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streetlecture/r/askTRP25/10/18 01:27 PM
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streetlecture/r/askTRP12/10/18 03:16 AM
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I'm far from being the best version of me.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 01:39 AM
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Only you know what makes you tick. What motivates you in the morning to wake up early. A mission you chase day in and day out. Find that mission. Live it. Breathe it. That will give your life purpose.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 11:37 PM
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Hey now you know! Onto next one my g.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 10:51 PM
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My dude. You're in a fish bowl. You're not even in the real world yet. It's a big ocean out here.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 10:50 PM
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Why make your life harder? Just put some effort into school.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:56 PM
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Man I remember nights like this. Fucking horrible I know. Honestly bro, sometimes you just need that post nut clarity to realize you just got to chillllllll out and stay grinding to become Chad. THEN the ladies will come.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:55 PM
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Women are cat called when you're there and when you're not. It's nothing new. Why waste energy on such a pathetic attempt? If you think you're girl would potentially do something with this guy based off that shows a lack of confidence.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:14 PM
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Exactly. Turns the tables. The other comment on my post had a solid point about losing this "friend." But only you know all the details and can conclude what is most likely to happen. It's an asshole move tbh.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:42 PM
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Well said.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 01:24 PM
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Hey bro. Do you have access to a sauna? When I feel down I enjoy sitting in it for 10-20mins and just sweat out my issues. A light jog does wonders too. Best of luck.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 12:44 PM
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He's frequentlywrong, but this time he's right.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 11:36 AM
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The greatest teacher is always a student. Thanks for sharing wisdom bro. Cheers.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:40 AM
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In this social climate, I can agree with this answer. It's sad what it's come to. Everything you do or say as a man is apparently always on thin ice.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:40 PM
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Ooo. One of my favorite moves to make betas (only when they tick me off) embarrassed is when yall are together look the girl in the eye and say I heard you guys are dating now. The beta will immediately lose frame and the girl will deny hardcore. Bam.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 09:52 PM
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I mean before escalating to management I'd prefer to just straight up ask her "you told me you'd be done with 2 sets 50 minutes ago." Call her on bs. Obviously the first time don't come off as butt-hurt but emphasize everyone pays the same to use the equipment. I bet she's never been called on this shit so therefore she sees nothing wrong. If she's rude about a friendly reminder then of course I'd go to mngt. Fuck her you don't get special privileges here.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 09:42 PM
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justredpillthings
/r/askTRP05/11/18 07:01 PM
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Idk. But I can say once you become a "selfish" asshole who only "cares about his mission" and understands the dating game is truly just a #'s thing... and there's soooo many beautiful women out there you won't put much thought into getting nervous when talking to her. Always more women... only one life to achieve your mission. Think about that.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:16 PM
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You should read up on body language. Look into her eyes... does she hold the look? That's one of my favorite ways to tell.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:09 PM
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This is gold. Saved.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 06:27 PM
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I watched first encounter. Looks legit and unscripted based off her reaction and body language. I'd say it's definitely possible. Most guys don't do this. The ones that do probably fuck it up. You though... you lucky bastard you... have TRP to help. Obviously this guy has his shit together in vid. Has value. I think it would be beneficial for you to review exactly what TRP traits this guy displays. Write them down. Start working on yourself to build these traits. That is the path you must take i…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 11:35 AM
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Book of Pook
/r/askTRP04/11/18 04:15 AM
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A condom will help with sensitivity in my xp.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:35 AM
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Focus on graduating high school. Something something gym.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 08:39 PM
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Bro. Smack yourself across your own face right now. She's broken your frame. Move the fuck on or wallow in pity and actually care what a tiny human thinks of you. Or go conquer your goals and start gaming other women. I assumed you knew but I'll spell it out (I've been here before) this chick is DONE. STOP TRYING. For fk sake man pull yourself together.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 06:45 PM
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Yes. You got thrown a curveball. You lost frame. Fuck it. Happens to everyone, eh? Onto the next one! Cause you know... you got abundance mentality, right?
