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Scouting America's isn't all coed, it allows individual troops the option to be single sex or coed. The troop my son is in, is a boys only troop. There's is also a girls only troop out of the same sponsor organization. We've only been to the same camp, at the same time, one time in the 4 years we've been in the troop. The organization still allows boys to learn to be men and follow the oath & law as they see fit.
/r/MensRights18/06/26 10:09 PM
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Probably screwed over? What is this? Don't deal in absolutes, we get mad when women go off on "every man is a . . . " fill in your favorite derogatory term. We know nothing about his history, we only know he's dealing with a horrible situation and trying to sort out his life
/r/MensRights01/05/25 01:04 PM
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Sounds like the standard BS so many narcissistic women pull and it's going to kill yourself relationship. If you can't bring up something without her deflecting it's value to you and make it about her, you're going to build resentment. That's going to lead you to withdraw and stop talking and opening up in the relationship on any topic. You need to have a direct and open conversation about her listening and communication skills. If she can't do that, and work with you to better the relationship,…
/r/MensRights29/04/25 03:45 PM
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And this is why home security cameras are a must for me now, inside and outside my home.
/r/MensRights29/04/25 12:50 PM
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Suicide rates and homeless would back that up. Once a man's usefulness is over no one cares what happens him
/r/MensRights28/02/25 12:24 PM
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Still waiting for her to fix the damn roads, as she's promised for years. All fluff and no substance as always.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 03:57 AM
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Even if law changed in 5-10, the judges will still be in with today's biases and youll still be on the short end of the stick.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 03:16 PM
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You have any home security cameras? Sounds like it's only a matter of time before she accuses you of domestic violence. Cover your ass and find some discrete cameras so you can record events inside the home and have proof of her threats of self harm. My standard advice is to discretly pack a go-bag for yourself and stash it with a trusted friend. If you have to leave the home, either by choice or by police, you'll have some means of getting by for a few days until you can unfuck the situation. C…
/r/askMRP28/05/24 06:18 PM
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Hindsight is always 20-20. My house now has cameras inside and out.
/r/askMRP10/05/24 06:36 PM
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This was in 2018, divorce took a year, been out and happily free with 50/50 of my kidd. She was losing it, couldn't handle consequences of her affair, had a part time job that would never pay for her to live on her own. She instigated fight after fight, screaming & yelling, hitting me trying to provoke me so she could justify being a victim. Put the kids in the middle of us and trying to leverage them as pawns against me. My attoeney was no help, just "dont engage her" which isnt helpful. I got …
/r/askMRP10/05/24 04:37 PM
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I had the same plan, however my ex when batshit crazy and I had to run out. Really wish I had a go bag. We don't plan to leave but if you are forced to, be ready. Pack a change or two of clothes, basic hygiene, spare meds, phone cord and some cash and have your best friend keep it for you. If you are forced to to, you'll have means to get by until things calm down. Plan for the kids too, a change of clothes, book, cards, etc
/r/askMRP10/05/24 04:21 PM
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It's so weird, today I learned that I identify as a Spanish Woman. Don't let beard and adams apple distract you from the fact that I have cramps today and need two days off. And let's not correlate that my cramps come the day after eating Thai food...
/r/MensRights17/02/23 03:45 PM
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You forgot to add "If this was a man, it would be a felony..."
/r/MensRights30/01/23 01:03 PM
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The emasculation of European men so their women can fuck who ever they want and have financial support. I believe it started in France with their courts setting a precedent of "it's in the beat interest of the child & mother to have financial support of a man, regardless of biological connection to the child". I've seen posts that it's illegal to have DNA testing, or having testing done in other countries.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 05:38 PM
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Wait, so was Epstein an 'expanded suicide' too? Wtf does that mean? "I'm really sure they wanted to kill themselves, they said they didn't want to die, but you know how depression hits people and they have weird thoughts, so I helped them die by force feeding a punch of pills to her so it'd be a peaceful suicide".
/r/MensRights03/11/22 11:56 AM
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After a messy divorce, I picked up some blink cameras for indoor and outdoor use. It's helped me feel more secure inside my home because I know the common areas (kitchen, living room, family room) are recorded. Might be worth it to look into some, if you're interested in pursuing a relationship with a woman again.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 06:02 PM
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You were fighting her emotions with your logic, and that's always a losing battle. In my general experience, women get a few drinks and get chatty and want to ride some emotions, and to get gossip. It was just the two of you so she decided, maybe subconsciously, that she was going to get her fix by poking the bear. Your refusal to engage created more emotional engagement for her and got her excited because it created a feed back loop.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 12:00 PM
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Go do your trolling somewhere else.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 11:53 AM
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The only thing in this world you have total control over is yourself, your thoughts, and how you chose to react to something. You cannot control how other people react, feel, think, or what they do. Don't waste energy on trying to change people, let them show their true colors and move on. This will likely mean losing friends, or keeping quiet as they make mistakes and learn things the hard way. Thats ok, it's their journey, maybe it'll work for them, maybe not. You have your own journey to make…
/r/RedPillWorkplace08/09/22 01:44 PM
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Do yourself a favor pay the few bucks to get an app that does text to pdf so you can have a single document. I started using an app called SMS Backup, paid $8 for it. Works pretty good. I now have a pdf of all texts from my ex for the last two years, broken down into 3 pdf files, and saved in three locations for backup.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 01:54 PM
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To add to /u/anoduck, Assuming youre in the USA, the police will say "anything you say can, and will be used against you". They do not say it will be used for you. Nothing you say will be used for your defense or to help your case. This means, if you talk to the police or campus police/security, they will lie, coerce you, skew anything to confuse or intimidate you; all to you to back you into a verbal corner and get you to inadvertently confess to things to have not done. They are trained in int…
/r/MensRights10/08/22 12:59 PM
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The UK practically invented our current idea of common-law marriage.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 03:30 PM
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"It was the cars fault, I swear! If it didn't want to kill him, it shouldn't have been able to start or drive".
/r/MensRights06/06/22 12:51 PM
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I've gotten shit on a fair amount for saying certain groups of people need to be sterilized. The gene pool needs a healthy dose of chlorine. You kill your own kids, sterilized. Have your parental rights terminated, sterilized. Male & female pedophiles, sterilized. I see so many people in my job (social work) that don't deserve kids, or cannot mentally care for them. Drug addicts having kids that are born addicted bother me the most.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 01:17 AM
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So the can pad their statistics and say 'last year we helped 5000 women' and ignore any man who need help. Because helping men won't help them bring in any additional funds.
/r/MensRights01/09/21 11:55 AM
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100% thought about it before.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 04:40 PM
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It's amazing how counseling is so amazing and helpful with its only about your SO's problems. When the spot light gets turned around it changes everything. Always hated the hyprocacy of that. Or being told my counselor sucks because I was getting the help I needed, and not being changed into what she wanted me to be. Thank God I'm out of that relationship and with a woman who communicates with me instead of talking down to me.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 03:42 PM
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Yep, tried twice with the Ex and both time I was magically wrong on most points. Told my counselor about it and got a confused look and a "I wasn't in the session and can't comment about people I haven't personally evaluated..." so he thought it was off but couldn't make a professional comment about it. And I'm not saying I was perfect. The ex and I both had flaws that played off one another, but the issues brought up by marriage counselors should have been a near 50/50 mix between us. It should…
/r/MensRights16/08/21 11:11 AM
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It took me a long time to find a good therapist/counselor. Growing up my parents put my sister in therapy because she, well, she just wasn't a nice person and had issues. They had me go to counseling too since it was a family issue. Went through various counselors over the years and not surprisingly they were all women and many had their agenda. Was told the usual shitty Cosmo lines of "if she's unhappy, maybe you need to do more and help her". Fuck that I work 2 jobs, one full, one part time, n…
/r/MensRights15/08/21 03:22 PM
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Any documentation to back that up? I had a vasectomy 7 years ago and was not told about that.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 07:18 PM
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Perfect example of Briffaults Law "The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. — Robert Briffault, The Mothers. Vol. I, p. 21" "Sure you did a lot of stuff before, but what are you doing for me now?"
/r/MensRights21/04/21 02:30 PM
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To summarize Mark Twain, never argue with an idiot, they'll beat you down with experiencce. They've proven theyre not willing to listen to relevant information or entertain a calm, logical discussion with you. As they say you cant use logic to overcome emotion. Move forward knowing theyre not there to support men, including you. Do your best to become the best man you can be. If possible remove that person from your life and move forward with more positive, supportive people.
