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Assuming he read the sidebar, he should know how to apply the laws in the right context. No single law, that is followed to the T and applied in every context will make you alpha or beta. It the whole that matters.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 02:58 PM
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Read 33 Strategies of War, Art of War, 48 Laws. You won't need much else after that. They are some of the best books on business, negotiation, life, and women. Being good with women is a byproduct considering everything else you acquire knowledge on.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 12:08 PM
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If I was in America during college, it would be a easier tenfold to sleep around. So much depends on where you’ve been raised and where you come from. If you live in an exceptionally small neighbourhood or region, where girls tend to be conservative in excess due to reputation and gossip going around, the guys usually have a much harder time just ‘sleeping around’. I was brought up in a ridiculously small neighbourhood in the Mediterranean, and logistics were and still are dreadful to this day t…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:43 PM
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Absolutely, I completely agree. It is important people understand the differentiation between being on gear and natural though. Some people delude themselves from what they see on social media and believe they can look shredded and big simultaneously.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 10:25 AM
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You'll never be big and lean unless you're juicing or have great genetics. Harsh pill for some but it is the reality for most lifters.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 09:46 AM
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It is probably because you do not have enough muscle on. I am 220 at the moment at 6'2. I still have a jawline, my arms do carry a bit more fat though, for obvious reason, they are around 17 inches flat. Think a slightly taller Henry Cavill.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 09:44 AM
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The point is not whether she played the perfect game mate. It’s about coming to terms with how ruthless the game is.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:58 PM
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Its an exchange I had with my mother, it is not mental masturbation. I am not saying my analysis is totally accurate. People on this thread can relate to it, and that says something. Bias is inevitable, you telling someone to beware of his bias still holds bias in of itself. I get where youre coming from though.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:56 PM
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I’ve been saying this for a long while and have had on other posts. I almost always get more attention when I got slightly more fat on. For me, 18% bf approx at 6’2 works great, it might be the height but Inhave been leaner before and it is not what it is hyped up to be. When women see that you’re bigger, got some beef on you, they must associate it with security and strenght. A friend of mine, who happens to be a big dude himself, has experienced a similar dynamic, when he was about 13%, he rec…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 06:38 PM
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Modern luxuries and comforts have made men lazy and out of shape, effeminate in their attitude. Nowadays, our gratifications need no terrible blood, sweat and tears to be acquired, the new social norms do not push boundaries, and what once was a strong hierarchy of values imbued in men became a despairing, feminine driven culture that men will happily conform to.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:21 PM
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Her currency is irrelevant mate. This is in Europe, not Thailand.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 01:22 PM
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Seems like you've known my mother for years mate haha. Good on you for the over-simplification and large suppositions. It may apply for some mothers, but it seems laughably farfetched to even apply it to my mum, but there might be some prejudice, just like your post.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 12:21 PM
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It’s the men that have messed it up so badly. Sometimes I go out, and it has me shook how many simps I see running around in relation to men, you can’t even call them men.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 12:08 PM
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My mum too. I tell her about some good experiences I had, but nothing overboard, she tends to appreciate it when I tell her, and she always assumes im winning. They come from a different epoch mate, better times.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 12:06 PM
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Yes, that is absolutely normal my man. However, every time I get out of the gym, finish a reading session or finished cardio, I feel energized, animated and significantly better than how I felt before I started assuming the day was not going too well. Also, a piece of wisdom which proved extremely beneficial for me; train with a partner who has a strong work ethic, he will keep you accountable, even on your bad days. It is not about having incredible workouts day in day out, but it is certainly …
/r/askTRP20/10/20 09:34 PM
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Don't tell him about it until he's ready. It's futile. Until your friend gets a devastating rejection or heartbreak, he will persist in his folly, let him do so. When he is ready, the messenger will appear. He is on his journey just as much as you, he has ample time to figure it out. So many people are in a rush and panic to improve themselves, it is a process.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:46 PM
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Acqua Di Gio EDP is just something else, ridiculously good.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 10:46 PM
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Nothing fails like success buddy. Be careful what you wish for, you might get it. We are captivated by success because we are not materialists, we are abstractionists. Our interpretations of success have become very shallow, and we tend to idolize success that is driven heavily on power, but you should think thoroughly whether that is really what you want. Change usually happens from the inside out, and while bad habits and lack of discipline are counter-productive, the phenomenon of boredom, fo…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 10:50 AM
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Stone cold. I say ghost her for a couple of weeks, and see what happens. You got her message but she will definitely get yours, too.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:51 AM
