stiltoncheez Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Had first date in over a year, was really rusty. Sharing my seven blunders, and also soliciting feedback/motivation.		stiltoncheez	/r/seduction	13/03/16 06:20 PM
3	Have you hit on a friend of a girl you dated? How has that gone?		stiltoncheez	/r/seduction	13/09/16 11:01 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	I think my fear of approach and intimacy with women is rooted in one specific moment: how to fix? So you peaked as a 9 year-old... Learn to laugh at yourself man. I'm in my 30s now and have had some highs and lows, also insecure in being open and scared to get to know myself. But you take gradual steps little by little. Keep pushing.	/r/seduction	15/09/18 11:09 PM
4	Whats the worst that could happen? And there goes another hour on YouTube	/r/seduction	26/12/17 08:10 AM
1	Asked a friend about a crush i had on a mutual friend, need help understanding the response You're adults. And friends. Just ask her what she meant. Stop relying solely on internet strangers and have a real conversation.	/r/seduction	06/09/17 07:16 AM
16	How do you tell a girl you're uncomfortable with something without coming off as insecure/weak/controlling? Get over yourself and just talk to her honestly. Fear of weakness is the biggest most glaring weakness of all.	/r/seduction	29/03/17 11:59 AM
1	How did you start a long term relationships? Is this asking for stories of advice? I've had both happen to me. If I asked it's because it's what I really wanted after a few weeks or months of dating. If the girl is asking our status, that's because I haven't given her any LTR signals -- and it's not gonna go LTR.	/r/seduction	05/08/16 11:30 PM
2	How to prevent being a part of the wallpaper if I can't dance? Having fun shouldn't require so much thinking. You're in a fun place; have fun; be fun. I objectively can't dance; I have literally been unable to keep up or get back on rhythm in every beginner dance class I've been to over the years. BUT at every wedding and party, everyone always talks about how I have "moves" and always complement my dancing. Just do it. Not dancing is always more uncomfortable than dancing.	/r/seduction	05/08/16 11:25 PM
21	The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull) That girl was definitely too drunk	/r/seduction	05/08/16 12:08 AM
1	best experience with your girlfriend? If you are having trouble coming up with something now for your first anniversary, you should spend some serious time reflecting on how much you actually appreciate and think about her.	/r/seduction	31/07/16 04:44 PM
1	Going into my second year of university and looking for some advice First of all, there are too many people out there; you are still mostly anonymous -- so don't worry. Most people won't know or won't remember you were the wallflower. It'll be okay. If they do remember, most people won't hold that against you. If they do, move on. Start one step at a time. Have conversations with as many people in your classes as you can, guys and girls. Once you know people at least a little, you'll get invited to parties or can ask about parties. If you have confidence issues,…	/r/seduction	31/07/16 04:42 PM
1	Is secrectly videotaping approaches illegal? This is not always. Consent laws may apply to the audio as well.	/r/seduction	31/07/16 04:32 PM
2	Need practice before I go off to university Local community college, Target, parks, anywhere. Just go outside.	/r/seduction	31/07/16 04:31 PM
1	Is a party too impersonal as a third date? This isn't a big deal. You should know each other decently well and be comfortable around each other at this point. Everything doesn't have to fit in a rigid "this is a date" box. If she seems like she would appreciate you going, just go. Edit: I mean offer to go.	/r/seduction	27/04/16 12:06 PM
1	High school guy need advice on talking with people Weird people can be interesting and engaging and endearing too. No one cares about "weird."	/r/seduction	27/04/16 11:24 AM
1	Is a party too impersonal as a third date? So, what's the alternative? Not show up?	/r/seduction	27/04/16 11:18 AM
1	21 First Date Ideas off the top of my head that aren't dinner and a movie or coffee Where's the video? Edit: Nevrmind. The app I was using caused it not to show up.	/r/seduction	06/04/16 09:32 AM
1	Had first date in over a year, was really rusty. Sharing my seven blunders, and also soliciting feedback/motivation. Thanks for reminding me of the real priorities. And thanks for not giving me a pity party. I'll take some time to reflect and get back to focusing on attraction and developing my inner game so that I can then see results on my outer game.	/r/seduction	13/03/16 11:51 PM
1	Had first date in over a year, was really rusty. Sharing my seven blunders, and also soliciting feedback/motivation. I think it boils down to that I showed to her that I was unhappy with my answer. You are right that the facts don't matter and in that it is about the quality of what I had to say about it. You are right about the vulnerability. I tried to show that and be honest but I came off as a bit insecure. I should have manned up and been proud of myself for saying I didn't have a great relationship with my parents but I am working on it.	/r/seduction	13/03/16 11:49 PM
3	Had first date in over a year, was really rusty. Sharing my seven blunders, and also soliciting feedback/motivation. You are right. I think I am wallowing in my mistakes a bit. Granted no date is perfect, but I'm making a lot of basic mistakes in how I am presenting myself. But I think a lot of that is my insecurities coming through. It's hard to build comfort when I am actually uncomfortable.	/r/seduction	13/03/16 07:42 PM
96	Getting rejected by some of the more cool and attractive people in my school years led me to places on the internet like this. I find myself still chasing that validation I didn't get growing up, how do I finally break free and live a happy life? Go ahead and get your validation. Post tons of cool pictures to instagram and facebook. Frame those selfies in amazing places; post pictures of extraordinary food. Live your awesome life. Make people jealous. When you run into these people again, show them you are having a blast. Get it out of your system. Eventually, you will grow tired of that and learn you don't need validation anymore. And then your fun will be for yourself and not for anyone else.	/r/seduction	13/03/16 06:31 PM
3	RSD free tour - Has anybody been/is anybody going? I went to one this past week. You get more than you'd expect to get but it is also different than what the website describes. There was no hotseat-type in-field footage as was advertised, just four instructors talking. But it went on far longer than scheduled, from 7:30 to 11:30 pm instead of just 7-10pm. Jeffy (sp?), Max, and Tyler gave mostly monologues but were very engaging. Julien was all Q&A. Max talked about his life and his experience with RSD and gave two examples of how to be a good st…	/r/seduction	26/08/14 05:53 AM
1	Is it really neccessary to have sexual conversation during the first date? It sounds like either (a) you don't really want just sex or (b) you do and you're too scared to show it. I'm reading the former. But I'll take your word for it you mean the latter. If you want something you have to actively pursue it. You don't get a hookup if you aren't doing anything to get the girl in the mood for a hookup. So yes, sexual conversation. Start with a "that's what she said" or a dirty punchline or anything. As soon as you can find a segue to something sexual, do it. Have it on y…	/r/seduction	01/07/14 01:35 AM
1	Is it really neccessary to have sexual conversation during the first date? I get that maybe it's not your style. Over the last year of sarging for me, it's been what's distinguished my closes of any kind from my non-closes. And it seems most have had the same experience. There shouldn't be any 'push' to talking about sex. It's as effortless as anything else we should be doing -- just in the name of fun and getting to know the other person's sense of humor and openness. Sex comes up in conversation the same as talking about dogs, siblings, careers, travel, horoscopes, a…	/r/seduction	01/07/14 01:25 AM
-1	Is it really neccessary to have sexual conversation during the first date? No, talking about sex gets her thinking about sex. Getting her to think about sex leads to sex (or at least past a couple bases). It's about making the other person comfortable getting sexual with you. And that's what dating is all about -- sexual chemistry. It happens a lot faster if you're escalate on all axes: physical, emotional, verbal, and cognitively.	/r/seduction	01/07/14 01:08 AM