/r/MensRights20/11/20 12:37 PM
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That's why she's my ex.
/r/MensRights25/09/20 02:51 AM
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Still wont matter, even under self defense. "You bigger than her, you should be able to take it" is all too common.
/r/MensRights24/09/20 01:15 PM
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My cousin in the Army shared the common term of "Dependapotamus" with me recently. Great term
/r/MensRights06/03/20 05:10 PM
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I had a vasectomy after my second child was born. Even though I was married, I thought it was the best decision I had made. A few years later, she had an affair and I divorced her. When I stated dating again, the decision to get the vasectomy years before was by far my best decision.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 01:24 AM
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Understand that her sense of entitlement is going to skyrocket with the divorce. She's going to want everything you handed over because of the pussy pass. Hypergamy on overload. Follow the golden rule of divorce. Lawyer up, delete social media, hit the gym. Do exactly what your lawyer says. Ask a ton of questions. Can you record your conversations or is Texas a dual consent state? What evidence do you need, will what you have work? What is your worst case estimate? Can you move out until the div…
/r/askMRP13/02/20 10:31 PM
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That was my first thought too. "Guess a lot of businesses are going to change address to a new state to avoid this law".
/r/MensRights06/02/20 02:44 PM
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Fixing the 'pay gap' by encouraging men to take lower paying jobs, got it. Why be an engineer and earn really good money when you could go into social work and live a little above the poverty line? Come on boys, go pursue your dreams of mediocrity in the liberal arts fields! Said Sarcastically as hell, of course.
/r/MensRights27/11/19 03:23 PM
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I try to be fair and want to see the good in people and life, but it's shit like this that makes it so fucking hard as a father to know how to best raise my son and daughter.
/r/MensRights16/10/19 03:21 PM
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Email leaves a written record. Of the teacher replied with more discriminatory comments, they could take it to the administration for higher level discipline. Or if it's an American University, get laughed at by the liberal twat waffles who run the education system.
/r/MensRights16/10/19 01:03 PM
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Good luck proving it was self defense to a cop or judge.
/r/MensRights22/09/19 01:10 PM
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Good luck finding anyone who'd arrest her, a standing Judge with a pussy pass is about as close to invincible as you can get. I really wish I could add /s, but it's not sarcasm, funny, or ironic.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 05:06 PM
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Courts usually have a free or very low cost legal aid center that can offer advice and paperwork. Call the family court and ask then where the legal aid center is nearest you. From what I've seen, police won't enforce parenting time so you have to get a court order. Document everything, use text or email to communicate to the ex that you want your parenting time, because text and email offer a paper trail of your efforts and her replies.
/r/MensRights01/07/19 11:35 PM
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I know it happens, friend of a friend was in jail for 20 years for it. Guy charged and hit him for parking in 'his' spot on a public street, he punched him back, the attacker fell on the sidewalk whacking his head and died of some brain bleed. Never felt right that he was jailed for defending himself and within a reasonable reply of force. That's a case of "don't start something you can't finish". My point in the original comment was it seems like a lot of the story is missing. "She teased him, …
/r/MensRights23/05/19 07:57 PM
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I feel like there is a lot of this story missing. Not sure you should die for teasing someone.
/r/MensRights23/05/19 06:29 PM
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I don't follow your logic her. You said you don't want to throw around claims aren't true, then defined the truth of the matter with "technically rape because he was intoxicated". So where is the false claim? He wanted sex, but was so intoxicated he couldn't consent. That's rape. As always, the litmus test is to retell the story and flip the genders. Girl wants sex, calls a guy over and she so drunk she can't consent, he fucks her anyway. It's rape. So hate her for being a rapist and a shitty co…
/r/MensRights07/02/19 12:08 AM
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You should never think, last alone need crazy enough to say that out loud. God, fate, the universe at large, take your pick, will fuck you every time. Things can always get worse.
/r/MensRights24/01/19 03:13 AM
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Time to go to Dollar shave club, owned by Unilever. Or Shavemob.com which appears to be independent of the giant conglomerate companies.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 04:17 PM
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Thank you, that was well said
/r/MensRights10/01/19 04:52 PM
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I believe there are consequences for voluntarily quiting employment or voluntarily reducing income and if caught they do not make adjustments, but let you go go into arrears on your payments. Stay in arrears long enough and they'll jail you for a weekend or longer as incentive to get current on you child support. I also enjoy having my own home, losing or quiting my job would likely result in me losing my house, and a cascade of other negative consequences. In the grand scheme the ~$400 I pay is…
/r/MensRights10/01/19 04:25 PM
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IANAL but with my recent divorce in Michigan, child support that I have to pay is based on the percentage of yearly overnights the parents have with the kids, then by individual income. Some expenses like medical premiums, or day care costs are factored in. That being said, I have 50/50 parenting time and shared legal custody, I pay for the kids to be on my health/dental/vision plan. According to Friend of the Court I make $3100/month more than she does, there is about a $9/hr difference in pay,…
/r/MensRights10/01/19 04:10 PM
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But what if you're only mostly dead? There's a big difference between mostly dead and all dead.
/r/MensRights11/12/18 02:09 PM
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A little paranoia is necessary unfortunately to protect yourself from these issues and potential allegations. You never know who is crazy and will try to ruin your life to satisfy a personal need for attention. The last few years have taught me to be very cautious when dealing with any women, whether at work or public.
/r/MensRights05/12/18 04:39 PM
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I think this is the better answer. One, you get some 'nice guy' bf looking to kick your ass because his girl don't want him. Two, my grandma told me "look at the beginning to see the end". She's cheating on her boy friend, she'll cheat on you in time too. Best to avoid people without the integrity to break up first, then date around.
/r/seduction30/10/18 04:20 PM
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There's good and bag in all things. PUA strategy is just one more category that you need to review, find what works for you and discard the rest. Personally I believe it's an important endeavor to learn some PUA and seduction technique. It helps people understand 'the game' and to 'just get it' for how men and women interact, flirt, and date. That it doesn't work every time, that there's isn't a one size fits all gambit, that we all have success and failures. I think if it were more widespread a…
/r/seduction24/10/18 08:37 PM
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Honestly it doesn't bother me. What I'm scared of though is how it will change our culture and how it's going to affect my son. He's going to be 7 soon and I'm scared that no matter how good a job I do as his father, he's going to have a much more difficult life because of the BS that's happening now. Being a good dad is hard. Being a good, single Dad with 50% custody and parent time, feels overwhelming. I have a 5 year old daughter too, and I'm scared for her because of all of this. That she wo…
/r/MensRights12/10/18 08:18 PM
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I thought they were afraid of 7 because it was a registered six offender
/r/seduction09/10/18 02:02 PM
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Where's #2?
/r/seduction09/10/18 01:54 PM
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If someone in CA makes a GoFundMe or similar, I'll chip in a few bucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/18 10:09 PM
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Have you called the police for domestic violence? You have witnesses to the assault. If you're going to divorce her, expect things to get much worse before they get better. You best set yourself up properly now as the victim of her aggression. Have legal documentation on your side, don't let her take the offense and make false accusations. Search the sub for how to preempt DV accusations.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 05:49 PM
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All the more reason to get rid of it. It's an albatross around her neck. Call a mortgage broker and ask about government programs to help with an upside down mortgage. Worse case is a short sell or foreclosure. It still doesn't make sense to keep a house that's going to only put her further in debt.
/r/MensRights27/07/18 12:41 PM
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I'm forced to think of the old adage. If you meet an asshole in the morning, you meet an asshole. If every one you meet if an asshole, it's probably not them. Are all women the problem, or only the select percentage you're willing to look at? Might want to step back and look at the situation more objectively see what's really going on.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 12:57 PM
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Reread it. Sell the house. Math isn't hard. If your income ($0) is less than expenses (mortgage & bills), then you cannot afford to live there. Pretty sure I could teach that to a dog or a cat and it'd understand the concept. Sell the house, take the equity and move to a place where you can find a job and have affordable housing. Is it the perfect plan? Nope but neither is divorce. Life gets shit on, it sucks, you do what you have to do to move on. Swallow pride & ego, make a 1, 3, 5, and 10 yea…
/r/MensRights26/07/18 12:32 PM
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So it's ok for your wife to cheat on you, be impregnated by another man, and let you raise a child that isn't yours, so long as the kid looks like you? What happens if she abandons your or dies? Now you're left to raise another man's kid. Guarantee you he isn't going to pay you child support. We aren't taking about step kids, but an active and ongoing deceit to make you pay for another man's kid. A deceit that you now seemingly have no legal recourse to correct. But hey, the kid sorta, kinda loo…
/r/MensRights17/07/18 04:09 PM
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Nice to meet you Mr President. may I apply for permenant citizenship? I'm tired of this planet.