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Shame we don't have these luxuries here. Usually gyms here consist of women bathrooms and showers, and men's showers and bathrooms separated, so it's improbable of getting the lay on the scene. What do you think?
/r/askTRP14/10/20 08:43 PM
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How do you escalate after you finish the workout? Disabled bathroom sex or straight to the crib?
/r/askTRP14/10/20 08:18 PM
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Yes, there are many which are fascinating. Check out Jiddu Krishnamurti, Aristotle, Lao Tzu, Confucius, Buddha, Osho, Gurdjeff and others. Lao Tzu's work can set you up with a great foundation, especially if you're into detachment and finding inner calm.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/20 11:18 AM
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Saved. This is fantastic, and so is the original post. This almost reminds me in the extensive study I did when I delved into Eastern Philosophy and cultivating detachment. Western men have had to learn this the hard way because the philosophies of the west have always implied a sense of inner separation and isolation. Whereas in the East, one was taught to think of himself as everything that there is, transcending the ego state and reaching a state commonly referred to as Nirvana or Awakening. …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 12:30 PM
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Being busy is no excuse to incorporate an approach on a daily basis anyhow, but I get you. I did slack a bit on busier days but we move.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 11:17 PM
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It's not fake. I've checked out his other videos, he doesn't look like shit, he looks decent for a short guy. His confidence shines through and he got balls. You don't see many short guys with that sort of nerve, props to him
/r/askTRP07/10/20 11:33 AM
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The strongest dread games are the most subtle. Ie. Getting a promotion, getting more fit, travelling more, seeing you flirt with other girls, seeing other girls checking you out.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 10:27 AM
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This is the kind of guy I like making a spectacle out of, I mean real humiliation to get him in his place. Forget A/A, Amused Mastery will shut him down if you have conviction. It has happened to me before, usually these dudes are drowning in envy. Blow out his ego to destroy it. Gas him up to absurdity, throw a backhanded compliment and then ignore him. Show indifference through your body language, but don’t give him a reaction if he urges you. Really I find dudes like this a great opportunity …
/r/askTRP06/10/20 11:27 AM
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He could’ve A/A, Amused Mastery, Pressure flipped, C/F, completely ignored or a combination of two. Its still a form of frame test.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 03:07 PM
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Agreed. And Amused mastery. I’d point it out to her with a smirk to humiliate her “Is this your way of confessing your love for me? I don’t want to embarass you but you’ve been throwing yourself at me for a while now.” Followed by a giggle. If this doesn’t throw her off, disregard further and ignore
/r/askTRP03/10/20 03:03 PM
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You might be asking the question the wrong way. Is she trying to push you away through her actions? What is her behaviour telling you? Dont overthink it
/r/askTRP02/10/20 09:50 AM
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You don’t state your intentions through words, overtly. You do it through your actions, covertly. Communicate through action not words. If she throws you a shittest, ignore it and change the subject or cocky-funny. Maintain a sense of subtle arrogance but always balance it off woth witty charm.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 02:39 PM
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There’s always that one guy, who wants to look more stoic, more “alpha” than all the other posters without a hint of sympathy towards other fellow men. Most disappointing of all is that you didn’t even provide any practical advice to him, you just called him out out of personal bitterness. I suspect you must still be going through some inner turmoil and self-loathing yourself. There’s a few like you still lurking around here and none of them have anything nobel to say and no bloody wonder. There…
/r/askTRP01/10/20 02:34 PM
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Great read, and moreover, a great comment. Real men support real men. Big love to you both. My gut hurt reading that post, the ruthlessness in their nature is, at times, inconceivable. May everyone take this post as a memorable life lesson to remember and sustain your most precious resources; your independence, finances, and ability to maneuver.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 12:32 PM
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People have different ideals of what constitutes a 6 too. If you’re bombarded with 8s and gettin iois left right and center by better looking girls, 6s are out of the picture for most guys in that situation. If a 6 is laying naked on your bed after you just came back from the gym and you just hit back and biceps, you’re probably going to fuck the shit out of her because it’s there and no horny fucker is going to turn down a naked chick laying on his bed post workout. There’s degrees to it.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 07:14 PM
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He’s still the biggest alpha in hollywood, dude is the epitome of alpha. Zero fucks mate haha. And he does what he wants
/r/askTRP29/09/20 07:08 PM
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Absolutely bro. Im with you on that, we slacked in our kwn ways respectively towards the end. No time for self pity. Pointing out it was spontaneous was not pointed out to justify our errors just to confirm. Im sure we are all honing out game constantly to refine our weakpoints. Thanks for the comment my man.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 07:46 PM
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Double dates are tricky man. If your friend screws up, you’re basically fucked too and vice versa. His girl will cockblock the whole thing.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:59 AM
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You know, we were spekaing about this after, but it was a spontaneous double date with no prior planning. After we finished off the first venue, thats exactly what we were planning on doing. (Edge of hill rooftop kinda thing) but they weren’t havin it and wanted to go elsewhere. Was too late at night and we had been out already
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:57 AM
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We were out before they messaged mate, just so happens they were close by when we were driving home. Cant write out all the details. And yeah we kinda did at the end, we had been out early and started gettin tired towards the end. Wasnt in the mood to approach other women at 2:30 in the morning.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:54 AM
