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| 451 | thought you lovely ladies could use a laugh today - instant block & delete | RED FLAG 🚨 | stormstormstorm9 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:03 AM |
| 426 | they love to tell on themselves😂 | ROAST-A-SCROTE | stormstormstorm9 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 12:59 AM |
| 157 | decided to join in and draw my trash ex! ran out of room and gave me a solid laugh lol | ROAST-A-SCROTE | stormstormstorm9 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:49 PM |
| 37 | i have no idea why women ghost me after i plan no effort “dates”!! | SCROTES MAD | stormstormstorm9 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | men talk like they’re not the depreciating assets... also, wtf is with men thinking it’s funny to refer to women as “bitches”. gross. | MALE DEPRAVITY | stormstormstorm9 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 08:09 PM |
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| 11 | I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit.welcome to fds, sister! thank you for posting; it’s incredibly brave of you to share your story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 12:38 AM |
| 5 | FDS Podcast Episode 2 is HERE!!! FAQs about Feminism, Double Standards, Being Friends with an Exabsolutely love this podcast. my favorite quote from this episode: “the bar is being flossed between the devil’s butt cheeks right now... and it came out with skid marks” 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:11 PM |
| 24 | The FDS podcast is now LIVE!!! Weekly Discussion Thread: Episode 1listened, subscribed, CANNOT WAIT for next week. amazing balance of intelligent, important conversation and humor!! so grateful for this space and for these women for creating something designed to help all women thrive 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 02:23 PM |
| 114 | they love to tell on themselves😂right? the blatant irony is hilarious. he also clearly can’t spell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 01:25 AM |
| 41 | Of course the comments are filled with disgusting men 🙄he also plays a pedophile in the show “You” as well, and i’m pretty sure is also portrayed as one in another movie or show? like jfc!! instead of putting the disgusting ACTUAL pedo in jail, they just cast him as his literal true self in shows???! gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 02:00 AM |
| 9 | I’m new to this community and this way of thinking, so I’m wondering. What are your thoughts on the kind of music we listen to? Do you ladies actively try to avoid music with lyrics that are disrespectful to women/sexualise women?no i haven’t, but i’m going to listen after work!! y’all are seriously the best. i love fds 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 12:11 AM |
| 9 | I’m new to this community and this way of thinking, so I’m wondering. What are your thoughts on the kind of music we listen to? Do you ladies actively try to avoid music with lyrics that are disrespectful to women/sexualise women?thank you for this recommendation!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 10:33 PM |
| 29 | I’m new to this community and this way of thinking, so I’m wondering. What are your thoughts on the kind of music we listen to? Do you ladies actively try to avoid music with lyrics that are disrespectful to women/sexualise women?yes, sadly most (and i mean 99.9%) of songs by men are rooted in misogyny and violence against women. once you realize it you can’t unhear it. i’m glad more and more women are waking up to this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 10:08 PM |
| 34 | advice to spot manipulation.trust your gut. if something feels wrong, it probably is. if it feels wrong, but you’re not sure. try to document or write down what happened and, like the advice of another commenter, consult a trusted friend or family member in walking through those specific situations. documenting social interactions that make you feel “off” or uncomfortable can help you recognize patterns in what people do and say that lead to manipulation. practice saying no. practice being assertive. i have had such a hard… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 08:25 PM |
| 77 | I’m new to this community and this way of thinking, so I’m wondering. What are your thoughts on the kind of music we listen to? Do you ladies actively try to avoid music with lyrics that are disrespectful to women/sexualise women?i have had a similar thought as hip-hop/rap had been one of my favorite genres. i’m the type of person who likes music primarily for sound/beat and not for lyrics, but since finding fds i can’t bring myself to enjoy this music anymore and can’t ignore the lyrics. i tried listening to only women rappers and even then, most of the lyrics tend to be pick-me oriented and pander to men. there are a few woman-created rap/hip hop songs out there that might actually have empowering lyrics. however, even… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:59 PM |