/r/askTRP03/11/18 05:42 PM
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You honestly sound good mate. Finding your grove, eh.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 05:33 PM
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Lots of words here for a simple question. What's your mission? That is the TRP way. You should be consumed, day and night, with achieving this goal. Women? Sheeeesh! They're a by product of an awesome and fulfilling lifestyle. In other words... they compliment you... they don't make you. I mean fuck most will enjoy the free ride. You need to internalize some core RP lessons here. Find a mission and create an action plan. I swear, by the old gods and new, if you follow my advice you'll start disp…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 05:24 PM
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When in doubt, whip it out.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:41 PM
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Yeah. The thought of seeing a vindictive woman with a personal vendetta against me 40+ hours a week sounds... not fun. I hope you internalize this lesson.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 02:54 PM
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All I see is a post about one girl. Where's the other girls you're gaming?
/r/askTRP03/11/18 12:12 PM
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Crabs in bucket mentality. They're projecting their insecurities onto you. Imagine a year from now... all those little changes you keep making will compound. Stay focused on your mission. Words are worthless.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:55 AM
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If you lay down with dogs, you'll get up with fleas.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:48 AM
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Eye contact. Escalate and flirt. Grab #. Leave before you fuck it up and say more words.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:25 AM
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This. It was a shit test OP. You failed but upon self reflection you've found that out yourself. Next time just laugh and say any press is good press or some stupid shit.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 01:45 PM
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Have a goal with interactions like this. Example: see hot girl. Goal is get #. Talk, talk, light flirting, she laughs and I can feel chemistry. Grab #. Leave! Always leave a move ahead. It's like kissing a girl but pulling away before she does... leaves her wanting more. This strategy I shared above will trigger similar responses. She'll be like who is this guy!?
/r/askTRP01/11/18 01:37 PM
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The Book of Pook.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 11:33 AM
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I'm currently revisiting the Book of Pook. I think you should revisit part 1. Study action vs inaction. You can find this on YouTube.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:16 PM
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💯
/r/askTRP29/10/18 05:17 PM
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Yeah he wants all to himself. What the fk u gonna do about it
/r/askTRP27/10/18 05:04 AM
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If you want him to stop hit him where it hurts. Call him out 4 being thirsty
/r/askTRP27/10/18 02:46 AM
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Enjoy what we have left of trp on reddit before this sub is gone as well.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 12:16 AM
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He's thirsty af just ignore the infidel and carry on. You can't save them all.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 12:14 AM
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Did you really write all of this just for me to say don't shit where you eat?
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:04 PM
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But it is an activity that stimulates your brain in one of the healthiest ways possible. You foster testosterone growth, your body physically changes and you learn discipline. The activity itself isn't the glory. It's the process of doing it day in and day out. Lifting is mandatory in my opinion in trp philosophy.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 02:25 PM
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Hey. The worst thing you can do is roll over and take life's massive cock up the ass while you moan like a good bitch. You need drastic life changes. You knew this and posted this thread. That's step 1. You're internally aware there is a problem. Question 2 is will you do something about it? Even a small step forward? I'm glad you're here OP. My life is similar to this post and it struck a chord in me. You're still young but you have to start giving yourself the opportunity to grow. YOU NEED TO …
/r/askTRP26/10/18 12:02 PM
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Get huge in gym. All will solve itself.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 02:54 AM
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This. $5 Polo shirts? Yes plz. Fly Patagonia jackets? I'll take two. And you anyways find that unique piece that fits u perfect and gets the compliments.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 09:04 PM
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I'm not asking for the literal definition. I'm asking how do you interpret it. Reread question.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:39 PM
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I believe that's Rollo's definition of Frame, correct? Might be the genesis of it. Not sure. I remember reading about that concept in TRM book. My interpretation is similar. Staying true to your mission and completing the necessary tasks associated with it. That is what makes me happy. That is my mental point of origin. Where I always strive to return towards.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:38 PM