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Cheers for the comment. My friend is definitely more reserved than I am but the night was entertaining as hell tbf. It showed in my girl’s face, the other girl not so much. From my girl’s evaluation of me, she knew what’s up. Except I gotta give it to you, a fast car ride, and up to a rooftop is where we were taking them, they weren’t up for it and i wasn’t going to negotiate a change of venue at 2 in the morning right? Outcome independence wasn’t there last night that’s for sure, mate hyped me …
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:51 AM
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My mate paid for theirs and I paid for mine. The girl my mate was with was cockblock my girl and it was getting annoying at one point. We live on a small island and everyones short as fuck here, not to mention that no one runs game here unless some foreign dudes turn up, which is u likely during this virus shit. They definitely wanted to end the night with someone tho, not sure what success they had.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:46 AM
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Probably. Except I didn’t pay for any of their drinks haha.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:43 AM
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Exactly my thought after. The girl my mate was with kept interfering mid convo and it showed in our faces it was getting bloody annoying. Double dates are tricky biz imo. Cheers for the comment bro.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:41 AM
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Check out alphadestiny’s stuff on youtube. 1 gram of protein per pound of bodyweight is an excess too. He suggests 0.8 grams and I have been working with around that too. You’re not on gear you don’t need all that protein, it’s not even good for you. And as a sidenote, 75% of your calories should be coming from carbs, especially on a deficit.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 11:15 AM
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Hey brother, my sincere condolences to you and your family, take it easy these few coming months alright. I cannot come across such a post and not leave some of my personal experience. I would also like to note that taking any advice from anyone who has not gone through a family loss will not be able to apprehend the distress and torment that comes with it, so I would suggest you take many of the replies with a grain of salt, for this is your time to come to yourself. Some people genuinely never…
/r/askTRP23/09/20 12:22 AM
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As a tall guy (6’2 jacked) who gets complimented on good looks and seen as that guy I can assure you that for the most part girls do not necessarily approach much at all, although they have done in the past. What I have found, however, is that usually the conversion rate on approaches is higher and ioi’s are very frequent. That being said, even with high smv, you still can’t pussy out of approaching, I would go so far as to say you should use it as a precursor to approach more if you won the gen…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 12:13 PM
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Don't ask her out until you're done with your workout, you're there to do a workout. If you happen to cross paths after you're finished, approach her boldly.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 12:22 PM
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I don’t approach girls at the gym, unless I need a machine to which thats perfect genuine plausible deniability. You go to the gym to get it fucking done. If I speak to a girl at the gym or stay lookin out and constantly scouting my vicinity like a little bitch, not only will I have a terrible workout, but I also look like a desperate cunt. Approach anywhere but the gym, you go there to get stronger and get a filthy fuckin pump to which you can confidently pose to in front of everyone while girl…
/r/askTRP12/09/20 12:17 AM
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Best fucking comment on this thread.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 08:42 PM
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"Only for dinner." Followed by a smirk and a bold ass grope. You get the idea.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 01:13 PM
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Words are cheap. Bring a 6'2 cocky Arnold in his prime, with a physique of a Greek god, and watch them fall to their knees for him. The combination of leanness and good mass makes women melt, factor in his height, and few will stand a chance in his presence. Tough pill to swallow, but that is hypergamy for you. The upside for the shorter dudes with game and muscle is that there aren't many dudes out there who are blessed with height, muscle, and a superior attitude like Arnold these days.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:34 AM
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That’s complete rubbish. I’m 6’2 and was about 18%+ for about 2-3 years during my bulking phase. I looked jacked but also had a bit of a gut. I got shitloads of IOIs left and right. If you’re a goodlooking dude with a strong frame, there is nothing they wont justify in their head as attractive.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 09:52 AM
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Read “Wisdom of Insecurity” by Alan Watts. A great starter. That alone would provide you such an uncontentional perspective thst you might have to give it a second read. Check out also Krishnamurti’s work. A lot of his tapes are on youtube.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 08:48 AM
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Partly. But thats not the point here. We, due to our excessively neurotic western culture, always resort to inner fragmentation that will never solve life’s agonies. This is why people who attain natural satori (awakening) suddenly find that their previous worries are futile. Moreover, when you realize this you realize you been fooling yourslef the whole time, including when you were beta as fuck. So much could be learned from the east, we are oblivious. And just wait for an ego maniac to give y…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 07:52 PM
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That’s about as western of a response as you can get. You don’t live only once, you live for and through eternity. If you read classical eastern philosophy, your perception of what constitutes life and death makes a shift. We are bamboozled in the west by egocentric people because we are scared shitless of the beyond. If you are trapped in a cycle, there is nothing you can do about, and there is nothing you can’t not do about it. Once you recognize this, you are free. But the very recognition of…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 06:02 PM
