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| 1 | How do you avoid beeing "that guy that hits in every girl"I don't know how you came that conclusion. You can check my post history. I'm pretty far to the left. I don't know why you find that simple story so outlandish. It was just about talking to two women at the same event and dating them afterwards. There wasn't something wild like threesomes or anything. I literally just had the confidence to talk to two women at the same event and get them to agree to date me, separately. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 04:40 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid beeing "that guy that hits in every girl"Damn that's an old thread to dredge up. And that is absolutely a true story. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 09:56 PM |
| 16 | McDonalds manager whips blender at customer for throwing foodThat was apparently in Ukraine though, American restaurant workers get fired pretty fast over perceived slights, let alone this. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/05/20 11:00 AM |
| 5 | How do i subtly flirt with a girl over text?Dont be subtle. Being subtle and apologetic is what comes off as creepy. Be open, forward and unapologetic.(obviously there are some levels to how open you should be. dont get graphic too soon.) | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 04:12 AM |
| 9 | How to know if your standards are too high? (Advice / Can anyone relate?)If women are approaching you, in any kind of numbers, and you arent getting laid, your standards are too high. Go out there and date a lot. That gives you experience in being good dating material, and being able to choose what kind of woman is actually what you are looking for. Go out there and fuck a lot. Go as low and as high as your standards and your ability will allow, and actively try to rock all their worlds. Three pieces of advice. Practice orgasming without losing your erection. Pay att… | /r/seduction | 02/04/19 01:41 PM |
| 3 | I can't believe i actually started shaking when talking to a girl. How do i control this..Talk to dozens of them until you dont even think about it. | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Tried talking to a girl and failed miserably. Need advice on how to keep a conversation going?Dude. Kudos to you for taking the step and approaching. Seriously, you are now light years ahead of guys that never take that step. | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 12:52 AM |
| 36 | I mostly attract guys, how can I fix it?If dudes like you, I'm betting a good percentage of women do too. | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 05:55 AM |
| 11 | Crush on my boss...Be prepared to get another job. Masturbate before making any decisions concerning women. | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Can someone explain to me why I am attracting the kinds of women I am attracting?Some people tend to be attracted to people of similar coloring to themselves. If you look at a surprising number of couples you'll see start seeing similarities. | /r/seduction | 08/07/18 03:54 AM |
| 23 | Friends think I'm weird and creepy for cold approachingHow the fuck else are you supposed to get laid? The only people who say things like that dont get laid. | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 06:02 AM |
| 94 | My girlfriend gets asked out multiple times a day at her job, should I be worried ?Girls hate insecurity more than pretty much anything. It will also lead you to acting like a bitch if you let it get a hold of you. She's chosen to be with you. Take her word for it. If she fucks up, kick her to the curb. I always say, anyone can do whatever they want as long as they accept the consequences. | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 05:50 AM |
| 1 | I have every quality a guy that fucks has but I don’t fuckDude, if you look like that you should be getting all kinds of girls on dating sites. Dont be picky, just get some practice in. | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 06:36 AM |
| 1 | The last three times I’ve liked a girl, almost always ended up in the friendzone. In fact not just friendzone, I was the BEST friend.Ask them to help you pick up girls, or set you up with their friends. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 04:09 AM |
| 6 | I'm very blessed and fortunate to be an attractive guy, however my game and skills with girls is absolutely ass.Look at the dude who played Neville in Harry Potter, that dude got a serious upgrade over time. | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Need help with women badly!Talk to chicks like you do anyone else. | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Feeling guilty when it comes to dealing with certain girlsStop treating women like children. Theyre adults capable of making adult decision. Dont tell lies, and the rest is up to them. | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 06:00 AM |
| 5 | Guess who's backShady? | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 08:53 AM |
| 6 | How to pull a girl to your place if it's small, sucks and has not even a couch?Keep it meticulously clean. Get really nice linens and bedding. Don't put up posters, put up some art. Have a nice plant. Get a rug. | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 01:33 AM |
