stollarbela Archive

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2	The biggest Red Flags to be aware of when you meet someone. Don’t let looks cloud your judgment of her character I don't disagree with the list, at all. I think its pretty reasonable and fair. Not just for women either, I think they're pretty indicative of a person to avoid for a long term relationship/partnership. I think they're fair for men and women. No issue with the general content of the list. Details I don't 100% agree with but its not worth it to split hairs. What I don't agree with is this person above generalization to avoid American women under 35. That's nasty. There are roughly 73 million Ame…	/r/seduction	01/12/21 02:12 PM
2	The biggest Red Flags to be aware of when you meet someone. Don’t let looks cloud your judgment of her character Pretty nasty generalization	/r/seduction	01/12/21 02:03 AM
4	The biggest Red Flags to be aware of when you meet someone. Don’t let looks cloud your judgment of her character There are plenty of men whose world revolves social media. There are plenty of materialistic men. That’s why I said I don’t agree with the details but the general statements apply.	/r/seduction	30/11/21 10:53 PM
7	The biggest Red Flags to be aware of when you meet someone. Don’t let looks cloud your judgment of her character I fully got on this post expecting some unreasonable alpha male/incel BS. But I gotta say, I think these are pretty reasonable and fair. I don’t agree with all the details but the major points are pretty spot on. (I think these red flags would apply to anyone looking for a healthy partner to build a long term relationship, regardless of gender!)	/r/seduction	30/11/21 09:22 PM
0	When you see a girl with another guy... "how do you two know each other?" is a good one	/r/seduction	29/11/21 06:08 PM
3	[deleted by user] I’m happy to help! Feel free to Dm anytime. Good luck!!	/r/seduction	17/11/21 05:30 PM
7	[deleted by user] Honestly, you’re counting your eggs before they hatch. Just ask if you can grab a coffee or a drink with both of them and try to make plans first. These girls could completely be all talk and are just sexting you. Both could be flakes, both could be the real deal... it could be 50/50. You’re not an asshole. You don’t know these women and really owe them anything. However, if it does come to the point where you’re about to be their first time make sure you have a clear conversation about what the…	/r/seduction	17/11/21 05:24 PM
1	[deleted by user] Do they know each other? Are you hanging out with both of them? Have you met them?	/r/seduction	17/11/21 05:19 PM
45	Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold? Because she didn’t ask you to find her. She didn’t give it to you. You searched her out and that could have made her feel unsafe. She didn’t invite you to that part of her life.	/r/seduction	17/11/21 04:11 AM
1	Invited my crush to a bar then got with another girl, did I mess up? Also best possible outcome? Don’t think so. A lot of women actually don’t like players or assholes and get turned off by competition. Women are not simple economic problems to be solved.	/r/seduction	17/11/21 12:34 AM
1	Invited my crush to a bar then got with another girl, did I mess up? Yes..... You said she should A) feel dumb now- how do you know she was aware of OPs interest in her? B) she will learn to value your time - where did OP say she disrespected his time? C) rather than just use you for free drinks- where were the free drinks? How do you know she wasn’t interested in Op and leaving with someone else DID hurt her feelings? You don’t. You made it all up. If you’re out romantically with a girl, then yeah you might pay for her drinks. You took the first opportunity to m…	/r/seduction	17/11/21 12:30 AM
1	Invited my crush to a bar then got with another girl, did I mess up? I’m not a wild feminist. This guy isn’t even mad or annoyed with the girl in question but you made up the narrative in your head that she was using him for her gain or to get something for free. You don’t even know if he got her free drinks at all. All assumptions you made based on the fact she’s a woman.	/r/seduction	17/11/21 12:02 AM
-1	Invited my crush to a bar then got with another girl, did I mess up? You spelled misogynist wrong	/r/seduction	16/11/21 11:50 PM
5	Invited my crush to a bar then got with another girl, did I mess up? This!! I would instantly think you weren’t into me if you did this. I get immediately turned off by competition and don’t like players! That doesn’t mean it’s ruined though... there is definitely a way to recover! And it’s totally normal to bring a friend a long if you’re going to a club to meet a guy you are romantically interested in!! Especially if you work there she might have been concerned she would be there awkward and in the way.	/r/seduction	16/11/21 11:35 PM
-2	Invited my crush to a bar then got with another girl, did I mess up? How do you know she was just using him for free drinks?	/r/seduction	16/11/21 11:28 PM