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Good job. To give you a more accurate estimation, that is around 25-28% body fat, even slightly more. Regardless, that is still good progress you made. If you aren't hitting the iron just yet, well, now is a good time for you to get your ass to the gym and get it done. It will support you on your weight loss journey, and you get to enjoy the fruits of your hard work. Second thing, make sure your diet is in check. If you stopped losing weight, you will have to increase the deficit further as a re…
/r/askTRP15/08/20 10:24 AM
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You have to break the ice, brother. You must approach before you start getting in your own way, the moment you think twice about it, you've lost the chance. You have to do it without any prior doubt. You will be surprised how often women reciprocate. Once you break the ice, it will rapidly turn into a positive feedback loop and being gifted genetically, your conversion rate is going to be more than decent if your game is on par. From my experience, once I do the first approach, I can keep approa…
/r/askTRP10/08/20 11:11 AM
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Reasonable. What does being put in your place have anything to do with acting like him? This was a question on how to deal with such a friend. Its not a beef of some sort, we have a good friendship. Its absolutely a “you” problem, we can agree there. Its not as deep as I initially thought looking back now, though.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:29 PM
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It's called a hot approach. It means prior to the approach she threw you choosing signals.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:50 AM
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Hahaha he'd certainly wouldn't be surprised if I did such a thing
/r/askTRP30/07/20 08:25 PM
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Don't you think that the excessive control stems from insecurity and a craving for security? How would you go about dealing with such a friend? I certainly never put up my defences against him, we usually have a good time and no fucks are given, but that little irritation persists. You could say it is like the last fly in the ointment.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:14 PM
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So what? Do you feel entitled to do so or have people made you feel compelled to work extremely hard and become social? Contrary to popular belief, real growth happens from the inside out and not vice versa. This is the sort of growth that you cannot enforce on yourself, it happens of its own accord. Life is constantly in flux, so this so called phase you’re in is just as impermanent as every other phase in your life. However, listen up, simple care of your health, such as your diet and sleeping…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 02:16 PM
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This. Listen up, many of us have been in your shoes, me included. When I was skinny, and had just lost a tremendous amount of fat, I had crippling anxiety. I couldn't get into a gym without feeling hyper self-conscious, that bad. As you keep lifting, meeting people and socializing, it will fix itself but you still have to put in the work. Finding alpha friends is a great learning curve, you will learn a bunch from those guys till you alter your mindset. You can come to this realization merely on…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 11:21 AM
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85K at 24? 6’1 with a physique like that? If there’s anything you want to be concerned about it is definitely not pussy. People would kill to be you, brother. Read Book of Pook, 48 Laws and Rational Male and see where you stand, you are easily in the upper 98th percentile and you got an impressive physique. Good work. You will grow out of it, it is nature. In a couple years, you will look back at this time and have a laugh, because you already hold the keys, you already have a big portion of wha…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 09:54 AM
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Plausible Deniability. To put it in simpler words, use an indirect excuse to bring her to your place to bypass her ASD. Using direct lines like “come over to mine lets fuck tonight” will more often than not, trigger her ASD, making her increasingly more likely to decline. “Come over for a glass of wine” “Lets watch a movie” “Lets cook a meal” All are plausible excuses which justify her coming to your place.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 11:50 PM
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Evidently, if they’re behaving like this, you’re the man in the group. You should part ways with them, not because you took the situation personally, but because their behaviour signifies envy and immaturity. Your very act of dropping them will make them respect you. A real alpha does not identify with the pack, for he stands above and beyond it.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 11:15 PM
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It’s called a shit test, and you nailed it brother. When few fucks are given, strong frame is maintained and you have the last laugh. You showed less investment and she rewarded you with a good blow. Good job.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 11:09 PM
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Pure gold.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 01:10 PM
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Get ready to get roasted on here brother, especially with a post like this. You seem over the top, you just went on a rant about how handsome you are and you couldn’t give two shits and then make up an excuse of not having a place to bone chicks. If you really don’t give a fuck, you’ll fuck her anywhere in the meantime, I’m sure she wouldn’t give a fuck if you’re courting her properly and she’s genuinely interested.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 07:33 PM
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I am going to give a somewhat unconventional answer here. Fighting emotional investment is as futile as trying to bite your own teeth. You are not something different from your emotions, get with them and accept them. If you are fighting it, you are suggesting you are something different from it, and therefore deceiving yourself. Follow the emotion to its end and go with it, by this I do not mean you act upon your emotions. However, if you follow it to its end, it tells you something. Moreover, …
/r/askTRP16/07/20 01:24 PM
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It's quite interesting from my perspective, my father always had a red pill edge (raw advice) and ingrained it in me when I was younger to not fall for women's deceptions and to enjoy myself in my 20s. Now more than ever, I realize how invaluable his wisdom was. I really looked up to him, his love for family and the way my mother committed to him despite his vices is really admirable. Being as young as I was, I did not internalize it to its ending, but it definitely rubbed off on me and I was qu…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 01:58 AM
