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Marriage/Childrenstingermamabee/r/MensRights23/02/22 04:34 PM
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I'm not really understanding the point to this. I become anemic on my periods and can barely move from my bed. I simply just call in a "sick day" on the worst day of it and eat a pez dispenser of Midol the rest of them. I promise you if your boss asks why and you say "woman problem" they're not gonna argue. Most of them, in my experience, would simply say feel better and call someone in to replace you. People act as though the entire world isn't already aware that women have periods and sometime…
/r/MensRights12/05/22 12:44 AM
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Time to get shat on, but I have the same rules for my son. The exact same rules. And if the meaning behind her rule is the same as mine, then she doesn't mean LITERALLY ask consent to change a diaper. We know it has to be done, but I don't say "can I change your diaper, yes or no." I say "you have a dirty diaper and mommy has to change it so you don't get a rash, ok? yes, I know you want to play, but this is something we have to do, ok?" It makes a kid feel like they have more autonomy than sayi…
/r/MensRights04/05/22 04:02 AM
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Here's a moment of vulnerability on my part, and please be kind because this has taken a lot of fucking therapy to reconcile with. I'm hoping JD wins this case. I see my past self in Amber, and it's taken a very long time for me to be able to say, well shit I was emotionally and verbally abusive to my partner... Men since the dawn of time have been told they're bigger, so they can fight back. They're men so they should be kind and treat women well. This case is making a very important point that…
/r/MensRights27/04/22 11:24 PM
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If your relationship is that sturdy and you don't think she's ever cheated, why would you want to risk burning it apart with dishonesty of hiding a paternity test? If your idea is to have one done out of pure paranoia, I'd think she has a right to know you feel that way. That may require some serious digging within yourself to find the reason why. But, setting aside my emotional reaction, legally you're married, and you don't need her permission for a paternity test. When I was 16 years old ther…
/r/MensRights26/04/22 12:09 AM
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Cancel culture is crap, yes. But at a certain point the person employing you has to take accountability as well. Your behavior outside of your job speaks about the company you work for. If it were my company, I'd say look both you need to get it together because you're making us look bad. Go home and don't come back until this shits straightened out. Starting a smear campaign publicly about your ex is piss poor behavior and shouldn't be tolerated in a professional environment. What happens in yo…
/r/MensRights24/04/22 01:54 PM
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It's almost like they don't want to take a side and punish the man without concrete evidence. No no that can't be it. /S
/r/MensRights24/04/22 01:50 PM
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This one. I "nag" my fiance about smoking in the house because we have a child. I do not want to smell it and do not want my child to smell LIKE it. If that's verbal abuse then... therapy may be a good idea. Then they can say the same damn thing I keep saying.
/r/MensRights12/04/22 06:22 AM
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The hipocricy is astounding. Their title is "Off My Chest | A Safe Community for Support" Why are my beliefs surrounding men's rights relevant to a community where I go to get things off my chest? How is it a safe community for support if you're just gonna only allow it to be safe for certain people?
