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stkboy99/r/seduction28/12/16 01:51 PM
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Yeah I misread it initially, but have updated my comment since. Best of luck buddy!
/r/seduction29/12/16 11:27 PM
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Well you no for sure now and there's no misunderstanding, wasted time and energy or needless confusion. You handled it like a man - way to go, bud!
/r/seduction29/12/16 04:57 AM
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Probably best to start off with a safe. "Hey. How's so and so" like "Hey How was Christmas" or "Hey how are you" is even better than "hey" IMO
/r/seduction28/12/16 08:26 PM
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Maybe something like "So, what's your New Years resolution? Mine is too drink more champagne. Want a glass? "
/r/seduction28/12/16 06:37 PM
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Is the mall close? If so no need, but if you're casually texting with her before you may want to throw it out there.
/r/seduction28/12/16 03:14 PM
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Thanks man. What makes it clear she wants to be FWB and it's not a LJBF (without the "just" part) ?
/r/seduction28/12/16 03:10 PM
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Yeah, I would assume to pay. If under drinking age, then going to Mall or somewhere else you two can hang out and connect is a solid option.
/r/seduction28/12/16 02:58 PM
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Try to go out more with friends, if you have friends who do that sort of thing. Have an extra drink before you go out. Try socializing in a group with your friends and some girls. I'd also recommend Mark Manson's Models as a great book to start
/r/seduction28/12/16 02:26 PM
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Thanks for the advice Jacob. You don't think this is coming on too strong, though? We went on a date just yesterday and discussed hanging out next week.
/r/seduction28/12/16 02:24 PM
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I think that's the smart/mature thing to do.
/r/seduction28/12/16 02:09 PM
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I would meet her at a bar, or at least go to a bar (if there's one nearby) after the movie. You definitely don't want to do just a movie. As far as paying, go in and order two tickets, if she's adamant about paying let her pay for hers. Aside from that just be yourself and go with the flow and don't worry about formalities.
/r/seduction28/12/16 02:08 PM
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I agree, that sounds like a good plan. Be straightforward in an authentic way. Not sure if you meant it literally, though personally I don't like sending or receiving just a "hey" text.
/r/seduction28/12/16 02:05 PM
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Agreed with NTSpike. You can't have your cake and eat it too. You need to chose one, either explicitly make your intentions be known or go back to being work friends. If you're still looking to escalate though, and understand the risk NTSpike mentioned, I would clearly invite her to something more explicitly romantic-date like. Maybe ask her our to a movie, and say something like "this time just us ;)" and keep steering the conversation away from work.
/r/seduction28/12/16 02:00 PM
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You can have a crazy/funny story about a New Years resolution in your sleeve. Can also ask her about that as well.
/r/seduction28/12/16 01:53 PM
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Perfect - so you have the time and means for it. That's what I was getting at. Not all do. Find something that you like, maybe something around your job. Maybe something thats really big in that field right now. Go to a conference or expo. Or something else. Read the news, whats interesting to you? Pick up a book and get a better understanding. Saw you had a post on hacking form watching Mr. Robot- google some common hacks- SQL/HTML injection. See you have inters in working out- become an expert…
/r/seduction03/10/16 11:59 PM
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And by the way, checking out your account it seems like you have a whole buch of interests already or at least things you're curious about - that's great! Chose a couple and stick with them.
/r/seduction03/10/16 11:54 PM
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24 is the best age to further your interests and to really develop yourself as a person BTW
/r/seduction03/10/16 11:48 PM
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Cool - so you have a job I'm guessing. Did you go to college? Is it something you like or just paying the bills?
/r/seduction03/10/16 11:47 PM
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How old are you and whats your situation?
/r/seduction03/10/16 11:19 PM
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When you don't have to preface your conversation with "sorry if the question is stupid". I know its all over the boards here, but read Model's by Mark Manson - I read it years ago, but still think back about the core concepts. Basically, you need to know what are you interested as a person. Who do you want to be me and what do YOU want to excel in? Is it a career, art, music, film, nutrition/health, a science topic, something very specific, anything - as long as it interests you. Then go execute…
/r/seduction03/10/16 10:56 PM
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Its not a look that holding you back, though you want to check out Men's Health magazine or something - it's likely a desperation/neediness that comes off as a byproduct of your insecurity which is evident from your post. Work on that first.
/r/seduction03/10/16 10:38 PM
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Value is fluid and changes by person and circumstance. I'm sure to your family, friends and maybe some ex's at some time you are very high value- nothing you say can really make them see you differently or very negatively aside for maybe in that moment. With women too, you may have days when you do well. Others you won't. It easy to group a few consecutive successes as a bad streak or successful streak. Having several successful streaks makes you more confident which leads to more success in the…
/r/seduction03/10/16 10:17 PM
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