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How much can you lose in around two months with keto on clen? Rough estimates
/r/askTRP16/01/20 01:10 PM
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I want to give it a try. Is it any good?
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:59 PM
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Keto is the real deal.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:54 PM
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Concise Excerpt From Rational Male: If you have 300+ lays, great physique, great looks and all these supposed great characteristics. This, however, does not mean you possess an alpha mindset. I know many beta males with rather weak game who get laid semi-regularly. Just because something works, does not make it right. Beta males get a couple lays and feel on top of the world, thinking they posses an alpha mindset, far from the truth. You are not alpha because of your achievements. You have your …
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:09 AM
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It made me hyper-observant. I was already quite observant before-hand, TRP just accentuated it. It's interesting, I would be having a walk in a busy mall or in a park, and I just look at couples walking and have a cheeky laugh inside. In a sense, you're tapped into something which is scarce and the masses are not aware of. Out of a subtle cockiness, you feel on top of things, you have a conscious awareness of the inner workings and you can't help but have a good laugh. I had quite the red-pill u…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 11:55 AM
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No, it should not. However, if you think it should affect your capacity to cold approach, it certainly will.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 01:54 PM
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Different people manage it in different ways, depending upon their strengths and weaknesses. Majority of us experience traumas, Lifting and Nutrition certainly help in its release, writing and crying also aid in that untying. Lifting and nutrition are probably the most potent from my experience. Find mentors and educate yourself, read great books and write.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 11:07 AM
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Let them think you're an asshole, that's great publicity, my man. Why on earth would you stop flirting with her because they perceive you as an asshole? Who gives two fucks what they think? They are accentuating your reputation in girls' eyes and you're being a little pussy about it. They are doing the job for you and you're looking at it in a bad light. Do not put too much trust in friends, they envy you. Keep her as a plate if you're spinning her well, but don't let your friends' slander and e…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 10:58 AM
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You do not find masculine, alpha friends. They normally welcome you in when you're one of them because they are not fond of associating with cucks who are trying to find new friends. Think about it this way, what kind of alpha would be out there looking for masculine alpha friends when he is one himself? You don't.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 10:50 AM
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It certainly depends where you start from. Moreover, it also depends on how experienced you were before you educated yourself on the matter. Thirdly, "success" is a subjective term that receives many connotations from many people. Your definition of "success" may be farfetched from mine as a result of our different set of conditions, bias, and aspirations. With that being said, if you are looking to compare yourself to other people, and then feel substandard because they digested the philosophy …
/r/askTRP25/12/19 10:46 AM
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Just because she's chasing a relationship with you, does not mean she perceives you as an alpha. Secondly, how can she possibly meet your family by accident, are you sure it was an accident? perhaps it was an intentional accident? and why would you want to become monogamous with a chick by reason of your parents liking her? I think you know what everyone is going to tell you if she had a foursome at 17 y/o, had a three-way kiss with one of your slutty friends, and then started to cry because she…
/r/askTRP24/12/19 11:19 PM
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You can establish a premise by planting seeds during interaction which stimulate her imagination. If you do it via indirect means it is all the more powerful because your motives are still concealed. In Rational Male, this is called caffeinating the hamster. It is the single most potent tool you could use. Subtle suggestions that do not give the whole show away but have more than one implication.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:02 PM
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Go unaided and solo. There is much to learn in the solitary path. If you think he's a distraction and just want him for mere company, even more so. The solitary path is arduous at times and also exhausting, but you will be developing your integrity and character in the process which will be a source of strength to persevere. The only way to make sense out of it, however, is to plunge into it and go with the sway. You will thank yourself.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:55 PM
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You just saved yourself so much time. As I stated in your previous post, if you thought that she would have never swindled you again, you would be deceiving yourself. You learned a grating lesson and I'm sure it will propel you upwards. I don't think you'll ever regard women the same after such a disastrous state of affairs.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 05:47 PM
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Because they are needy beta bitches, that's why. A guy who desperately needs a constant flow of sex is a little bitch, and he is more of a bitch when he will abase his standards for pussy.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 07:26 PM
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Don't play her game, mate. Playing a sucker in this regard would not pay dividends, especially with a woman who's already acting histrionic. Law 16: Use absence to increase respect and honour. You need not prove to her that you have options by responding back to her via a photo with another chick. You got nothing to prove, brother. Truancy increases respect, seeming unphased by her silly behaviour only adds to your value.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 07:20 PM
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No one does something once brother. You are not red pill my friend. And nor is that out of character for her to do, and if you were red pilled you would know. The fact you are trying to justify her affair proves that you are a chump, and even more absurd, to reconsider getting back with her. Take the lesson and move on. The medium is the message.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:59 PM
3

