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| 28 | My first approach. | Field Report | strikerx07 | /r/seduction | 11/04/21 08:52 PM |
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| 2 | Any girls here? What are some tips on seducing men as an unattractive woman? 🤔Get thin, build those legs, be feminine and submissive. | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 01:07 PM |
| 9 | 29 years old just about recovered from mental health setbacks and I want to meet beautiful girls but feel lostStart working out if you haven't already. Hopefully in a gym, since there would be more opportunities to socialize and make friends. Exercise should help with your mental health and make you more attractive (so there isn't a reason not to apart from a disability of some kind) I would stay away from dating apps, as I think you have more chances getting the girl in person and you would learn more from being rejected irl than swiped left, with less anxiety involved imo. | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 06:38 PM |
| 2 | why is it bad to be an emotional sponge?Replace 'emotional sponge' with 'toilet' and you will see why. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Escalating with a girl that's asexual?Why? | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | So I am a police officer, very pretty girl, no BS. I was told I am 8-9. Why guys are afraid to approach me and just say hi, or is it the idea of dating a cop is scary?I was told cops are always looking for probable cause and that you should never talk to them beyond specific questions, most people would be fearful of doing/saying something that could get them in trouble. Off the top of my head, maybe a church could be a good place to look if you don't want cop/military dudes as they might appreciate more the role of being a protector and defending "what's right". Other than that, maybe don't approach when in uniform, after a few dates they might not care you … | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 11:45 AM |
| 2 | My coworker (intern) rejected me, I told her I don’t want to be her friend and that we’ll stop there; she texts me a lot since even if I ghost her, what’s wrong?She wants attention, don't give her your attention for free. If you want to try hooking up again, invite her to coffee in a short and direct way, no double texting, if she doesn't comply keep ignoring. Otherwise, just block her and be done with it. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 03:50 PM |
| 3 | 26M virginSomething along the lines of manifesting a top 20% male out of thin air with her thoughts. "it'll happen if you believe it" | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 11:11 AM |
| 1 | What she trying to do here ??!People are weird, how is it fun for you to post the exact same thing on different forums? | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 01:03 PM |
| 3 | How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s?Laugh it off while you're tapping that 20 yo | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Men showing emotionWomen don't really care about how men feel. They only find it cute in very rare occasions if it's a male that they are attracted to and that has proven capable of handling whatever it is he's distressed about. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Is it weird if I teach my sister what is sex and how to touch herself?No, it's just you. Forget the whole thing and live a normal life, jail is specially unkind to people like you | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Is it weird if I teach my sister what is sex and how to touch herself?She doesn't need your help with that. You sound like a creep. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 10:59 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys begin sex when you are with a gir?Get somewhere private and escalate kino, be attentive of her body language, and de-escalate if she gives pushback, then escalate again; like 2 steps forward 1 step back. Slowly work your way in, at some point if she is OK with it, you'll be fondling her, and from there you start undressing her and move on to foreplay. In the end she might push back enough that you don't get to do it. But if she is into you at all and you don't escalate too quickly she'll be more willing next time | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Being shorter than other guys and same height as girlsJust tell her she is too fat for you anyway and leave. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 12:40 PM |
| 2 | She told me I can do whatever I want to herI would try spanking, light choking and hair pulling during sex (maybe one of those at first) | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 05:17 PM |
| 19 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meAs long as she is legal, it doesn't matter. Don't listen to them, keep your standards high if you can manage. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 06:58 PM |
| 3 | How to Deepen Voice and improve tonality?Practice humming and lowering the pitch slowly as much as you can for as long as you can in one breath (careful not to get too light headed). Practice that like 10 minutes a day, and remember: - use your diaphragm. - make the sound resonate with your chest for power rather than trying harder. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | A good way to lose your virginity or get laid.I'm having a huge déjà vu rn This is spam isn't it? | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 08:00 PM |
| 7 | Why do women say one thing and then do the exact opposite?Focus more on what she is doing rather than what she is saying and adjust your behavior accordingly. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 08:54 PM |
| 2 | A girl I am interested keeps accidentally referring to me as a girl. Like hey girl are she will be telling me a story and say girl you won’t believe what happen lol. She still flirts with me hard thoI'm sure that's how she talks to her girlfriends. yeah, I would avoid her for sure. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 05:17 PM |
