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| 39 | Feeling grateful that I’m not embarrassing myself this Valentine’s DayGot one of my exes a gorgeous expensive art book for Valentine's Day (we're both artists), he called it "the best gift he's ever gotten." He got me literally nothing, not even a card, then he felt bad so he paid for dinner (take out). I remember pointing out to him once that he never posted photos of us or talked about us to any of his friends. He said "I just never do that, my feed is all my trips" I dumped him some time later, he immediately went on dating apps and got a new gf, he posts photo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:38 PM |
| 104 | How many of you ladies have found HVM since following FDS?I stopped looking or caring and just focused on myself. After my divorce I got a new high paying job, am rapidly learning programming, bought a condo and a car, work out in my home gym and do whatever I want whenever I want without some man telling me he NeEdS sEx tO bE vALiDaTeD when I'm tired and want to sleep, or making a mess everywhere, or saying I don't give him enough attention when I want to focus on work. It's pretty amazing and I have trouble imagining a man who would add to my life ri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 01:35 AM |
| 52 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesI dated a guy for a second who said he was depressed for years so he never worked out or started a retirement account. Motherfucker turns 30 in a few days and he spent two years on dating apps and doesn't have a 401k | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 04:42 PM |
| 157 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesLOOOL holy shit I say this all the time I work out as much as I have time and energy for. I'm in my mid 30s and I just don't have the metabolism so I have to work out hard, and a lot, to keep myself as fit I was in my 20s. Dated a couple skinnyfat men last year and holy shit dude it's so easy for you to build muscle. These men literally never work out, or they go indoor rock climbing once a week for an hour thinking that's enough exercise to justify eating like shit the rest of the week. Testost… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 04:40 PM |
| 37 | Being single protects men from drama and politics, ladies. Leave them alone.FIVE POUND WEIGHTS LMAO. Does ten bicep curls, "I worked out so now I can eat the whole pizza" Bold of anyone to assume some men even use Febreze also. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 02:12 AM |
| 53 | What've you rediscovered about yourself since being single?Lmao I love this. I just wanna wear my comfortable cotton shorts and eat dinner after a long day, it's not an invitation to pre-meal sexy time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 09:12 AM |
| 10 | Low Energy Men - How men steal women's energyThis is so accurate it's terrifying. My ex husband that I left a few years ago... While I was reading comfortably lying down, he would come into the room, demand attention, I would point out I was reading and he would literally pull my pants down and expose my ass. I told him repeatedly that not only was that not sexy, it was really violating, and he STILL KEPT DOING IT because he "forgot" I didn't like being pantsed. He would also grope me while I was cooking, hot oil and sharp knives and all, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 215 | Here is what being single will get you:YESS!!! I absolutely love to see it! Together/married for seven years and divorced two years ago. We worked in the same industry and I always worked more hours and did literally every chore while he sat on his ass doing nothing but he still made more money. After the divorce I worked on my own skills and got a new job at a rival company; I now make significantly more money than him, bought my own house, having a hell of a time on my own. We don't realize how much men are holding us back while we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 08:43 PM |
| 7 | Ladies please share your experiences with gamer guysI would love to have this discussion! Because... I work in the games industry, in one of the biggest studios in the world. Have been in this industry or adjacent for at least a decade. Which means I'm surrounded by gamer men. All the time. I firmly believe that the population of good, wholesome gamer men is probably on par with the population of good, non gamer men... Aka, very tiny, but it's not a dealbreaker. Why do I believe that... I have many friends and coworkers who based on what I have s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:45 PM |
| 87 | The main character is catfished by some ugly guy but she eventually falls in love with his “personality”. Safe to say this is my least favourite film everThe "hot guy" they had to make half Asian even though he looks totally white... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 07:51 PM |
| 70 | The main character is catfished by some ugly guy but she eventually falls in love with his “personality”. Safe to say this is my least favourite film everDude me too. I am Asian, I already know how rough it is for Asian guys to be seen as "masculine" or "desirable" as tall white men and it's so extra fucked up that they made him the "ugly catfish." I turned this in for a hot minute hoping to be wrong and then got disgusted and quit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 07:50 PM |
| 51 | Why do men “not want a relationship” because of a breakup ages ago, but women are still willing to seek real connections and love despite the amount of horror we’ve gone through?Last guy I dated got dumped by the last three women he was in relationships with. He used the "trauma" from that as an excuse to dump me, saying that if he put effort into a relationship it would go to waste just because his last three went to waste. Couldn't even do it directly to my face until I asked him why he was ignoring me so much. Men stinky | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 03:56 AM |