/r/MensRights10/07/18 04:08 PM
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The question is, have the idiots of the world put him on a soap box, or in a zoo cage? Are they fascinated by him because they appreciate what he says and relate? Or just saying "look at that monkey pretending to be smart, put him in the glass box so we can see what he does next"?
/r/MensRights23/04/18 07:53 PM
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I know, right! If only he had the decency to die so she could collect on life insurance and Social Security. Instead of inconventiently being a daily reminder of his sacrifice. That's sarcastic to an extent, but I'd prefer death over paralysis. Living in that state would drive me mad.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 05:44 PM
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Don't worry, he's not alone in that thought.
/r/askMRP13/04/18 07:20 PM
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I do and wish I had known that then. It's all good info for the future though I hope to never be in this situation and need to use this info again.
/r/MensRights23/03/18 05:51 PM
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My state does not require second part consent. When she realized that I was recording she became more aware of I was doing with my phone and on occasion said she didn't permit me to record her. It's all hindsight now. And I bought a body camera that's more discreet so I can record without needing to go to my phone for it. I like the statement though and will use it
/r/MensRights23/03/18 05:49 PM
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Because it's a woman. There's a cultural precedent that they are the weaker sex and must be protected. At all cost. The people who feel that way will gladly sacrifice or kill a dozen men to protect one woman, regardless of the quality of character of that woman. Plenty of stories of women beating on a man, he finally defends himself and a bunch of SJW's step in and kick the shit out of the guy. She was the problem, she was the abuser, she battered him, but the cry of a woman triggers a instinctu…
/r/MensRights23/03/18 01:36 PM
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The smart weak men don't pick fights. Well, they do if there's an opportunity for legal gain. Plenty of men would take a punch if they thought they could sue and win a bank roll.
/r/MensRights23/03/18 01:21 PM
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Thank you. I copied my attorney on the link asking if I could be applied to my situation and if Court of Appeals will allow us to submit new info or if it strictly a review of procedure by the lower court. Hopefully it will help.
/r/MensRights23/03/18 01:17 PM
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A Curly said "Day Ain't over yet". Please don't jinx me with more bullshit charges.
/r/MensRights23/03/18 11:56 AM
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I was raised not to lie, to tell the truth and maintain my integrity. While that is a virtuous life, it certainly fucked me on several occasions. That is something I should edit into the post, if questioned by policy for a similar matter, say as little as possible, admit to nothing, and ask for an attorney. I should have told the sheriff deputies "Officers, we are going through a divorce, it has become a horribly bitter situation. I'd like to contact my attorney now and you can ask for her any a…
/r/MensRights23/03/18 05:14 AM
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One of my female friends asked how I could ever be in a relationship again and the best analogy I have is this. If you poke a dog and it bites you, do you hate all dogs? Or do you lean a lesson an approach other dogs with a bit more caution? There are a lot of good woman out there, but they're quiet and don't look for that kind of attention. It's the crazies that make all the noise, but thats true for any group. The few women who know of my situation are in your boat, appalled and ready to infli…
/r/MensRights23/03/18 04:58 AM
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I'll be reviewing the legal insurance coverage that I'm enrolled in to see if and how much the cover for an appeal. I have that typical male trait of not wanting to ask for help or charity, yet I've been homeless for the last five months, living with friends and family - on their charity. Ironic. Thank you for the offer and for understanding, that means so much to me.
/r/MensRights23/03/18 04:16 AM
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It really is.
/r/MensRights23/03/18 04:11 AM
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One of my first questions to my attorney when I retained her was "Can I legally record conversations?" She told me, my state allows one way recording unless the other party specifically stated they do not want to be recorded. I can record my conversations, but not a conversation I was not involved in, meaning no bugging a car or purse, no bugging my home. When I got the feeling a conversation would be going into dangerous territory, I would casually pull out my phone and act like I was checking …
/r/MensRights23/03/18 12:29 AM
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Mgtow is very tempting. I'm not sure I'm willing to go to that level yet. I know I don't want any real, long, relationships. I'll be much more cautious about vetting women going forward and I have no intention of ever marrying again. Its a pointless risk but commonlaw marriage may end up biting men in the ass too. Probably best to just build up a harem of women and cycle them out regularly, I think I prefer MILFs so you can take a lunchable when you leave their place. Always nice to have a snack…
/r/MensRights22/03/18 11:35 PM
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I'm very fortunate to have legal insurance offered by my employer. I signed up a few yesterday ago to get a will and trust created and never disenrolled. The $25/month had been invaluable. It gave me 15 hours with my attorney before I have out of pocket, discounted 25%, and legal fees for the misdemeanor are covered in full. I believe the appeal is covered also put I have to look at work tomorrow. If the appeal is not covered, I may have to look at crowd source finding to afford it. Thank you fo…
/r/MensRights22/03/18 11:25 PM
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Very similar circumstances. Like you, my go to at a certain point is to leave the house for a while so I can cool down. Let everything sit and stew, then assess the arguement to see if there is a right or wrong, or if it's just ego cock blocking me. Unfortunately, last time I tried that, she basically assaulted me while I was in my car. When I grabbed my phone to call the police because I was scared shitless, she managed to climb over me and takes my phone from my hand then run into the house. E…
/r/MensRights22/03/18 09:29 PM
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July 2017, the soon to be Ex said "I'm not happy, I don't know who I am, what I want. I need space away from you to figure it out". The next day I started calling and interviewing attorneys and retained my current attorney a month later. My divorce is all done, just waiting on the judge to sign the finalized decree. The same attorney handling the divorce is handling the DV Case. We were able to get the divorce through while the DV was pending. I have my 50/50 parenting time and joint physical an…
/r/MensRights22/03/18 09:13 PM
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At 38 years old, I know that this divorce is for the best, she didn't want to be married to me anymore and took a cheap way out. I'm accepted and it turns out a lot women would like to be with me. What's hard is losing my dream for the kids, the nuclear family idea that I had envisioned for their youth. Kids are resilient and will adapt, just sucks that they have to. Also means I'm vetting any future women much more thoroughly. I don't plan to ever put myself in a similar situation. If nothing e…
/r/MensRights12/03/18 01:46 PM
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I did trust my wife, right up till the point I found her affair, ending a nearly 15 year relationship and 8.5 year marriage, breaking up a family with two young kids.
/r/MensRights12/03/18 03:34 AM
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Yes, please close your Reddit now, this was a waste of a post. Telling men looking for help with creating, refining, or expanding their parenting abilities and techniques to close their source of information is counter productive. Maybe you sit on your phone reading Reddit while your kids act like animals, but many of us don't. Reddit is for personal time after kids bedtimes, during breaks at work, waiting for an appointment, etc. If you want to help men here with their parenting abilities, prov…
/r/RedPillParenting05/03/18 02:48 PM
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You're missing the point. You need to call the police and report domestic violence, start a trail now, before she calls the police calling DV on you for knocking her hand off your hoodie. Cops don't care about who's right out wrong, just answering the call and protecting the victim who called first. Get Child Services involved since it was done in front of children. Find an attorney, a men's rights attorney, retain them quickly and Khan s for laws in your state about leaving or staying in your h…
/r/askMRP05/03/18 02:22 PM
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It's years too late for that now.
/r/askMRP05/03/18 02:13 PM
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/u/reallythatfast, you really need to read this one again, with out your ego in the way and fucking with you. If you read this post as if it was from another MRPer you'd think the same way as W&S. But because it's you posting, you think its different, that youre a snowflake. When a woman says she wants to separate, or mentions separation, if you're nice you pack her bags for her and leave them at the door for her, or you throw her shit out the window. Have at least a little back bone in this. Wh…
/r/askMRP05/03/18 01:30 PM
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I'd say that was a good choice. You kept the message simple and age appropriate. Using RP terms in a presumably liberal high school classroom isn't going to end well. The message through the examples was RP and well written. Your son is lucky to have you and will appreciate this letter for a long time. Good luck on your journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/18 06:23 PM
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In my state, that's a felony. You can only record yourself in a conversation. Hiding recorders or gps teachers on a car are going to get you in big trouble.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 08:02 PM
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Crazy certainly can come for you, but it's best not to advertise with flashing lights and neon. Just sucks that no matter what we (men) do, or don't do, any woman can cry wolf and we're fucked.
