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19

Because it's not real. You can almost always tell the fan fic based on the way they're worded, the vibe they give, and how they use PUA terminology.
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:46 AM
1

If you're asking this, you've already fucking lost. Find some fucking confidence.
/r/seduction13/04/22 07:39 PM
2

A plain white shirt's effectiveness depends on your body type. I personally dont think many people look good in t-shirts, but if you're going to wear them make sure they fit your body type. I never wear a t-shirt to the market... and presumably on the beach you wont be wearing a shirt for very long so it doesnt matter as much. A button up or short sleeve polo can look sharp though.
/r/seduction15/03/22 01:51 PM
1

Bro, that's a completely false equivalence. Here's a more accurate one: "I want to attract more women, how do I find some without going out and talking to them? Seems too extra to me" "Well, maybe you should reconsider, as the best way to meet women is to become comfortable approaching women." "With respect, fuck you I am not interested in your advice as I don't want to talk to women." In fact, this whole comment thread is... because I suggested being more open minded about the best mens fashion…
/r/seduction15/03/22 12:37 PM
1

Some people come here to get advice, some to give advice. If you're not sure which you are, you're here to get advice!
/r/seduction15/03/22 12:09 PM
2

I'm starting to understand why you may have trouble with women.
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:53 AM
3

Slow your roll, my guy. YOU are the one asking for fashion tips, not me. Presumably you're asking in a seduction sub because you want to attract women. I am offering advice: be more open to the casual blazer, they elevate every look. But here's some solid advice beyond fashion: Don't be a dick to someone giving you advice you're asking for just because you don't like the advice.
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:24 AM
2

Are you looking for advice which only affirms your sense of style? Maybe you shouldn't be so quick to dismiss "extra." There are many casual looks that go with casual blazers, and I recommend them everywhere you can get away with it.
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:11 AM
2

What's your definition of "feminine?" r/malefashionadvice is hands down the best if the reddit fashion subs for getting general ideas.
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:28 AM
-4

You just described pick up. It's a creepy, gross sub culture of seduction I agree.
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:41 PM
1

Im not going to get into a point by point analysis because I wasn't there and your story is already shifting. But you really gotta reexamine yourself, man. Don't rape, don't coerce, don't be a dick.
/r/seduction24/02/22 04:42 PM
1

Oh dude, you seriously need to check yourself if you think coercion requires violence or threats of violence. I am not trying to harp on you, but this girl told you no. Instead of respecting that, you acted kind of pissed and made it appear you were trying to leave. She then relented and decided having sex with you now on your terms was better than not seeing you again. She was clearly interested, but maybe she wanted more commitment. Maybe wasn't totally comfortable. Or maybe she just didnt fuc…
/r/seduction24/02/22 03:59 PM
0

Or, and this isn't a controversial position, don't try to coerce someone into sex they don't want to have. What you described is COERCION, not consent. Which is at LEAST adjacent to rape. Nothing wrong about respectfully asking about her sexual boundary, but dont listen to this guy. She may relent and have sex with you, but you're a disgusting human being for doing it.
/r/seduction24/02/22 03:44 PM
33

Then my dude, maybe you or your personality is truly unattractive.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:04 PM
1

Can confirm.
/r/seduction22/02/22 09:39 AM
7

...Are you talking to her or just messaging her trying to get responses.
/r/seduction03/02/22 08:53 AM
-19

Get better
/r/seduction02/02/22 08:49 AM
1

Stop being such a cartoon then, if you want originality.
/r/seduction01/02/22 02:10 PM
2

I wondered how far I'd need to scroll to find an incel. Turns out... The answer is "not very"
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:34 PM
1

Yes. But it does not translate specifically to physical attraction.
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:27 AM
1

Bro stop commenting using alternate accounts. It's fucking weird.
/r/seduction26/01/22 03:41 PM
1

More like: Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez. u r nut going to have any luck with women.
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:18 PM
3

Several. Guy is a wanna be PUA which is why all of his content is fucking dumb.
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:01 AM
2

Your content is so cringe and weird dude
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:00 AM
10

When did this sub become so filled with creative fiction nonsense?
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:16 AM
1

It's easier to speak about the individuals who are not those things, but those ones get out of the pick up mindset and into something a lot more respectful
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:22 PM
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I am perfectly chill, but I don't respect your opinion. There's way too much bad advice in these kinds of subs from people who don't have enough experience to be giving it. It's like going into a relationship advice sub and spouting off tips you read about despite having never been in a relationship before.
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:46 AM
0