They know damn well that a DT psychopath is seemingly preoccupied with her for his own best interest. Deep down, he can hardly emotionally reciprocate her intimacy because he does not have that capacity. That being said, their sexual strategy is second to none because they don't give two utter shits about women, they always come first and they will get what they want and leave out of their own will with no contrition/repentance.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 12:56 PM
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Well put, brother. And I suppose I should add that if you're a naturally bigger guy, (6ft and over) capitalize the fuck out of it. You are probably squandering potential. Lift heavy and keep your diet in check. People will sniff you out immediately if you got oozing testosterone, they probably know you're on top of your game, brother. A good body and posture need not any verbal communication to give the message, you get it.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 11:07 PM
1

You were in doubt that she'll ever contact me, now that I'm still in contact you're assuming I'm an orbiter. You seem all over the place here mate. Elaborate with practical information that would be substantial other than the vagueness which restricts application and is open to interpretation if you get what I mean.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 11:31 PM
1

Reasonable observations but I'm not really sure what to make of your observation here, mate. She is still carrying the convo while I'm being distant, moreover, I'd have to respectfully disagree with the butthurt comment though, I thought it was a rather laid back response. To give more context, she said let's meet when you're back because earlier in the convo I had previously reinforced that it's not going to work out before holiday, so she complied with my terms. It would have otherwise been to…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 10:52 PM
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Cheers. That's where I'm at. Good reference.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:35 PM
1

