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| 1 | Interesting social experiment showing why dating is a numbers game for menI’m too old to know what TF OLD stands for, what is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Best app for managing contacts?New digits. Logs your contacts in the app by date and time of acquisition. It’s a game changer for game. | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Going for my first approach in about an hourGo up to a woman today and tell her she looks nice. Then walk away. Do that a bunch to get lubricated. | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 04:04 PM |
| 7 | Went dancing at the club tonight. Something totally awesome happened!No man. Those with experience know that shit may happen once every ten years. But this dude has some momentum and more confidence. Don’t shit on him because he does not use the same skills you do. How about you try to be encouraging. | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 01:13 PM |
| 6 | Went dancing at the club tonight. Something totally awesome happened!Perhaps just leaving his room is taking a risk. Perhaps encouraging them will motivate them to change. Perhaps just not running away was a win for this dude. Yeah he didn’t use any of the tips a typical PUA used, but fuck man. Cut this kid a break. | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 01:11 PM |
| 14 | Went dancing at the club tonight. Something totally awesome happened!Hope. It provided hope for those who have not achieved anything like that. Hope is why people pay for Tinder gold, play the lotto, and get up everyday and lift weights and grind it out. Hope is the most powerful emotion when someone is struggling, and this guy found a bit of hope. He wanted to share it with those who didn’t have it. This wasn’t the typical braggy douche share. I hope you find it some day too. | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 11:44 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting uncontrollably nervous before talking to woman.It’s like public speaking for me. I got good at that by practicing and exposing myself (not literally) to crowds over and over again. Now I can present to 100 plus no prob. I am trying the same thing with pick up. I am doing it over and over and over. I get blown out occasionally. But then I roll on to the next set. The last girl that laughed at me has no bearing on the next set’s reaction. Only on my mindset carries over if I let it bother me. | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 10:25 PM |
| -1 | Getting a number in front of othersAsk her “have you ever been to ______ Restaraunt? Her: no, I have not. OR Yes, I love it. You: great, I am taking you there next week. (Hand her your phone with contact screen pre-opened) You: Pop your number in here Done. | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Need Tips for Cold ApproachesTo be fair, of the 120, I singled out one of the group and got their number (at the end of the set). 120 was just total women I interacted with. Don’t want to inflate the amount I asked to chill. Biggest things I learned: -Woman usually enjoy a non creepy normal conversation. All that BS I tell myself (they don’t want to be bothered, they have a BF, they are bitchy) are all lies I tell myself so I can pussy out. They were flattered and loved it usually. -Being confident and approaching with a se… | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Need Tips for Cold ApproachesThis boot camp was out of my town, no point in a date. It was my first real try at game. So I was in it to maximize my approaches and get good at cold approaches and getting past approach anxiety. I averaged about 10-15 min of building connection, longer if she was a 9 and she was really feeling it. I got 19 numbers. Approached 120ish women in two days. Didn’t get I laid but that wasn’t the point. I would say 90% of the sets loved talking to me and the guy running the boot camp. I assumed all gi… | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Need Tips for Cold ApproachesI see your view for sure. That would be my angle when in my home town. Being a traveler for work I keep it shallow. But that sounds like a good plan when I am local. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Need Tips for Cold ApproachesSo I just did a boot camp. 2 night games, one day game session in the states. I approached the sets (usually 3 to a set), told them I just transferred to town and it’s my second night. I say “I need your opinion on something, that I am looking for a place to live. What areas do you recommend?” A few minutes later if they are flirty I say “man you are _______. (Beautiful, gorgeous, etc). If she isn’t feeling it I build value in my status. Personally, professionally etc. I find some common ground.… | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 09:54 PM |
| 4 | Need Tips for Cold ApproachesIt’s a numbers game. No pun intended. If I get 10 numbers at least 4 won’t reply. 3 will text bs around and not meet up. 3 will be down for a date. I was told the build the funnel. Get lots of numbers and just see which ones are serious about meeting up later. It’s like sales. Some people flake and some buy. To increase buys I have to pitch to more people. Short answer I was told: get more damn numbers. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 07:04 PM |
| 0 | What can I say to this? She just has Aeronautical engineering in her bioAsk if it’s true that jet engines really “Just Suck, bang, blow...” | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 08:21 PM |
| 18 | How I overcame approach anxietyHa. Yes. Usually the last one I still manage to miss before we have sex. | /r/seduction | 19/03/19 06:28 PM |