/r/MensRights02/02/18 06:02 PM
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Might be different in the UK, but I don't think so, all the police need is a woman to say a few words with nothing to back up her allegations. And they have justification. In this case, withholding evidence does deserve to be addressed and restitution made to the real victim. I'm in full support of "make her do the same punishment he endured" and let her sit in jail for three months. Let her support him until he is able to establish himself with new employment and a new home since she ripped tho…
/r/MensRights01/02/18 06:26 PM
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If you loan a friend $500 and never see them again, was it a good investment? If she doesn't pay you back, make arrangements to repay you, or if you see her spending money on shit, then dump her and move on. It was a $500 mistake that may have saved you thousands in the future. Count yourself lucky to have found out her value early on.
/r/seduction18/01/18 05:02 PM
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No, it belongs here too. As they say, MRP can't fix a marriage. If or when your marriage goes to hell, this kind of planning is invaluable. Be proactive, not reactive if you think divorce is a real possibility. Even if it's a thin chance hedge your bets and start documenting, recording, see a counselor, talk with your kids, etc. If I had read this 4 months ago, my life would be very different right now, and in a positive way. Thankfully, a prior post had laid out some similar ground work and I'm…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/17 07:18 PM
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Having been in a similar situation, take this for what it's worth. Get cleaned up as best you can, buy a new shirt and pants if need be, get a haircut, shave or style your facial hair, whatever, but get cleaned up. Find a good bar/pub/coffee shop that is busy, and start flirting and talking to any woman you can. If you want to kick your oneitis, the only way is to have more than one woman to spread your attention to. I'm in the middle of my divorce, it sucks, I feel my kids are going to be hurt …
/r/askMRP11/10/17 05:35 PM
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You do realize your in Redpill, right? You sound like some tree hugger who believes that children are logical, rational, little human adults. That if you just talk to a 4 year old about not being a blue pill pussy, it'll all be ok. Instead of teaching him by my example and by word. Fuck that tree hugging shit. Kids are like puppies. If you want a good adult dog, you work your ass of training them when they're young. And yes, that means a swat or spanking occasionally. But the dog learns, and so …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 06:02 PM
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Exactly, be respectful until it's time to not be. Children don't understand nuance of behavior or social contract. Hell, lots of adults don't understand it.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 03:05 PM
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He was creating a set of behaviors. You have to start that practically at birth. You can always loosen up your rules as kids get older and demonstrate respect and responsibility, but it's exceptionally difficult to enforce stricter rules as they get older.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 02:53 PM
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It's unfortunate that so many men pretending to be fathers don't understand this. Yes, I love my son, I want a good relationship with him, but I want him to avoid making the BP mistakes I made. If teaching him requires me to act and look like an asshole, so be it. As long as he learns and matures into a good, badass of a man, grabbing life by the balls and giving a victory cry; then I'll be happy. For now, I'm his father, not a bff. I'll be his friend when he's 18+ and not my legal responsibilit…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 02:50 PM
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You'll never get what you want then. Girls can smell it on you, and it's repulsive. Don't worry about getting laid and it'll happen.
/r/seduction23/09/17 06:37 PM
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And that's the problem, you probably stink of desperation. If you wanted to get laid so badly, go pay for it from a professional. Believe me when I say this. If you make pussy your life's goal, you'll never be happy. You'll end up marrying some harpie who will fuck you just week enough to get you to propose to her. A bitch who is looking for her turn as a bride regardless of who the groom. Then a year or two later, you'll be in the same position, desperate for pussy and legal bind to one woman f…
/r/seduction23/09/17 06:32 PM
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Thank you, I'll download and check it out
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/17 01:36 PM
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I have a new appreciation for Louis CK's bit about the difference between men fighting and women fighting. Sure a man will take a swing maybe you exchange some punches, next day, you're good. Buy a 6 pack, go split it and you're friends again. A woman's fight isn't physical, it's to crush your spirit and soul. To reach into your intimate places and destroy all that she can. Once youre a broken shell of a man, she'll feel satisfied.
/r/askMRP20/09/17 12:37 PM
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It's not mentioned often, at least that I've seen, but do you have any recommendations for books/blogs/videos for someone to begin learning about Buddhism and Meditation?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/17 11:57 AM
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If she's turned on and horny enough to come out and outright initiate sex, all you have to do is not fuck up and play along with her. Then fuck her good and hard.
/r/askMRP15/09/17 10:26 PM
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Wow. You might as well start planning for the divorce now. I wish I would have planned mine better. She is going to rape you in court if she files for divorce. Or she will just continue to leech benefits and an easy life off of you untill she has a new higher value man to swing up to, then file and rape you. Reread NMMNG. Then read WISNIFG again. Start enforcing boundaries and cutting out disrespect from her. Believe me, I'm learning this the hard way right now. My son to be ex flat out told me …
/r/askMRP04/09/17 03:48 PM
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You got that right.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 05:12 PM
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Guess some people have to learn things the hard way. I've done it the hard way myself a few times and like to think I've learned better than to do it again. Good luck to you.
/r/askMRP29/08/17 04:06 PM
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Yup, you nailed it. Sucking it up and facing the demons would have been much easier if I had internalized and acted quicker to NMMNG and the advice here. May not have saved the marriage but I'd have put myself into a better position for my divorce. Damage is done, time to protect my kids, find a new home, kick out the cheating wife, and find me a nice tall redhead with big tits and a sweet ass. And do my best not to be the beta faggot I was.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 04:01 PM
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That's funny, my soon to be ex-wife is the same way. I know she's mentally blown the money from her half of the house sale. She had the balls to tell me that I needed to make a "good tool box, with new tools for her house so you will have tools there when I come over to fix things". Just laughed at her. I'm not sure why she got so mad when I told her my labor rate was $20/hour plus materials for handyman work. She has a tool box from before we were married that is filled with tools, just needs t…
/r/askMRP29/08/17 11:14 AM
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Any disrespect is punishable, it's a matter of degree and setting boundaries. You cannot 'punish' another adult in a traditional sense, you punish them by removing your time and affection temporarily. Unless your both into a little bdsm, then a spanking takes on a different meaning. You need to understand the line between teasing and disrespect, and it's a boundary issue. And boundaries need to be enforced quickly, and calmly.
/r/seduction28/08/17 11:20 AM
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What books of the MRP sidebar have you read? Seems like you missed the part about the Rollo's SMP graph.
