strawman83 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Unless its family, youre not getting unconditional love. This is the reality that most men are painfully slowly waking up to. I don’t think you fully comprehend that you have just laid out a redpill fundamental - she can’t love you like you want her to	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 03:47 PM
3	Male loneliness and lack of male-only spaces are largely self-inflicted problems The freemasons are supposed to be a secretive group. Where are you seeing ‘no girls allowed’ signs?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 12:43 AM
2	In the modern dating age, the first step is the women "choosing the man", often times before he is even aware of it. In this way, women are the true initiators and selectors and men have far less power over the outcome. Some men get to choose, while others have to be chosen	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 06:02 AM
0	Why are you a red piller ? These social narratives must appeal to individual women on some level for them to be a deterministic cause. Women are not a hive mind, despite what TRP might claim. I think you are putting the cart before the horse here. More and more women are walking away from men and relationships because they out perform men now, something that has never happened in the history of our species. This unfortunately means that a lot of men are now deemed unsuitable for partnerships. The social trends you are ref…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 06:29 AM
4	Why are you a red piller ? The implication here is then that women have no agency of their own and are at the mercy of contemporary social trends. Why is this deemed more believable than women being at the mercy of their lizard brain instincts?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 03:31 AM
6	This subreddit seems to think women must choose between horny sociopaths and asexual men. I meant as in women rejecting a man for a relationship because of his past sexual history	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 02:56 PM
23	This subreddit seems to think women must choose between horny sociopaths and asexual men. It's funny that when a man on here talks about 'needing love' in his life, he is usually told that such things aren't a necessity in life by someone on here. And the sigma male stuff is really just the male equivalent of feminist grifters pushing 'I don't need a man' narrative. Thirdly, where are we seeing all these men demanding virginal brides? Nearly all men just want a woman who is genuinely sexually attracted to them and has not had a ridiculous amount of previous sexual partners. This is s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 02:40 PM
3	The main problem with many modern men is their need for approval from women It's not approval they seek from women. Part of the so-called patriarchy (see religion) was to enshrine in men the notion that female nature was divine. That it was something that made your life complete. Men have been socially conditioned for centuries tom compete for female affection and 'love'. You can see this illustrated in a lot of modern films and media aimed at a male audience. The combination of atheism and feminism rising at the same time is forcing men to reconcile this notion with th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 07:56 AM
0	Do you support "old school" feminism? And would you say that it is a majority of red pillers that say this? If you had to guess a perecentage?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 12:36 AM
0	Men who don't want to get married, why? Did you ever consider that might be because people (usually men) with financial or psychiatric problems aren't deemed suitable for marriage in the first place? I think you are putting the cart before the horse	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 03:52 AM
2	Unconditional love doesn't exists Very true. It feels like most women have always known this and most men are just finding out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 03:13 PM
–	Do we have to pin women down to a science. I agree somewhat with this. And some of the conclusions men are coming up with are far too proscribed and lack nuance. But remember, men doing this collectively is a fairly recent phenomenon. Women have been doing this for male nature and relationships in general for decades. And they have equally narrow-minded conclusions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 02:57 PM
1	Women’s desires from a partner are simply more antagonistic for relationship building than men’s Can you give an example of this 'pressure' and where it comes from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 02:00 PM
–	We have to address this. The disdain a lot of women show towards gay or bi men is outright disgusting. They see them as lesser men. I remember when they went after Kevin Samuels, calling him gay and in the closet. I wasn't a big fan of his until I saw his response to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 03:08 PM
0	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? If you were to believe some of the responses from women on here, they are all honest angels that never ever cheat or deceive. Yet we know for a fact that isn't true. Some of you clearly are po-faced liars when it comes to paternity fraud and infidelity. Unfortunately, these women have spoiled things for the rest. A perfect illustration of the "Women are wonderful" effect	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 07:26 AM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? How can there be a counterbalance? Women are 100% certain of paternity, men are of varying degrees. In the same manner, there is no counterbalance for a woman's right to abort a pregnancy	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 07:10 AM