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Hah! Did not see that ending coming. Still have those blue tinted glasses on. Thanks for sharing. A solid example of what holding FRAME is all about. Stay true to yourself is definitely an alpha trait.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:34 PM
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Just your brain drugging you with chemicals.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:31 PM
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Can u link me bro
/r/askTRP25/10/18 01:07 AM
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God speed.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 01:06 AM
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Lab + Poodle mix. They're hypoallergenic as well. Big dogs. Loyal and smart.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:05 PM
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Let your wings spread and fly away brother.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:38 PM
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I briefly scrolled through your post history. I'm not here to spam you but only offer my advice. You're obsessed with sex. To you, more sex = better life. You're going down the wrong path on the road of self improvement. Instead of being a dweeb and tell me to fk off I suggest you look inward. Review the sidebar and learn what it means to be a man and finding your self worth. Which is having a clear defined mission.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 05:02 PM
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You're putting pussy on a pedestal. You can't possibly comprehend how you can enjoy life if your not swimming in poon 24/7. Your post reeks of betaness that needs to be removed. I'm here to help. To offer guidance. If you value your self worth based off the amount of chicks you fuck then you're priorities in life right now are terrible. You'll never be happy chasing that goal. I have answered the question. I think now it's your turn to answer this question, why do you give pussy so much power ov…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 04:53 PM
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Anything that takes you off your path. The devil is in the details.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:02 PM
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Your mission shouldn't ever be concerned with women. Your issue lies here.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 04:59 AM
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Let me guess... you're stalking on social media? Delete it all. That's my advice.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:30 AM
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Lol I always imagine the OP sitting in a HR room with the chick in question accusing him of being a shitlord in posts like this. Especially when "coworker" and "job" are in title. Tell me how that shit tastes OP you're gonna be eating a lot of it.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:27 AM
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I mean I'd hope you go cause you love to salsa. Who cares what happens with the female. There's always time for fucky fucky and sucky sucky.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:24 AM
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My dude. You know the problem. It's lack of balls. Drop them and swing them at this fair lady so she may leave. The longer you wait to end it the worse it'll be for both of you. You've obviously made up your mind. Take action.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:21 AM
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"Did it work?"
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:18 AM
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Hah! Took a mental note.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:16 AM
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I will bestow upon you that books that dropped by figurative enormous ballsack. Read this book first and I promise you all the anxiety I sensed in your post will be relieved. I swear to fucking god. Read The Book of Pook. Second... read The Rational Male. Look man I can sit here and type a manual but you'd probably just lazily glance over it. Plus I don't want to write one. Just pick up these fucking books and then you can make a similar post to the thousands of others about "how it changed my l…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 03:13 AM
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Is this a joke?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 01:22 AM
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Lol. Why do girls flip so fast. It'll never cease to amaze me. You have oneitis. You said it yourself. The solution is focus on your mission. As it is for most problems here. Seriously just move on. Save yourself the trouble. You already knew the answer.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 12:04 AM
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It is a weird situation. Men are programed to think about sex every few seconds. Of course this guy will try to pipe your girl. I feel relieved I've given up on the idea of exclusivity when I broke up with my ex 2 years ago. Your gut is telling you something OP. Yes it's extremely odd. I don't even have a straight answer for you. All I can say is being single idgaf what any girl does. Plate or not.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 11:40 PM
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Just start with a hello and add a head nod. Over time you'll work up more words. Little steps.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 11:24 PM
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If they make eye contact and give that interested look I'm saying "Hi" at bare minimum. I can not stand the feeling of regret. Especially with that lovely lady buying milk at the grocery store. So, now I want to know if she wants the ding dong. I'll approach and start with Hi and take it from there. # close is best here. At least you know you tried. That's what motivates me.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 08:06 PM
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"Hey X. It's X. Will you be at X this weekend?" clicks that was easy button