| 4 | Never beg a man to marry youEx never once posted a photo of us on social media in over a year. Never even took any, unless I asked. We went on a good handful of vacations together, where I took photos of him or our friends maybe took a group shot. He never once took a photo. After I dumped him for many other reasons, he got a new girlfriend, a younger, hotter woman with bigger boobs. A whole album of their "adventurous" hike went up on his social media in less than a month of photos he took (he's unfollowed now, that was m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 11:39 PM |
| 236 | I’ve reached a point in my life where I advise my child free friends not to procreate with men. Exhibit a:I saw this and immediately came to check FDS to see if it had already been posted! Another reason I don't want children. Men expect to split "50/50" while doing the most half assed version possible of their chores while this woman is in constant discomfort growing life inside her and still working (plus making more than him) and he has the tiny balls to call her LAZY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 11:33 PM |
| 6 | My ex posted all about our breakup on redditMy last two LVMs were sex pests too. I would be cooking (which they never helped with) and they would always choose moments when I was chopping food or cooking with hot oil to come and grab me. Told them COUNTLESS times not to do it. Sent them posts about a poor woman who had to get stitches because her husband grabbed her while she was cutting and she sliced her finger open. They KEPT DOING IT. Took me two trash men to fix my ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 03:04 PM |
| 5 | It's perfectly ok to be be single!I laughed at "having bad breath," had two exes with nauseating breath and it's actually scary for me to imagine meeting someone I really like only to find out he has bad breath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 01:05 AM |
| 112 | Moved into my own apartment today!DOESN'T IT FEEL GOOD? You're gonna wake up in a bed all to yourself, make your coffee how you like it, do whatever you wanna do, decorate how you want to decorate, eat what you want, clean up after only yourself, and answer to no one. It's going to be amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 05:33 AM |
| 5 | When men offer to cook for you (translation in the comments)Don't forget having to clean the massive kitchen mess after 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:21 PM |
| 12 | Ladies, stop giving HIS house free renovations with YOUR moneyLet me tell you a story about how fucking stupid I was Ex husband and I bought a house. I was still in my 20s, he was in his 30s but that's not really a good excuse for my stupidity. He said he'd put it under his name, "because if something went wrong, he didn't want me to take the fall." How gracious of him, I thought. Forget building equity and ownership of something I was paying into. He put the house under his name. He charged me half rent which he used to pay the mortgage. I spent almost $5… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:57 AM |
| 6 | Do whatever you want ladies because men don’t care!They would pick anyone sad enough to give them the time of day and then go back to lusting after Kim K and porn bodies anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:16 PM |
| 32 | WHY are Males?At my work gym this one disgusto was slinking around a machine, sitting on it but not using it, draping his towel over it... He finally got up for a second to refill his water bottle so I started to use the machine in front of it (leg lifts that stick your butt out) and he RAN BACK to the machine and sat staring straight ahead at my ass and not using it. I was so grossed out I jumped off the machine and left. No one to report it to because it was after hours and they had no staff. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 03:36 AM |
| 4 | My heart is getting really heavy as I'm preparing to leave my boyfriend. Any support appreciated.It will be hard, but you will be better for it. It's extra hard when you don't have a support network and there's a pandemic. But leaving sooner will allow you to build that network, make tons of new friends, and realize the big wide open world out there. Imagine waking up with a bed all to yourself, that you can lie in lazily with your cat as long as you want. You can eat what you want to eat, do what you want to do, watch the movies you want to watch, spend your time bettering yourself and rel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:10 PM |
| 10 | International Women's Day!March is National Celery Month and April is National Frog Month. Women just get one day... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 10:17 AM |
| 103 | It's not kink shaming; it's refusing to buy into the bullshit. It's calling out depravity that serves men while destroying the lives of women. It's rising up against a system of oppression every woman on earth is laboring under, due to no fault of our own.Loosely related, people are quick to call anything kink shaming in attempt to get someone to feel guilty about not wanting to do something and frankly it's annoying. If I say I don't want to try X sex act it doesn't mean I'm kink shaming everyone who likes doing that. I'm saying I personally don't want to do it. That should be the end of that conversation. I don't need to hear about how exciting double penetration is from a dude, and how I don't know if I'll like it until I try it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Women search for stocks and funds to invest in that reflect their core values. $GME is not it.Can't even buy stocks without getting called out for having a vagina Why the fuck is this even a news article | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 10:23 PM |
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