/r/askMRP24/07/17 05:56 AM
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You're welcome. Wish I wasn't getting such an education in the cheating spouses category currently but if it can help some one else out...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/17 05:04 AM
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Being in a situation currently that has me evaluating my marriage and seeing divorce attorneys while getting my ducks in a row. Christian ethics and sex have nothing to do with this. Its a matter of trust & integrity for me. If I cannot trust my wife, I will not have her as my wife any longer. So if a wife is cheating, what other things has she done behind your back? The first attorney I talked to mimicked the advice from MRP. Cancel credit cards, pull your credit reports to check for new accoun…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/17 12:46 AM
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Sorry you missed it, it was a good one too. Fit to be framed and hung on the wall. I know that I have a plethora of covert contracts and I'm working through them as best I can. Which one have I missed? I'm not being sarcastic, not being a dick or anything else. I'm honestly looking for help. If this marriage is over, maybe you can show me my failure(s) and the next relationship will be better. If nothing else, my marriage is over and when the courts are through with me, on my weekends with him I…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/17 02:52 AM
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I'm honestly surprised you're devoting this much of your time. Thank you. Edit. Checking my ego. Thanks u/matrixtospartanatLV I rarely get stressed, and this is a new level. Gotta remember that and check my ego at the door.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/17 08:59 PM
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Rented mule, a plow house would get treated better. But what I have done are things that I enjoy doing. I like camping. I liked dinner out with my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/17 03:42 PM
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That is a good view, I hadn't intended for it to be "holding frame while finishing a meal", I had just got home from 11 hours at work and was hungry. I didn't finish the dinner, just ate enough to stop my stomach from gurgling and threw the rest away. It's amazing how quickly your appetite goes away with a conversation like that. I don't consider myself to be anywhere near where I need to be in any MRP metric. Every level of my MAP and dread levels needs improvement. I'm just doing the best I ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/17 02:16 PM
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And I still am sure of my my methods for little shit test, if she had teased me about a lawn mower not starting I wouldn't call it disrespectful and slap it down by giving her a time out. And the conclusion of your FR was we handle situations differently and in our own style. It's the big shit tests that challenge me more, the fight to get a consolidated parenting plan, to back up the other parent when dealing with the kids, not letting her disrespect me in front of my kids by telling them dad i…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/17 02:11 PM
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Thank you for the post. I know the ball is in her court, so to speak, and she is the one who is framing the conversation. I'm doing my best to keep it together, have fun with my kids and document the shit out of everything. I'm making appointments today for attorneys offices next week. Do I want to continue to live this way? No. I want vast improvement for both of us. I want to have fun, I want to have enthusiastic sex, I want my kids to grow up seeing our marriage as a solid foundation for how …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/17 01:48 PM
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Good question. This has not happened before, Wednesday is the first time she has said she was going to leave. In the past, I've seen her wearing out and have taken the kids to my parents for a weekend at the lake, giving her some time for R&R. Maybe I was giving her time to on the carousel without the worry of kids. I don't think she's cheating on my, said the bp hamster, but if she is she'd have to have much better time management skills than she has ever displayed before. We have not discussed…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/17 01:35 PM
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"If you're not pissing at least one person off, you're not doing something right". At this point, I'm more excited to see my comments getting downvoted. It means people actually read them and disagreed. Hopefully commenting themselves to offer a counterpoint and a bit of conversation. Don't be Mr Nice Guy, have conviction in your beliefs, but listen and be willing to change them when necessary.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 01:59 PM
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I wonder if they had the test done after the procedure to verify they were shooting blanks, or if their body regrew/reconnected the tubes that were cut. I've heard that can happen, and that would be a really shitty super-power to have.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 11:19 AM
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Married, two kids, vasectomy. A vasectomy is easier and less invasive for men than other surgical procedures for a woman and this way I know that I cannot Father' any other children without considerable thought and cost. It was my way to guarantee 100% control of conception. No worries about her forgetting a pill, iud shifting, remembering to get a deprovera (spelling?) shot quarterly, etc. If she gets pregnant now, I get a divorce. Also, "never stick your dick in crazy" is the Golden Rule.
/r/askMRP10/07/17 05:51 PM
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Yeah, sorry I couldn't help myself. Big nerd that I am, I had to say something.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:23 PM
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Send a few dozen insurgent terrorists to their deaths in a million to one shot at launching a torpedo up an tiny exhaust port on a miracle of science formed into a mobile space station. All while sitting in a comfortable cruiser directing the action? Trying to kill hundreds of thousands of workers and soldiers of the legitimate governing body. But if you meant what would Admiral Ackbar Say? It's a trap.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:11 PM
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Ahh, the classic sunk costs fallacy. I can't leave, I've invested too much. I'd much rather stay in this dumpster fire of a relationship because I've invested so much in the past, that I'll sacrifice my future happiness and masculinity. Take the time now to see a lawyer/attorney figure out what you can do to maximize your position in the divorce. Set plans and goals in motion to cleanly exit the relationship. Save up your fuck you fund, check out apartments or rentals, figure out what you need f…
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:01 PM
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https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/07/08/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ Rule 5, Adhere to the golden ratio Giver her 2/3rds of what she gives you. For every three calls or texts, give her two back. Three declarations of love gets two back, etc. Don't swamp her with texts, calls, messages, emails, gifts, etc. You're an independent man, presumably spinning plates, your time and attention is more valuable than hers. The ideal scenario is that she is chasing you. If you're blowing up her phone,…
/r/seduction20/06/17 12:24 PM
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How to keep a girl interested. . . Be interesting. Have a plan, have an answer, have something to do if the plan falls apart. Have more than one girl to talk to so you don't get hung up on one. Look for events and activities in your area to build a plan around. Have fun, and have a sense of humor. Use the 2/3rds rule. Don't tell them everything about yourself. If they think they have you figured out, they lose interest.
/r/seduction19/06/17 03:59 PM
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Jesus Christ. Hotwifing and cucking, are about the polar opposite as you can get in this sub. MRP is about coaching guys becoming better men, so WE can fuck our wives and leave them with a smile and sore pussy. Go troll somewhere else.
/r/askMRP17/06/17 06:15 PM
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It sucks to learn the 'why' of it, doesn't it? Why she gets mad when you initiate, why she won't initiate, why she will hamster away her no's, why it's no longer fun for her, why your stuck with once a month duty sex. Because for her it's ,"why should I bother?" Sex is one of the primary ways men feel intimacy and being turned away and rejected from intimacy from her hurts. As Ving Rhames, A.K.A. Marsellus Wallace, said in Pulp Fiction "...you might feel a slight sting. That's pride fucking with…
/r/askMRP13/06/17 01:15 AM
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Start here with BluePillProfessors Youtube series on Dread Measure the results by how you've changed, not by how she reacts. MRP is a marathon with no finish line, don't get confused and think it's a Sprint with an ending.
/r/askMRP12/06/17 12:08 PM
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You know me, I'm always loaded, half cocked, and ready to rock. Alrighty, I'll stroke you a bit, but just the tip and only for a bit. The point is that men do what needs to be done. You said you have a personal issue with slow computers and can complete an easy fix. So you fixed it. You viewed her comment as disrespectful, that's fine, you gave her a time out and resumed when you felt the punishment had been paid. This way you can believe that she has learned a lesson and you accomplished two go…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 09:04 PM
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Of course I can figure it, I'm no Norman Einstein but it's obvious. Once that D.E.E.R is in your brain, it just has to get out. Like Buck Fever when you're​ on a stalk. You just get to shaking and the tunnel vision creeps in and it's all you can see. And boom, a giant release comes, like popping out of a pool when you stayed under a little too long. "Eight gigabytes of RAM and a SSD drive with the better processor offered by AMD make this a good machine, but it's clogged with bloatware from the …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 08:06 PM
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I see where you're going, but it's my understanding that Frame is a broad term that sums up your composure, self control, feelings, emotions, with your internal and external world view and how you present yourself to the world. Having a strong, unshakeable frame is a characteristic of leadership. You can force someone to follow you but people will only voluntarily allow you to lead them. I'm polite to my supervisor, but he is far from being a leader IMO. I've worked under true Leaders, they insp…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 07:51 PM
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I never want to feel goofy when I'm in her frame either.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 07:30 PM
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Where to begin? "Its well within reason to exercise a consequence to a boundary you haven't created yet." Please, read that again. Really, maybe do it out loud. Do you see it? That hidden contract, I think we have a name for it, it's on the tip of my tongue... There can be NO boundary if you haven't created it. Doing this is, creating rules and expecting a certain outcome without informing the other party is called call a covert contract. We have books, blogs, and subreddits devoted to those. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 07:13 PM
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Or c) find someone who won't get butthurt by a simple shit test, like that cute boy in IT who always jumps up to helps me. It was just a shit test, pure and simple. If you want to apply the "she's just the oldest teenager in the house" theory it makes more sense. Anytime you try to help a teenager, even when they ask for help, they're going to give you shit. Especially when you start out with 'explain' part of D.E.E.R. Teenagers already know everything, no reason to do any more talking than nece…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 02:09 PM
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Is it really disrespectful though? We weren't there and can't know the full context of the interaction. She gave you a simple shit test and it sounds like you got butthurt. Wouldn't you do a similar test to one of your buddies who was simplifying their explanation? "Lawn mower won't run" "Oh, did you put in gas?" "Hardy har, yes it has gas. Dick" Little contract you had there, "I'm going to help and explain this to you and you're going to listen and be amazed by my brain and skill". The outcome …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 02:00 PM
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Thank you, looks like Amazon has it for $6. I'll be ordering it later.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 01:06 AM
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Good info and thoughts on it all. Thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/17 01:24 PM
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No, this is not something that I don't ever want to attempt on my own. But I want to have an idea of what would help my daughter. I don't think that my wife considers these things, and I tend to over analyze, so we balance​ out. But when the time come, I want to be able to drop a few ideas and help with any planning or needed setup. I think if I left it to my wife her rite of passage would be an overnight shopping trip to the outlet mall, and that isn't going to help anyone but the store's ledge…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 01:19 PM
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It was from the movie UHF made by Weird Al Yankovic. Exceptionally ridiculous movie but funny and worth a watch. I remember seeing some clip that the movie was considered a failure but it also came out the summer that a couple classics were release like Indiana Jones, so no surprise it's not well known.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 07:43 PM
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You know it! It was such a stupid, goofy movie that got buried.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 06:51 PM
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Since I have a daughter, and no perspective on growing up as a woman. What do you think would have helped you? What do you wish would have been said or done as a Rite of Passage? Other guys have posted now and told their stories and opinions. Does a girl need something similar to a the camping trip and initiation into the 'club'? Do you think that would have a similar significance to a woman when men typically seem thrive through hard work, sweat, and challenge. That it's the challenge and overc…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/17 05:36 PM
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Of course, this is all I can think of when I see "drink from a fire hose". Its safe for work and reminds me how old I am, can't believe that came out in '89. Hopefully, the ego will be set aside and the pill will settle in. Never know, maybe he'll step back and observe the situation objectively, maybe he'll think we're arrogant pricks and blow up the marriage. No skin off my ass either way.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 05:23 PM
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The other women are not clearly attracted to 'you' but what you represent, which is status. The Gold-diggers want the lifestyle you can provide and social status that comes with it. They want you to pay for their weekly spa visit, lunches, dinners, jewelry, clothes, cars and vacations; and initially they'll fuck you daily to get it. But you'd end up in the same spot you're in now, getting twice a month boring, starfish, duty sex. And for fuck sakes, don't do this lame flirting shit purposefully …
/r/askMRP01/06/17 12:43 PM
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We do have a lot of activities together, he's usually in my workshop with me tinkering and fixing things, gardening, playing gopher while fixing the cars, playing catch, Legos or reading. That's typically when we talk, while working. I try to keep it all very simple, he is only 5 after all. At his age, there aren't may sports teams in the area for him so it's mainly catch with a soft tee-ball to work on his coordination. Riding bikes. and the community pool is open now so I'll be giving some swi…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/17 02:31 AM
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Wow, that's a hell of a case of oneitis you have there. You treated her as an emotional tampon for a year and now what to bang her? Good luck. Probably be better off to take your new found confidence and work on a new girl, or two, or three.