/r/askTRP23/10/18 08:00 PM
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She's probably shit testing you. Just AA and keep it light. The other guy talking about you helps a lot. The girl can sense he doesn't like you so this causes you to be exciting in her eyes. Don't call out the guy or explain shit to her about another guys motive. That's weird. Ignore unless prompted. But idk the situation/context entirely.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 07:56 PM
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Hard next. AWALT. She will cheat on you. ONEITIS ALERT. You're fine nigga. Stop stressing out over trivial shit.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 07:04 PM
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He's helping you out. You're the bad guy. Girls love bad boys. Ignore the peasant and go back to ruling your kingdom.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 07:03 PM
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Yup. I have 0 social media. When ever I tell someone I don't have social media most ppl do ask why. I say it's not my thing/ it's toxic. Everyone has nodded in agreement. No one has been like WTF YOU WEIRDO. I'd say it's safe to assume most humans know social media is bad for you. The public perception of social media has turned sour lately I've noticed. Why do so many ppl still use it? It's an addiction/drug and literally designed to consume your time. Your most valuable asset. Think about that…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 06:40 PM
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You as well bro.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:39 PM
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They're at the peak of their SMV. That means she has more POTENTIAL to get around due to increased male attention. Doesn't mean every girl is a bimbo.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:31 PM
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Having a mission is one of the most stressed aspects of TRP. Mine is not set in stone and in all honestly I'm working on staying on the path. I'll just continue with building discipline and committed to gym. Everything you mentioned comes naturally when you start improving yourself first.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:13 PM
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You're in a group with 27 girls. A few dudes. And all you can think about is some guy named Mike. STOP FOCUSING ON MIKE! Talk to the lovely ladies and build repertoire.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:00 PM
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That's why having a defined (measurable results) mission will keep you on the rp path. The more you commit, the more consistent and thus more alpha you become. What's your mission?
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:57 PM
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Yes. This is the path. Keep putting yourself in difficult and uncomfortable situations so you grow as a man and develop confidence. You have to grow it internally. Doing alpha things produces an alpha attitude.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:34 PM
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I personally think it's cool when all the homies fuck whomever. I'm not dating any of them. Shows exactly what I, and others, think of them.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:25 PM
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Lol fuck no that chick could harass the hell out of you if you fuck it up. Which you probably would since you asked this on a pickup forum. HARD PASS.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:23 PM
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Yeah. A lot depends on age and strength of relationship. If it's just some homies you get drunk with or something than obviously you're not missing a lot by cutting them out of your life. Ask yourself OP, what value do they add to your life? You'll know what to do after you answer that.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:21 PM
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This. She needs to put in effort on her side. If you got her tingling, she'll hit you up. Trust me. You should be busy anyway with all your plans and txting backup #2 and #3 in order. See who wins by coming over first lol.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:34 PM
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Dude. All this stress and energy spent on one fucking chick? For fuck sake she doesn't even sound desirable. Blatantly cheats on her beta. It's honestly fking repulsive you're obsessed with this oneitis. Find more chicks and please hold your standards higher. Work on writing too.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:30 PM
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no
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:02 PM
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Why focus on the ball and chain? She is the prize after all. In her mind.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:43 AM
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You recognized you're acting beta. Good that's step 1. Let's correct that. Now you must learn to escalate and gauge response. If she vibes, keep going. If not, lay off for a bit and give it a go. That's push pull method. Just don't act like a bf. Keep practicing mate. You're on your way.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:38 AM
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There's no way this is real. Sounds like a Disney Channel TV show.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:31 AM
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I don't have a clear mission in life. That is my issue. Thanks for the comment.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 02:34 AM
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I have 0 social media since August. Highly recommend. The only competition should be yourself. Porn is non existent. I nofap (not religiously). I need to be better on a few other things. But adopting those have x10 my life.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 02:27 AM