| 14 | A woman who complained on social media about the size of her engagement ring is being savaged by followers who feel she is being ungratefulIts not a tradition, its a DeBeers propaganda campaign that people bought into. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/09/17 01:00 AM |
| 47 | First Date Flake..Since she suggested a follow-up, id give her the benefit of the doubt. If she flakes again, you cut her loose. | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 02:21 AM |
| 38 | I asked a girl to have coffee with me. She insisted a dinner so I agreed. I wanted to be a date, but I didn't specify. Now she wants to bring a friend. I asked who she wanted to bring she said she didn't know yet. How do I handle this situation without being awkward?Nope the fuck out of there. | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 03:47 PM |
| 3 | When do I get to feel better?Time. I've also learned to let go and be supportive of my ex's. Whether they let go of me or I let go of them. Ive got a pretty good track record of a lot of my recent ex's finding the right guy after we separated, because I spent time making sure that they valued themselves. Theres no point in feeling bitter and angry about any of it. I'm usually really happy for them. And if they come back to you better, then cool. A lot of guys who study seduction or dip into TRP, have way too much anger. Res… | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 10:45 PM |
| 17 | I impersonated a girl online dating for a week and I’m shocked at what I foundI assume the hottest girls are scammers and/or prostitutes. | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Can we get some success stories from people who shouldn't be successful with women by conventional standards?By looks, the guy should never get laid. Especially the quality he pulled. The lesson I learned was that while looks certainly make life easy, theyre not the be all end all. And there was no specification that it was for the socially disabled, but everyone who overcame. | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 07:24 AM |
| 3 | Can we get some success stories from people who shouldn't be successful with women by conventional standards?I had a room mate literally named Chad, who was tall and blond and naturally built like a damned male model. So Ive seen what EZ mode looks like. And damn he had it easy. And then there was the guy I called "the master and I his humble student". 20 years ago I worked with a guy named Dan. Dan was 5'7-5'9. Early 30s. Wore khakis and a polo shirt and white sneakers regularly. Slightly thinning hair in the most insurance sales guy look ever. Had glasses. Boston area accent. Dad bod. He was known as… | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Which do you think is better? Dating girls you aren't attracted to? Or being a loner?I think you should try dating lot of girls whether youre attracted to them or not. First, itll give you practice at things like kino. Second, youll learn what works on dates and what doesn't. Like simple things that can make or break a date. Which positions to sit at a table. Which dates flow better. Where to go to be the most entertaining. Third, itll make you better at closing and the act of sex itself. Aint no better practice for fucking than fucking. And the vast majority of guys are terribl… | /r/seduction | 02/01/17 05:47 AM |
| 3 | I can hold conversation with a girl but dont know when to "pull the trigger"You need to touch early and often. I almost always start with hands. Compliment their hands. Compare handsize. Thumb wars. Etc. I generally move pretty quickly to playing with their hair. Playing with a little bit of it, to brushing my fingers through it, to stroking my thumb along the nape of the neck. It almost hypnotizes and relaxes them. It usually escalates to making out from there. | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 08:49 PM |
| 16 | Need serious advice- My ex broke up with me about a month ago, said she used "depression" to mask that she was unhappy. How to deal with knowing she started dating someone new who looks like an "upgrade" immediately after we broke up? I feel as though I failed as a man to keep her interested?The first part where you said she put in all the effort. That's where you lost her. You need to take more control of what's going on. Not be all twisted up and be her servant or whatever, but set the tone and pace. As for her moving on, let it go. Work on yourself and hope she finds happiness. It's a much more positive place to be to let them move on than for you to be bitter or doubt yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 08:45 AM |
| 2 | How do you avoid beeing "that guy that hits in every girl"I dated two girls that I hit on at the same very small wedding reception(cousin of the bride and her MoH). The family just watched me going back and forth between the two. Don't worry about it. | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 02:48 PM |
| 6 | My friend was scared of approaching women. Until he did this...The-Newman-Within. I'm not sure I want Newman within me. | /r/seduction | 11/03/16 06:07 PM |
| 6 | Obnoxious Jezebel blogger shames tattoo artist for not giving her a neck tattoo, artist respondsTrust me, I tried the polite approach at the beginning. That type of customer doesn't get the hint from tact. When you literally say "it's gonna look like shit" they start to understand. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/01/16 03:26 AM |