| 4 | I asked a female friend to give me a lap dance for my birthday, she asked me if i was crazy. Why?Assuming you are not a troll, you clearly have issues that you need to deal with before even thinking of approaching women. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Pregnant on 3rd date?Be careful | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 02:08 PM |
| 3 | why do i always get shamed for wanting sex or wanting dates?Find a deformed hottie and call it a day. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 12:51 PM |
| -1 | NEVER PAY A COACHWhat techniques? Are these people using chloroform or something? | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 06:34 PM |
| 3 | How does a deformed guy even attempt to date?Charisma + excellence; | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Confused about what to do in relationship vs pickupI'd say you should only talk about it if you have a plan or a solution in mind. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 01:24 PM |
| 1 | I (22M) gave up on dating for good.Have fun in nihilism. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to misogynistsThat.. That's not what misogyni is... | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Game plan to build a connection with a girl I currently have no connection with.Wear clothes that fit (not tight, not baggy) , avoid clothes that have huge logos of their brand. Stand up straight, work on your body language and communication skills. Have good higiene in general | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Does crying in front of your girlfriend/partner destroy sexual attraction?In general, it'd better be a rare occurrence, Brief, and for a very good reason. Anything beyond that risks eroding attraction. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 10:06 PM |
| 2 | i'm virgin at 21, no gf helpI dunno about other countries, but where I live a therapist (psychologist) can't prescribe pills, only a psychiatrist can. So it could be useful to talk to a good psychologist to iron out any limiting believes and help plan changes in lifestyle to improve sociability; leaving pills as the very most last resort if at all needed (most of the time it won't be needed imo) | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Would pretending to be a male feminist work?Why would you want to pretend being one of the least attractive stereotypes? | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 02:08 PM |
| 2 | How sad is it for a guy to be a bachelor in his 30s who avoids commitment and just sleeps around?Do you understand the meaning of sad? Or is this some sort of inside joke I don't understand. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 06:44 PM |
| 21 | [deleted by user]I only tell women how I feel when I want them out of my life. Never have I uttered those words without the girl immediately losing interest. | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 11:25 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You are overthinking it right now, the same way you overthought it when you decided to grab the extra sour cream and deliver it to her. You are not a simp for that, as long as you don't make it a routine to go out of your way for every random person and don't make a bigger deal about this in your head. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Is it weird i get hard while being grinded/whined on?I thought that was the point | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Or just date shorter girls if you feel so insecure about height. | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]They want you to be able to but choose not to | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 12:41 AM |
| 3 | What does it actually mean to "respect yourself"It means putting yourself first in your priority list. Your health, your fitness, your higene and your goals requiere your time and attention, people who don't value the time and attention you give them are disrespecting you and if you continue to engage with them you are not respecting yourself. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]As an INTJ I wish I had the info we have now when I was 20. It is certainly hard to make a persona that's more sociable, since you will feel very fake in the process. You said you don't want to take the black pill, I would suggest you start acting out a more sociable version of yourself, make it your pet project to design and act out this new you. Be aware of any recentment you may be holding, it may be fueling a desire not to interact with others The choice is yours, will you stay sulking about… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm thinking of giving a rooster-shaped candy piece to my crush tomorrow on the first day we go out together. Thoughts?I think it's 'cocky' . 😉... 🥲 I'll see myself out | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 09:08 PM |
| 11 | How to kiss?If she has more experience it's possible that she'll stick her tongue in your mouth a little after you initiate the kiss (good memories ☺), in which case try to match her motions. Swirl your tongue around hers as she does yours. I think that's good to start with. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 08:57 PM |
| 18 | How to kiss?I un-ironically found the movie Hitch helpful when closing the distance for a kiss. On to the kissing itself, just kiss her lips (no tongue for now, plain simple duck face kiss). Aim for her lower lip, kiss it maybe rub it sideways and/or very gently suck it a little. Start very slowly, it is very likely if this is your first (or her) kiss that your teeth will collide, try to avoid that but don't panic if it happens (that's why being slow Is key) and use your hands to hold her head and embrace h… | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 08:51 PM |