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I really like this approach. Smoking alone is by far the least productive habit I have. Cutting that would improve my situation a lot.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 02:22 AM
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Good call. It's (painfully obvious) this guy is a leech who only uses you for his gain. What'd you get out of it? A post on trp asking if you're friend is a cuck. Yes he is. Move on and find other Chads to befriend.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 05:41 PM
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Dopamine abuse. I fucking love smoking pot. Been doing it heavy since college. It's a constant struggle to quit. I've come to learn I abuse it because it allows me to be content with my shitty life. Kills all motivation and disrupts the discipline I've built up. I've been trying to quit for years.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 05:34 PM
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Wherever you take her just make sure you can sit next to her.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:29 PM
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If you get a rise, it's probably wise to say hello. Maybe she's cool.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:28 PM
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We've all had that girl in our life. Regret is terrible. Next time you'll know to take action so, no matter what, you'll know if it's a yes/no situation. No more beta.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 04:30 PM
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A tale as old as time.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 04:16 PM
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Speaking of reading material... check out war brides by Rollo. Yes any woman(awalt) has within her genetic makeup the ability to quickly forget you and branch swing. Hypergamy is her female instincts telling her lizard brain to ALWAYS be on the lookup for a better option. She's wired to lock down a man who can provide her resources. If she finds one, even while dating, she will instinctively begin putting in steps to leave your ass high and dry or... drag you along (your backup option) and cheat…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 04:12 PM
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No they don't. Tbh, I suspect OP is young so there's a maturity level lacking from this group of people (remember yourself in hs?). But if OP identifies this pattern early on he can kick betabitches like this guy to the curb.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 04:02 PM
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Idk man. Just gotta take initiative imho. Why throw money to fix issues? The feeling of accomplishing tasks is a fucking drug. Just take action and get started is my answer
/r/askTRP20/10/18 12:44 AM
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Long distance? Ah, shit... take a seat pal we gotta talk. She's going to cheat on you. She's going to want to explore her options. Move on. Find a mission. Stick around here and learn.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 12:42 AM
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No, man. That's a beta move.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 12:38 AM
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Nah you good man. Especially if you're starting to see results. She must've noticed something, eh? Well I'm on cell so I won't type a fkin manual haha but do this... talk to her like you would with a bro. That style is "casual", u feel? If she vibes and responds you follow the formula in my 1st response.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 12:23 AM
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The human eyes are fascinating. Not holding eye contact is basically displaying a lack of inner confidence. Try this. Next pretty grl u see hold eye contact. Then smile. Carry on with your day. She may smile back. That displays she was happy to see you. Look into body language. Cool stuff. Congrats on killing it in gym. Be proud of that.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:50 PM
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Yoooo chill out. Cool. She responded. That doesn't mean sex. Lol. Talk to her. Ask basic questions. It's an opportunity to practice talking with a girl. Let me share some knowledge my dude, the more girls you talk to the funner it gets. Be cool. Don't be like every other betafuckboy and say come over... not at first at least. Get that #. Meet in person. Play push pull game. Escalate.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:46 PM
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You're contradicting yourself a bit. You say you don't care. You wrote a post about it. It's not a big deal. It's an opportunity to learn abundance attitude. The solution is look inward and ask yourself, "y the fuck do I care if betaboy talks to slut #754685". Stop focusing on your friends dick. Stop caring what a free woman chooses to wrap her lips around. Focus on bettering yourself and enjoying the spoils of war from winning at life. U dig?
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:40 PM
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I'm in my second decade of life. I've thought about this question a lot. Will there be ppl of value at any age? Of course. However the total amount of "ppl of value" decreases rapidly as we age. Duh. Life happens n shit. But if you are of value(you're Chad), you'll attract ppl naturally. At any age.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:30 PM
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I'd remove attention. She's given a lot of excuses (rip grandma if true). Focus on new prospects with a clean slate.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 10:41 PM
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It's like you are proud of wearing a gigantic sign saying "SPEND MY MONEY! I'M BETABUX!". You don't need $ to game women. You don't want to date the women we have these days. Have you seen how many dick-on-demand apps we have these days?! Hypergamy is at an all time high. In human history!! Save that money and please, for the love of Rollo, rethink this post and why there are so many faults in it.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 10:01 PM