I'll say one last thing: Don't be giving advice if you need advice.
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:35 AM
2

He gave you bad advice. Also, most "dating coaches" who start in pick-up dont stay there because it's creepy, manipulative and weird. I don't know this guy because I don't follow coaches, but it's weird that you're like "this guy has 1,000 lays" as if that means anything. This is a hill I am willing to die on... "TWSS" jokes can be funny, but they are weak ass attempts to escalate. Using them as such only project insecurity and no confidence. You're much better off setting HER up for the TWSS jo…
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:38 AM
2

No.
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:28 AM
31

I use compliments that are genuine and stark.... For example, if you think her eyes are pretty it's easy enough to interrupt a sentence you're speaking to say "your eyes make me nervous, they're absolutely stunning." I admit, it really requires you to be in touch with yourself to make it sound genuine, but that's a thing I practiced a lot in life. And you can honestly see them just melt. So much of seduction also involves body language. It's not enough to clumsily touch someone's arm or leg, you…
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:45 PM
15

Jesus do NOT go for "that's what she said" jokes. You probably shouldn't be giving advice on this subject.
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:27 PM
12

It's not about being a "bad boy." It's about being confident, an individual, funny, and unafraid to escalate things. No one in the world would describe me as excessively attractive or a bad boy, but I run through women. Being respectfully direct is very sexy to women.
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:26 PM
-6

"I hope this isn't too cheesy... But you are absolutely stunning."
/r/seduction13/01/22 12:21 PM
1

Flirting isn't what you say. It's a vibe.
/r/seduction20/12/21 12:19 PM
2

Or people who have even the faintest of bullshit radars because this reeks of bullshit.
/r/seduction06/12/21 01:32 PM
3

Sooooo pathetic. "Wahhh I don't get girls because I dress badly. Anyone who makes an effort at being fashionable is a fuccboi waaaaah"
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:12 AM
-36

Honestly on this sub, the downvoted comments are usually the best real life advice.
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:26 AM
6

Active listening.
/r/seduction01/11/21 05:40 AM
27

What. In the actual. Fuck.
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:02 AM
1

HERESY
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:38 AM
11

To be fair, we don't really need your advice either. Women are notoriously terrible at quantifying what works on them... But to OPs point, yes. That's really all this sub is. Men who suck at getting women role playing as players.
/r/seduction24/10/21 05:52 AM
3

Shit you've really 5-anddived me
/r/seduction22/10/21 11:07 AM
7

Jesus Christ the clinical way you discuss all of this seems sociopathic. Maybe that's what you're triggering.
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:39 AM
1

Fair point I suppose.
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:34 AM
2

Jesus Christ your account is just full of these little creative writing assignments aren't they.
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:32 PM
-10

Yup, right here. Right here is the incel. EDIT TO ADD: Jfc your post/comment history is an absolute treasure trove of awful advice, viewpoints, and general shitty content. People who need dating advice shouldn't be giving it out. Another edit: incel brigade incoming
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:07 PM
17

More than people will admit, less than you think.
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:02 PM
19

You ask the girl if she's into kinky shit. Then tell her you live near an older couple and you have a key to their place. Say you've always had this fantasy to fuck in their house while they're at home. Then say she'll have to stay very quiet.
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:57 PM
5

Wait. Says the guy who calls a woman who respectfully rejects a man "a piece of shit" and then gets all "you wanna go" when called out? Pathetic.
/r/seduction12/09/21 06:55 PM
7

Oh here we go with the faux machismo.
/r/seduction12/09/21 06:52 PM
12

She sounds like a piece of shit for not being attracted to this dude? The fuck kind of shit you on?
/r/seduction12/09/21 06:36 PM
1

If you're asking that kind of question they should really avoid living with you.
/r/seduction04/09/21 05:23 PM
4

How about you don't bother this woman in her home?
/r/seduction04/09/21 11:04 AM
1

Jesus Christ ANOTHER bitchiest about height?! Fucking get over it. I'm 5'8 and it's never been a hindrance because I don't let my height run my life.
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:06 AM
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You didn't sound cool. That might be the reputation among members of your frat.
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:55 AM
3

