "here, have fun with these left over chicks"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:16 PM
2

chad's victory isn't even that great though. chad is slamming out 6s and some fat girls. you really think he's banging out smoking hot stunner chicks from tinder? the ones with bikini pics, fat asses, and slim? he's not. i don't know who those girls are fucking, but trust me they are not routinely lining up to fuck a guy just cause he looks like chad. they may entertain chad with some text/phone convos. but when it comes time to meeting and fucking? yeah, not sure about that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:09 PM
1

never gonna happen. there's too many thirsty fucks out there. if most men decided to ditch dating apps, other men would see this and jump on the apps even harder to try and take advantage. we're just desperate hungry animals for sex. when pitted against each other we'll take whatever chance we can get to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:06 PM
1

here's the truth: most people, both male and female, are using online dating because they've failed at traditional dating. this means that their personalities and behaviors are just not suited for a relationship. that's WHY they have to crawl to online dating in the first place. they couldn't hold a long term relationship with the opposite sex if their life depended on it, they are just flawed. OLD attracts a lot of shit men/women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:02 PM
10

even if you're at the top in looks, you'd be surprised at what results you're gonna get, trust me. you may get matches out the ass, left, right, and center. but how many of those matches are you actually fucking? that's the hidden truth to this whole thing that most people never tap into. they think the hot tinder guy is getting laid out the fucking ass with stunning and smoking hot babes. not true. yeah he's getting laid, but you know who is laying him? average looking, sometimes fat, sometimes…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:59 PM
6

congratulations. instead of 1 fat bitch per week, you are now matching with 3 fatties per day
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:53 PM
12

yup. welcome to this new age folks, we're gonna be here for a while. until sex robots come out, nothing will change. we're in this weird in between period where the women have all the power thanks to technology, tinder, only fans, tik tok. but we don't yet have enough tech for sex robots which would equalize the sex market back to normal so... for the time being all us men have to just suffer like incels and beat our meat, maybe try for some prostitutes if we can find any. or just leave the unit…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:51 PM
4

you're missing the point. all the online dating apps are shit. it's not just tinder. if you're looking for 5/10 fat bitches then great, you're in the right place with online dating. but if you want to have sex with a decent looking chick with a decent body? get ready to entertain her for several dates for a CHANCE at sex, let alone a relationship in which she actually gives a shit about you and won't take advantage of you. why are things like this? because equal rights. now, all you american men…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:48 PM
1

those aren't men, those are cucks big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:44 PM
3

you don't, women filter out YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:34 PM
5

men have killed each other over the pursuit of pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:32 PM
1

I cut back to lifting lighter and shorter gym sessions. It's much better this way for me. Less time consuming, more energy, I feel healthier. yeah, that's what i'm saying. at a minimum you should be doing SOMETHING in terms of exercise. doesn't have to be heavy, just move your fuckin ass, stay in shape, don't be fat. me personally, i like lifting, getting strong, looking shredded, fit and good most of what you wrote is a bunch of excuses by the way. why are you eating loads, are you scrawny and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 08:19 PM
1

why are you only willing to do stuff if it attracts girls lifting isn't about attracting girls. that's a bonus
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:41 PM
1

that's fine. as long as you're lifting, staying in shape, and are not fat there is no reason for you to not be in shape. if you just sit around and eat junk all day, then you're a loser. why do you take pleasure in being such a lazy sack of shit? it boggles my mind. get fit, get healthy. not just working out, work on your financial situation, work on your style. are you even trying to be a well rounded guy? or you just wanna cope your way through everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:14 PM
1

my end goal is to fuck hot girls and enjoy my life i stopped expecting to find a serious/LTR girl or anything like that at this point i just want to live my life, do fun shit, and have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:08 PM
1

Most guys are being cucked hard in developed countries. You finally realize what’s happening in these relationships when you open your eyes a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 01:08 PM
1

Yeah I doubt that’s happening. Most guys end up being cucked. That’s how the relationship starts. The chick wants to know whether she can control you, once she knows that then she’ll date you. You’re not getting what you want on your own accord. Because like I said, you have no bargaining power. Get another girlfriend? Oh great, finding someone else that wants to cuck you. That’ll surely solve your problems You still don’t understand that you’re at a disadvantage in these relationships. Any type…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:56 PM
0

Sounds accurate. I’m excited to see what happens. Granted I plan to live in a third world country and fuck whores all day. I’m curious to see how far this shit show will go in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:56 AM
2

They’re chodes then. “Wahhh wahhh a girl doesn’t like me. Wahhhhh I’m gonna cryyy now wahhhh” Pathetic. If they can’t handle being by themselves, they aren’t real men. I can understand not getting some sex. But being hurt that girls don’t like you? Dude. They should be working on their self love and confidence. Then fuck some hookers to release their nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:50 AM
2

Yeah you can thank social media for that Honestly things are getting worse. Every year the standards keep getting higher and higher. The women become bitchier and bitchier. Expect more and more. Like I said, men in the US are fucked. Marriage rates doing down, less sex happening. I’m interested to see how this places out in the next 10-20 years tbh, as I’m in a different country getting treated much better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:30 AM
0

Yeah because you’re being cucked If you’re in a relationship as a man and live in the US I’d say there’s an 80% chance that you’re being cucked by your girl. Essentially, this means that you have no power. You’re not calling any shots and you’re only doing shit just to not lose her. That’s not considered living nor does it sound fulfilling imo. It’s just being cucked to a girl that can do or say whatever she wants since you have no bargaining power. It’s called being a cuck, enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:24 AM
3

Real men don’t pressure for sex. The men that understand how this works in the US are not pressuring for anything. They know how the game is played, they know it’s bullshit The guys pressuring for sex are dudes that feel they have no choice and inexperienced guys that don’t know any better. They’re pressuring for sex because they’re desperate. They wanna get laid and it seems that the only way is pressuring. It’s not about consent. It’s about dick in vagina. How can I efficiently get my dick int…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:12 AM
1

wow. that's an extremely lazy way of thinking. honestly, anyone who has that thought process shouldn't get anything outta their life. it's extremely unattractive, entitled, and leach type behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:14 AM
1

lift heavy so you have a good physique. if you don't care about looking good and being in shape, then you're a loser. there's no reason to not be in shape, no reason at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 01:56 AM
1

you're missing the point. the goal isn't to interact with chicks. you should be lifting so that you're in peak physical condition. when you're fucking prostitutes the girls will give you slightly better service if you're in shape also, it's not just lifting. you need to be doing cardio, getting your stamina up. how can you expect to fuck a whore in an efficient manner if you start panting after 30 seconds of pumping? also, train your core. you need a strong body but also a tight core and flat st…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:34 PM
1

in college i was getting laid like once every 6-12 months. never by girls from my school, my school is small. when i got laid it was luck from going to bars or "transactional" lays i had with chicks. i.e i'll get you weed if you suck my dick. not sure if that counts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:32 AM
3

yes. it's called the cock carousel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:26 AM
1

nothing. just go home and cry realistically, you should focus, finish college, and get your degree then focus 100% on only two things: going to the gym, make money that's it. gym, money. gym, money. then fuck some prostitutes and enjoy your life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:23 AM
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