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| 8 | Do you think your boyfriend truly cares about you?If he is the man you believe him to be there is no chance in hell he would let you break up with him if you were diagnosed with a terminal illness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 01:53 PM |
| 2 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?There's a difference between traditional, ceremonial dyes and the "look at me" blues, pinks, and pastels that are trendy in our culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?I like adding some color to my hair now and again, but I'm not your manic pixie dream girl. If you don't want to be perceived that way, then don't color your hair. Humans make snap judgments based on what information they're presented with and when conforming to a popular trend people will associate you with whatever the stereotype of that trend is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Men with at least 1% of self-steem, how do you do it?Seek strength, the rest will follow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 03:32 AM |
| 2 | CMV: If they wanted to, men have a substantial amount of mutable traits they could adjust to better inspire desire in or respect from others.Sounds like you and I have walked down very similar paths. “At first we cannot see beyond the path that leads downward to dark and hateful things but no light or beauty will ever come from the man who cannot bear this sight. Light is always born of darkness, and the sun never yet stood still in heaven to satisfy man's longing or to still his fears.” - Carl Jung Wish you well in life as you go further on ahead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 04:29 PM |
| 0 | CMV: If they wanted to, men have a substantial amount of mutable traits they could adjust to better inspire desire in or respect from others.If you act and speak in a genuine manner people will be attracted to you. What it boils down to - especially with men - is that they aren't nearly as clever as they believe themselves to be when they construct their facades. Most people won't call them out on their bullshit out of politeness, but rather than working on themselves and confronting their weakness they choose the easy way of creating a false persona they hide behind most conscious individuals can see through their act. Weak men rati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Despite TRPers desperately wanting it to be true science shows that women aren't attracted to dark triad men.I've noticed that too but I don't comment/lurk for the purpose of entrenching myself further in my beliefs. I want to fill in any gaps of knowledge I may have or see where I'm wrong about something if someone genuinely knows what they're talking about. Granted 99% of posts/comments on here are garbage but every now and then you can come across something insightful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Despite TRPers desperately wanting it to be true science shows that women aren't attracted to dark triad men.Seems like we'll just go back and forth at this point without making any progress. All the best to you and thanks for the debate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Despite TRPers desperately wanting it to be true science shows that women aren't attracted to dark triad men.But the subset isn't small or insignificant. It's the majority of women. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/ncna1105731 How do you account for 50 shades being the highest selling book of the decade and not see the psychological implications regarding what women find attractive? The majority, not all, the majority are turned on at the prospect of a powerful man having their way with them while also being able to "tame the beast" so to speak. Women by and large get off indulging in fantasy more ofte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Despite TRPers desperately wanting it to be true science shows that women aren't attracted to dark triad men.It isn't exclusively the erotica searches. Have you read the book? It's categorized by what the highest searches pertaining to anything sexually related are, and the results show women more often seek out stimulation through narrative than they are by visuals. It wouldn't surprise me if a third of pornhub users were women but it doesn't account for the majority which is my original point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 11:52 AM |
| 3 | Despite TRPers desperately wanting it to be true science shows that women aren't attracted to dark triad men.Who are "you guys" exactly? I'm not claiming to be a representative of any group. Just myself. Though I will admit willful ignorance triggers me just a tad but hey no one is perfect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Despite TRPers desperately wanting it to be true science shows that women aren't attracted to dark triad men.You're using Marie Claire as a source and pornhub statistics where people go strictly to watch porn and not read stories. That's like going to a nudist colony and taking a poll as to whether or not public nudity is offensive and basing public sentiment off of that. Yet the concrete data of hundreds of millions of searches is what's illogical to you and proves nothing. Am I missing something or is this what you actually believe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 11:35 AM |
| 3 | Despite TRPers desperately wanting it to be true science shows that women aren't attracted to dark triad men.While conveniently ignoring the second paragraph which backs up my personal experience. Look again at what the top 5 searches are when women are looking to get off. What do those 5 things have in common? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 11:24 AM |