Sometimes I come to this sub and utterly cringe at the filth. Here's an idea: respect women. It's not disrespectful to want to fuck them. It is completely despicable to lead a woman on through lies to get in her pants. Pretending you love someone just for sex is manipulative, predatory, and all around sociopathic. I have no problem having a steady stream of sex by being upfront about the fact I am not in any way looking for a relationship or love. Lying like this is a crutch and you're fucked in…
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:12 AM
4

Imagine thinking a frat is in any way "elite" and acting like that should get you laid.
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:08 AM
8

Step 1: Stop using the term "alpha." It's big yikes.
/r/seduction26/08/21 10:23 AM
2

"people are always going to hate black people just learn to be cool with it maaaan. Can't really change it."
/r/seduction18/08/21 08:09 PM
8

Or, and follow me on this one... Just stop describing people by their ethnicity unless you're actually physically describing someone. "These two jews were cockblocking me all night" is fucked to say, and yet you're defending it in this case?
/r/seduction18/08/21 07:58 PM
6

You are truly abhorrent racist. But just as damning... You're an idiot too.
/r/seduction18/08/21 06:31 PM
11

You can always count on the racists to show up on Reddit.
/r/seduction18/08/21 04:38 PM
28

Use this example which is frighteningly common: "I was walking down the street at night when two black guys approached me." Can you understand the purpose someone might have to describe their ethnicity? It conjures a certain, stereotypical image in your mind meant to help sell the emotion they were feeling. An emotion that is based on prejudicial bias
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:31 PM
27

It's not a narrative, it's a really bad habit people have. There's absolutely zero reason to say they were Asian except as a pejorative. "these two black guys were there" is meant to evoke some bias in our brains. Pointing out problematic behavior shouldn't offend you so much
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:28 PM
11

That's completely different, and you're an idiot for thinking otherwise.
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:27 PM
20

But you didn't describe them any physical way except their ethnicity, which was no doubt to evoke a certain response in our brains.
/r/seduction18/08/21 11:27 AM
-13

The true answer is it was to evoke a certain idea in our head about how they were acting, similar to how racists will say "and then I walked near a big black guy" to evoke that the man seemed scary. But you're right, way over this guy's head
/r/seduction18/08/21 11:24 AM
44

Because race/ethnicity has literally nothing to do with your story.
/r/seduction18/08/21 10:35 AM
51

What does them being Asian have anything to do with it.
/r/seduction18/08/21 10:11 AM
0

God your whole post made me cringe.
/r/seduction15/08/21 10:06 PM
9

You fucking don't. I want to bleach my eyeballs after reading this. Don't intrude on a woman's feeling of safety in her own home because you're a fucking idiot.
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:08 AM
0

Fam, this post adds nothing to the topic and would be better suited for a movies sub. It has nothing to do with sex or dating.
/r/seduction13/08/21 09:22 AM
0

And you're in a dating sub.
/r/seduction13/08/21 09:09 AM
0

No, I love sex.
/r/seduction13/08/21 09:03 AM
-2

Y'all mods, probably ought to get in here and ban OP/remove this post. You can already see the guy is stalking minors and the incels coming out to support it.
/r/seduction13/08/21 07:31 AM
18

My man, when you meet an asshole in the morning, you've simply met an asshole. When you KEEP meeting assholes all day, YOU'RE the asshole.
/r/seduction13/08/21 07:29 AM
23

Or, and follow me here, OP is an unreliable narrator and is a serial harasser and stalker.
/r/seduction13/08/21 07:07 AM
2

There's something to this. 80% of my closest friends are super gorgeous and intelligent women, and I've had no problem picking up women despite an average build and height
/r/seduction11/08/21 09:56 AM
1

Says the "adult" asking how to buy Twitter followers.
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:57 PM
3

Step one: stop reading literature that makes you use vocabulary like this. Fucking cringe bro
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:02 PM
1

You sound exhausting. That wasn't an approach.
/r/seduction08/08/21 10:33 AM
48

Have you ever considered maybe all of these people aren't really in love with you?
/r/seduction08/08/21 08:57 AM
13

It's simple... Some people want to pretend to be extremely successful with women and decide to try creative writing exercises. Mostly it's men who have never been successful with women
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:27 PM
1

What did I just waste time reading.
/r/seduction03/08/21 01:46 PM
1

Lol one look at your post/comment history tells me everything I need to know.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:47 PM
1

Man ALL the incels came out to play today. Damn!
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:32 PM
9