/r/seduction29/05/17 01:14 AM
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Here you go OP, just an introduction. You need to read up on the side bar to get the full understanding. https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/askMRP27/05/17 02:28 PM
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I'd say cut it out. It's all fine to have friendly acquaintences at work, it's fine to have a person who has values inline with our own that you can be friends with. But in my experience, women you work with have no reason to show any loyalty. Eventually, there will be gossip, some emotional outbursts, a comment or joke taken the wrong way, or an opportunity for her to throw you under the bus for some perceived value to her. And then you're up shit creek without a paddle. Had a married coworker …
/r/askMRP25/05/17 08:20 PM
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So you want this woman to have your second kid, and pay child support for 2 kids to her? If you did fuck her, do you think that if she got pregnant by the next Chad, no matter who the dad really is that she wouldnt use your name on the birth certificate, locking you into pay for a second kid that isnt yours? Never stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askMRP08/05/17 10:34 PM
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Seriously, you too? Since when is anything anyone says in reddit have to come from a stance of professional or academic literacy? Its a bunch of internet virgins in their moms basement, beating off stores of other internet virgins trolling them with stories of what they think people should do.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 09:04 PM
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I have know many people who can eat and drink like that and are in in extremely good shape. Its not a choice they make daily its a once a every few months choice. Its a matter of how hard you want to work to account for for the excess. My brother in law is one of those guys, 41 years old, regular at the triathalons & tough man competitions in his area, six pack, defined muscle everywhere, you could use his stomach or back as a washing board and I've seen him kill a 30 pack of natty light after a…
/r/askMRP01/05/17 05:48 PM
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One special night out isnt the mentality of a fat person. Doing it several times a week or month and rationalizing it away is a fat mentality. You have to have an occassional cheat meal and done in moderation there isnt a problem. And yes, I am a fat fuck, but I'm progressing and working my way down the scale. One night out isnt the end of the world.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 02:28 PM
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If you actually read about the Professors levels of Dread, you'd know levels one through five are passive. Now matter what you think, you start at level one. It takes a minimum of one month per level to advance to the next level. In all reality, it will and should take more than a month per level and you have to continue to work on each level as you move up, incorporating new levels into your life. If you short a level or skip a level, going Redpill Rambo, you're going to fuck up your marriage q…
/r/askMRP20/04/17 03:42 PM
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Things today are definitely different than when I was in college 20 years ago. There was more groundwork involved in getting laid, but you still had to have some game. I'm familiar with some PUA theory and approaches, but at some point there has to be substance beneath it all. For a one night stand you're right, who cares about conversation, just be atractuve and interesting enough to get in bed. If you're trying to turn it into a FWB, eventually you'll have to actually talk to the person. I'd g…
/r/becomeaman19/04/17 12:35 PM
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Wow, this really is the epitome of "why dont you just get it" mentality. The first girl interviewed says "I don't like confrontation", yet complains her partners are inexperienced. Maybe if you talked about what feels good to you, they would gain some experience and you'd get more out of the exchange. My personal favorite was "all guys do is talk about themselves or ask me questions". Pretty sure thats called conversation, and typically until you know the person well a conversation is based on q…
/r/becomeaman18/04/17 11:58 PM
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I'll look at the Whole 30 Diet, that's a new one to me. I tend to focus on glycemic index diets to manage my metabolism and energy. Thank you for trying to kick my self esteem up. I really do value myself and what I bring to the relationship and home. It's been a challenge to drop the contracts and do what I want to do and what needs to be done without doing it for her validation. It creeps in every now and again, but its getting fewer and fewer. The fake it till you make it has been applied man…
/r/askMRP16/04/17 01:32 AM
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What would I do if it was a 12 y/o? The same as you said, ask politely first, then demand they leave the room I'm in, lastly, leave myself. I like the 'got some fresh air' retort, nice double sided comeback. I am a firm believer in 'your wife is just the oldest teenager in the house' theory, so it makes much more sense to treat the situation as if I was dealing with a child. Silly me, I forgot this and tried to treat her like an adult and it didn't work. Go figure. Unfortunately, my progress has…
/r/askMRP16/04/17 01:01 AM
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You're right, its not a deal breaker and she does have value in other areas. This does boil down to courtesy and I'll have to think about it that way today. Thats really clicked for me, taking it up a level above the physical act to the behavior. We all know it wouldn't happen in front of Chad, so why do I let it happen in front of me... I have to pull apart a lawn mower now, but this is going to be in my head the rest of the day. What do I do to get courtesy? I've stepped up my game in a lot of…
/r/askMRP15/04/17 03:28 PM
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I have a nice 5 quart red one from the Paula Deen Collection, geat for pot roast. Thanks.
/r/askMRP15/04/17 01:11 PM
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I know she had some probiotics prescribed at one point, I'll have to see if she is using them still or get some new ones. The food combining looks really interesting. I'll have to read more on it, this is the first I've heard of it.
/r/askMRP15/04/17 12:51 PM
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I've googled it and had hoped that was a short term side effect. But at 15 months post surgery I'm tired of the lingering stink. Burping and random vomiting I can and do handle easily enough. The gas that could knock a vulture off a week old roadkill carcass has reached the limit of my patience. If I saw her trying to make kind of move to stop or curb the gas I would be more sympathetic. Try the OTC gas relief pills, try adding a little baking soda in gassy foods, or just avoid those foods, try …
/r/askMRP15/04/17 04:04 AM
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I know. We are working on it. Diet and exercise are not guaranteed to help sleep apnea. I've had sleep apnea since I was a teenager, back when I was thin and in shape. I've been teased by family for a doctor writing "small mouth and enlarged tongue" in my med file after a sleep eval, and called 'window-licker' after that one. It is what it is, I need a cpap or I sleep like shit and risk dying in my sleep. Took a long time to accept it but I have. My wife has given me shit over it, going as far a…
/r/askMRP15/04/17 03:31 AM
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Yup. Very literally, her ass or gas is the problem. She stinks, and farts regularly and unashamedly. Tonight, she was sitting on the couch and farted, loudly, 3 time in 30 minutes or so. As I said, I know this is ridiculous. I've teased her about getting her a butt plug or gluing a cork in her to stop it and all she says is "I can't help it, if i hold it, it hurts. We all get gassy, but come on.