/r/MensRights03/04/22 10:12 PM
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Jada has literally become Fish Mooney in the real world.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 05:56 AM
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I'm a survivor of sexual abuse, men are not the enemy. Those sick individuals are. One of the people who have abused me in my lifetime was a female. The other two were men. That is a reward. To me anyway. The ability to birth children and raise my son to be a loving, strong, independent and intelligent individual is rewarding. The ability to have a partner who WANTS me to stay home and raise our child is rewarding. a subservient role is one I did not always want, but have learned to love. Rather…
/r/MensRights29/03/22 06:40 PM
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A few men in this sub that hate women are the exception and not the rule. You will ALWAYS have a select group of individuals that hate another group of individuals. That's not unique to a men's rights subreddit. When you see those individuals, you can elect to either try to change their minds, or downvote and move on. Quite a few of the men I've interacted with on this sub have been very open minded to my POV as a woman and the majority of those men have politely disagreed and accepted my input …
/r/MensRights29/03/22 06:32 PM
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Well, it's a case by case basis. I need BC to treat a hormonal issue. Saying no one should ever do it ever is dangerous thinking.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 02:02 PM
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No, that's a great point. Since you explained it in detail, I realize that was the entirety of what I was pointing to say but the words didn't come out appropriately. Sexual function and sexual behavior are indeed different, I don't disagree so thanks for that.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 12:17 AM
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No one is saying it will. Men just want more, and better options. We as women have COUNTLESS options. Condoms, the pill, the shot, the implant, iud, etc. Men have pull out, condom, vasectomy. One is not trustworthy at all, one is a medical procedure, one is easy to forget. Men don't have the option of a one shot and you're good for 3 months or, implant and you're good for 5 years. They want the option to be more responsible for their own reproductive rights so they don't have to worry about a di…
/r/MensRights23/03/22 05:32 PM
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I'd be glad to give you my personal experience. Growing up I had male and female teachers. Most of my problems were with the female ones. I was a little shit head that liked to talk back to teachers, but moreso to the female ones because every experience I had they were overly emotional, snooty, rude, and complained all the time. My male teachers had a way of gaining respect. If there was an issue they'd pull you aside and ask why your behavior is the way it is and instruct and guide you as to w…
/r/MensRights23/03/22 05:22 PM
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"killing a child" It's a fetus. Not a child. It has neither a heartbeat, nor brain activity. You're likening it to murder.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 06:06 PM
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Then don't. You don't HAVE to buy brand name at $2. You can buy store brand at $1. That's the point. As long as we keep spending the money, they'll continue to sell it at that price.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 03:23 AM
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Calling it murder is a matter of opinion, not of fact. The time in which an abortion is performed, that fetus has neither a heartbeat, nor brain waves. It may help you understand if you do a bit more research. Again, that's a woman's reproductive rights issue.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 03:22 AM
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Calling it murder is a matter of opinion, not of fact. The time in which an abortion is performed, that fetus has neither a heartbeat, nor brain waves. It may help you understand if you do a bit more research. Again, that's a woman's reproductive rights issue.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 03:22 AM
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That's a pro life argument that's been used to justify forcing women to carry pregnancies that are dangerous or unwanted. That's not a men's rights issue, that's a women's reproductive rights issue. Wrong sub.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 12:42 PM
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And what about when it's a situation where a woman is married and in a domestic violence situation? She wants to have an abortion so she can pursue leaving, and because he says no, she's further trapped. It's a slippery slope to being allowed NO bodily autonomy without the permission of your partner. He can get other women pregnant. Pregnancy and childbirth is mind, body, and soul altering and every situation is unique.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 02:11 AM
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And what about in a situation where a woman is a victim of domestic violence? She gets pregnant. She wants to abort, and her partner, wanting to keep her essentially trapped refuses, and now she's screwed. It's a slippery slope to not being allowed ANY bodily autonomy without your partner's consent.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 02:10 AM
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The problem with that is it becomes a forced medical procedure which is ethically and most would argue morally inhumane. She's carrying that child inside of her womb. An abortion is a major medical procedure which has possible risks including death or infertility. Imagine if women were able to force you to have a vasectomy or have your sperm sacs removed from your body.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 12:37 AM
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I don't make it a regular topic of conversation, but it has come up, My partner is aware that I want to be involved in social work when we're finished having children. He asked if I meant kids, and I told him no...at-risk men. Men suffering from homelessness, mental health issues, child custody issues, etc. That's when the discussion happened and he was curious why so specific to only men? I explained my reasoning and now it's out there. We don't really sit down and have conversations about it b…