| 12 | Obnoxious Jezebel blogger shames tattoo artist for not giving her a neck tattoo, artist respondsI used to do graphics on cars. I had a reputation of doing quality work. I would readily tell people if I thought something would look tacky, or went against my design aesthetic. I also thought this was the norm for any respectable tattoo shop. No face, hand or neck tats for newbs. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/01/16 03:05 AM |
| 3 | F/20, never been in a relationship. Should i keep trying with online dude or go out?You already have a connection to the one guy. Give him a shot first. If he's been talking to you for a year, he's probably interested and maybe just as shy as you. | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Can someone PLEASE help me with kinoDo you want to have sex with every guy you shake hands with? I dont. So think of interest and touch, as completely different from commitment. When I say I treat the touch as if theyre already my gf, thats just my mental approach to let me be comfortable escalating kino. I really dont even think about it anymore, I just do it as if ive already had sex with her. Act as if. Fake it til you make it. Always be closing. Some of my fave movie quotes of all time. | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Can someone PLEASE help me with kinoIve started treating them like theyre already my close friend at the beginning of the date, and my girlfriend by the middle of the date. Thats the mindset I start with. So at the beginning i generally say something goofy like "bring it in!" while holding my arms wide open, big grin, waving them in with my hands. Dont get too handsy or hold it too long, quick squeeze and back out, always with a smile, maybe a wink. Ive usually established that im a hugger in a previous conversation. So I then mov… | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 01:48 AM |
| 3 | At 30 years of age, I feel past my prime. Therefore I have a constant sense of urgency, leaving me completely outcome dependent.Please, there are tons of 27-35 year old women looking for relationships, marriage and kids. And there are more showing up all the time. Single moms abound if you dont mind having a child already there. | /r/seduction | 31/08/14 04:53 AM |
| 1 | What makes a guy masculine?Not giving a shit about his masculinity. | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 12:40 AM |
| 10 | Have two girls coming over, but Im freaking out because Im about to lose my virginityYoure going to lose your virginity in a threesome? Relax and just smile. Ear to ear, buddy. Sit back. Let the girls do the heavy lifting. tell them what you want. Dont focus on cumming just take it easy. Make sure you give them equal time. You have a partner right there to help with the girl youre working on. Youre the man. You got this. | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Shit test response: you must get a lot of girls with those looks? (she genuinely meant it)I dont care about the downvotes. Im older and get to play a different game anyways. It could come across as too invested, which is why i use it with a smile and/or wink, which completely changes the tone. They know its a bullshit answer to their bullshit question. But its always worked. | /r/seduction | 12/01/14 01:36 AM |
| -8 | Shit test response: you must get a lot of girls with those looks? (she genuinely meant it)"Im only interested in it working on you" with a smile or a wink depending on situation. That line works with any characteristic that a woman uses that line with, charm, looks, humor, etc. | /r/seduction | 11/01/14 04:19 AM |
| 4 | Do you have an ugly/poor friend that has amazing game? I want to hear about them.Oh yeah. I should've spelled that out. He was getting laid on a regular and continuous basis. Nailed the cruise ship girl. Didnt bother going to the Mexican girls house, because she lived in a sketchy area. Back at home it was the same deal. Always had a date when he wanted one. Girls he already knew lit up when he came around. It seemed almost effortless watching his approaches. He wasn't sleeping with super models or anything. But pretty solid 8s on a regular basis. He loved girls with huge br… | /r/seduction | 06/01/14 04:38 PM |
| 13 | Do you have an ugly/poor friend that has amazing game? I want to hear about them.Back about 15 years ago, I worked with a guy, we'll call him D, who was a natural. Now D was mid 30's, maybe 5'8, probably about 20 lbs overweight, thinning sandy brown hair, glasses. Didnt dress special, khaki's and a polo usually, cheap white sneakers. Was from the NE so he had that Boston-ish sort of accent, but not annoying. You saw him, and if you had to rate him 1-10, hes a 5.5. He had a great sense of humor. Felt confident anywhere. And he had chicks coming out of the woodwork. We were di… | /r/seduction | 06/01/14 04:28 AM |
| 4 | [FR] #-close at a gay bar (with a straight girl, you fools)I thought the straight girl, you fools comment moved it a bit in the negative direction for me. now if the title was "#close straight girl at gay bar" thatd be summarizing properly. | /r/seduction | 15/12/13 01:12 AM |
| 73 | [FR] #-close at a gay bar (with a straight girl, you fools)You can pick up dudes. You dont need to proclaim differently in the title. | /r/seduction | 14/12/13 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Had this exact Gchat conversation with a buddy. Takeaway: some guys have NO IDEA how to set real standards for the women in their livesGirls in their 40s play games. Get used to it. | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 07:17 PM |