You don't want to have a "player" vibe. You want to have a direct, confident, "respectful but sexually exciting" vibe. I can tell based on the way this whole post is crafted you're fucking it up. You will turn more women OFF by being cocky than you'll turn on. You want to seem confident, assured, and self-reliant. It's 2021 ffs, do you really want to become a problematic man? Don't play games, be confident in your sexuality.
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:03 PM
1

My man, I am a 7 married to a 9/10 who has a kink for me having sex with other women. You don't have to listen, but my game is solid and I almost always get laid on the first date.
/r/seduction02/08/21 10:14 AM
1

Listen, if you spent more time critically thinking rather than trying to act out this bizarre "alpha male" bullshit on the internet, you too could potentially lose your virginity.
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:32 AM
0

If there was a sub called r/virginswritingseducers, your comments would make up the bulk of the content.
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:25 AM
3

Wow, what biting social commentary this is. Your insight is boundless. Of fucking course not, you cartoon. You can't seduce a woman who isn't attracted to you. Did you think there's some magical phrase that will convince a woman to sleep with you if you are repulsive? This comment is about taking a base level of attraction and escalating the tension.
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:16 AM
1

It's not that I feel triggered, it's that you are making a fool of yourself. Spend less time being am overly defensive moron on the internet and more time listening to advice from people who routinely get laid.
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:34 AM
6

Says the guy who has a shirtless pic in his REDDIT profile. I'm sure your alt account isnt the above pretending to be a woman. For sure.
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:00 PM
19

"by the way, you look amazing tonight, it feels good talking to you right now" with a nice smile and a quick sip of your drink while making direct eye contact, seeing how they react and if they were open to that..... That type of banter goes waaaaay better than "I want to lick your neck all night" This right here is the business. It's all it takes.
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:32 PM
17

His creative writing exercises
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:56 PM
54

This is so cringe.
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:43 PM
12

I'm almost not even willing to type a response, because someone who can take a statement like "you can be respectful to women and look them in the eye say you want to fuck them" and assume that means I'm going up to random women in the street and diving in with that is a fucking moron. Listen here, you cartoon: I'm talking about being on a date with a woman. I'm saying you can escalate and not be schmarmy. Not some random you are approaching for the first time. OP implied it's hard to be sexual …
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:37 PM
3

This may be why you're not successful
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:38 PM
26

Bro listen: it's not about being nice vs being an ass or edgy. The best kind of flirting is directness, and some men confuse respect for being wishy washy. You can be absolutely respectful of a woman while looking her in the eye and telling her you want to fuck. Be your kind, genuine self... Just don't beat around the bush in an attempt to fake being respectful. I'm pretty much the epitome of a goody two shoes, I just approach women with confidence and am direct about my intentions
/r/seduction01/08/21 12:44 PM
-1

You are vile.
/r/seduction01/08/21 09:18 AM
1

I'm sorry, this pseudo political bullshit is not at all relevant in a relationship. Feeling disrespected and being disrespected are two different things. It's completely fine to tell explain why some behavior or statement affected you in some way. But to just shut down a conversation about it without acknowledging and trying to understand the other person's perspective is fucking terrible. If someone is getting defensive, it's likely because they weren't acting with malice or disrespect from the…
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:56 PM
-2

Oh, wow. Big man. Me scared
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:35 PM
2

OP don't listen to this drivel come on now. You can't be this dense.
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:31 PM
2

This is awful advice, incel. Restaurants are fine. It's all about technique. I ask first dates out to happy hour for a drink or two and maybe an appetizer. Where you take it from there is entirely up to the vibe.
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:30 PM
-1

Did the man stutter?
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:28 PM
1

Love the thought that you can tell anything about me or my experience simply because I called out your bullshit advice. Sorry, your bullshit bad fucking advice. Stop being a cartoon
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:51 PM
2

‘we aren’t here to discuss this or argue about it. I am just telling you what is and is not acceptable behavior. ‘ the refuse to discuss it further. This is such bad fucking advice. Stop being childish. You calmly discuss. But it's a discussion. You explain your perspective, you listen to theirs. And then you find a mutually agreeable way forward or break up.
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:44 AM
5

It's a creative writing exercise
/r/seduction30/07/21 04:43 PM
-3

I am aggressively rolling my eyes
/r/seduction23/07/21 07:02 AM
0

Flirting isn't an action. It's a vibe. Take her out again and keep the vibe light. Look her in the eye and tell her she's stunning. If she doesn't react the way you'd expect at that point it's a lost cause.
/r/seduction13/07/21 01:16 PM
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