/r/MensRights20/03/22 12:39 AM
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No, that's absolutely true and that is typically a big issue. On a thread of unpopular opinions, I commented about how my unpopular opinion was that women aren't entitled to a man's time, money, or genitals simply because they're men. It is an active problem, but from the OUTSIDE of a situation, we have to remember that circumstances aren't always the same and it's not our business to consider it a problem until the people involved speak about it being one. Hopefully that makes sense, it made mo…
/r/MensRights20/03/22 12:34 AM
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It could very well be a matter of personal preference honestly. When I worked I would try to contribute and he would tell me no, put your money away and save it for you or Christmas shopping or whatever. Just because both people work doesn't mean they both have the same amount of financial responsibility in their household. Other people's finances are like their genitals....not my/your/our business.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 06:05 AM
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Please don't do this. Ever. Bleach and the vagina are not a compatible combination. Blood and feces are different. I don't even recommend using bleach for diapers as the skin near the genitals is very sensitive. You can sanitize by washing in extra hot water if you're concerned. Bleach should it be used when stripping diapers and pads which shouldn't be done more than once a month or less to avoid chemical sensitivities. How often a pad is changed is preference or health requirement based. Reusa…
/r/MensRights19/03/22 05:52 AM
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I can see where you're going with this, but even reusable baby diapers are out of this world in price. (used them for a while, but prefer disposable.) Yes in part they're expensive for the convenience of being disposable but honestly it's all about branding. Not sure if you're a woman, but I'll explain. Feminine hygiene products are designed to be placed near a very sensitive part of the body. This requires sensitive materials, and preferably a lack of dyes and fragrances. To make these items, i…
/r/MensRights19/03/22 05:48 AM
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I went to the dollar general for a trimmer. They had a men's and a women's. They marketed the men's as a "beard trimmer" and the women's as a "bikini trimmer". They were both literally the same thing but a different color, so naturally I paid $2 less and bought the beard trimmer. But most women would say "that's a men's for their beard ewwew?" And buy the more expensive one simply because it's labelled for women. I'm a cheap ass b* and I'll take whatever has the lower price point.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 05:43 AM
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I guess you missed my entire point, or I didn't explain it well enough, so I'll try again. A woman doesn't want to be a parent. She can abort. She can pursue adoption. He doesn't have a say in the matter. He has to pay child support. He doesn't want to be a parent. He can leave, but he still has to pay child support and has no say in the matter. A friend of mine was a stay at home father while his wife worked. He wanted a divorce. He found out that she would keep the kids even though she's menta…
/r/MensRights18/03/22 12:46 AM
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If you ever wonder if a joke is actually funny, swap the sexes in the joke. If you still find it funny then have at it. If you don't still find it funny, then it's time to reevaluate why that is.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 11:47 PM
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Sure, that should go both ways. If she has the option to abort a pregnancy or give a child up for adoption, he should have an option to terminate his parental rights if he chooses to do so. We as women have been raised being told we are entitled to a man's wallet, time, and health for the sake of being "taken care of." We aren't entitled to that. If he decides he doesn't want to be a family man or even pursue a relationship he's called a "deadbeat" while she's an "independent woman that doesn't …
/r/MensRights17/03/22 11:33 PM
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And honestly in that 1 percent I firmly believe it's because men are more willing to ask for better pay. Example I started a freight job years ago. My coworker started $2 higher than me. I asked how he managed that and his response literally was "I asked for it at the interview."
/r/MensRights17/03/22 01:05 PM
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I never understood that either. The only difference is a urinal. I would think grown women wouldn't be bothered by a urinal but ya know...2022....
/r/MensRights16/03/22 07:50 PM
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Men aren't obligated to provide for others. If they choose to opt out of being a provider and going their own way, they are entitled to do so. The male version of "strong independent woman who don't need a man." That for some reason people aren't comfortable accepting.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 06:16 AM
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Anyone with a penis should have full access to medical care meant for those with a penis. Anyone with a vagina should have full access to medical care meant for those with a vagina. Anyone with genitals should have the same rights and privileges regardless of what they go by when it comes to medical needs, legal needs, educational needs, etc. What you have in your pants is not my business, nor are the clothes you choose to wear or the name you choose to go by. As for bathrooms, when nature calls…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 06:04 AM
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Hear hear. I won't lie. I was at a very busy airport last year and the line for the women's bathroom was out the whazoo. I had to pee. Bad. I just knocked on the men's room door and shouted "you guys mind if I piss in here?" Nobody cared and nature was calling. I'd be more inclined to want more stalls in one bathroom than several different bathrooms I have to MAYBE be able to use if people aren't in there doing their makeup clogging up the line. And in my opinion being transgender in the world i…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 05:59 AM
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Scroll through the various comment threads and you'll come across a few "all women are scumbags".