| 2 | What is a guy who is a 10 (in girls minds) like? What is his life like? What does he do? How does he act?except they learn a valuable lesson in the end. he never does. | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 09:45 PM |
| 4 | What is a guy who is a 10 (in girls minds) like? What is his life like? What does he do? How does he act?Physically? I had a roommate who girls probably rated upwards of 9. He didnt have to chase any girl. Smoking hot girls would approach him. I saw a hot redhead damn near break her neck to check him out at the mall. Quality girl, after quality girl. And not just physically hot girls. Professional, intelligent, sweet. Most of them checked off every box for relationship material. But he is awful at maintaining relationships. He treats them with utter neglect. Not badly or abusively, per se, but they… | /r/seduction | 25/09/13 07:50 PM |
| 9 | Is it possible to be too outgoing/funny that girls can't take you seriously.Youre not their clown. You want to be entertaining, but not the entertainment. | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Should I be in 'The Game' if I only care about a specific girl?ive said it here before.. The game never ends. Even if youre only working one woman, and she is the one you want. Even after you "get" her. The game never ends. | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 05:52 AM |
| 12 | Can daygame actually work for teenage/college-age guys? Threads like these are kinda embarrassing to read, and make me wonder if attractive teenage girls would ever appreciate a guy coming up and 'opening' them randomly. Should under 20 year olds just stick to their social circle?You have what is known as a target rich environment(god, to be in HS or college with what i know now). Youre at an age when the vast majority of the women in your range are not married or saddled with children and assorted other baggage. First you should be opening for practice in general. Second, think of opening not just women, but people. Everyone. You can build connections and new social circles using all the same techniques. This will help you in career, sociability, social mobility, life i… | /r/seduction | 25/12/12 06:25 AM |
| 5 | [FR]Went on a date, we friendzoned each other..what?You should be escalating kino from the first moment on. Every minute you wait makes it harder and more awkward to initiate. 2nd date is way too late, and may never happen. Shopping date isn't bad. You're walking around, lots of time for interaction and close contact. Different things to talk about, silly jokes and games. Sexiness if she is trying on interesting clothing. You still need to take control of the timing and pacing. Don't let it turn into a tiring boring slog. | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 06:40 PM |
| 2 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?Really? You think girls wont continue shit testing you in a relationship? Should you be more open? Absolutely. But if you think you can just open up like the big soft marshmallow you used to be, you go ahead and try that. You want to start acting co-dependent, like you used to be, go ahead and try that. The game continues. Do you have to play it all the time with a girlfriend? No. The game has changed, but it still goes on. You better stay on the ball, stay high value. You better stay confident … | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 12:01 AM |
| 7 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?The game continues. Always. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 05:22 PM |
| 12 | How mainstream is seduction now?I think in the mainstream view there is an unsavory reputation to the community in general. Look at most of the TV shows that portray PUA's. It is always some sketchy parody of old Mystery routines. Now i think some people are starting to realize that seduction is the by-product, the goal is self improvement. | /r/seduction | 26/10/12 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Halloween costume ideas for the bar sceneuse it to your hearts delight. Im a DIY guy, so my coconut bra, grass skirt and flower bracelets were all handmade. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Halloween costume ideas for the bar sceneAlways go as something cute. Cute is approachable. No gore. No horror. No super heros. Save that shit for comic-con. I also recommend something skimpy. Because if you dress in a big fuzzy costume, you will sweat your ass off in a club/bar. Two examples. One year i went as a big baby. Big triangle of white cloth as a diaper, white tshirt, bonnet, giant rattle and a pacifier. Danced with girls all nite, 2 k-closes, 2 #'s. I didnt approach at all. Just hit the dance floor and it was on. another yea… | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 05:34 AM |
| 5 | Grabbed her ass and kind of regret it.I gotta agree with you, i almost always have a hand on the ass at the same time im kissing her. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 01:21 AM |