| 4 | You eating at a diner, and you see a girl sitting next to you, eating alone. It's Friday night. She doesn't have a bf. Do you go talk to her? Or hope she gives you signs of interest first?My regret for not approaching was greater then the sting of rejection. This when I started approaching. Sounds like you are there, or close. I hated that feeling of “Fuck...why didn’t I talk to her.” So now I approach. I get shot down some, but every now and then I strike gold. Try it man. What do you have to lose? | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 08:34 PM |
| 11 | Is it worth trying to pick up girls if I don’t have my own place?You live out of town, and you are staying with your dad’s for his bday. It’s not all about splitting wood. Some days I go out just to sharpen the saw. | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 03:38 PM |
| 22 | Is it worth trying to pick up girls if I don’t have my own place?If nothing else it’s good practice for later. I think of it like public speaking. It takes practice. Even if I blow my chance today I will not make the same mistake tomorrow. Be confident and tell them you are from out of town if you have to, go to their place. | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | I think I hurt his feelings when I told him...What does white night syndrome mean? | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 01:49 PM |
| 2 | I have a date.Not true. I’ve had multiple approaches where she declined a dinner date before I knew more about the game. Good for you bro. One down makes the next one a bit easier. | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 08:25 AM |
| 0 | woman looked at me but I instantly turned my eyes awayI had a dude tell me that if I walk up to a girl in the store the whole store assumes we are friends. The only people who know we don’t know each other are their friends and anyone in ear shot. This blew my mind. I never thought of it that way. Yes talking to them is uncomfortable and it’s a growing process. To be honest I practice on talking to all people, not just smoking hot chics, that way it’s more natural when I do have one land in my lap. Figuratively speaking. It’s just a chat, that ends… | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 06:08 AM |
| 1 | woman looked at me but I instantly turned my eyes awayHere her is what I do. Posted this 10 seconds ago. Regret vs rejection | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 05:54 AM |
| 3 | Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”...Asking the real questions... | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 05:45 AM |
| 3 | My therapist basically urged me to approach moreSounds like they are from this : Lines | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected brutallyI think research and practice was a must for me. I had to understand the psychology behind the dance. I don’t obsess or worship people, but I did do my research and I do practice daily. I get better by figuring out what does not work. I even practice on guys just to get good at dealing with mixed crowds. Like public speaking I am getting better with every execution. | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Got rejected brutallyDo you get better at public speaking by refusing to speak in public? No. It’s the same theory. You must practice. Keep. It. Simple. | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 01:38 PM |
| 70 | Way more attention at school when I start dating a girl.Ha. This was one of the most valuable lessons I learned in the career world. Nothing makes a great company want you more then a good company “having” you now. Let the recruiters come calling. | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 12:17 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Tinder match to lay within 4 hours; full text convos attachedWhat are some written resources to read further on said concepts, push/pull, qualifying, etc. | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Manufacturing Attraction: How to add sexual tension in conversation where there isn’t anyThx | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Manufacturing Attraction: How to add sexual tension in conversation where there isn’t anyWhat’s this guys name? | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 09:54 PM |
| 6 | [F28] SHY GUYS: How do I tell a potential (but extremely shy) guy that I'm in an open marriage and want to play, without scaring him away?I was told this at 14 when I was sucking on the owner’s daughter’s tits. Didn’t listen then, nor do I now, but it is sound advice. | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 02:14 PM |
| 2 | The odds are good, but the goods are odd.This is crucial for any guy struggling. See a girl on the train with a wedding ring on? Sit down and talk about the weather, the stink of pee in NYC subways, her jacket...whatever. Just sit down and talk for 5 min. Treat this as social practice. If you can’t talk to a platonic stranger who is female how the hell will you ever talk to a hot single woman? It’s just like public speaking. If it scares you then you must practice! | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Tinder is confusingNo worries man. I bombed much worse, ha. All we can do it get after it next time! | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 12:56 AM |
| 12 | Tinder is confusingPerhaps she isn’t a fan of dudes that drink 5 shots before a date. I’ve done it fo sho. Not trying to hate. But some chics don’t dig it. Plus her car probably smelled like booze. | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 11:34 PM |
| 7 | Inexperienced guy needs sexual adviceAsk if she has ever driven a manual. Put her hand on the shifter Place your hand on top of hers and show her the gears as you drive. It’s educational, vibrational, and non-traditional. Used it in high school all the time. Then build from there. | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 02:02 PM |
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