/r/MensRights16/03/22 05:56 AM
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MGTOW is about hating women WGTOW is about female empowerment Why am I not surprised that this is how they decided to portray them.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 05:07 PM
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You ever heard of the Tulsa massacre? It started because a black man fell into a white woman on an elevator. After that one thing after another occurred until the entirety of a city was burned to the ground and innocent people were murdered. Yes. In those days it absolutely was a death sentence.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 05:50 AM
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Have her ask the pediatrician. (hopefully you've chosen one that's against it.) My child's father was circumcised. He had a lot of pressure from his dad to do it to our son. (the obsession with his grandsons penis I'll never understand) he fought me on it for months. We went to the pediatrician and he asked her point blank period what we should do and she told him a big fat no. There's no reason for it at all and it isn't worth the risk. If you can have a pediatrician explain exactly the risks, …
/r/MensRights14/03/22 05:38 AM
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I get terribly sad when I see some members of this sub who appear to be nothing more than what they despise.... One gender hating the other and categorizing ALL of us as the same. It makes me terribly sad to see them say "all women do this...." Because we are not all the same just like not all of you are the same. I've been accused by them of just "wanting to earn points from men on the internet." Thankfully they are very few and far in between and you can't avoid that. That's life. I don't faul…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 05:23 AM
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Agree completely. In this sub I've seen many people that seem to be full on woman hating anti feminists, but I've also seen many that are the same as myself: we're all human and deserve to be treated as such. The phrases "all men" and "all women" shouldn't exist here. It does, but sadly that's part of life. What's more sad is when the politics of men's rights has to become a left or right debate. Dividing us does nothing to solve the problems.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 05:07 AM
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That may be true. But as children, women are taught to talk out their differences. Men are taught to work them out with their fists. That right there should tell you there's a problem with the way the sexes are treated. I've heard comedians make jokes about how men will beat the crap out of each other and finish off with a beer like teaching and expecting men to be violent is funny. I'd like to clarify I'm not saying they are BORN violent. I'm saying they are TAUGHT to be violent, purely because…
/r/MensRights12/03/22 01:48 PM
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We should add aggravated assault. You know what damage can be done at 18 years old. You choose to do it anyway, it was intentional.
/r/MensRights12/03/22 01:41 PM
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Its genital mutilation. Unless there's a legitimate medical reason to do it, then don't. I won't even work with a pediatrician who advocates for it. Thankfully my son's pediatrician is against it as a cosmetic procedure for children. When you're 18 you can decide what you wanna do with your penis. That's your business. It's odd because my in laws would make odd comments about having my son circumcized as though his genitals are their business. As a society we're obsessed with the genitals of oth…
/r/MensRights28/02/22 03:59 AM
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Of course it is. But that's not your focus. Your focus is ending war altogether which is a different matter for a different sub.
/r/MensRights27/02/22 02:55 AM
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You again miss the point. This sub isn't about military politics. It isn't about whether anyone should live or die. This sub is about the fact that men, as a result of having a penis, are given a death warrant and forced to sign on the dotted line while women are allowed to flee to safety. There are subreddit a dedicated to military and human rights issues. Perhaps seek those out.
/r/MensRights26/02/22 08:35 PM
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There are men and women who will happily agree to be drafted. The same as men and women who decide to enlist. Those are the people to make that decision. The decision shouldn't be made that because you have a penis, you sign your death warrant. When and if the time comes, those that find it important to fight will step up and make that decision. A babysitter is for if you go to work. A babysitter is not if you sign up for the draft. That's a moot point.