| 3 | Despite TRPers desperately wanting it to be true science shows that women aren't attracted to dark triad men.You reveal how simple minded you are with every response you post. Everyone is broken or incomplete in some way. Or are you delusional enough to believe that you're above this? Such is usually the case with those who possess a fragile ego. If that's not the case then by all means point me in the direction of who you would consider to be a complete individual and please dont use yourself as an example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 09:40 AM |
| 3 | Despite TRPers desperately wanting it to be true science shows that women aren't attracted to dark triad men.Then you must also think that the majority of women don't masturbate in which case you're even more naive than you come off as. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 09:35 AM |
| 5 | Despite TRPers desperately wanting it to be true science shows that women aren't attracted to dark triad men.https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evolution-the-self/201205/the-triggers-sexual-desire-pt-2-what-s-erotic-women explain this and show me credible sources that back up your claim that women are more stimulated by visuals (image porn) than they are by active imagination (erotica) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 08:34 AM |
| 9 | Despite TRPers desperately wanting it to be true science shows that women aren't attracted to dark triad men.The study was fucked from the beginning. Women are attracted to dark triad men because they know how to bring out the part of them that just wants to create chaos (which every single woman I've been with has admitted to when you can get them to actually be honest with you). It's relates more to a spiritual connection than it does the mind which is why it wouldn't be reflected in a psychological study. If anyone doubts this, then why the fuck would fifty shades of grey outsell the bible? Every wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 03:08 AM |
| 12 | Sen. Josh Hawley says liberals' attacks on manhood are driving men to pornography and video gamesYou're grossly underestimating the effect of meaning and purpose in a man's life. Career can only take an individual so far. There are exceptions to the rule of the few individuals who tie their identity together with what they do for work, but the majority need something else to sustain them. What is the point working a job where you make six figures if you're completely empty inside? You think a man on his death bed is going to say "boy, I sure don't regret spending my life working on code to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.They use red and black pill ideology as their crutch to hide their cowardice. It gives them a convenient excuse to give up because what they say is based in truth for the most part. The deck is horribly stacked against men in terms of the dating market and in society in general. We have no true leaders. There is no one to show us how to truly be. Can you think of a single male role model that isn't a false idol of some sort? Is there anyone that genuinely embodies a kingly spirit and could help … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 12:54 AM |
| 1 | The Meaning Of Life: Finding Your PurposeI agree with everything you've said in terms of using TRP as a starting point. Everyone, regardless of their disposition in life, should stay relatively fit and do things that strengthen themselves as individuals. Having a light or dark perspective is irrelevant when it comes to basic principles of humanity and especially masculinity. Sadly there are almost no true positive male role models and most young men are left to navigate this world on their own and basic truths like the ones TRP present… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/21 06:41 PM |
| 10 | The Meaning Of Life: Finding Your Purpose"Woe betide those who live by way of examples! Life is not with them. If you live according to an example, you thus live the life of that example, but who should live your own life if not yourself? So live yourselves. The signposts have fallen, unblazed trails lie before us. Do not be greedy to consume the fruits of foreign fields. Do you not know that you yourselves are the fertile acre which bears everything that avails you? Yet who today knows this? Who knows the way to the eternally fruitful… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/21 05:25 PM |
| 18 | You don't really need to be a manipulative asshole; women bullshit themselves enoughThe sad reality is nothing turns a woman on more than getting into their head and beating them at their own game. I'm not denying the utility of being shredded and built like a brick shithouse, but I feel like most men here miss out on the fact that the ultimate aphrodisiac for a woman is her mind. If you can bring forth and out maneuver her inner demon, she'll be yours forever. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/21 10:23 PM |
| 23 | Never Let a Woman See You Bleed.I think what a lot of men here miss is that a high quality woman will be more attracted to you if you show them your weakness, but also your ability to overcome it. That's the crucial element. Of course some basic bitch with no soul or depth to her will flee at the first sign of weakness. Fuck them. If that's the type of person you decide to open up to you, then you deserve what you get. That's entirely on you. Women, especially good ones, need to feel like they also have a purpose in a relation… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/20 11:38 PM |
