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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	She moved out today It happened to me a year and half ago. You didn’t do anything wrong. I stopped trying to reason. Move on and let it be. There will be other women who are attractive to you.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/25 07:48 PM
7	Rant: “Do you remember when?” Second that. I would have moved on and get her out of my life. Someone used to say something like this. If one loves you, he or she would never give you up. If one would give you up, he or she were using you.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/25 01:54 PM
7	A follow up to my post the other day about walkaway wives. Just focus on yourself and if you have kids, focus on their well being. Don’t waste your precious time and life. You can’t chase back what you have spent. Focus on never waste your time, your love and life again.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/11/25 06:49 PM
4	The real fight in divorce isn't about the money or the blame. It's the internal shit no one talks about. This book Rebuilding when your relationship ends by Bruce Fisher is really helpful. It echoes what OP pointed out. May be it will help everyone going through this messy situation to come out healthier and live a better life.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/25 01:24 PM
1	Unable to Move on- Ready to Die Find a way to release the pressure you built inside. For me, it was a long walk.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/06/25 03:06 AM
1	Some question regarding seperation My advice is it depends on the person. I am going through the process after 20+ years of marriage. We both have professional careers and children together. My first priority is my children. I want to make sure they will have the least impact possible. Like in your situation, we both still care about each other. I don’t want her to get hurt in this divorce process. I read somewhere that how you separate represent who you are and a good separation pave the way for your next relationship. Hope this…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/25 04:49 PM
5	Divorce + cancer? Very common. Happened to me. Married for 23years and was surprised by the divorce last year. Thought she always had my back. Turned out she has been planning the separation for 10 years. Who does this? If I am not happy I would say it or look for help. Why wait til there is no turning point?	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/25 08:00 PM
3	Don’t become a stepdad when you already have kids, and don’t get remarried again. Thanks for the advice	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/25 04:36 AM
1	Just opinions. Speaking to lawyer soon. Updateme what you’ll do. I am in a similar situation. Kids are 15 and 14. Pay disparity/ divide the assets could mean a lot of money. Do you pay SS til kids turn 18? How about college? 50-50? If we delay the divorce, 4-5 years later, the cost will be even more.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/24 01:49 AM