str8male40 Archive

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1	The most important thing when texting a girl is you should utilize the phone as a tool to set a date not texting back and forth. If you text a girl back and fourth it kills the mystery and it kills the fun of getting to know each other in person. OP didn't clarify if this applies to real life or online.	/r/seduction	11/03/20 03:05 PM
1	What's going on with me? You are already an alpha and doing mostly the right things, however I highly recommend Coach Corey Wane's book "3% man" that has not the usual PUA bullshit. In the initial dating phase, the phone is for setting up dates, not to build or maintain attraction. All you can do on the phone is fuck up and drive her away.	/r/seduction	23/02/20 11:20 PM
2	Keeping girls engaged and interested after opening It 'works' when she's into you. It fails when she's not. This is gold. I've also read a bunch of books and come to the conclusion that 'game' is mostly about not doing retarded shit (like sending flowers to her work lol) that lowers her natural attraction level towards you and also reading IOIs correctly.	/r/seduction	20/02/20 08:31 AM
1	exceptional opportunity, trying to hook up with former team leader Science Proves Women Are More Attracted To Men Whose Feelings Are Unclear.	/r/seduction	10/02/20 09:04 PM
2	exceptional opportunity, trying to hook up with former team leader From C. Wayne: A woman is rarely going to come right out and say: Hey, you’re areally good looking guy, and I want to go out with you. I want you toask me out. Here is my number and all my contact information. I amavailable Sunday through Thursday, and you can call me. I’ll go outany time you want, and I’d like to do anything you want that’s fun. This is just not typical. Women like mystery. They like the process ofdating. They want to discover, and they want to be discovered. Theywant and expec…	/r/seduction	10/02/20 04:36 PM
3	exceptional opportunity, trying to hook up with former team leader For mindset, I can recommend Corey Wayne's short free e-book "3% man". Don't try to make her like you. "Hangout, Have Fun & Hook Up". See where it goes. The guy has also awesome youtube videos. No manipulative BS. Just based, simple reality checks.	/r/seduction	10/02/20 02:42 PM
2	Anyone else had their heart ripped out of their chest? No, she was very classy. That's what attracted me so much in the first place.	/r/seduction	13/12/19 10:42 AM
41	Anyone else had their heart ripped out of their chest? Yeah, I suffered from Oneitis at 30, not only got I rejected hard, but because of the same social circle we were in, I had to watch her being successfully picked up by other random dudes, all that while having to pretend I'm cool and smiling.	/r/seduction	12/12/19 01:17 PM
1	My sense of self-worth is wayyyy to tied to if women like me or not Women are a distraction to your life mission, whatever that may be: learning new stuff, discovering the truth about the world, following a spiritual path or getting in physical shape. I also recommend do this for a week: Don't watch porn, don't browse any sexy pics on socials, don't masturbate, all that while perusing any other goal than women and see what happens...	/r/seduction	12/12/19 01:08 PM
5	She said we don't know each other enough Before trying to kiss, have you touched her elsewhere?	/r/seduction	04/12/19 10:59 PM
1	Seriously asking: is all of this even worth it? I need honest responses If you're at the bottom that's great news: You can only go up. How is your porn consumption and masturbation habits? Quit it for like a week and see how interactions between you and women improve. That's what I did. I am 40 and blew my 30's. Trying to get back on track.	/r/seduction	04/12/19 12:00 AM
4	Confession, I couldn't get the 8's or 9's The point is, OP is treating the 8's and 9's as trophies and ego boosts, and that is both fucked up and detrimental to his game.	/r/seduction	18/11/19 06:31 PM
1	Trying to be "ALPHA" is BETA You're talking about annoyances, you're right, alphas have to face them plenty. But that's not real challenges. Also Alpha/Beta is too simplistic. I prefer Vox Day's Alpha-Bravo-Delta-Gamma-Omega structure based on behavioral patterns. Also the strucutre is fractal. That means you can be an alpha in one setting, but not so much in another.	/r/seduction	13/11/19 08:42 PM
1	Trying to be "ALPHA" is BETA I don't agree. Alphas are being challenged all the time.	/r/seduction	12/11/19 11:03 PM
-4	Trying to be "ALPHA" is BETA Alpha/beta is too simplistic. I suggest this: https://www.stevejabba.com/socio-sexual-hierarchy-what-rank-are-you/	/r/seduction	12/11/19 11:01 PM
2	Problems getting intimate with a girl I am seeing. Only a wild guess I may be totally wrong. Maybe you let her be in charge too much? Play the hunter and treat her as prey. What happens to you if you tease her? IDK, ravish her neck, press her with your belly against the wall, whatever comes to your mind.	/r/seduction	12/11/19 10:54 PM
2	Please don’t fuck up like me ! conversation As it stand right now it's game over. You can try in a week to message her and invite her to join you for something exciting that you're doing. You'll maintain outcome independence and there is a small chance she will got for it.	/r/seduction	12/11/19 10:43 PM
6	Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success) Gym? Healthy food? I've been resigned for years, but one month going I decided: 1. NO porn! 2. less video games 3. no fapping (I failed a couple of times though) 4. gym 5. healthy food and I finally see the light in the tunnel. Good lifestyle is a chick-magnet. Granted, the super hot chicks are out of my league, but it's the porn that makes you ignore all the less attractive women, who are not fat, well groomed, looking for a bf, but you ignore them. Porn makes you like the Gollumn who craves th…	/r/seduction	11/11/19 10:07 AM
1	Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success) If he were Casanova, he wouldn't be needing your thought-out advice.	/r/seduction	11/11/19 10:03 AM
1	Getting ghosted even though things seemed to be on course / attraction being built? Is this more common these days? You don't exist to her because atm all she's anxious about is whether Chad's gonna get through. If he doesn't, she'll likely contact you.	/r/seduction	01/11/19 04:57 PM
2	I will go out today and approach at least one woman today, for the first time. Just putting this here to make myself accountable and therefore motivated. Will report back later today. While it's true that some girls will freak out about your "lazy eye", there will be some other girls who will find it irresistibly attractive if combined with confidence. This will actually give you an edge with some hot girls lol. Just keep approaching until you find her.	/r/seduction	30/10/19 04:52 PM