| 1 | How to gain experience when I’m not even in any position?I think he means people in general, I agree that talking to all kinds of people will build the required skills to carry a conversation and get over approach anxiety. | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | How often do you nut? How does it effect your sex life?I blue ball easily, so at least twice a day - once a week should be fine though. | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Advice on feeling out of place/ not goodThis is gold 🥇 | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 02:52 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Personally I would end the 'relationship'. She clearly doesn't respect you. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 06:09 PM |
| 2 | [ Removed by Reddit ]Wait till she's 18. It's not worth the gray area | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 08:25 PM |
| 3 | It is proven scientifically that confidence doesnt work. Successful men here are probably tall and handsomeWhether you think you can or you can't, you are right. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 03:03 PM |
| 4 | It is proven scientifically that confidence doesnt work. Successful men here are probably tall and handsomePerhaps you should consider thinking about what makes you come off as a creep and find a way to fix it instead of googling for excuses not to improve yourself. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 02:58 PM |
| 3 | It is proven scientifically that confidence doesnt work. Successful men here are probably tall and handsomeMy best friend is short, chubby with a large butt. Probably has been with more women than you and I combined, they were all very attractive. His fiancee is taller than he is, and she is crazy about him. The difference? He actually went out there and talked with women, made tons of mistakes and learned from them over the years. He became one of the most charismatic people I know. Looks alone don't get you laid, I'm a fairly good looking 6"3' and strong dude and sure I get IOIs here and there but … | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Is ripping off clothes during foreplay as sexy as it sounds?I agree, I remember being with this chick, she (23) was really short and there was a really big difference in height between us. One time during sex (she was face down, me on top) she started screaming "@buse me!" So women do enjoy dominance and losing some control, the degree of which varies. I wouldn't try ripping clothes on a new girl though, maybe if we've been dating for a while I'd rip one piece rarely. | /r/seduction | 07/08/21 11:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you become more confident?Talk to more people, specially girls, confidence comes from mastery which comes from experience (provided that you actively learn from your mistakes) | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Also gives you a chance to wear nicer clothes when around him specifically. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Also if you work with him he might me scared or cautious of the possibility of loosing his job if things don't work out. So you should try and get him to hang out outside of work. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Frequent eye contact and smile at him. Make physical contact with him if you are close enough to each other, like if you are sitting let your thigh casually meet his'. If he gets it he should make a move at some point, if he doesn't and you are still interested maybe just ask him out | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 03:40 PM |
| 5 | I have been told repeatedly that I look like a kid. What's wrong with that?It's creepy, being 25 and looking like a kid makes your appearance uncongruent which triggers disgust related feelings. If you value having social success not only in love but at work / life in general, you should strive to look like the best example of your age you can manage. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 03:16 PM |
| 3 | I'm a 42 year old male who catfishes as a female on Bumble and Tinder regularlyYou need professional help | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | How to have harder and healthier boners?Aside from healthy excersise and foods, Maca supplement might help, beet juice and watermelon have vasodilators in them so you can try that (too much beet juice will make your pee red, not dangerous but scary) and stress management. Stress/anxiety is a massive boner killer | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible that I’ll be more successful in real life than on tinder(18m)?I think you have way better chances of making a good impression in person and get something out of it than through tinder | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Flaky gf | How to reconcile?she's ghosting you, ghost her back and don't take her back if she turns around | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 04:16 PM |
| 0 | My first approach.I'll be sure to wear my hazmat suit next time 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 11/04/21 10:24 PM |
| 3 | My first approach.Thanks for the feedback, though I was also wearing a mask the entire time and I was at an appropriate distance. Nvm the fact that not every country has been impacted the same and that were I live the rate of infection is rather low. | /r/seduction | 11/04/21 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Pretty much my first cold approach - a field report.Nah, not at all, her trying to qualify like that is a good sign all around and that's why he mentioned it. It's an indication the girl is interested. | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Do you think there's such a thing as being too nice a guy?The instant you do something nice for someone else that has no medium to short term benefit to you other than feeling good about youself. The main focus of your life should be you. | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 02:06 PM |
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