| 15 | The implications of what this subreddit says are very scaryWhat worries me is the way in which they will make their voice heard. History has taught us that things are never truly resolved through peace, but by violence and bloodshed. We're still the same humans that committed all of the atrocities throughout history and had societies that we now consider barbaric. If people, especially men, get pushed too far, the animal within them will take control and the same atrocities will be repeated again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Q4W Do women tend to value stealing men from each other?Not at all. Was only trying to highlight the point that at the end of the day we're egotistical human beings regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Q4W Do women tend to value stealing men from each other?They're egotistical human beings just like men. Stealing a man from another women is a form of validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 11:39 PM |
| 7 | CMV: the women having lots of casual sex before settling down are only a small subset of the female population and more likely than not they have equal status to the guys they have casual sex with.The ones who don't are men that would be satisfied with any warm body to keep their loneliness at bay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 11:22 PM |
| 1 | PPD Blind SpotsI feel it. Definitely getting more difficult to do so as time goes on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | PPD Blind SpotsIt may be dumb, but I don't think it's incorrect. I'm not claiming to be a chad or label myself in anyway, but when it comes to women I've had reasonable success in my life, and the one thing that's been true across the board is that women want to be chased. They want the hidden part of themselves to be teased out by someone competent enough to do it. They want to be played with and feel like they're apart of an engaging story. It doesn't make them wrong for wanting that or feeling that way, it'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | PPD Blind SpotsTrue, but I think it's the same for running into self aware people in general. I don't know. I feel like for whatever reason, be it societal or otherwise, we focus on the "negative" differences between the sexes rather than what makes us similar. Like we all are apart of the same ship wreck but refuse to reach out for each other and would rather try and blame one another for who caused the wreck to happen in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 05:33 PM |
| 3 | PPD Blind SpotsYeah but if you can breakthrough the wall of bullshit and actually have a genuine conversation there are plenty of women who have interesting thoughts and perspectives. If they don't want to share that side of themselves with you it's because you're not adept at leading the dance. I know as many men that are shallow shells of humanity as I do women. It's a people thing, not a sex thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | PPD Blind SpotsI don't know. I think we may just view it differently. I think it boils down to the majority of people being boring regardless of sex. There are as many men that lack depth as there are women. It may seem more skewed towards women but that's only because they're not wanting to show you their true selves or share with you their true thoughts because you haven't earned it in their mind. That's how it's been in my experience at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 05:17 PM |
| 2 | PPD Blind SpotsHow do you define interesting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 04:58 PM |
| 6 | PPD Blind SpotsHow so? You say women don't realize how boring they are, I say they're only boring if you're boring. If you're going to try to lead in a dance, at least make sure you know what you're doing first rather blaming your partner when you stumble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 04:51 PM |
| 1 | PPD Blind SpotsThey're only boring if you're boring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Is there a “red pill rage” for women?How do you define weird? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 11:49 PM |
| 8 | Imagine how easy dating would be if average/ugly people stopped chasing attractive people.There's something to be said for being involved with someone below you when it comes to looks. I'd much rather be with someone less physically attractive but more enthusiastic than an attractive dead fish with an over inflated ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Is ignorance really bliss?Not everyone seeks happiness. Some of us are drawn to the dark - to the places where it's most painful and pleasurable and where you experience life in it's truest form. I have no self pity whatsoever. I willingly and knowingly walk this path. It's what resonates with the deepest part of my soul. I seek out pain for the lessons it will teach me and the truths it will show me. Learning as much as I can about the truth of this world and of my own existence is my purpose and meaning, but very rarel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Is ignorance really bliss?That's way too much of a generalization for something so complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes you just gotta be a little more intentionalIt isn't maintainable unless you're completely naive to the reality of the world, which most are. If your only motivation in life is to get laid, then do everything in your power to accomplish that goal, but you have to be subtle about that being your sole intent. Read what the woman i was originally replying to wrote. There is nothing that turns a girl off more than signs of thirst. It's not necessarily that you have to love yourself, but more so respecting yourself as a man. If you have no sel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes you just gotta be a little more intentionalThe fact that you don't care about yourself will stop you from ever finding a deeper truth. You choose to let your bitterness consume you and consider that the ultimate reality of the world and your existence. I don't blame you for it. If anything it may be the most rational choice. Mock me as much as you'd like, the truth will remain the truth regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:28 AM |