| 81 | Found this little pic that my daughter drew a several years ago. Note the floating head that is her father. This speaks volumes about the amount of time and energy he put into our family. Don’t think that kids don’t notice. We’ve been divorced for 6 years now and she is so much better adjusted!as an actual psychologist, THIS. we are trained in working with our young clients to do the “family drawing test” with children as well (which is essentially what OP’s picture is). we evaluate and ask questions about things like size of each figure and placement on the page, order in which each family member is drawn and their distance, omission of any details/people, if child is erasing or scribbling over anything, etc. indeed, this picture speaks volumes. i remember one little one drawing her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:29 AM |
| 18 | The High-Value Aunt I never knew I had.i also imagined this as a beautifully illustrated empowering picture book!! such an inspiring story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:25 PM |
| 37 | Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get married“Hvm on the other hand will treat everybody with respect” emphasis on EVERYBODY. HVM treat ALL women with respect, including the women they aren’t attracted to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:45 AM |
| 61 | I swear most men aged 20-30 are power obssesed and it's creepy.the physicality argument (i.e. men are “stronger than women”) can’t even be made either. women power lifters (and many women who lift casually in general) are actually physically much stronger than these basement-dwelling scrotes. how do scrotes react to these physically powerful women? they degrade these women’s appearance of course, maintaining that she is “too masculine” to be attractive... which, in reality, is completely untrue and derived from jealousy. yet again, women can show men up in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 03:02 AM |
| 301 | Dude said I needed to be “vetted” before he could buy me dinner because he’d “been used by women in the past”......For the record, I make ~6X his salary. Anyway, I’ve moved on, and now he’s back begging for sex. Love to see it!this! meanwhile, the whole time his intentions are to sleep with her, and he uses buying dinner as justification for “deserving sex”. a man perceives a woman as using him for dinner precisely because his true intent is to use her for her body... so she must be trying to use him too, right?? lvm logic 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 01:10 AM |
| 33 | Negging because your pretty 💀they have low self esteem and they want to bring yours down to their level. one guy told me i was “hot enough to be in porn” as an attempt to make me feel better about his pornsickness? no thanks, you can beat your dick into oblivion on your own, in your mom’s basement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 02:12 PM |
| 49 | i have no idea why women ghost me after i plan no effort “dates”!!on this episode of scrotacity, LVM asks for coffee dates and for women to come over immediately and wonders why he’s being ghosted.... then proceeds to suck his own dick and ask reddit to help him with his fee fees. hopefully these women found FDS lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:57 PM |
| 4 | Why a man taking drugs is an immediate disqualifier (yes, even cannabis)lmao i remember there was this joke about this guy i knew in high school (who was a pot dealer) only having one word in his vocabulary — “yuuuuuppp”. literally knew the guy from 6th-12th grade and never heard him say any other word. i think his brain was so fried that was the only word he remembered | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 05:21 PM |
| 5 | Why Are Some Men Obsessed With Barely Legal Girls?exactly. this corroborates the part about women being seen as less desirable if their profile indicates that they have postgraduate degrees, even controlling for age. if they perceive that the woman will be sharp enough to be able to see through their bullshit, it’s not worth it. they want someone they can easily manipulate and control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 04:40 PM |
| 23 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?men can’t deal with the fact that women can be better at something that they think “belongs” to men - sports. in addition to just thinking they’re “superior” LOL. i was a D1 soccer player and when i graduated and put an action shot in my OLD, literally 9 out of 10 guys would slide in and make a comment about how they could kick my ass at soccer. who the fuck thinks that’s going to make a woman MORE interested in you??? also every single one looked less coordinated than fucking bambi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:44 AM |
| 7 | Dating advice for men is great until it gets to top items ‘feminism sucks and if you want to use her that’s different than her using you’she screams pick me lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:43 AM |
| 71 | Is porn just normalised cheating?i agree with you completely. my LVM ex who paid for onlyfans literally told me it meant he wanted to have sex with all of those other women. to my face. and thought that was a fine thing to say. huge fucking LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 01:41 AM |
| 84 | Red flag wordsexactly. and rest assured he’ll try to claim he’s “joking” if you get upset, attempting to gaslight you into thinking it’s normal behavior. it’s not. it’s disgusting and depraved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:30 PM |
| 14 | Porn is not cheatingdon’t forget “BuT aLl MeN dO iT” like it’s their entitlement... to treat women like objects... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 09:18 PM |
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