/r/MensRights26/02/22 08:28 PM
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The gender of the parent doesn't make for a better or worse parent. That's why men are on average considered last in child custody. Because it's automatically assumed women are the better caregivers. Being a good parent is dependent on the individual. I agree that gender roles are important. But a man's role for his gender is not to be forced to hold a gun and die against his wishes. What good does it do me, his wife, to be left alone with a child because he was gathered among others to be sent …
/r/MensRights26/02/22 08:13 PM
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I'm not a man. I understand exactly what was said.
/r/MensRights25/02/22 11:03 PM
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He never said that's the ONLY case. You really are daft. Holy moly.
/r/MensRights25/02/22 05:37 PM
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He literally said the option should be there. Nowhere at all did he say that you shouldn't have the option. That's what being pro choice means. Are you ok?
/r/MensRights25/02/22 06:31 AM
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I'm curious how she treated the father. Just conjecture. But I didn't let her father corrupt her is a pretty good indicator of the answer to my question Maybe that's why she's anti feminist
/r/MensRights25/02/22 05:23 AM
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You're terrible at reading comprehension and the original commenter has explained what he meant to you more than once and you still didn't get it, so let me try. In slow, small words. He is saying that he is pro choice. If a man steps away, and no one is caring for the child properly, then abortion is ok. It's better than having more orphans in the streets. Continuing a pregnancy because she just wants a baby is selfish and not looking at the child's best interests if it won't have proper care. …
/r/MensRights25/02/22 05:13 AM
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I'd like to point off the bat that men should absolutely have the right to terminate their parental rights and walk away if they so choose. No man should be forced to be a parent if they don't want to be one, the same as we don't have to. But the flaw in your thinking is that you carried sperm. Sperm is not a child and sperm doesn't affect your life in any way. Pregnancy however is life altering, body altering, mind altering, and potentially harmful and carries risks with it. Carrying sperm and …
/r/MensRights25/02/22 05:01 AM
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If you're going to quote my statements, at least quote them correctly and with proper context. What I said was: When did it become the point for your family and friends to be pleased by you signing a legal document to be bound to someone. Meaning the point of marriage to bring family and friends together, as you stated, shouldn't be the point. You shouldn't be legally bound against your own beliefs to please family and friends. Keep up. You're slowing down a little.
/r/MensRights24/02/22 02:02 AM
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Of course! Because family court isn't about keeping families together... it's about screwing over the father.
/r/MensRights24/02/22 01:59 AM
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So you've posted several comments and most of them have very little substance other than throwing out nasty insults and assumptions about people's situations, so this will be my last response to you to clear some things up, since reading context is clearly not your strong suit. We were in a rought spot. As was previously stated. He kept threatening to take our child out of state against my wishes. So yes, I sought legal advice as is my right as the other parent. "While you do your thing and want…
/r/MensRights24/02/22 01:55 AM
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I literally didn't post on a sub for Men's Rights to be given advice on how to function as a woman. That's why I pay a therapist. Again, I'm here to share an experience pertaining to a man's right as a parent. So I appreciate the sentiment...but I didn't ask for your opinion on my current progress because this isn't about "me". You find it strange to have children being unmarried? It's not that uncommon. Nothing is "up" or "amiss". We chose to have children and we don't believe in marriage. That…
/r/MensRights24/02/22 01:42 AM
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Yep that's where I'm from as well. If I recall, Florida doesn't even recognize a long term cohabitation as a domestic partnership like some others do.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 11:23 PM
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I spoke to two. You must be out of touch with the times because many children are born to unmarried parents. We didn't then, nor did we ever plan to become married because of our own personal feelings and beliefs around marriage. We did, however want children together. There shouldn't be anything wrong with that and a slip of paper shouldn't say that a father has any less rights to his child.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 10:49 PM
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Youre most likely right on the money with that one (no pun intended).
