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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	the financial reality		strongcoffeenosugar	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/22 01:13 AM
14	picking your hard		strongcoffeenosugar	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/22 12:48 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Who amongst the men out here, would say that they got a divorce because "they're rich" or well off financially ? Not sure if this counts, but I would say that the reason I have not divorced yet is because I don't feel like I have enough money.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/06/22 12:07 AM
3	the financial reality Thank you. I am starting to gain the courage to take the step I need. It's just so hard to be at a point in your career where you have finally reached a modestly comfortable lifestyle, then know you are about to intentionally pound it back to the rice and bean days. On top of that, while I know I can be fine, I want to provide well for my kids and, yes, even my ex as she spent almost 2 decades staying home. I will have some substantial alamony and CS to contend with.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/22 11:05 AM
2	Thinking about living in a RV. Anyone with experience? There are a ton of pros. Adventure, freedom, and depending on what you get it can be really really comfortable. Cons... It's a depreciating asset. Repairs. At some point dating maybe a little more challenging. Or maybe not.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/22 09:51 PM
1	Thinking about living in a RV. Anyone with experience? I think I could be a great setup. I assume there are no kids in the mix? Check out where you would park it though. Depending on the campsites in your area, you may not be out a whole lot cheaper than rent on a small apartment.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/22 09:43 PM
1	picking your hard Touche	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/22 11:00 AM
2	picking your hard I do have to keep reminding myself to take it slow. Day by day, week by week, year by year. We've been married 17 years. Have a 15-year-old and a 12-year-old.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/22 08:52 AM
2	picking your hard She is pretty deep into EMDR right now. She's been doing it for about a year. It's taken her to a really bad place, and our relationship is worse than it has ever been. It's just hard to see a way out. When she started, we knew it would get worse before it got better... But after how many months do you just keep pressing on?	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/22 08:51 AM
1	picking your hard That's tough. But thanks for the encouragement.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/22 08:50 AM
2	picking your hard I hear you. She is deep into individual counseling now. Maybe couples counseling will be a part of the journey down the road.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/22 08:49 AM
2	picking your hard It's a long sad story. Unresolved childhood trauma has basically caused her to be incapable of relationship. We just coexist. I'm at a breaking point, and cannot foresee doing this for the rest of my life.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/22 01:14 AM