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Wait few days. Say "hey! It's X". If she replies, maybe just shoot shit and try finding ANYTHING to get her to meet in person. Ask about coffee. Museums. Ppl watching. If she is into you, she'll follow through. If not, the excuses will flow out of her like water does at Niagara Falls. Careful here, this is where the rooks fall into beta-land. This is when you withdraw attention and see if she plays the game by hitting you up. Push-pull, shit.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 09:54 PM
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I think you've gone into an analysis technique known commonly around here as "the autistic approach." 99.98% of women don't think in AF/BB terms. They're hardwired to satisfy their own sadistic goals and desires without any manual. Certain things trigger tingles. This results in craving Chad. Certain things trigger comfort. Betabux... friendzone... LJBF It's always in flux. As a TRP reader, the goal is to trigger more tingles. Less comfort.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 09:47 PM
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This girl is an infection. Your frame is broken. You've let her intrude your thoughts. Take any action to remove her from your frame and thoughts. Game new girls. Once your weiner does the thinking you'll quickly forget about this girl and think only of that new girl in front of you.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 09:30 PM
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Shit, man. The obvious answer is "his problem" but it sounds like you genuinely care for the poor fker. I think all you can do, without talking about fight club, is have a one on one with him. His mind is most likely already made up. All you can do is ask the right questions that'll get him to think how you want him to think. Put thought into the questions you ask him. Make him think long term. Consequences. Yada yada. He's 19 though. Good luck.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 09:23 PM
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You're dude #254 out of the #999 she's matched this past week.... alone. Look also its a fact she's in the prime of her life right now. HB10 Asian chick with Chad, Chan and Leroy all knocking at her door. In person. At the grocery store. In church. You're on a sexual strategy sub trying to find a gold nugget of a comment to win this fair lady's hand. Over Tinder. Bro... you need to be better than the competition. Take actions/create a plan that will get you there. With apps like that just try to…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 09:18 PM
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Thanks man. Yeah those low effort, easy karma posts lmao. Been reading TRP on and off for 2+ years. It feels nice to share some advice that's been passed onto me by others here. Nothing I said is original content. They're all lessons I've learned/ internalized. I feel like a lot of us here who've been lurking for a bit can all attest to a comment, field report or post that saved us in a way.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 09:10 PM
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You're new. Welcome brother. Look... you've gotten rid of her. Don't go digging through the trash looking to find her. She's been thrown to the wolves. That's what I told myself when I dumped my ex. Imagine all the dudes that are going to ravage that. Not a pretty thought, eh? You enjoyed your turn and now it's another man's time to enjoy. Right now, our goal is to bring you up to speed. Want a productive weekend? Dig into that sidebar and swallow the pill.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:55 PM
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Kinda obvious but always have some "irons in the forge" as my buddy puts it. Always be talking with other girls. It helps not thinking about one girl in paticular.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:39 PM
3

Your sister sucking my dick... then ask that person... Wanna see? Just AA.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:29 PM
3

What are your goals for going out? That'll set the tone for the whole night. For example... In my own life, I'm going through a "nuke phrase" and am trying to remove toxic ppl and bad vices/habits from my life. I hate my old crab bucket friends. I joined meetup to meet new ppl. Tonight there is a bar crawl event going on. I know absolutely no one. From what I've seen there are a few babes who've RSVP. My intent tonight is to make new friends and get some #'s so I can finally nuke those old fkers…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:28 PM
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True. A lot of variables on how this could blow up for OP. I read a quote here the other day from a EC member... not verbatim but it basically went "idle hands never got the fair lady". My own method in situations like this is telling myself if I don't ask/reveal my intentions (hot monkey sex) then I'll never know! If I get turned down its all good baby, baby. Now I know I can move onto the next one.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:56 PM
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The girl network. Fuck yeah they'll know. It's gossip. Op better have good game! But there's nothing wrong with picking up women at dance class. I'd only say make a move when IOI is there/somewhat obvious.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:44 PM
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No! She's actually on the defensive. You're applying dread without even knowing it! Your lady senses competition and is worried her man(branch) is gonna get snatched. Play with her mind and tell her how this singer is nice to you. Complimented your hair this morning. Send her hamster into overdrive.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 03:45 PM
1