/r/MensRights23/02/22 10:42 PM
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I'm absolutely not trying to "win points from the approval of men." I shared an experience that I thought was unfair and common for unwed fathers (I've seen it more than once). And no. The priority is not myself. The priority is the best interest of children and I'm sharing an experience that women shouldn't always be the primary guardian, and the father screwed over for the sake of traditional values, even held by lawyers apparently. I can see your point about relocating a child without permiss…
/r/MensRights23/02/22 10:40 PM
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This advice came from not one, but two family attorneys, and a licensed psychologist in my area. It's not illegal to file an emergency pickup on a child as the biological mother when paternity hasn't been established in my state. According to the law, it's my right. It's a little ridiculous honestly.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 08:15 PM
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Being a better judge of character is a cop out. Things can change in a very short span of time, especially when children are involved. We, for example, have known one another for 15 years. Being threatened with having your child removed from the state you live without consent is in fact a serious issue and there's no harm in asking for an opinion from legal aid. Yes women can be taken advantage of by men...but that's not the issue at hand here. The issue at hand is that it happens to men as well…
/r/MensRights23/02/22 08:13 PM
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We're talking about it as a whole. There are MANY situations in which it is in fact not necessary and just and you ignore those cases and pass it off as "well they're rare." Yes, they're rare...and when they happen this is what we get. Do you feel the same way about women? "If you don't want babies get a vasectomy." So because I don't want children NOW means don't have them at all ever?
/r/MensRights23/02/22 06:45 PM
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That's a very blanketed way of thinking about it. What about men that are tricked into getting a woman pregnant? Tampered with condoms? Men that are raped to get a woman pregnant? Men in abusive relationships who are coerced into getting her pregnant? Your account is 4 years old with hardly any posts or karma so I'm going to assume you're a troll and walk away.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 05:38 PM
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Haha you're absolutely right about that! His dad has primary custody out of state. I'll be relocating to be closer to them and maintain contact with our son while I pursue mental health treatment. He is happy and thriving and that's all that either of us as parents could as for. As far as I'm concerned that's a win in itself. We lived in a state where the mother's rights are always put first, not taking into account what's best for the child. And maybe that's why our state has such a nasty histo…
/r/MensRights23/02/22 05:36 PM
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The physical fact of pregnancy has nothing to do with the point at hand. The point at hand is that if he doesn't want to be a parent, he should have the right to walk away and never look back if she decides to follow through with the pregnancy.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 05:25 PM
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It may be beneficial for her to seek therapy as an individual alongside you both getting it together to help figure this out as a whole. Women can sometimes grieve a potential or lost pregnancy the same as the loss of a living child as it's the way our biological clocks are ingrained in us. It's possible that she so badly wants another child because of the potential children that she's suffered losing through miscarriage, but none of us can say except for her. You have to understand that your wi…
/r/MensRights23/02/22 05:23 PM
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I wish I could be angry at this, but I can't be. I acknowledge that I'm guilty of this same type of language with my son's father. And I think a lot of that has to do with placing separation on the two parties. As a couple, it's OUR child. Because we are a team, we are a couple, we are a family. After a separation, we're angry. We're resentful. So they become MY child and YOUR child instead of OUR child. Because I'm speaking from an emotional place, I'm trying to put as much distance between us …
/r/MensRights23/02/22 05:07 PM
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I appreciate your input, so I'll go down and respond to each part as I'm not good at responding as a whole. In your case, if you'd been married, the biggest difference you'd have likely seen is that the court would have mandated that you stay in the house, your ex husband pay for it, while not being allowed to live in it himself. You're right about that. And that's sad. And considering he already WAS paying for it to begin with, would be extremely unfair. And the reason I stayed in a hotel for s…
/r/MensRights23/02/22 04:59 PM
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I'm saddened and I don't understand why we even have to keep having this discussion. Yes means yes and no means no. If you're both grabbing each other's junk and are all about it, that should be enough. If one of you changes your mind and says stop, then no is a full sentence. We shouldn't have to live in a world where you have to literally pull out a notarized contract to consent to contact. And we should have to live in a world where our sons are made to feel like they have to ask permission j…
/r/MensRights23/02/22 04:53 PM
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Yes. Honestly yes. Freedom of choice right? If I can decline parenthood as a woman, then my partner has the right to do the same. It might make you look like an arsehole, but it is indeed your choice to do so. (Or at least it should be)
/r/MensRights23/02/22 04:16 PM
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According to womenshealth.gov Type 1: Partial or total removal of the clitoris. This is also called clitoridectomy. Type 2: Partial or total removal of the clitoris and the labia (the inner and outer "lips" that surround the vagina) Type 3: Sewing the labia together to make the vaginal opening smaller. This is called infibulation. The clitoris may be left in place. Type 4: All other harm to the female genitalia for nonmedical purposes, including pricking, piercing, cutting, scraping, and cauteri…
/r/MensRights10/02/22 06:05 PM
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What mens right did you mean to invoke by talking about this? You're kidding right? So, I can sleep with my partner... get pregnant.. lie and say the kid isn't his, and book it even if he wants rights to the child and that's okay with you? Parental rights are still rights. And parental rights are something men have to STILL fight over. I agree that there isn't much he can do with this situation..but that's absolutely horrid.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 05:54 PM
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Honestly it speaks volumes...