1	CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individuals This false perception was created by religious Patriarchy and concepts of the 'divine femme'	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 07:32 PM
1	Are men upset that mothers will prioritize their children over their lover? Nobody is saying that. You are jumping to the extremes	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 03:05 PM
1	Are men upset that mothers will prioritize their children over their lover? Why is a woman, with the ascribed attributes, even looking for a relationship if she prioritises these things first? How many women do you know would be happy with a man who prioritised his motorcycle maintenance hobby over his relationship with her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 12:16 PM
-1	Women are championed for their preferences while men are demonized Do men like this exist? Sure. Do these men make up the majority of men? Absolutely not. You are actively choosing to pick out a small minority of men and then try to push their behaviours on all men. And again, women don't even care about the approval of these men - they just want the status the comes from mass approval of men and wome Just go take a look outside - you'll see men and women just going about their day. Not affecting anyone around them. You need to step away from the screens if thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 04:31 PM
-2	Women are championed for their preferences while men are demonized I'll just repeat the question: So you agree that it is for status and not the approval of individual men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 04:16 PM
0	Women are championed for their preferences while men are demonized So you agree that it is for status and not the approval of individual men? Nobody forces women to seek out pretty privilege. They do it for the perks	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 04:04 PM
4	Women are championed for their preferences while men are demonized Taught this by whom exactly? Women desire pretty privilege for the perceived status and ultimately easy life it provides. It has nothing to do with men	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 03:21 PM
5	Women are championed for their preferences while men are demonized Ostracized communities. Let's not pretend that these critiques are mainstream	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 03:19 PM
2	The porn problem will never be solved What do you mean by "I quite naturally assume the bulk of onlyfans is run by similar people as porn and simply has the mask of being safer and woman led."? It's my understanding that onlyfans is just the hosting platform and the content creators themselves promote their own content. How is that the same as a porn production company that runs all of the promotional work? "It's also so freaking new that I don't think most of us know what to make of it or how it influences things. I would suspect w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 12:33 PM
4	The porn problem will never be solved I agree with this for the most part, but I think your critique is incomplete. As the internet and the applicable tech has developed, 'porn companies' have exploited young and naive men, giving them false interpretations of what sex is and how men and women relate to each other. But why are you excluding the rise of parasocial DIY pornstars like onlyfans and instagram models, who also influence how young impressionable men relate sexually and emotionally to women? It wasn't that long ago that the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 12:48 PM
2	What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"? This is true. But one gender is critiqued much much more than the other for being shallow in regard to physical appearance. There is no 'Shallow Hal' movie for women	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 10:34 AM
0	Men have allowed modern dating to become how it is by never refusing to date women, no matter how bad her past/heavy her baggage. Are you seriously trying to suggest that the vast majority of men have the shared insecurity? Is the female preference for men taller than themselves also rooted in insecurity? This is all just feminist wishful thinking. The equivalent of men believing that their financial status should have no relevance to a woman considering dating them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 02:46 PM
0	Men have allowed modern dating to become how it is by never refusing to date women, no matter how bad her past/heavy her baggage. So you do care if she has a lot of experience? Does this make you insecure?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 02:12 PM
4	Men have allowed modern dating to become how it is by never refusing to date women, no matter how bad her past/heavy her baggage. If you're mature enough to be ready for a serious relationship, it's only important if you have religious background or insecurity issues. Or shared values when it comes to sexual expression? People, male and female, can become extremely jaded from a promiscuous lifestyle. The fact is, the vast majority of men take issue with it, so trying to pin this down as an insecurity is an 'irrational jump in reasoning' when it is a clear preference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 02:07 PM
5	It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all men OK I'm curious... What extreme rhetoric against women is tolerated in online spaces?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 01:42 PM