| 2 | What movie/TV show should every member of this community watch?Yeah, as long as they stop 10 minutes from the end. | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Best response to: Why don't you have a girlfriend?"Because ive been waiting for you!" with the biggest shit eating grin in my repertoire. | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 06:58 PM |
| 14 | Cyrano, the fun pickup game my friends and I invented.We used to play a game called "Worst Pick-up Line Ever." It was really combination of a game and a routine i guess. My old roommate and myself would go to a bar and pick out a pair of attractive ladies. Ask them to judge our game of "worst pick-up line ever". So we'd take turns spouting out whatever crap we could think of. Try to keep it light and funny and just a bit raunchy. They were supposed to give us points on originality, cliche-ness, whatever ridiculous standards we happened to apply. It… | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 08:21 AM |
| 16 | Cyrano, the fun pickup game my friends and I invented.Ah, you missed that he writes beautiful love letters for the oafish, but good looking Christian, who Roxanne finds physically attractive. Cyrano's letters are what Roxanne actually falls in love with. Hence the game here, the Cyrano is giving the "lucky one(Christian)" words to say to a beautiful woman. Cyrano, by the way, is a completely badass swordsman, intellectual, poet etc, who happens to have a large ugly nose. A somewhat modern update would be the movie "Roxanne" with Steve Martin. | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 08:14 AM |
| 4 | Best places to go out and meet women when you're 18-20?God, to be 18-20 again and have a resource like seddit at hand. Or the f'ing internet in general. | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 04:51 AM |
| 3 | What has caused you to say "no" to an attractive woman trying to sleep with you?I threw away a potential threesome with two regular girls in Vegas, because i was fixated on landing a pornstar. | /r/seduction | 23/05/12 03:38 AM |
| 2 | I'm a big guy, now what?Youre hardly fat. Although Im not a big fan of your outfit. Think of yourself as a charming, happy, force of nature. Stand tall. Walk tall. Think of it as projecting your self beyond your body. Chin up. Shoulders back. No slouching, no hunching over. Youre a big dude, own whatever space youre in. Check your gait. Dont walk to fast. look for a smooth, even gait. Hell, have a dancer( an attractive female dancer works well) watch you walk and give you pointers. yes, you have to do odd stuff to work… | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, I need help with an HB10 who doesn't drink. It's not oneitis, it's a unicorn.After dinner frozen yogurt, followed by a romantic walk in the general direction of your bed. | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 02:15 AM |
| 6 | It doesn't matter how good you look...Funny. Back in the day, whenever my roommate and myself were getting ready to go out and party and meet girls, Swingers was always playing. | /r/seduction | 22/04/12 08:48 AM |
| 1 | I want to thank this sub-reddit and the seduction community over-all for my present happiness and self improvement. What a wonderful GF have I found.Remember, the game is never over. Even once you get hitched. | /r/seduction | 20/04/12 02:39 AM |
| 1 | I want to thank this sub-reddit and the seduction community over-all for my present happiness and self improvement. What a wonderful GF have I found.That should be an automatic rule. Never wait. | /r/seduction | 20/04/12 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Movies like "The Notebook" have brainwashed men, ruining our success with women. Look at this example.youre absolutely right. in a relationship, grand gestures are wonderful. but movies would lead you to believe thats how the nice loser guy wins the girl. | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Movies like "The Notebook" have brainwashed men, ruining our success with women. Look at this example.The first part I remember older women in my family and family friends giving me that general advice. Be a nice guy. But then all the girls around you as you grow up will certainly tell you they want a nice guy. Virtually every single female friend and gf's i had said that. | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 03:30 AM |
| 30 | Movies like "The Notebook" have brainwashed men, ruining our success with women. Look at this example.No, growing up with women telling you to be a nice guy. Growing up around girls saying all they want is a nice guy. Thats what fuck guys up. End up with a bunch of nice betas. Movies fuck up by telling you that the huge grand romantic gestures work, when all it does is make you a creeper, unless you look like Ryan Gosling of course. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 06:39 AM |
| 1 | XKCD takes a pot shot at PUAsI just catch it in syndication on like 4 different channels, so i wouldnt even know what season it was supposed to be in. *Ok i looked on his character wiki its either "lizard spock expansion" or the "middle earth paradigm" | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 09:59 AM |
| 3 | XKCD takes a pot shot at PUAsWolowitz was dressing up like a bad Mystery. | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 09:38 AM |
| 2 | XKCD takes a pot shot at PUAsThey play the same angles in every single TV show that shows a PUA. From CSI to Big Bang Theory. | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 08:05 AM |
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