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| 2 | "You're a nice guy but...You have to remember, at the beginning youre essentially a nobody, she may like you and have an interest, but she won't prioritize you because realistically she hardly knows you.The more you get to know her and the more fun she has with you, the more she'll want to spend time with you. It can start out slow but over time you'll start seeing her more and more regularly as you begin to become an established person in her life. You just have to learn to play it cool because (providing the date went… | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 06:38 AM |
| 2 | "You're a nice guy but...It honestly doesn't sound like you in this instance. She sounds like a headfuck that doesn't know what she wants and got spooked when she realised she was into you. You wouldn't want to date a chick like that anyway man, consider it bullet dodged. Gotta love the 'Great job ignoring me" text, the hypocrisy is ridiculous. Just for future - Don't let a chick wind you up to the point you call them out or play into their stupid power games, always keep your composure. It'll eat her up inside ;) | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 05:54 PM |
| 2 | "You're a nice guy but...Within the week is probably a little quick for most if its a new person, its very rare that i'll have 2 dates with the same girl in the same week if shes new. Most of them are usually spread out, on average 3, maybe 4 weeks apart. Shit, i've gone 2 months between dates before, sometimes life gets in the way, sometimes the girl just isn't up for dating regularly and likes to take time between them, theres a bunch of reasons for it. It's not until i start to really get to know the girl(And by that… | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 05:44 PM |
| 2 | How not to look desperate approaching a girl on Facebook?Yep, that is exactly what i was getting at :) | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 03:13 PM |
| 2 | How not to look desperate approaching a girl on Facebook?Because a public comment on a post is a lot more casual. The first thought a girl thinks when she gets a message from a random person she doesn't know is suspicion, shes going to want to know what you want, and assume you're just going to be seedy after 10 minutes of conversation. If you have a casual/quick conversation on her facebook wall prior to the message, her guard is going to be down a bit more. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 01:29 PM |
| 3 | How not to look desperate approaching a girl on Facebook?Because a random guy private messaging her that she doesn't know usually doesn't go down well. You just said you understand they get bombarded, so you should understand why randomly messaging a girl you don't know probably won't be very well recieved. Commenting on her posts first are useful because it means you are familiar. She's seen you comment on her posts, shes had light discussions with you, she will be more receptive to talk and move the conversation to private messenger. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 10:59 AM |
| 2 | "You're a nice guy but...She wouldn't be scared if there was no escalating - But he's only given us one example with minor information so im just applying what i know to the other girls too. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Today I finally did it!Congrats buddy. Just remember to play it cool - Don't come across too keen or needy and just let this naturally develop. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Need help for hangout tomorrow!If you're not trying to stick your pen0r in him on that night, It isn't absolutely necessary, but it's a nice indicator of your intentions and how you feel. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Seducing a girl that's older than you (4 years diff)"Hey friends sister, you're a musician hey? So am i, look i'm going to go see some live music next week, you should come out, it'll be a good night" And then if she seems enthusiastic, ask for her number. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Need help for hangout tomorrow!As i said, don't over-think it. Go out with the aim of getting to know him and having fun, the flirting will come naturally if there is good chemistry. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Seducing a girl that's older than you (4 years diff)I knew her through friends of friends in the local festival/party scene. We hit it off and i treated her like any other girl. Age is just a number bro. If you're both musicians, find out what sort of music she's into then invite her out to a gig. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 09:37 PM |
| 3 | "You're a nice guy but...For 13-15 dates to not pan out, something is going wrong somewhere. The good thing is that you're making it to a first date, though. The valentines girl getting scared makes me think you may be coming on way too strong, way too quick with these girls. Can we have details on valentines girl? What did you two do together? How long had you known her? | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Need help for hangout tomorrow!Just do what feels natural man. If you've hooked up via dating apps then you already know how to flirt. Keep the mood light and keep the banter and cheekyness flowing, you'll do fine. Don't over-think this. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Seducing a girl that's older than you (4 years diff)You do it by not taking her age into account. She's no different than any other girl. Source; I was 18 and dated a 24yo for 2 years. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Festival ending in minor disappointmentIf youre going to festivals, your priority should be to have fun. Women should be the least of your concern. If you focus on having fun and enjoying yourself, you'll radiate positive vibes/energy and people(including women) will flock to that and want to party with you / dance with you / have fun and be silly with you. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Help needed with asking out a coworkerSaying she'd never see you is a good sign - Its a sly way of saying she'd like to see more of you. Definitely send her a message, though don't ask what shes doing this week, just straight up say "Hey, im available on saturday, lets go to the nature park" | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Ways to seduce my girl when we’re chilling watching netflix in my bed?It actually works exceptionally well. Went on a date with a tinder chick the other week, dinner, beers, and a few rounds of pool, went back to mine to continue drinking and watch a few movies. After a fair bit of turning her on i went to remove some of her clothing, and got denied and a "Nope, not on the first date" So i just continued with the making out, heavy petting, then the last movie finished so it was time for sleep, she rolled over and we started spooning, i was rock hard by this point,… | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Ways to seduce my girl when we’re chilling watching netflix in my bed?She isn't going to take her top off for you. You'll need to do it, thats your move to make, not hers. If you're both young, shes probably just as nervous as you are, you're the man here, you need to take the lead. Don't worry about doing something she doesn't want - She will tell you if she's uncomfortable, at which point you give her a cheeky smile, kiss her on the lips, look her in the eyes and say "Thats fine" then go back to making out and hands wandering and try again another time. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 07:58 PM |
| 2 | How do you let a good friend (f) know that you desire her sexually?This kind of thought process is ridiculous. Relationships and friendships are more complicated than this. I had known my best friend for 7 years. From 16 to 23 we were inseparable, we partied together, we double dated together, she wingman'd for me, we hung out at each others house after work constantly and would often spend the night, and not once did it ever get sexual. There was the occasional flirting, but we both always viewed it as just fun banter. One night we went out with a group of fri… | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 07:45 PM |
| 3 | How not to look desperate approaching a girl on Facebook?How do you know her? Why did you add her? Do you have mutual friends with her? If you have mutual friends it's easier to not come across like a creepy fuck - but it also depends on what mutual friends... My advice would be not to just start messaging her out of the blue. Build some rapport first. You say she posts interesting things - So comment on those posts. Get some small talk going on it, then move the conversation to private messenger. Have something of value to say - Girls on facebook get… | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 07:14 PM |
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