That was my motive, too. She is making an extended effort to keep the conversation going even when I seem distant.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:29 PM
1

Agreed and yes, I was aware that the dynamic is always in play. Thanks for clarifying. Although, you have to make it apparent to her that you are not manipulated by it in a sense. She seems to make an extended effort to keep the conversation going too when I seem distant.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:26 PM
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Cheers for the reply. Elaborate on how she has more leverage. Are you implying that she acquired more leverage because it is over text?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 05:57 PM
1

Lmao. It's mostly red pill material, hence why I asked. I do get where you're coming from.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:26 PM
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Predominantly red pill books. I never bothered with it but a friend brought it up the other day and was curious what y'all think of it. Clearly you distorted the question out of context, but that is fine.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:24 PM
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Someone had to say it. if you know you know. Done.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:20 PM
1

That is a form of negotiation, and negotiation does not bring about genuine desire if it was not there from the outset. Next.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:09 PM
3

One thing always fascinated me with Game. And, that is the backwards law or sometimes called the law of reversed effect. When you try to float, you sink. But when you try to sink, you float. In other words, insecurity is a consequence of trying to be secure. When one is not constantly looking for his next prospect, embodies a strong frame, and has a sense of direction, the law works in reverse and to his benefit. Of course, everything is true in degrees, but forcing yourself into things can be u…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:04 PM
2

You have a heightened sense of self-awareness which you're utilizing in a negative sense, as opposed to a positive one. You are too concerned about how you will come off to other people, and let me tell you this, people couldn't give two shits how you come off. But, you can't seem to look past that. Let yourself fuck it up completely, and then you won't be concerned about fucking it up in the first place. By giving it up, you get it.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:34 PM
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The medium is the message brother. Of course, it is a red flag. The finest thing you can do in this situation is indirectly call her out on it in a manner which does not seem defensive, and see how she reacts. You know what to do from there if you are dissatisfied. Walk away, simple.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:28 PM
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If you've been unplugged for 8 years, this post would serve no relevance. I think this is a holy load of bullshit from your side. Stop being a whiny bitch and go game.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:24 PM
3

If I were in your position, I would have done the same move. If she was merely teasing out of seeking validation, you have counteracted that situation in the most optimal way as possible from my experience. You know what to do when her behaviour becomes intolerable and furthermore ingenuine, the medium is the message. Walk away. Done.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:21 PM
3

He's probably talking out of his own bitterness and failure as it relates to his relationships with women.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:49 AM
1

I think you just have an innate desire to own the girl, which is absurd in this day and age mate. You know you can't own the girl, it's just your turn. That being said, that does not mean that you should go against your feeling per se, although you should consider the reality that women are hypergamous and if you are spinning multiple plates, she is more than likely seeing other guys because that's her nature.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:47 AM
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The Medium is the Message, next. Let her calm down for a while and see if she crawls back. If not, move on. End of story.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:43 AM
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Asking questions works wonders, from my experience. I have realized though, that overdoing it with questions does get tiresome and irritating. To scramble it up, implement witty and ambiguous assumptions that might spark her curiosity. As a result, she will conform to your frame, and she will start asking you questions with excitement. By being deliberately mysterious from then on, you have her on the tip of your fingers. Indirect questions are powerful, especially when you couple them with a se…
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:41 AM
1

Everyone looks distorted in pictures. There's a peculiar nature with photos; sometimes you look sizeable in comparison to reality, and sometimes you look scrawnier. Don't believe either of them. However, hitting the gym, lifting some weights and making sure your diet is in check; your image gets subconsciously enhanced and so does your testosterone.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:33 AM
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Decent response. You could have definitely came up with a better remark though. A good line would have been "they're the real deal, they got bitches around regularly." Your line has an underlying sense of defensiveness to it that girls sniff out immediately. Aloofness and a sense of amused mastery go a long way here.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:24 AM
2

The fact she was not sober speaks volumes here. Don't try to make something out of it, brother. Women are not logical. And, you'll end up beating yourself about what you could have done better; move on. done.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 07:15 PM
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