/r/MensRights10/02/22 05:48 PM
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Let us not forget this fact as well: These statistics are based on what is known and reported. I can BET money that there are countless numbers of men who haven't reported rapes or abuses. Why? Because they're told it can't happen to them. They're men. They can't possibly be sexually assaulted. They can't possibly be abused. They can leave, they can walk away, they can overpower her. In turn, those men who haven't reported it just choose to move on and pretend it never happened to begin with. It…
/r/MensRights10/02/22 05:40 PM
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Woman here. I can't understand why you were downvoted to a 0 because you're absolutely right. I won't give you a lecture about "not all women" because I'm sure you already know that. But you're so right. If you don't want children, you need to be proactive in preventing that from happening. Because you never know which woman you sleep with will be the one to pull some shit like this. I've seen it happen so many times that it's just not worth the risk. Women are given the right to accept or decli…
/r/MensRights10/02/22 05:22 PM
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That's true, but think about this. How many times do you see women jamming along to a rap song about her butt, boobs, p****, mouth, money, etc. and thinking it makes them feel hot? Now how many times do you see a man singing along to TLC about how if he's in "the passenger side of his best friend's ride" he's just a scrub? This comment may seem like I'm trying to be funny, but I'm dead serious.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 05:10 PM
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That's just something you'll have to dig deep down and think about. Maybe the opinion of a family lawyer may not be a bad idea. Most of them will give you a free first consultation to explain your situation.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 04:54 AM
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As the child, it isn't your responsibility to worry about your parents happiness. That's between them. But, I understand where you're coming from in that regard. My parents stayed together. My mom treated him like shit. He's in his final years and never remarried and never found happiness again. I resent her. It's why I lack sympathy for my own gender most times. Women always get the better deal out of the two and we can make excuses for our shitty treatment of the men in our lives and it's forg…
/r/MensRights10/02/22 04:53 AM
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Don't ever try to make it work just for the kids. Most times, it doesn't work, and the kids WILL notice. My parents did it. Their parents did it. And my son's father and I tried to do it. Unless you guys are absolutely sure you can rekindle the old candle....just don't do it. Coparent if you decide you'd like to be a father, even if from a distance. But kids can sense anger and resentment, ad most of all emotional distance. If your concern is finances...get a lawyer. If it goes to court, payment…
/r/MensRights10/02/22 04:23 AM
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I'll be honest, I don't know the logistical reason, but I will give you my assumed reason based on experience. My fiance and I both worked full time. When I got pregnant, I had to work far less hours because of a high risk pregnancy. Bills went up, my hours went down, and his went up for the incoming baby. Our son was born, yet again, my hours went down and his went up. Rather than work MORE hours to make the difference in loss of wages, his salary went up instead and he was given a higher posit…
/r/MensRights07/02/22 12:40 PM
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