/r/askMRP15/04/17 03:07 AM
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Am I worth it for her to change? NOPE. I'm still a fat faggot, but I'm aware of it and working on it. I am doing body weight fitness at home (no money in our budget for a gym) and I've lost 50lb, with another 75 to go at a minimum. As I said, and say to myself regularly, I'm a fat fuck, but I'm getting my shit together slowly. Worse yet, she is losing weight due to the surgery which has swelled her ego making her lower my SMV. Like me, she has a ways to go. Edit, sorry forgot finish. 'Why is tha…
/r/askMRP15/04/17 02:05 AM
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In another of his replies in the thread he said he moved out of the bedroom and has stopped initiating. I would guess that sex is important to him, as it is most all men. But from his post history it looks like he is going to fall into the "MRP can't save your marriage, but can make you a better man for your next relationship" category, unless he can lead his wife to have an epiphany about their marriage and she chooses to make improvements in herself.
/r/askMRP12/04/17 03:04 PM
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The sex life is at best secondary to his personal progress. Its been said many times, we come to MRP to find ways to get better or more sex and stay for the lessons in self improvement. Who cares how much sex he gets so long as he is becoming a better man? If she goes for a divorce, the new SteveMcqueen will be in the position to find a little fuck bunny or two to make up for what he missed out on while married. If not her hamster will suddenly find the new, improved Steve more attractive and wa…
/r/askMRP12/04/17 12:29 PM
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If I have learned anything, its that my wife is the oldest teenager in the house, so is his wife. Its amazing how accurate that is and how it helped change my mindset about dealing with my wife.
/r/askMRP12/04/17 12:14 PM
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Just a little different take for you on this post. Two of the more important things I found here; "Women are reactive, men must be proactive to get a response from a woman" and “Women don’t love men. They love how men make them feel". This isn't a Disney movie. There is no "and they lived happily ever after". If you want a marriage filled with pussy and desire, you gotta work for it. One of the biggest lies I was told as a kid is "good things come to those who wait". Bullshit. Good things come t…
/r/askMRP14/02/17 09:27 PM
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God knows I'm still a rookie but I feel that you have to maintain a balance between the alpha & beta. If you're still working through your anger phase, its hard to feel like she deserves to hear the "I miss you" and "I love you". Sometimes you have to give that white lie and say you miss her. I see it as a comfort test from her. She wants to see that she's still important to you, or she's a ball buster trying to assert dominance. The tone of it should tell you what way it's going and if it's a c…
/r/askMRP09/02/17 01:58 AM
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Where to begin...just like a shitty TV preacher you chose to go and quote me out of the full context and don't have a clue about anything except your own narrow view of the world. The full sentence was Religion and faith are fine and can be helpful to many people. Not everyone wants or need faith or religion to improve themselves. Some people need to believe in a higher power. That comforts them and so long as they're not trying to force their faith on me, they can do what ever the fuck they wan…
/r/askMRP26/01/17 01:20 PM
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Seeing as askmrp is the area for beginners, does every post have to be a question or can we post here on our thought and observations? When you're new to MRP, what do we all hear? A regurgitation of Fight Club's don't talk about fight club, don't talk about MRP, don't talk about MRP, don't talk about MRP. If you have no one in your non-Internet life to discuss this with, then who do you talk to? The main MRP sub as you said will return some very harsh criticisms. And while most if not all the cr…
/r/askMRP26/01/17 12:20 AM
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It's been said on mrp and askmrp before. Religion or faith are fine and can been helpful to many people, but you cannot use it as a crutch for why you're weak. If you find strength in your faith, then go and run with it, be the best man you can be with your faith. I had too many friends and family who use religion as an excuse for being lazy, stupid, ignorant assholes. I've cut the out of my life because they just don't add value to anything. And the "I'm right because I'm louder than you" typic…
/r/askMRP25/01/17 08:44 PM
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Not exactly a template for shit / comfort test but this might be helpful. https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/askMRP25/01/17 07:28 PM
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Thing is, its all redpill. Cant really go halves on this one. It applies to all aspects of our lives, marriage, parenting, work, friendships. Its hard and it sucks at times but from the gains I've seen so far, I could never turn back.
/r/askMRP13/01/17 05:54 PM
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I want to say it was a strategic withdrawal and save a thread of ego, but you're right. I know I have a lot of work to do still, but I'm 100% better now than I was 15 months ago.
/r/askMRP13/01/17 05:41 PM
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This is a problem I run into with my wife. She losses her shit when the kids are acting up. I used to step in and take over, getting the kids to another room from her and talking or disciplining them as necessary. But she'd just yell at me when I did it because I didn't do it her way, which she could never explain what her way was. She's perfectly happy to disagree with me and tell the kids the complete opposite of what I tell the kids, tearing me down and losing the kids respect. The kids (3 & …
/r/askMRP13/01/17 02:07 PM
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I'm still working through my anger, but I like to think of it more as "turning your anger into resolve". Resolving to be a better man, resolving to work harder, resolve to lift more and longer. I wish it hasnt taken me so long to accept everything, but the progress is there. Thinking of little changes like this have helped cement the ideas and create the habit for me. Maybe it'll help someone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/16 04:18 PM
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Sounds like you still have a lot of anger issues to work through. Lots of negativity toward your wife to work through yet.
/r/askMRP11/12/16 06:28 PM
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Sounds you have a really nice covert contract there. Have you read NMMNG?
/r/askMRP11/12/16 04:12 PM
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It boils down to I read, implemented, mentally finger fucked it all, saw some results and got complacent. Now I'm reaping the harvest of my failure to follow through. You're right, I have failed, for now. Now its time to get back on the horse.
/r/askMRP12/10/16 01:03 AM
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That's what I'm looking to do too. I'll hit up that sub too. Thank you.
/r/askMRP11/10/16 08:31 PM
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Dammit, I do love an occasional bag of skittles, but i just can't enjoy them anymore after that story. Thanks for reminding me I've been a little bitch.
/r/askMRP11/10/16 04:46 PM
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While I recognize that it's a losing proposition to say anything this comment, there is a difference between hamstering and financial responsibility. I wasn't paying anything before since it was in house and I was the only one who used it. Now I have to either save up and buy a weight set, or find a way to make a membership work for my budget. Sure, I could go into debt and slap a credit card down for a member ship, but thats only going to complicate my life. Debt is unacceptable to me and is a …
/r/askMRP11/10/16 04:44 PM
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You'd think so, but it typically only gets her pissed at me. Our primary reason for arguments is the difference in parenting styles. I'm strict and have expectations of my kids, e.g. using please & thanks you, clean rooms, clearing their plates and cups, etc. She wants to be their friend, until they piss her off then she loses her mind. When I step in and take control of the situation, I become the enemy in her eyes. Having talks doesn't help, setting the example hasn't shown results yet. The di…
/r/askMRP11/10/16 04:27 PM
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Thanks for calling me out,it hurts and I needed it. I guess I need an outside perspective now and again to reminder that I'm not a snowflake. I wouldnt say that sex is the number one priority but getting shot down tonight brought out the butthurt beta in me. I know it's a fault I have and I'm working on it. On second thought, maybe sex has been the priority, I'm 37 now and my drive is still as high as it was 15 years ago. How would I act sans penis. Thats a good question thats going to require s…
/r/askMRP11/10/16 03:03 AM
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Again, looking for a place to work out. Old job location had a gym onsite, with the house move, I moved office locations too and lost the gym. Hence why I've been keeping an eye on craigslist for a weight set.
/r/askMRP11/10/16 02:45 AM
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To be honest with myself, you're right. There are a lot of excuses here. Tonight I saw my wife & kids for an hour and a half, could I have done more, been more interactive with all of them? Yes. Could I game better on the weekends? Yes. I think the issue is more that I've grown complacent and I needed a kick in the ass and some outside perspective on my failings. Thank you
/r/askMRP11/10/16 02:43 AM
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I'd like to point out that OP said she is six weeks out from a pregnancy and her hormones are still trying to equalize and may be dealing with post-partum depression. That's going to affect how you should handle her. I'm not saying don't do anything, but STFU, AA, AM, and Fogging will be your friends more than leaving. U/Bluepillprofessor may have better advice on this and how to properly use dread with a post-partum wife.
/r/askMRP19/09/16 04:22 PM
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Dammit, that hit the nail on the head for me. 85% of the time I'm just my wife's audience. She doesn't want a back and forth conversation and typically gives me the stink eye if I try to add to the conversation. STFU has been my friend for this but it's really amazing to have a label for the situation.