2	The Red Pill will become mainstream because the gender divide has become impossible to ignore And frankly most women are either too stupid (unable to comprehend these long term trends) or too selfish ("fuck you I got mine", directed at future generations of women) to effect change. This all depends on the perceived success or perceived success of millennial and gen Z single and/or child free women. If perceived as a success to the generation that comes after, then western society (first) will start to tank dramatically. These generations are now feminist canaries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 03:24 PM
1	Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal more The most desirable of men are few. The women that think they are on the same level as said men are many. This is where the disparity starts. Most women have to choose Billy beta, share a desirable man (if he is even into that), or they get nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 12:05 AM
1	What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating? They usually end up resenting these men and treating them terribly. I've always fully endorsed the idea of women retaining their standards and refusing to settle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 01:07 AM
1	How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn? They are all factors. I like to call it "the poisoned wells theory"	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 08:20 PM
4	Who gets more benefits from marriage: men or women? Discussing common misconceptions You don't need to be married for any of these benefits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:20 PM
1	Guys that get mad because a girl 'makes them wait' while being 'fast' with other guys are acting entitled to sex. And the same for women who are pumped and dumped. Grow a spine and move onto the next.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 02:53 PM
1	Body count and infidelity excerpts The attacks on the OPs research are hilarious. Instead of analysing and critiquing what has been researched, many posters on here are pontificating on his emotional state ('he's just insecure')	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 03:17 PM
1	Body count and infidelity excerpts Toxic feminism	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 03:12 PM
1	What benefit do women have being more emotional than men? I'm confused by what you mean. Are you suggesting that women prefer to be the emotional partner, and an emotional man would be infringing on that? That makes perfect sense, if you are suggesting that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 10:08 PM
4	What benefit do women have being more emotional than men? I hate this argument. Men use deadlier means because they are more determined to kill themselves, therefore more suicidal than women. It's not a suffering competition	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 09:51 PM
1	What benefit do women have being more emotional than men? Gen Z boys weren't raised like that. While I think your take was applicable in the past, I think it is a misnomer now. The conversation we need to be having now: is why some, if not most, women do not like men who are 'emotionally expressive'? In general, men want women and women pick men. Women play a major part in what society deems as acceptable male behaviour, especially in an intimate setting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 09:37 PM
1	"Who Hurt You?" It's better to use "Sorry he doesn't love you back" for a woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/21 05:34 PM
2	Men want / need women more than the other way around It's only the sertraline that makes it seem rad	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 02:19 PM
3	Is the Red Pill ideology misunderstood these days or is it truly the toxic ideology people claim it to be? By Cassie Jaye? That is about MRA issues. Not TRP in regards to dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 03:13 AM
1	Why is it ok in porn? non responsive	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 09:19 AM
-2	Why is it ok in porn? If a lot of feminists are against it and determined to censor it... Then who has stopped them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 09:04 AM
1	Why is it ok in porn? I'm not advocating censorship. Just stating the fact, that men wouldn't care about it in the long run.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 08:48 AM
-2	Why is it ok in porn? Where is the attack and the marches on violent porn then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 08:47 AM
1	Why is it ok in porn? Some feminists do, but not feminism as a whole. They could literally do it tomorrow, if they wanted. The only people standing in their way will be sex work advocates. Because there are very few men that care enough about it or would be too ashamed to stick their neck out against such an action.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 08:44 AM
0	Why is it ok in porn? Men wouldn't care if that type of porn went away. Well maybe some would at first, on grounds of freedom of expression and what not. But after a while, the desire for it would fade. They would just jerk off to something else. I grew up in 90s and the porn was nowhere near as extreme as it is now. No men in the 90s or 80s or 70s watched that stuff and they were fine. You could probably strip porn back to the top-shelf reader's wives magazines, and men would still be fine in the long run. We excel …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 08:34 AM
8	Redpill ideology: what is it's moral stance on sexuality? Would you take the same tone with a short woman who wants a tall man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 03:39 AM
