| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 39 | Not settling until mid 40s? Ending up cheating statistically?False. It is just another "he had no success when he was younger, therefore he must be a bad person". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 03:28 PM |
| 8 | If the blue pill is correct, why does the friend zone exist?I would not call that friend zone. Friend zone is when you are friends with her, then she starts liking you but you fail to read her mind so you don't make a move, and since you were "too slow" to read her mind she will reject you later if you make a move because now you are seen as just a friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisWhat matters the most to me is less taxes and less spending. Generally the ones that support those things and have a chance of winning are conservative candidates. If there was a candidate with good chances of winning that supports both individual rights and free markets, then that would be my first choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Is it hypocritical for an experienced man to want an inexperienced woman?Since inexperienced women don't like inexperienced men, then it doesn't matter if it is hypocritical or not. They generally want a man that is experienced, they think that the dude that is a virgin is a walking redflag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 11:11 PM |
| 5 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?You could argue that anything is simply existing. "Oh, you got a nice gift for that friend's birthday this week? That is simply existing." "What? Today you helped your aunt to fix that broken thing? That is also simply existing." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 08:51 PM |
| 10 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?Yes, that is my point. Just because they are not complaining, it doesn't mean that they don't exist, or that they are not nice guys (morally good, kind, productive, no dating success). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 06:32 PM |
| 7 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?Ok, fair enough. But the general internet consensus is that "nice guys are not nice", which is a biased opinion since the nice ones usually would not self proclaim to be nice and complain online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 06:17 PM |
| 18 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?Availability bias. There are the self proclaimed "nice guys" that waste their time complaining about dating online, and the other "nice guys" that are just doing their thing like work, hobbies etc instead of dating or complaining. You only get to hear about the first group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 04:55 PM |
| 55 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?They mean that they have the traits that a good person/employee/citizen/adult/friend should have, but they lack the other traits that lead to romantic or sexual attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 03:53 PM |
| 5 | Late bloomer men should absolutely not date younger womenSomeone that has been neeting is not a late bloomer, it is someone that simply never bloomed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Late bloomer men should absolutely not date younger womenA late bloomer, by definition, has won. He finished his studies and is making money with a nice job. It should not matter that much if he is celibate, he can still be happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 04:15 PM |
| – | Now that my value is high, I don't want to commit anymore, is that common for men ?I would say that my interests changed. It is more satisfying to try to be a top tier athlete or to grind more at work. I don't know if women would say that my value is high, even if I think it is. I have no interest in becoming a fboy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 03:48 PM |
| – | Who told men that being nice will get them laid?It is an implicit assumption I guess. Be a nice guy, get educated, get a good job, get fit, and you will magically get a girlfriend when you are in your late 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | So many people try to make women give honest feedback to men, but it's just rude and unsafeI liked the feedback, "the truth" in my case was learning that I should lie about being inexperienced and fake it till I make it if I want to improve my odds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Do you think you can actually sense misogyny?I bet that most sense "introvert guy = sexist". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:37 PM |
| – | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"Another "self improvement guarantees a gf post". No, it does not. Is it still worth it? Yes, at least you will be alone with a nice body and a lot of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:32 PM |
| 5 | It's not that women's preferences are shallow, but that they're really homogenousMaybe it is just a bias from looking at what we lack. For instance, I have looks and a good career, what I lack is being more sociable, so if/when I "fix" what I lack, I will believe that women are attracted to charisma and confidence, and I will ignore that I already had the looks, education, money and career. So they are homogeneous (confident, 6 figures, 6 feet, 6 inches), but we focus on the last thing that we had to improve on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:39 PM |
| – | Women have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to socially awkward menThat is not the same thing, not even close. My point is just that women's dating standards are very high and there is no point in complaining, it won't change a thing. Men are required to have above average physical attributes, career and social skills. You are not allowed to read the lines wrong and either think that she is being flirty when she is being friendly (creepy), or that she is being friendly when she is being flirty (oblivious, passive). That is the way the world is, you can still go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 01:28 PM |
| – | Women have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to socially awkward menThat is the way the world is, now stop bitching and moaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 12:58 PM |
| 33 | Just because older men are doing better than younger men , it doesn't mean it's not a problem to struggle in your youthBut does it really get better? Women keep saying how there must be something wrong with an inexperienced guy and that they won't take any chances, or that they don't want to have to "teach" an inexperienced guy. Maybe as the guys get older, we will see those same statistics moving to older age groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 11:43 AM |
| – | What is an "below average" man ? how do these men differ from average men?Yes, I am above average on education, status, net worth and income, on looks I am average, but for dating purposes I am below average because I stay at home watching anime and playing games, I don't even bother going out (work from home). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 09:09 PM |
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