You put yourself out there in the world and your energy will attract ppl.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 03:26 PM
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Literally nothing. You're overcoming obstacles. This is the path. Keep gaming. Edit: maybe a more specific answer to help out. When I started gaming and had this initial "awkward first meet/open her obstacle" (we ALL go through this) I found my best method, BY FAR, was holding eye contact. This shit is so primal and imo nothing tells communicates intent better. I've had girls tell me outright stop looking at them because butterflies in stomach. My mindset when I try to communicate intent via eye…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 03:23 PM
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I sniff oneitis. If this is a one off event that hardly happens why you stressing out homeboy? Hit up girl #2 instea... oh wait there is no girl #2 is there? ;)
/r/askTRP19/10/18 03:22 PM
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Just encourage him to pursue manly goals. Testosterone boosting activities. Improve himself. You can lead a horse to water... Trying to fix other folks problems is one of the most exhausting things you could do to yourself. If you don't know that now you'll soon learn. The desire to win, to improve, comes from within. You can't fake this shit. This isn't motivation. It's god damn iron will. You can't really teach ppl this attitude. You can lead by example though.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 01:57 PM
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I interpreted your post like this. Your frame is weak. You're afraid of telling this guy a simple answer of no. You can phrase it anyway (can't taking gf to X). The good news is I can tell you knew this based off your post. You just needed a little shove and reminder from your trp bros that fk this guy. I do what I want. I don't do what he wants.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 01:52 PM
1

This hurt reading. I fking hate my life. I hate wasted potential. Thank you for sharing. I'm not there yet but god damn I'll try.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:07 AM
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You sound lazy dude and this post is a reflection of that. Full of excuses. You're literally asking where girls hang out... like seriously. Stop making excuses and just try, alright?
/r/askTRP18/10/18 09:27 PM
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NO. You sent last txt. Ball is in her court. She makes next move. Period.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 09:18 PM
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Hmm. In this situation I just mirror their commitment/engagement level. I'm not the plate master but I wouldn't just next. Just casually mention "let's hang" --> If it's a yes you escalate and gauge of course. If no --> stop talking to her and let her hit u up and then play this game over. Otherwise you r just orbiting. I'm sure some fellas with more abundance would say just move on but just mirror her engagement. Plz be talking to more girls always! Once your smv rises situations like this won'…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 09:03 PM
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I reread the question. Didn't first time. Tbh right now you're all talk. You haven't done anything. I know that's why you came here... to figure out if you should. My answer is no. Based off what I've read to many boxes are NOT checked. "But why" - OP Because this is based off my level of personal safety. What if she got caught? She could flip the script and say you harassed/attempted rape/ insert something here. She found a provider and is about to hitch that. Let the fker enjoy his life and wi…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:54 PM
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Hey man you sound pretty infatuated with her. Aka oneitis. I wish I read something like "well if this vacation doesn't work out with this girl I suppose I'll plan a trip with girl #2." All I read is a question about ONE GIRL. See where I'm getting at here?
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:49 PM
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If he asked me? I'd laugh in his face. She's a full grown woman and can make decisions. Do whatever you want. Like its an EX just don't bring her around the group. If he does then maybe rethink keeping this guy as a friend. Bottom line is its very beta move. Most of us here sniff that shit and would just like to say read the sidebar but in real life who gives a fk. It's his life. You've already enjoyed the spoils of war. Let a brotha dunk his dick.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:46 PM
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You have nothing to lose by going. If anything, you'll be working on your game.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:37 PM
1

Good lord you know you red pill too much when you've written down "don't shit where you eat" for x1000 time. OP don't shit where you eat. Smh.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:25 PM
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Awesome! She sounds like a cool plate. Truthfully man I'd say just keep busy with your life and keep gaming other girls and have her on rotation. Txt when you feel like. You're not trying to date her so be fun let's hang guy, not hi hun how was your day type guy.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:19 PM
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Great answer and insight. Telling her you're the only male in a group of girls for a school project is a gold move! Maybe mention how much you hate they talk and want to drink with you... something something sorority girls everywhere.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:15 PM
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Escalate. Hell yeah it's a green light. You should said "we better practice our kissing so we can make it look legit when he asks," or some silly shit like that. Good on you for figuring it out before posting. You got this! Go out and take action.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:09 PM
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