/r/askMRP31/08/16 11:52 PM
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Got some covert contracts going huh? As I was once told by a veteran here "stop mentally finger fucking everything". Don't worry so much about Alpha & Beta and live to improve yourself and the lives of those around you. Didn't buy a birthday present? Was it talked about before hand? Was a night out negotiated in place of presents? Some times you have to suck it up especially in the beginning of the you MRP journey and pretend to be a little beta as you work on your alpha. I'll add one more thing…
/r/askMRP26/08/16 12:13 PM
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When I was a kid there was a show that always said "Now you know and knowing is half the battle". If you look around reddit you'll see a lot of good guys and good resources. No one said this is easy, and that sucks. Sounds like it's time to make some plans, re-evaluate your time management and get a plan. Sorry if this us a dick move, but theres 168 hours in a week, you use 50 for work. That leaves 118 hours for you. I know some goes to travel, some to sleep. Make the most of the remaining hours…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 06:26 PM
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Just a couple points that stand out to me. Your SMV is what you perceive it to be, not what she thinks. Even with a weight gain, she may still feel that her SMV is higher and place yours below hers. She gets drunk and is disrespectful. There's an old saying, "in vino veritas". In wine, truth. You want to find out how someone really feels, get them drunk and you'll know because the 'good girl' filters are down. She resents you, doesn't respect you and it come out with alcohol and is bleeding thro…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 04:46 PM
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I wish I would have read this last year when I started my MRP journey. It would have cut out a lot of my mental bullshit and anger. Maybe it should be in the sidebar...
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/16 12:53 AM
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You know, a year ago I would have gotten mad. But now getting called a faggot here just makes me smile. Thanks for the reminder to step it up.
/r/askMRP01/08/16 01:43 PM
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The hard part is not looking butt-hurt by not saying anything.
/r/askMRP31/07/16 05:28 PM
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This was one of the more difficult things for me to get, that my wife wasnt my 'brother in arms' for parenting the kids. That I couldn't be fully honest with her about the crazy shit kids do and how I struggle some days. She, like any woman, doesn't want to hear anything negative about her kids, even from the kids dad. Don't get me wrong, our parenting values are very similar but the execution differs. So I fluff it every time she asks and is always an honest answer. She doesn't want or really n…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 11:48 PM
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Ahh, I had clicked the username link and it popped up 0/0, thought he had deleted his profile. It was just a misspelling on the username. Glad to see he's still here helping us out.
/r/askMRP16/04/16 01:50 PM
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Ok, I know I've been taking a bit of a hiatus, but where did Cad go? What did I miss?
/r/askMRP16/04/16 01:11 AM
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You gotta have hope though, my grandpa said "the sunset gotta shine on a dog's ass once in a while" or maybe more clearly "you miss every shot you don't take". I am working on my mental & physical game, initiate regularly but still get shot down more often than not. The trick is I know something she doesn't realize yet, I'm the prize here and the only place for me to move my SMV up. And you're right, once it's high enough I won't have to ask.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 12:36 AM
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You're right. I should have said no more presents with contracts. I know I'm still looking for validation from her. It's a flaw that I have and recognize, but haven't overcome yet. Everyone like an atta- boy now and then but it should never be the reason for the actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 12:26 AM
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Calm down Prof, take a breath, it made me mad too, but I can laugh now that I see the error of my ways. I'm just some guy on the internet sharing a story. We all like the skittles guy story, I just never thought that I'd be on the other side of the skittles equation. I'm getting better with my communication, but it's slow, just as she is slowly getting better as a first mate. Direct or overt communication is typically met with resistance or defiance from her, so I'm careful and try to be a bit c…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 07:45 PM
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Wow. I'm just going to gather up my big girl panties and head to the gym. Definitely feel like a little bitch now
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 04:09 PM
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Ok, 100 Reddit Internet points to each of you. Redeemable for valuable cash & prizes at the cashiers stand.
/r/askMRP09/02/16 11:11 PM
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This thread has been the best laugh I had today. Thank you two so much. P.s. sweet tea sucks, man up and drink it bitter. And that's from a guy who's whole family comes from Missouri, Tennessee or Arkansas. But as always, you do you and enjoy the diabetes.
/r/askMRP09/02/16 11:03 PM
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Yeah, the first few seasons were great but I felt like the show started to fizzle out with season 6 and I can't bring myself to finish season 7 yet. I really enjoyed it in the beginning, with the Hamlet themes.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/16 03:26 AM
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It's probably been 20 years since I read Dune and I know there's a new continuation by Kevin Anderson (?) that I should check out.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/16 03:22 AM
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Thank you, I do truly have a tendency to mentally finger fuck things. Haven't put it that way before, but it's probably the best description of it I've heard. And I do have a lengthy file on my phone of notes from my readings, it keeps all the acronyms, books, blogs, and my thoughts straight. Typically, I do try to spend my time more productively than just being a couch potato. Primarily I get out into my shop and tinker around with woodworking or kids projects. I also realize that this is not a…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/16 03:20 AM
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Exactly, nice guys don't come in last, boring guys do. That statement created a big paradigm shift for me.
/r/seduction03/02/16 01:08 PM
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Probably catch hell from the guys here for this suggestion, but as a newbie, my first thought was could you compromise a bit and take off an occasional Friday? Shifting the 'family weekend to Friday & Saturday, then still sail on Sunday. Depending on your job it may not be practical. It's a bit of a BP or Purple answer but framed properly it could be pulled off with out losing respect as the captain. Someone with more experience than me will have to help with the framing of this particular solut…
/r/askMRP27/01/16 03:32 PM
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/r/castiron /r/cookingforbeginners /r/EatCheapAndHealthy /r/kato /r/MealPrepSunday /r/slowcooking /r/gifrecipies
/r/askMRP19/01/16 06:21 PM
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Just got the Smolder & Cinder oils in today and holy shit do they smell amazing. Cinder reminds me of a slightly more masculine Aqua Di Gio; hell it's giving me half a chub.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 12:27 AM
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This is being saved to my personal note page so I can read it over and over. Women really do 'have a way with words' and twisting them. I've seen it happen time and time again but never thought of it in that light. She's doing it to win, to get results for her agenda. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 02:59 PM
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I saw it referenced in another reddit thread. To be honest, it's ok at best, maybe 5/10. It took 5 minutes to fill out the survey. My wife filled it out later and she hated it. Said everything was too kinky and dirty (learned any talk of oral, group, outdoor or fetishes gives her anxiety) . The only things we matched on were the few things we are currently doing. There were a few other apps similar to mojo site, but were too cheesy when we looked at them so she tapped out entirely from the conve…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 02:56 PM
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I did the same thing years ago, slipped a penny in her crack and somehow she never noticed. She went to the bathroom later and came running out with her pants down shouting she had money falling out of her. Of course I asked if there was anymore and offered to check.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 09:38 PM
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Thanks; I'm working on it and it's killing me to not lift right now, damn wrist.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 08:11 PM
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It's hard to say, she has a very irregular cycle (maybe 5-7 per year) so it's difficult to track or predict moods. She claims she's hated beards from childhood, but like many others here have said, I get a lot of positive feedback from men & women at work or out and about. So it's going to stay on my face for a good long while yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 08:08 PM
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I should have clarified my post better, we were sitting in our living room with the tv on. I agree with you about what a bedroom is for so the only electronics we have in there are an alarm clock, fan, and cell phone charge cords.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 08:05 PM
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Thank you, first, congratulations on your promotion, I believe it's well deserved and enjoy reading your blog. I think that working to better communicate to get that I'm the captain and she is my first office is needed for us to get on the same page. Going to have to contemplate on how to best say it and get her to accept it. She's a very bossy, stubborn woman. Also,thanks for the top on the beard oil, I just ordered them. Maybe a little more TLC on the beard is in order. I keep it cleaned up, b…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 07:57 PM
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Just as a caveat, anger turned inward becomes depression. Be careful how you manage/internalize your feelings. I have learned that one the hard way.
/r/askMRP08/12/15 06:56 PM
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Same here, we rough house a lot and my son is with me most of the time I'm in my garage, whether it's woodworking, electronics or car repair/maintenance. He knows the names for most every tool I have and I let him use any non-power tool. He replaces batteries in toys and remotes and helps mom fix things too and he's only 4. I'm damn lucky to have such a smart kid.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/15 06:09 PM
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