| 0 | Is ignorance really bliss?True, but what I said pertains to that question- to red, blue and blackpill men alike. Blue pill men are living the same lie that the red/blackpill men have seen through. Could the one who lives ignorantly truly be considered happy if they haven't even realized that the source of their happiness is contingent upon a grand lie? That deep down the void still exists within them, but they've lived a fortunate enough life so far that they can still hide from it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:14 AM |
| 4 | Is ignorance really bliss?I've def noticed that the reds and blacks are generally more bitter and angry or more defeated and hopeless. What's wrong with that exactly? It's well within an individual's rights to feel anger and rage over the fact that they've been lied to their entire life which I believe is the fundamental realization that drives someone to adhere to the red/black pill ideology in the first place. Why do we have to shy away from anger or the other negative emotions you listed? They're just as real and just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do you think women don’t care about n count?I think in a way we're on the same page but just articulating it differently. What it boils down to is confidence, and I would say in general a man that has a high count is much more confident and comfortable around women he's interested in than a man with a lower count and less experience, and women by and large respond more to men with that confidence. Obviously their are anomalies like in religion as youve mentioned elsewhere in the thread (i grew up in religion so i understand your point), b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes you just gotta be a little more intentionalYou're right. I think a lot of men miss that point. Especially the ones that are bitter/angry towards women. It doesn't matter who it is, just so long as it's a warm body to distract their mind from the gaping void inside of themselves. The world is plagued with weak men, but rather than face themselves and overcome their weakness they blame it on women for not giving them the love they "deserve" and remain unaware of their own blindness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: why do you think women don’t care about n count?Then feel free to elaborate why it's wrong. A woman will know by the way a man carries himself (confidently). The PUA type (the liars) mimic what it means to be a confident man, and anyone with half a brain can see through the act. People in general are drawn to men who have a genuine confidence in themselves. Even more so in our times given what a rarity it has become. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 06:30 PM |
| 20 | Q4Men: why do you think women don’t care about n count?Women want men who are desirable to other women. A man that has been with and has the ability to be with many women obviously fall into that category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys literally mean by a guy should "Lead" in a relationship?It's a sad reality, but you're right. There are very, very few actual leaders left. Most people are lost - both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 11:31 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys literally mean by a guy should "Lead" in a relationship?Not the guy your're talking to but I don't disagree with your assessment. Something catastrophic is just around the corner. We all know it and we all feel it, but most people need to live ignorantly and believe in a hopeful future so they choose not to acknowledge it. Anyone with any sort of foresight can see that this train is about to head right off a cliff. The only thing up for debate is what the final toll will be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 10:53 PM |
| 8 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitThe problem is many people, especially ones who lack real experience, view their own personal truth as the one that everyone should live by because they've deluded themselves into believing that they have achieved happiness, but their vision remains skewed because they ignore the darker reality of humanity, of themselves, completely. They're so wrapped up in their egos that they can't see the flood waters that are gathering around all of our feet. They see the surface level truth of this world, … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 01:53 AM |
| 3 | [blue pill example] Lost relationship of over a year due to a failed shit testOf course not everything is within your control, but when it comes to YOUR life you need to be as much in control as possible, and the only way to do that is to remain objective about your own mistakes by being willing to hold yourself accountable. It has nothing to do with being alpha. The kid AGREED to be cucked don't forget. It's entirely his fault and if he chooses to just blame women and not acknowledge that then he'll fall prey to it again. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/16 10:27 PM |
| 8 | [blue pill example] Lost relationship of over a year due to a failed shit testThat's a terrible way of looking at it. I understand he's still young but when you choose to put the blame on others, where does it end? If I get fucked over by some slut that was deceiving me into believing she's a unicorn, then I take full responsibility for not having been perceptive enough to notice the warning signs and for allowing myself to be that gullible. He should take this as a lesson if anything else - not that women are terrible, but that he was too inexperienced and not assertive … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/16 09:55 PM |
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