34	Redpill ideology: what is it's moral stance on sexuality? Redpill isn't a religion or a philosophy. It doesn't deal with moral ambiguities. It attempts to reflect how sexual attraction between men and women actually works in real terms. If anything, redpill attempts to strip out the moral ambiguity Promiscuous women are not desired by the majority of men, because men have a natural fear of being cuckolded. This, of course, can be classed as irrational because there are previously promiscuous women who have settled down, left the CC for good and made fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 03:19 AM
7	Women having toxic beauty standard is a result of their own high sexual disgust and seeing only top tier men as a qualified partner. Your second paragraph contradicts your first If his perceptions are void, then so are yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/21 05:17 PM
–	Why do women hate men who show their good-looking bodies? I'm curious about this 'intense pressure' - where do you think it comes from and what do you think would happen if you didn't self-objectify?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 12:31 PM
3	CMV: The woke crowd is doing little to nothing to address the legitimate grievances of men. They can't expect acceptance and support in return. What exactly do you think Cancel Culture is about then? If not a result of the 'woke crowd'?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/21 01:25 PM
9	Is r/askwomen confirming trp worldview? it's the same thing with men in regards to their wife's body. The only difference being that this is widely accepted as being and men who behave in such a manner are criticised for it. Yet the perception of the 'fairer' sex still persists. The Red Pill is not about giving men a free pass. It's about trying to understand, and react to, the predispositions of women in regard to dating/marriage. .	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 06:29 PM
17	Is r/askwomen confirming trp worldview? but if you marry a woman who fell in love with you because of the exciting life you lead together you can't be surprised when mundanity weighs on her attraction. Because she only ever loved you for what you are... not who you are. Thus confirming TRP in a sense. Do you think women are being open about this to men they are dating presently - "I'll love you but only if these certain conditions are met" ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 04:04 PM
1	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? Mea sponte non serviam	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 10:01 PM
2	Red Pill Coaches don’t seem to follow their own advice TRP by 'definition' is not limited to being a subreddit. I see we might be arguing about different aspects here. A subreddit can be moderated, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 09:07 PM
4	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread I have to ask... Will all women, of fighting age, be included in your hypothetical draft?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 06:20 PM
3	Most men (on this sub) who have had sex have experienced women faking their orgasms, and believe it. Women who fake orgasms don't deserve real ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 09:07 AM
14	What are some signs a woman has a high N count? From my experiences - a history of sexual abuse(s) goes hand in hand with a high count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/20 10:33 PM
10	Differences about how men and women view infidelity A lot of women are grossed out by men who are bisexual. Either because they assume by "bisexual" he actually means "gay and is only halfway out of the closet", because they have this idea that a man having sex with another man is somehow emasculating, or because they're worried about STDs. Then a lot of women are homophobic and given a free pass on it due to their gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/20 12:06 AM
2	Woman who threw chair onto a busy freeway is spared jail. Of course. "...was also under the influence of peer pressure at the time" This is hilarious. A paradigm case for this subreddit	/r/PussyPass	22/07/20 10:25 AM
4	Categories Seem Legit I thought this subreddit of MGTOW was supposed to be above this kind of crass nonsense?	/r/MGTOW2	13/07/20 08:05 AM
1	What percentage of guys who take on wives with promiscuous pasts do you think have cuckold fetishes or would forgive first-time infidelities? Not having a lot of sex is still having sex. Therefore, a virgin cannot be considered an edge case. The opposite of promiscuous is conservative or selectively. This is implicit in the question itself. Weird to bring 13 year old virgins into it at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/20 11:19 PM
3	Has anyone else noticed that sometimes one partner is less attractive than the other? Aren't women considered to be better looking than men in general? That would explain the harsher rating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/20 11:10 PM
6	What percentage of guys who take on wives with promiscuous pasts do you think have cuckold fetishes or would forgive first-time infidelities? The opposite of a promiscuous woman is not a 13 year old virgin. Again... Weird	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/20 08:33 PM
6	What percentage of guys who take on wives with promiscuous pasts do you think have cuckold fetishes or would forgive first-time infidelities? Nothing was mentioned about virgins here at all. Weird retort	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/20 08:02 PM
5	George Orwell on the unique troubles of low status men Using sex dolls will not free lower value men from anything of the sort. It will just add another layer of humiliation.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/06/20 08:57 PM