stop-grass-genocide Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	I'm a woman, and for once, I want to be the person chased and not the chaser. I’m wondering if you’d even be attracted to them if they were chasing you. I don’t think so just because all of the guys you say are chasing you are guys you’re not into. Simply put, the thing you want would probably make you less into them and this paradox.	/r/seduction	19/04/19 08:21 PM
4	in the past men didn't have to "learn game", nor do men anywhere outside the West Yeah but I also think about the fact that women weren’t as involved in the dating process. You’d just get married to who you were told to get married to or if it was a choice it wasn’t like you had the level of freedom to meet all kinds of guys without having a guy with you for protection. I think we are just learning how to appeal to women and I’d like to think that’s a good thing as frustrating as it is sometimes.	/r/seduction	26/03/19 02:04 PM
1	Help with logistics of sex I would say have some kind of plan to offer on top of explaining the situation. The more work it is to meet on her (in terms of planning) the more turned off by the idea I think she’ll be (which I think is reasonable if I were a girl)	/r/seduction	24/03/19 01:43 PM
1	Female equivalent? Check out coach Cory Wayne. I found him very annoying army first but if you keep taking in his videos and his book it actually helps things make a lot of sense in dating.	/r/seduction	20/03/19 04:34 PM
1	Female equivalent? This is a lesbian though. Have you never met a lesbian? Sometimes they act very much like men but are girls and getting fit, having cleavage, and acting feminine is only gonna attract the masculine girls. It’s not to crazy to think a lesbian would want help with this stuff.	/r/seduction	20/03/19 04:33 PM
1	I am so fed up You don’t sound all to happy being at the club tbh. If you feel this way after clubbing your priorities are off. Have fun Bring other people into your fun Have sex You’re going out to have sex. You’re going out to get something from someone. Instead go and do things that make you feel happy then throw your positivity at people in whatever way you share positive vibes (joking with everyone, taking someone to a cool place, helping others make connections, loosening up the vibe in a room). If you d…	/r/seduction	17/03/19 10:58 AM
1	I wish I was a black guy so I could get laid more. Lol Im black and Im positive it really doesn’t help you any more than being white. If anything, it hurts you with most white women and makes it just a ton more difficult to have a ltr because people’s parents don’t like you because your race. If you’re a normal black guy you’re in the same boat as normal white guys and then some. You’re just looking at the attractive black guys as an example for the rest of us. Put that energy in just focusing on what you could actually improve in instead of dre…	/r/seduction	17/03/19 10:47 AM
1	As a black woman, How do I make myself appealing to men? Im guessing that the issue isn’t how you look because you’re attractive. Guys who are engineers are going to be very much masculine. They are going to want a girl who comes off more feminine, girly. If you’re not showing up as feminine with them (which is understandable) they might be turned off. I would guess that’s the issue especially if you’re ambitious yourself. It’s hard to look submissive when you’re in grind mode all the time. Things like RBF is a turn off because it doesn’t feel feminin…	/r/seduction	17/03/19 10:35 AM
2	At what stage of dating (if at all) is it acceptable to ask her to be your girlfriend? I mean why does the label even matter. Nothing really changes either way.	/r/seduction	13/03/19 09:42 PM
2	This Subreddit is Hilariously Problematic Not OP but I’ll say it like this. Put simply, you project what you feel in the world. If you feel you are not good enough because of your insecurities people pick up on that and prove you right. The only way to get over that belief is to prove it wrong with positive experiences. Not Caring doesn’t mean ignore the pain of your insecurities. It means rising above them to accept who you are unconditionally. If you don’t care if you’re short then no one you want around will. If you don’t care about …	/r/seduction	25/02/19 04:00 AM
1	First time a girl has been really interested in me... can't believe it Everyone learns different dude. It won’t help you maybe but it would help someone understand his thought process to see it.	/r/seduction	21/02/19 06:35 PM
2	How can a girl get game? Then you don’t want to learn game lol. It’s a process but with Baby steps it’s always possible.	/r/seduction	15/02/19 02:38 PM
1	It is like a contradiction, I do not know what to do. I want more low key	/r/seduction	27/01/19 01:49 AM
1	It is like a contradiction, I do not know what to do. I also what the full response	/r/seduction	26/01/19 08:33 PM
1	I have a lot girl friends Im kinda in your situation a lot. If you feel like you would want to have sex with her you have to have that in mind but behave as you would. I haven’t figured out a perfect way to deliver this but some how make it a point to have them know you‘d want to be sexual but be the way you’ve been and let them come to you sexually knowing that you have a desire for them. At the moment I try to throw sexual innuendos in the mix just to have them be in the same wave as me but not make it a whole conversa…	/r/seduction	25/01/19 02:15 PM
2	What women expect you to do in the first date? It doesn’t have to be boring. You could continue talking about anything you would have and some times random little events happen on the way for what you could talk about. I feel like the trips tend to be just as fun if you learn how to have fun on the way to places.	/r/seduction	21/01/19 10:17 AM
1	I just had a MINDBLOWING realization and I have to get it out. Nah I get it. And actually yes me. I’m 20 and that’s close to how I think (thought?). The concept of deserving someone is there at times and goes away. I don’t know where it comes from but you’re right I’m shit at closing with girls lol. I’ve been told I have a lot of game by other girls who are friends but it was always while I was in my relationship (an LDR) that ended 4 months ago. But I think that’s probably why. I didn’t feel like I deserved anyone and that I was just cool. I talked to ever…	/r/seduction	31/12/18 12:46 PM
1	I just had a MINDBLOWING realization and I have to get it out. If you could rationalize why you deserve having a girl ignore you (i.e. she’s way cooler than me, she’s probably talking to 100 guys) without decent evidence, then you could do the same thing in reverse (i.e. I’m actually the coolest person in the room and this makes sense, she probably isn’t even that great but I’ll still hit it). Yes it’s a made up premise but most of our realities are a series of the same made up premises that are just bad ones to prove why we are shit. Just choose the justif…	/r/seduction	31/12/18 07:27 AM
0	I just had a MINDBLOWING realization and I have to get it out. Dude! I literally just made sense of game tonight. It legit just clicked and my last question was literally this! “What emotions or philosophy do I need to live to have it be part of my person all the time, and what have I been doing to get the successes I have had?” This makes sense to me, I know others say it’s not new but maybe it’s just how some people think. This was super helpful to me so thank you man! I actually would like to talk to you about how you found this out if you’re willing!	/r/seduction	31/12/18 07:22 AM
5	I asked a girl out. In a way they are. Rule 1: be attractive (I am worthy of this girl but it’s not my fault if she doesn’t see it) Rule 2: don’t be unattractive (I don’t need to freak out if she say no. It’s immature and not worth it, some would argue unattractive)	/r/seduction	18/12/18 05:03 PM